Fresh out of the Big Brother Australia 2025 house, Connor relives the heartbreak of being evicted just one night before the finale. He explains why he believes Australia was torn between “cults of personality versus my cause.” How he knew Coco and Colin were huge public favourites thanks to names being shouted from the Dreamworld rollercoaster and what it felt like to step onto the stage knowing he’d tripped right at the end of the Big Brother marathon. In this revealing chat, Connor opens up about the way Australia embraced his Tourette’s journey. He talks through the conversations he had with producers before entering the house, the debate around which words were censored and which weren’t and why some of the most confronting tics are actually rooted in his deepest fears around homophobia and transphobia. Connor also explains why living with Tourette’s was, in many ways, easier inside the Big Brother house than in the real world. With time to sit down and explain his tics to housemates, he was able to break the cycle of anxiety and misunderstanding in a way he rarely can with strangers in day-to-day life. Beyond Tourette’s and advocacy, we dive into his neurodivergence, his lack of a formal “game plan”, and why cooking became a nightly therapeutic ritual rather than strategy. Connor talks about being labelled the “smartest housemate,” how his curiosity and pattern recognition shaped his experience and why his direct communication style can sometimes be misread as self-righteousness. Plus, he shares who he thinks deserves to win (and why he’s backing Emily), why he’d also be happy to see Colin take the crown, how his gameplay shifted once he relaxed into himself and what the 24/7 live stream did to the way housemates behaved on camera. The episode ends with Connor reflecting on his earlier appearance on The Project, the responsibility he feels as an advocate and his belief that “someone’s got to do it and eventually you realise you’re someone.” Timestamps & Key Takeaways 2:20 – The pre-finale heartbreak Connor on being evicted the night before the finale, why he thinks the vote was “cults of personality versus my cause” and the strange mix of shock and relief he felt walking out. 3:30 – Australia embraces his Tourette’s How public support has shifted his self-perception after years of feeling “two steps behind” when tics land badly in everyday life. 4:15 – Conversations with producers & censorship What was discussed before he entered the house, his belief that censorship is never the answer and why he still understands TV has rules it has to follow. 5:10 – The ‘gay’ slur on air Connor explains coprolalia, his deep fears around being seen as homophobic or transphobic, and why the things he says with Tourette’s are often the things he least wants to express. 6:10 – Big Brother vs real life with Tourette’s Why living in the house was actually easier: having time to explain himself, reduce anxiety and break the misunderstanding loop with housemates. 7:30 – Neurodivergence & coping mechanisms Ben and Connor compare their own neurodivergent experiences and how structure, familiarity and honest communication made the house more manageable than the outside world. 8:25 – No game plan, just cooking Connor admits he came in as a fan with no strategy, why cooking nightly meals was therapy not gameplay and how his analytical brain naturally “Sunday-morning quarterbacks” situations. 9:50 – Expectations vs reality & unprepared housemates Why the show itself didn’t surprise him — but how underprepared some of the other housemates seemed absolutely did. 11:00 – Who deserves to win? Why he’s backing Emily as a beacon of hope, why he’d still be happy to see Colin win and how both brought something powerful but different to the game. 12:20 – The smartest housemate Connor owns the “smartest in the house” label, where his knowledge comes from and why curiosity is the key to everything. 13:20 – Directness vs self-righteousness How his desire for clear, open communication can be misread, and why he believes that reaction often says more about others than it does about him. 14:20 – Finding his real game From struggling in the first week and a half to relaxing, meditating and having more fun during the “Toilet Boys” era — how that shift brought the real Connor back. 15:25 – Live stream pressure & always being ‘on’ His thoughts on being watched 24/7, the trolls he expected and why the live feeds pushed some housemates to stay “on” for the cameras. 16:10 – Someone’s got to do it Connor reflects on his earlier Project appearance, the responsibility of representation and why taking a few hard knocks is worth it if it makes life easier for the next generation. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
