In this episode of The Afropolitan Podcast, we sit down with Sofi, one of the most compelling African women creators shaping culture across the diaspora, to unpack the real cost of authenticity, freedom, and building a life on your own terms. Known online as The Odditty, Sofi opens up about choosing self expression over approval, walking away from expectations placed on African women, and turning her personality into a powerful platform. From viral moments to $25K brand deals, from being silenced to owning her voice, this is a raw, unfiltered conversation about identity, trauma, money, boundaries, and becoming unapologetically yourself. This is not an influencer highlight reel. This is a survival story. We talk about the African creator economy, monetising authenticity, being underestimated, navigating family pressure, womanhood in public, and why being different is no longer a weakness but an advantage. This episode explores: • Why being yourself often comes with backlash, loss, and resistance • How Sofi turned authenticity into real income and global opportunities • The hidden cost of being a woman online, especially as an African creator • Why African creators are finally winning and what most people missed • Identity, self worth, trauma, healing, and choosing freedom anyway If you are a creator, founder, artist, or anyone trying to live honestly in a world that rewards conformity, this conversation will stay with you. Welcome to The Afropolitan Podcast, where African stories are told with honesty, depth, and pride. Follow Sofi (The Odditty) Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the_odditty/ Website https://theodditty.com/ 🔗 Follow The Afropolitan Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/afropolitanpodcast Twitter https://x.com/afropolitan LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/afropolitannation Website https://www.afropolitan.io Community https://afropolitan.io/join Newsletter https://afropolitan.io/newsletter Sponsored By VBan The borderless banking app built for Africa’s digital workforce Use code AFROPOLITAN https://vban.com Inverroche Gin South Africa’s premium craft gin https://www.inverroche.com Risevest Invest globally in dollar denominated stocks, real estate, and fixed income https://click.risevest.com/gb0g/afropolitan Convo by Afropolitan Book 1 on 1 calls with Africa’s boldest thinkers https://convo.vip TIMESTAMPS 00:00: Intro 01:42 Why now is the best time to be an African creator 02:38 Telling African stories beyond suffering 03:06 Monetising being odd instead of fixing yourself 03:35 Blogging, early creation, and finding a voice 04:35 The first brand deals and learning your worth 05:28 How Sofi landed a $7,500 Home Depot deal 06:46 Why representation and visibility matter 07:15 What African parents expect versus reality 08:39 Sexual harassment and leaving Nigeria 10:59 Moving to America and unlearning shame 11:50 Viral moments and the birth of The Odditty 12:47 Choosing creativity over law school 14:16 Family pressure, money, and misunderstanding 15:44 Paying the price for freedom 16:43 Being ostracised for being yourself 18:06 Therapy, healing, and reclaiming power 19:30 Viral videos and what happens after 22:40 Why viral moments are not the goal 24:05 Building community over chasing attention 25:32 Boundaries, friendships, and creator burnout 28:41 Business boundaries and saying no 30:58 Being underestimated and weaponising softness 32:53 “She won’t last long” and proving them wrong 35:13 Creator politics, envy, and extraction 35:39 The business of content creation explained 38:28 Managers, agencies, and skin in the game 40:51 Why representation must work for you 44:00 The New York apartment controversy 45:52 The rat race and redefining success 47:44 Choosing freedom over lifestyle validation 50:43 Turning 30 and rewriting the dream 53:37 Race in America versus class in Nigeria 01:01:20 Why African creators would win faster at home 01:04:33 Lagos creator economy frustrations 01:07:41 Why Sofi started her podcast 01:10:28 Shame, sex, and breaking taboos 01:13:46 Processing trauma and delayed healing 01:16:33 Taking power back 01:19:40 Boundaries and self respect 01:21:34 Rapid fire questions 01:23:43 Who should be on the podcast next