The Human Behind The Performance

Paige Bringolf

The Human Behind The Performance dives into how you think, feel + lead is how you perform — in every arena of life. Hosted by Paige Bringolf — a Professional Golfer turned Performance Coach with a background in Psychology + Sport Science, years competing on tour, and lived experience as a coach, mum + high achiever herself. This is the podcast for high achievers ready to master the human side of high performance. If you’re ready to ditch the excuses and step up as the solid f*cking human who performs their best.. you’re in the right place. Let's build the human + unlock your performance!

Episodes

  1. 08/12/2025

    6. The Thing High Achievers Avoid Like The Plague

    High achievers aren’t burned out from doing too much—they’re exhausted from never letting their brain switch off; silence is the missing performance edge. Key Takeaways: Silence exposes unprocessed thoughts and emotions—but processing them reduces their power over you.Constant stimulation (scrolling, noise) trains the brain to crave dopamine and keeps the nervous system in fight/flight, spiking cortisol and mental fatigue.Micro‑pockets of silence (2–5 minutes) help regulate the nervous system, improve clarity, and reconnect you to intuition and values.Better energy and performance come from subtracting noise, not adding more hacks; silence becomes a superpower across roles (parent, partner, athlete, leader).Topics Covered: 00:00 Why silence feels scary; dopamine, distraction, and addiction to stimulation04:00 Mental impacts: reactive vs reflective mode; processing vs suppressing thoughts06:00 Physiological impacts: sympathetic activation, cortisol, sleep disruption, “fake burnout”08:00 Energetic impacts: battery metaphor, intuition disconnect, chasing stimulation10:00 Micro practices: 2–5 minute silence reps; grounding cues; daily integrations12:00 Outcomes: clearer decisions, better presence with family/clients, improved performanceNotable Quotes: “When you suppress your thoughts, your thoughts get louder… when you acknowledge them and process your thoughts, they actually get quieter.”“Silence is one of the fastest ways to bring your nervous system out of overdrive.”“Stop adding more to your plate. Start subtracting the noise—give your brain a chance to breathe.”“Silence used to terrify me… but it’s now my superpower.”Actionable Tips: Insert 2–5 minute “silence reps” during driving, walking, shower, pre‑social scroll, or morning coffee.Use grounding tools: slow breath, hands on heart, soften shoulders, feel feet on ground; notice without judgment.Watch for intuition signals; create space to hear them and act. Work with Paige 1:1 or Team Based ⁠⁠⁠Book a Human Reset Call ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow Paige on Instagram⁠⁠⁠ Message Paige on Instagram or email theperformancepaige@gmail.com to enquire about 1:1/team performance coaching

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The Human Behind The Performance dives into how you think, feel + lead is how you perform — in every arena of life. Hosted by Paige Bringolf — a Professional Golfer turned Performance Coach with a background in Psychology + Sport Science, years competing on tour, and lived experience as a coach, mum + high achiever herself. This is the podcast for high achievers ready to master the human side of high performance. If you’re ready to ditch the excuses and step up as the solid f*cking human who performs their best.. you’re in the right place. Let's build the human + unlock your performance!