What left the group chat.

What left the group chat.

Hosted by three bold Black women — one Zimbabwean 🇿🇼, one African American 🇺🇸, and one Zambian 🇿🇲 — this podcast dives deep into everything including: - Navigating life in Australia - Balancing business, career & ambition - Marriage, friendship & womanhood - Culture, identity & everything in between This is the space where laughter, vulnerability, and real conversations collide.

Episodes

  1. 6 JAN

    Episode 8 - The friendship hustle at our BIG age.

    In this final episode of season 1, Mati, Tahj and Jill explore the complexities of adult friendships, sharing personal anecdotes about friendship auditions, parenting, and the challenges of maintaining relationships. They discuss the importance of resilience, the dynamics of making new friends, and the emotional weight of friendship trauma. The dialogue emphasises the need for understanding and flexibility in relationships as life changes, and they reflect on their own experiences with friendship expectations and how they individually navigate friendship breakups.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Light Banter03:04 Audition Experience and Resilience06:08 Overwhelm and Life Events09:01 Friendship Dynamics in Adulthood11:50 Making New Friends as Adults14:57 Navigating Old Friendships18:02 The Role of the 'Mayor' in Friendships20:59 Friendship Expectations and Changes23:59 Handling Friendship Breakups26:56 Embracing Change in Relationships30:09 Conclusion and Reflections

    43 min

  2. 23/12/2025

    Episode 7 - The Mental Load

    In this episode, Jill takes Mati and Tahj into the into the concept of the mental load, particularly as it pertains to women of colour in Australia. They discuss the unique challenges faced by black women in predominantly white spaces, the invisible burdens of responsibility in parenting, and the cultural expectations that shape their experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of partnership in managing these responsibilities and the need to break generational patterns that perpetuate stress and over-functioning. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Group Chat 01:15 Understanding the Mental Load 04:16 The Experience of Black Women and the Mental Load 07:40 The Invisible Burden of Responsibility 09:58 Cultural Expectations and Parenting 12:54 The Impact of Western Society on Parenting 14:00 The Pressure of Representation 19:30 Cultural Expectations in Relationships 22:31 Breaking Generational Patterns 26:05 The Importance of Partnership in Parenting 30:01 Shifting Perspectives on Responsibilities 35:35 Conclusion and Future Discussions

    39 min

  3. 09/12/2025

    Episode 6 - Should we stay or go? Migrant stories in Australia.

    In this conversation, Mati, Tahj & Jill discuss their experiences as women of colour living in Australia, focusing on the current climate of unrest related to race and anti immigration protests. They share personal feelings of heaviness and anger in response to anti-immigration rallies and reflect on their identities as proud migrants who have contributed positively to the country. The discussion also touches on the challenges of raising children in a society where they may face discrimination, and the importance of building a supportive community that fosters resilience and cultural identity.TakeawaysWe need to see more representation in media.The feeling of unrest is palpable in Australia.Processing emotions around race is essential.Proud migrants contribute significantly to society.Anti-immigration sentiments can be deeply offensive.Belonging is a crucial aspect of identity.Raising resilient children is a priority for parents.Community support is vital for navigating challenges.Conversations about race should be ongoing.Hope and resilience can emerge from difficult experiences.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Community01:19 Feeling of Unrest in Australia03:03 Processing Emotions and Experiences06:21 Reflections on Race and Identity09:59 Confronting Anti-Immigration Sentiments12:46 Belonging and Cultural Identity16:00 Raising Resilient Children24:16 Building a Supportive Community

    29 min

  4. 25/11/2025

    Episode 5 - How we met our husbands

    In this engaging conversation, Mati, Tahj and Jill share personal stories about how they met their partners, the cultural expectations surrounding marriage, and the adjustments that come with married life. The discussion highlights the journey of love, the reality of marriage, and the growth that comes from shared experiences. Ultimately, they reflect on the importance of being intentional in relationships and the beauty of love in all its forms. Sound bites "We just lived our lives!" "It was an incredible high." "We're in the thick of it." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 02:58 Sharing Highs and Lows 06:01 Travel Stories and Adventures 09:00 The Golf Dilemma 12:04 How We Met Our Partners 14:58 Navigating Relationships and Connections 24:42 Summer Love to Lifelong Commitment 27:15 Recognizing the One: Signs of True Love 30:27 Navigating Long-Term Relationships 33:11 Adjusting to Married Life: Surprises and Challenges 36:47 Cultural Expectations in Marriage 39:12 Communication Styles and Conflict Resolution 45:15 The Evolution of Love: Stages of Relationships

    52 min

  5. 18/11/2025

    Episode 4 - The Hood that is Motherhood

    In this episode of 'What Left the Group Chat', Mati, Tahj and Jill discuss their personal experiences as Black women raising children in a predominantly white society. They share highs and lows from their week, touching on the challenges of parenting, particularly in relation to cultural identity and racial dynamics. The conversation delves into their pregnancy and birth experiences, childcare challenges, and the importance of addressing racial issues in schools. They emphasise the need for open dialogue and systemic change in education to better support children of colour.Chapters00:00 Introduction to What left the group chat and Its Purpose01:17 Highs, Lows, and Buffaloes: Personal Updates15:45 Raising Black Children in a Predominantly White Society16:09 Pregnancy Experiences: A Comparative Discussion24:04 Navigating Pregnancy Challenges27:32 Experiencing Loss and Support in Healthcare31:40 Childcare Experiences and Racial Awareness34:47 Schooling and Racial Identity40:31 Addressing Racial Issues in Education

    50 min

  6. 11/11/2025

    Episode 3 - Becoming our own standard of beauty.

    In this engaging conversation, Mati, Tahj and Jill explore various themes surrounding beauty standards, personal journeys, and cultural identity. They share personal anecdotes about family, reality TV, and the impact of community on self-perception. The discussion delves into the evolution of beauty standards, the significance of hair in identity, and reflections on aging and body image. The ladies emphasise the importance of representation and the influence of cultural backgrounds on self-image, creating a rich dialogue.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Weekly Check-In03:02 Family Dynamics and Unexpected Changes05:55 Reality TV Obsession: Love Island Discussion09:01 Exploring Beauty Standards and Personal Journeys12:02 Cultural Influences on Beauty Perception15:03 Experiences of Bullying and Identity17:58 Finding Community and Acceptance21:02 Navigating Identity in Diverse Spaces24:10 The Power of Community and Heritage26:50 Embracing Femininity and Identity32:09 The Struggle with Self-Image36:22 Aging and Body Image44:51 The Relationship with Hair and Identity

    49 min
  7. Episode 2 - Your authentic self at the J.O.B.

    04/11/2025

    Episode 2 - Your authentic self at the J.O.B.

    This week, Mati, Tahj, and Jill dive into showing up authentically at work, with a focus on the unique challenges Black women face in professional settings. They talk about navigating code switching, staying true to themselves, and the ways that culture, hair, and appearance come into play in the workplace. It’s a real and insightful conversation about balancing professionalism with authenticity. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Catching Up 03:00 Highs, Lows, and Buffaloes: Personal Updates 05:59 Navigating Motherhood 08:57 Career Break and Self-Discovery 11:56 Hair Care and Cultural Expectations 17:51 Authenticity in the J.O.B 24:01 Code Switching and Identity 35:55 Current Affairs and Relationship Dynamics

    54 min

  8. 21/10/2025

    Episode 1 - Ok, here goes something.

    In this inaugural episode of 'What Left the Group Chat', Mati, Tahj, and Jill introduce themselves and share their personal journeys as women of colour living in the diaspora. They discuss the importance of creating a supportive space for women, the challenges and joys of navigating cultural identity, and the entrepreneurial spirit that drives them. The conversation highlights the significance of relationships and community, as well as the motivation behind starting the podcast.

    51 min
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About

Hosted by three bold Black women — one Zimbabwean 🇿🇼, one African American 🇺🇸, and one Zambian 🇿🇲 — this podcast dives deep into everything including: - Navigating life in Australia - Balancing business, career & ambition - Marriage, friendship & womanhood - Culture, identity & everything in between This is the space where laughter, vulnerability, and real conversations collide.

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  • Creator
    What left the group chat.
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Clean
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