We Are Enough

Vive Oldham

Hi, I'm Vive Oldham — Somatic Educator, Mum, Sister, Aunty and Artist. This show is about growing into our humanity - and into our generativity. We can do that through the body, through the psyche, and through rediscovering pleasure as a source of capacity. So we really know what nourishes us. Every fortnight I’m exploring the question: what if our hunger and appetite was never the problem — what if we’ve just lost touch with what it feels like when it's been met? Follow along on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. Let's begin.

Episodes

  1. 29 July

    You Don't Need More Discipline — You Need More Capacity

    What if the pattern isn’t a lack of willpower, but a mismatch between what you’re asking of yourself and what your system can actually hold? In the first episode of We Are Enough, Vive looks closely at discipline — not as a virtue, but as something that can quietly chip away at self-trust. In its place, she offers a different orientation: building capacity. The kind that grows from inside the body, rather than being imposed from the outside. You’ll hear how self-sabotage makes sense when viewed through the nervous system, why pushing harder often backfires, and what shifts when pleasure becomes something you can stay with rather than override. This is where we can start, together — in relationship with yourself, in small moments. Jump To  A Chapter 00:00 – Welcome to We Are Enough 04:00 – Why Discipline Is Working Against You 10:00 – The Shame Cycle: Deva's Personal Story 18:00 – What Is Capacity & Why It Changes Everything 24:00 – Pleasure as the Portal to Real Growth 30:00 – 3 Half-Truths About Pleasure (Debunked) If this landed for you, subscribe so you don't miss Episode 2 — and share this with the friend who needs to hear that they are already enough.  ✨ Connect & Work With MeIG | @vive_and_co 🎧 Book a 1:1 Consult Call👉 https://www.viveandco.com/workwithme This podcast was brought to you by On Track Studio🌐 http://www.ontrackstudio.com.au📩 hello@ontrackstudio.com.au

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Hi, I'm Vive Oldham — Somatic Educator, Mum, Sister, Aunty and Artist. This show is about growing into our humanity - and into our generativity. We can do that through the body, through the psyche, and through rediscovering pleasure as a source of capacity. So we really know what nourishes us. Every fortnight I’m exploring the question: what if our hunger and appetite was never the problem — what if we’ve just lost touch with what it feels like when it's been met? Follow along on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. Let's begin.