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two childfree pals who just won’t stfu about the DINK (dual income, no kids) lifestyle ✨ the #1 followed childfree & DINK podcast✨ subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free episodes, bonus episodes, and more: https://www.patreon.com/dinkypod/membership Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

  1. Regretful Parents: “I Got Everything I Didn't Want In A Child” | Reddit Stories

    3 HR AGO

    Regretful Parents: “I Got Everything I Didn't Want In A Child” | Reddit Stories

    Trigger Warning: This episode discusses self-harm, mental health crises, sexual content, and parental regret.A parent of a 17-year-old daughter with autism, ADHD, anxiety, and intrusive thoughts describes years of burnout, crisis management, and reaching a breaking point. From phone restrictions to parental PTSD, this story raises uncomfortable questions about autonomy, responsibility, mental health, and what happens when caregiving becomes all-consuming.💬 Topics include:Regretful parenting and caregiver burnoutNeurodivergence and adolescenceSexuality, boundaries, and harm reductionTherapy fatigue and parental PTSDWhy having kids isn’t the “default” choice we’re told it isMore Regretful Parents episodes available on YouTube and wherever you get podcasts.Join our childfree community: patreon.com/dinkypodLove ya. Don’t get pregnant. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    12 min
  2. Regretful Parents: “Never Felt As Ugly As I Do Now” | Reddit Stories

    3 DAYS AGO

    Regretful Parents: “Never Felt As Ugly As I Do Now” | Reddit Stories

    Welcome back to the Regretful Parents series. This episode tackles what motherhood does to women’s bodies, mental health, and sense of self. Erika and Kristen read a post from the Regretful Parents subreddit titled “Never Felt as Ugly as I Do Now as a Mom.” A woman reflects on how pregnancy, postpartum life, chronic sleep deprivation, stress, and mental load have aged her physically and emotionally — and how devastating it feels to no longer recognize herself in the mirror. From "saggy apron bellies to lifeless eyes", celebrity “bounce-back” culture, Botox discourse, and why men somehow escape all of this entirely, the conversation spirals (as it should) into a full-blown rant about how cruel, unfair, and deeply misogynistic the expectations placed on mothers really are. Topics include: Postpartum body changes no one warns you about Why stress and sleep deprivation visibly age womenThe lie of “bouncing back” after pregnancy Celebrity beauty standards are fully rage-inducing Why motherhood drains women and barely touches men And the eternal question: why do we keep doing this to ourselves? Support us on patreon.com/dinkypod so we can kill ads forever Find childfree friends, connect with other fence-sitters, and join our next trip at dinkypod.com. And as always: don’t get pregnant. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    8 min
  3. Regretful Parents: "My Stay-At-Home Husband Won't Do His Job" | Reddit Stories

    18 JAN

    Regretful Parents: "My Stay-At-Home Husband Won't Do His Job" | Reddit Stories

    In this episode, Kristen and Erika dive into a wild Reddit post from a working mom dealing with a stay-at-home husband who refuses to actually parent their 28-month-old (that's 2 years and 4 months, people!). What We Cover: A stay-at-home dad who won't take his toddler to the playground, feed her, or play with her Why OP hired a house cleaner because he couldn't handle the basics The depression and isolation that can come with being a full-time parent Why men often aren't equipped to handle what women do every day The importance of community and adult friendships for stay-at-home parents Our thoughts on why this relationship is doomed GET MORE: Instagram & TikTok: @dinkypod Join our community: Find childfree friends, connect with other fence-sitters, and join our next trip at dinkypod.com. Key Moments: The math rant about calling kids "28 months old" instead of just saying their age in years Discussion about whether this dad was always terrible or if parenthood changed him Why the wife can't leave even though she "could care less about him anymore" The hypocrisy of stay-at-home dads vs stay-at-home moms and societal expectations This episode tackles the reality of regretful parenting, gender dynamics in childcare, stay-at-home parent depression, and why some people should never have kids.   Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    18 min
  4. Regretful Parents: "I Don't Love My Child" | Reddit Stories

    16 JAN

    Regretful Parents: "I Don't Love My Child" | Reddit Stories

    What happens when the love you’re promised as a parent never shows up? In this episode, Erika and Kristen dive into one of the most taboo and honest conversations about parenthood: regret, ambivalence, and not loving your child the way society says you should. Reading directly from the Regretful Parents subreddit, we unpack a post from a mother who admits she doesn’t love her baby and can't figure out why.  From postpartum expectations and hormonal myths to comparisons between loving pets vs. children, this episode explores: Why some parents don’t feel instant love after birth The difference between love as a feeling vs. love as an action Postpartum depression, trauma, and emotional overstimulation Why mothers are rarely allowed to admit regret The pressure to perform “good motherhood” even when you’re struggling Whether love can grow later — or never come at all 🎧 Listen if you’re: ✔ Questioning parenthood ✔ Childfree or on the fence ✔ A parent struggling with regret or guilt ✔ Tired of toxic positivity around motherhood ✔ Interested in honest, feminist conversations about family, choice, and autonomy Join the discussion: Do you think parental love is biological, hormonal, learned — or optional? Let us know in the comments. 💖 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/dinkypod Keywords / Hashtags: #RegretfulParents #MotherhoodRegret #PostpartumReality #NotLovingYourChild #HonestParenting #Childfree #DINK #ParenthoodTruth #PostpartumDepression #RedditStories #TabooTopics #Feminism #DinkyPodcast Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    19 min

  5. 13 JAN

    “Is It Normal To Fear The Regret Of Not Having Kids?” & More Listener Questions

    SMALL BUSINESS OF THE WEEK: Shop Herself Collections to snag you or someone you love a gorgeous gift this Valentine’s Day!!  It’s the listener question episode! Don’t miss your chance to join me in VIETNAM — and it’s an artsy person's dream itinerary! Buy your tickets while they last. Wanna get your finances in order? Use our link to sign up for a FREE 34 day trial of YNAB (You Need A Budget) and support the show. Wanna connect with us on social media? You can find us on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and Threads at @dinkypod. Follow us on YouTube. Merch is here!!! If you have a question or comment, email us at dinky@dinkypod.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    1h 9m
  6. Regretful Parents: "My Girlfriend Gave Me An Ultimatum" | Reddit Stories

    18/12/2025 · BONUS

    Regretful Parents: "My Girlfriend Gave Me An Ultimatum" | Reddit Stories

    Welcome back to the Regretful Parents series. This week, Erika and Kristen read and react to a post from the Regretful Parents subreddit titled “Feel Like I’ve Ruined My Life.” Spoiler alert: he kind of has. A 29-year-old man agrees to an ultimatum — have a baby before 30 or never — and now finds himself exhausted, resentful, intimacy-deprived, and being pressured for more kids he absolutely does not want. The hosts break down the red flags, the insanity of reproductive ultimatums, and why choosing hypothetical future children over your actual partner is… deeply unwell behavior. Along the way, they discover one of the smartest parenting arrangements they’ve ever seen, question why people keep doing this to themselves, and remind everyone (once again) that ultimatums are not love. Topics include:Reproductive ultimatums 🚩Regret after agreeing to parenthoodWhy “one and done” is a complete sentenceA surprisingly genius split-parenting strategyAnd yet another reminder to PLEASE use your brain🔗 Find everything we do at DinkyPod.com 💸 Support us on Patreon (emotionally, financially, spiritually) And as always: don’t get pregnant. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    7 min

  7. 16/12/2025

    From Law to Literature: Rachael Eckles' Evolution

    We're sitting down with Rachael Eckles. In this conversation, Rachael shares her journey to becoming child-free, her career evolution from law and bioethics to fiction writing, and her advocacy for women's health. She discusses the impact of her education and health experiences on her life choices, the importance of diverse voices in publishing, and her desire to empower women through her writing and publishing platform. Rachael Eckles discusses her journey as an independent author and publisher, emphasizing the importance of providing access to publishing for others. She shares her experiences in building Aphrodite Books, her motivations for writing, and the impact of her childfree lifestyle on her creative process. Rachael also highlights the significance of empowering diverse voices in literature and the freedom to choose one's own path in life. Connect with Rachael on Instagram  Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode — it helps people find the show! Merch is here!!! Get your merch NOW! Erika is taking a group of childfree travelers to VIETNAM — and it’s an artsy adventurer's dream itinerary! Buy your tickets while they last.  Wanna get your finances in order? Use our link to sign up for a FREE 34 day trial of YNAB (You Need A Budget) and support the show. Wanna connect with us on social media? You can find us on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and Threads at @dinkypod. Follow us on YouTube. If you have a question or comment, email us at dinky@dinkypod.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    1h 17m
  8. Regretful Parents: "I Scheduled Two Abortions But Chickened Out" | Reddit Stories

    11/12/2025 · BONUS

    Regretful Parents: "I Scheduled Two Abortions But Chickened Out" | Reddit Stories

    In this episode, Erika and Kristen dive into a jaw-dropping Reddit post titled “I Am A Roller Coaster Of Regret And Acceptance.” From religious guilt to missed abortions, dating struggles as a single parent, and the crushing realities of living with family, this story sparks one of our most chaotic discussions yet. We unpack: Why people banking on miscarriage is not a life plan The real statistics about pregnancy loss How religion traps people — especially women — in unwanted parenthood Why telling single parents to “just make more money” is useless advice The myth of “plenty of good men who will raise your kid” Dating with kids and the harsh math of shrinking romantic options What realistic support actually looks like for regretful parents Why child support and 50/50 custody are not as simple as Reddit makes it sound How societal expectations sabotage women’s independence Plus: Erika threatens to hand out abortions like Oprah gives out cars Kristen Googles miscarriage stats mid-episode Speculation on whether these Reddit commenters are bots A brief detour into Europe trips, face masks, and alleged co-host hatred A public reminder: STOP GETTING PREGNANT Perfect for listeners who: Are childfree or childfree-curious Love dark humor, honesty, and chaos Want a realistic look at the consequences of accidental parenthood Enjoy commentary on Reddit’s wildest regret-parent stories 💬 Have a regretful parent story? Email us at dinky@dinkypod.com — we might read yours on a future episode. ✈️ Want to travel with us? Check out upcoming trips at dinkypod.com. 🎧 Listen or watch more of Dinky Find us on YouTube and wherever you get your podcasts. 👉 Join our Patreon for bonus episodes, unfiltered commentary, and exclusive trip info. Final reminder: Don’t. Get. Pregnant. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    12 min
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two childfree pals who just won’t stfu about the DINK (dual income, no kids) lifestyle ✨ the #1 followed childfree & DINK podcast✨ subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free episodes, bonus episodes, and more: https://www.patreon.com/dinkypod/membership Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

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  • Creator
    Dinky
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    116
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Dinky
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