The Bari Chronicles

Damien Verner & Tash Jarrett

A weight loss surgery podcast with zero fluff and maximum truth. The Bari Chronicles brings you unfiltered conversations about WLS, obesity, GLP-1 medications, mental health, addiction, relationships, and everything the clinic doesn’t always have time to explain. Hosted by Damo and Tash, two siblings navigating life, loss, and long-term WLS living — each episode dives deep into the realities that shape this journey. Expect expert interviews, lived-experience storytelling, myth-busting moments, and the kind of honesty you only get from people who have been there. Disclaimer: Informational only

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    Lipoedema: When “Just Lose Weight” Is the Wrong Answer

    Lipoedema is one of the most misunderstood and under-diagnosed conditions affecting women today — and for many, it takes decades to be recognised. In this episode, Sally Baker, a nurse who works closely with patients living with lipoedema, joins us for a grounded, evidence-informed conversation about lipoedema as a chronic connective-tissue disorder, not a failure of diet, willpower, or exercise. With an estimated 1 in 10 women affected and an average diagnostic delay of up to 30 years, the human cost of misunderstanding this condition is significant. Together, we explore: What lipoedema actually is — and how it differs from obesity and lymphedema The underlying connective-tissue pathology, inflammation, and fibrotic fat nodules Hallmark signs such as pain, easy bruising, cuffing, and disproportionate limb enlargement The visual staging system and why pain does not always align with disease stage Why BMI often fails lipoedema patients — and what measurements are more clinically useful A practical five-pillar management approach, including anti-inflammatory nutrition, compression therapy, low-impact exercise, mental-health support, and surgical considerations The real-world barriers patients face in Australia when seeking diagnosis, treatment, and funding Emerging research and future directions discussed at the World Congress on Lipoedema in Rome This episode is essential listening for patients, healthcare professionals, and anyone who has ever been told to “just lose weight” when their body was signalling something else entirely. If you or someone you love is living with unexplained pain, swelling, bruising, or disproportionate fat distribution, this conversation with Sally Baker may help you finally feel seen — and understood.

    37 min
  2. 18 JAN

    When Evidence-Based Care Collides With Personal Belief

    In this episode of The Bari Chronicles, Damo and Tash unpack a confronting and deeply unsettling healthcare experience that many people living in larger bodies know all too well. What should have been a simple GP appointment to update a referral for revision surgery became a stark example of how personal bias can override evidence-based care. Tash shares what it was like to sit in front of a medical professional who openly opposed bariatric surgery, dismissed lived experience, and relied on opinion rather than data — and how different that interaction could have been if she were less informed, less confident, or earlier in her journey. This conversation is not about attacking individual doctors or discrediting medicine. It is about what happens when personal belief collides with patient-centred care, and the emotional toll that takes on people who cannot “unring the bell” of past treatment decisions. Together, Damo and Tash discuss: Medical bias and moral judgement in healthcare settings The difference between opinion and evidence-based practice Why advocacy matters, especially when power dynamics are at play Red flags to watch for when building a healthcare team What respectful, collaborative care actually looks like Content note: This episode discusses negative healthcare experiences and may be challenging for some listeners. You are welcome to listen at your own pace. If you have ever left an appointment feeling dismissed, judged, or unheard, this episode will resonate. You are not alone — and your care deserves to be grounded in evidence, respect, and humanity.

    33 min
  3. 09/11/2025

    Handling Grief After Weight Loss Surgery — Finding Healing Beyond the Scale

    ⚠️ Trigger Warning:This episode contains discussion about grief, loss, and the death of a loved one. If this topic is distressing or triggering for you, please take care while listening. You can choose to skip this episode or reach out for professional support if you need it. 🎧 Episode Description:In this deeply personal episode, Tash and Damo open up about navigating grief after their mum’s passing — and how life after bariatric surgery changes the way we experience emotional pain, comfort, and healing. They talk about food noise returning under stress, setting healthy emotional boundaries, and learning to find comfort in memories rather than meals. This conversation reminds us that healing isn’t linear — it’s messy, human, and full of grace. 💬 “Even when the storm is raging, I can now stop. I never had an off button before surgery.” If you need support in Australia: 💛 Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention 💙 Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support 💚 Griefline: 1300 845 745 — 8am–8pm, 7 days a week (grief counselling and resources) 💜 Butterfly Foundation: 1800 33 4673 — support for eating and body image concerns 🧡 Head to Health: headtohealth.gov.au — connect with free mental health services Remember: you’re not alone, and help is always available. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.🔗 Search “The Bari Chronicles” Sponsored by: CostPriceSupplements.com.auUse code GASTRIC175 for up to 17% OFF trusted bariatric supplements and protein. Affiliate disclaimer: Bariatric Support Australia may receive a small commission from purchases made using this code, which helps us continue providing free resources and community support.

    44 min
5
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9 Ratings

About

A weight loss surgery podcast with zero fluff and maximum truth. The Bari Chronicles brings you unfiltered conversations about WLS, obesity, GLP-1 medications, mental health, addiction, relationships, and everything the clinic doesn’t always have time to explain. Hosted by Damo and Tash, two siblings navigating life, loss, and long-term WLS living — each episode dives deep into the realities that shape this journey. Expect expert interviews, lived-experience storytelling, myth-busting moments, and the kind of honesty you only get from people who have been there. Disclaimer: Informational only