WTF Was She Thinking?

WTF Was She Thinking?
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We are Mel from Its Not Me Its Booze and Clare author of Musings, two women that were f****d over by alcohol but discovered upon becoming friends that we have a lot more in common than the decision to live an alcohol-free life. This is our podcast, a space that rebels against girl boss culture and dives deep into the messy reality that is living sober, diagnosed and attempting to survive and contour. Just like life, this will be an unpredictable journey but we really hope you are as excited as we are to be along for the ride!

Episodes

  1. 31/05/2023

    Ep 8 - Another F***ing Journey, the Diagnosis One

    In today's ep: What we've been up to Ordering non alcoholic cocktails Mel fills us in on Scandoval and we unpack cheating in relationships and Mel's take on love addiction briefly When a person is an autistic special interest It's official, Mel is funny! What's involved in getting diagnosed The process is different for everyone Clare's experience getting diagnoses Mel's experience getting a diagnosis The consequences of a late diagnosis Our brief take on mental health and neurodivergent labels Resources discussed in this ep: ⁠Clare's favourite diagnosis meme The Its Not Me Its Booze Brunch Event; find all the details and buy your tix here Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠⁠⁠ Follow Mel on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠@melwatkinstherapy⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mel is now offering therapy sessions at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.melwatkinstherapy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠⁠⁠Musings⁠⁠⁠ Clare marries the lovers ⁠⁠@celebrant_clarewest⁠⁠ and ⁠clarewest.com.au

  2. 16/05/2023

    Ep 7 - WTAF, Do I Have Social Anxiety?

    In today's ep: What we've been up to The importance of comfort. You are worth it! Buy the sheets! Clare apologises Our thoughts on Disney's "Single Drunk Female" tv show The moment we each realised we had social anxiety Having to face social anxiety without booze to help Mel talks about hosting her very first INMIB (Its Not Me Its Booze) sober event Socialising sober, it does get better! Reminders not to drink Overachievers learning to be mere mortals Resources discussed in this ep: Clare's fave new bedding brand Clare's other sober group; Self Made Vanderpump Rules on Reddit Watch Single Drunk Female Mel's Sober Support Program and 1:1 Therapy offerings "How to Quit Like a Woman" by Holly Whitaker Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠⁠ Follow Mel on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠@melwatkinstherapy⁠⁠⁠ Mel is now offering therapy sessions at ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.melwatkinstherapy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠⁠Musings⁠⁠ Clare marries the lovers ⁠@celebrant_clarewest⁠ and clarewest.com.au

  3. 02/05/2023

    Ep 6 - Our Take on Habits

    In today's ep: What we’ve been up to JLo has started her own alcohol company, WTF was she thinking?! Our habits this morn The habits you never expect to be habbits Feeling like we are failing at habits Relearning your previous booze fueled habits, without booze Our nighttime habits Resources discussed in this ep: J.Lo Has an Alcohol Company Now? Meet Merlin the Pig Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠ Mel is now offering therapy sessions at ⁠⁠www.melwatkinstherapy.com⁠⁠ Follow Mel on Instagram: ⁠⁠@⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠@melwatkinstherapy⁠⁠ Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠Musings⁠

  4. 18/04/2023

    Ep 5 - Surviving in Silence*

    ***Trigger Warning - Suicidal Ideation and Experiences of Crisis candidly discussed Please ensure you are listening from a safe space and take good care of yourself during and after this episode! Be sure to skip this one if at any time you are feeling triggered or suspect that you may be triggered by this ep. If you are feeling suicidal an array of helpful resources and online and phone support is available here. If you know someone that is feeling suicidal an array of helpful resources and support is available here. In today's ep: It's offish, we fell in love with Taylor Tomlinson, find out why As always, more about Vanderpump rules Emotional breakdowns at concerts, nothing new here When sobriety doesn't make life better Clare's experiences with different stages and in different times of crisis Let's "confetti for those surviving in silence" Yes we fell off the face of the earth, and then we did it again. But we are BACK fortnightly from here on out. Tune in again soon! Xx Resources discussed in this ep: Taylor Tomlinson: Look at you; A Netflix Special Listen to Clare's sobriety playlist here Read Rupi Kaur's gorgeous poem "Depression Doesn't Knock" here Mels now offering therapy sessions at www.melwatkinstherapy.com Clare is a registered celebrant who marries lovers. Learn more about her services here. Or follow her on insta here. Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠ Follow Mel on Instagram: @⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠ and @melwatkinstherapy Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠Musings⁠ ⁠WTF Have They Been Reading

  5. 20/03/2023

    Ep 4 - Better Late Then Never, Goodbye 2022

    ***Trigger Warning - Drug and alcohol use candidly discussed Please take good care of your sobriety vision and spirit for us!  In todays ep: We are slober and sober Ahhh yes, December we meet again Experiencing grief  Dreaming of a perfect Christmas Mel's a member of the mile high trauma dumping club Our personal experience with moderation Getting to know the addicted mind Drink ideas for Christmas in March (it's never too late or too early) Our final wins of 2022. Clare married some lovers and Mel's been working on her biz vision  Yes we fell of the face of the earth, and then we did it again. Thanks for your patience listeners! Resources discussed in this ep: For Mind the Sip's moderation post click here. For Mind the Sips insta account click here. Mels fave NA Ameretti Sour recipe thanks to Lyres Clare is a registered celebrant who marries lovers. Learn more about her services here. Or follow her on insta here. Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠ Follow Mel on Instagram: @⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠ Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠Musings⁠ ⁠WTF Have They Been Reading

  6. 08/11/2022

    Ep 3 - Eating, Not Eating and Eating Too Much

    Netflix's new Heartbreak High How did sobriety influence our eating habits and relationship with food?    Dealing with diet and body shame  Bulimia and binge eating  Intuitive eating protocols and diets are definitely not for everyone Currently, Mel's feeling good in her body and Clare not so much   Perfectionism traits affecting how we feel about what we eat Resources discussed in this ep: The post that sparked the convo thanks to Peta Kelly Mel's current eating coach Charlotte The podcast episodes that introduced Clare to The Bean Protocol;  To Be Magnetic  - Healing Through Food with Nutritionist Karen Hurd To be Magnetic - Magic Beans with Unique Hammond Follow Karen and Unique for all things Bean Protocol Read Your Tastebuds Are A**holes: How I Trained Mine and Healed Crohn's by Unique Hammond ***Trigger Warning - Disordered eating is discussed in today's episode If you are struggling you can seek help and support via The Butterfly foundation.  Their "Where do I start" page is a great first step.  They can be contacted for personal support via 1800 33 4673  from Australia or via chat worldwide.  Please take good care of your soul and body for us!  Finally, if you are concerned for someone you love, please click here for more information.  Follow us on Instagram: @wtfwasshethinking  Follow Mel on Instagram: @itsnotmeitsbooze Read more of Clare's story here: Musings WTF Have They Been Reading

  7. 25/10/2022

    Ep 2 - Get to know Mel

    A huge thank you for your support so far Zendaya wins her second Emmy for Euphoria Mels attempts moderation and her sober journey  Meet Stacy Growing up with Mel's Grandma What's Mel being googling? The surprising way Vanderpump rules influenced Mel's sobriety. Mel shares her Values Resources discussed in this ep: The James Swanwick Show was Mel's go to podcast for inspiration throughout covid.  James Swanwick now hosts the Alcohol Free Life podcast Mel attended a Her Speaking Event  It's Not Me Its Booze, the booze free social club and the Business Mel started when she got sober Looking to uncover your values and do some work around your relationship with alcohol? Book a 1:1 consultation call with Mel here Mel's watching The Dodo Rescue videos on Youtube Vanderpump Rules available to stream on Amazon Prime Give Them Lala by Lala Kent a recommended read from Mel Follow us on Instagram: @wtfwasshethinking  Follow Mel on Instagram: @itsnotmeitsbooze Read more of Clare's story here: Musings WTF Have They Been Reading

  8. 11/10/2022

    Ep 1 - Get to know Clare

    Definitions of the word Basic The moment Clare decided to try being sober Experiencing an autistic diagnosis What is Clare's favourite party song? Meet Candy Cardashian Clare shares her Values   Resources discussed in this ep: The book Clare found that started it all (in regards to her sober journey) was Quit Like A Woman by Holly Whittaker Tempest Intensive and Membership was originally founded by Holly and is the program and community which Clare chose to support her in early recovery. However, she wanted you to know the Tempest program has changed since Clare began her sober journey. She now relies on Self Made and Its Not Me Its Booze for sober community and support. Clare's sober playlist featuring This is Me from the Greatest Showman The party song, to end all party songs. Follow us on Instagram: @wtfwasshethinking  Follow Mel on Instagram: @itsnotmeitsbooze  Read more of Clare's story here: Musings WTF Have They Been Reading

  9. 01/10/2022

    Introducing: What The Fuck Was She Thinking

    We started a podcast! What the fuck were we thinking?

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About

We are Mel from Its Not Me Its Booze and Clare author of Musings, two women that were f****d over by alcohol but discovered upon becoming friends that we have a lot more in common than the decision to live an alcohol-free life. This is our podcast, a space that rebels against girl boss culture and dives deep into the messy reality that is living sober, diagnosed and attempting to survive and contour. Just like life, this will be an unpredictable journey but we really hope you are as excited as we are to be along for the ride!

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  • Creator
    WTF Was She Thinking?
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2023
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Explicit
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