Whereabouts Tales

Paul Puscas

Whereabouts Tales shares the real stories of expats, returnees, and cultural explorers. Host Paul Puscas dives into life between worlds unpacking identity, transformation, and what it means to belong. Each episode is a conversation about chasing dreams, navigating change, and discovering yourself far from home. Tune in for raw, thoughtful, and inspiring journeys across borders. 🎧 New episodes every week | 🌍 Real people. Raw stories. Remarkable paths.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    From Oil Rigs to Intuition: Engineering a Life Without a Plan

    In this episode of Whereabouts Tales, I had the incredible pleasure of sitting down with Angela Jamieson, a woman whose life journey is as unconventional as it is inspiring. Angela, a former petroleum engineer, literally engineered a new life for herself after years traversing the globe. I was so excited to dive into her story, starting from her upbringing in Saskatoon, Canada, right in the same house she lives in today (1:10), to how she unexpectedly found her "ticket to travel" through engineering (3:20). Angela's career took her from Canada to the Netherlands and then to Brunei, living the life of an expat with all its perks – movers, nannies, cooks, and a vibrant international community. I particularly loved hearing about the cultural nuances she encountered, from the Dutch's relaxed cycling pace (11:10) to adapting to customs in an Islamic nation like Brunei (21:38). Angela's commitment to learning Dutch, which she considers her best second language (15:21), truly resonated with me as a powerful form of respect for her host countries. As I often reflected during our chat, doing your research and adapting to the local culture, rather than forcing your own, is key (23:45). Despite this outwardly glamorous and successful life, Angela began to feel a profound emptiness (24:53). She candidly shared how the "too privileged" existence, far from her roots, led to a deep yearning for the mundane – for the simple act of mowing her own lawn or ironing her own clothes (28:00). This realization, coupled with the profound loss of her father (46:17), became the catalyst for a monumental shift. It was a powerful reminder that sometimes, even with financial security, true fulfillment lies elsewhere, and as I often say, "you have two lives, and the second one starts when you realize you only have one" (52:31). This transformative period led Angela to quit her high-flying corporate job and embark on a new path: "inner engineering." What surprised and delighted me most was her unique approach to personal development, playfully dubbing herself a "poop philosopher." Yes, you read that right! Angela has authored a book called *Using Number Two to Get to Number One* (1:01:38), which uses the universal act of pooping as a metaphor for letting go of emotional baggage and embracing life. Her philosophy, "if you don't poop, you're full of sh*t" (54:38), is unexpectedly profound and hilarious. It's a testament to her audacity and honesty, making complex self-development concepts incredibly accessible and relatable. This book, and her whole journey, is about making personal development understandable, not philosophical (1:13:34). Join me for this unforgettable conversation with Angela as she shares how embracing the "weird" and letting go of perfectionism led her back to herself and her childhood dream of being a writer (1:12:31). Her story is a powerful reminder that sometimes, you have to travel far and even "flash a few things" to truly come home to yourself (1:20:11). I guarantee you'll walk away with a fresh perspective, a few laughs, and maybe even a new appreciation for your morning ritual.

    1h 23m
  2. 30 JAN

    From Communism to Capitalism at 9: Rafal's Journey

    In this episode of Whereabouts Tales, I had the immense pleasure of sitting down with Rafal, a truly incredible guest whose life story bridges two vastly different worlds. Rafal, at 46, spent his formative first 10 years in Communist Poland before embarking on a remarkable journey that led him to the United States for the next 36. This unique experience has given him an unparalleled perspective on both communism and capitalism, and I was so excited to dive into his insights. Imagine being nine years old and flying solo from Warsaw to JFK. That's exactly what Rafal did (1:36), and his vivid memories of the vibrant, colorful, and fast-paced US – a stark contrast to the "grayness" (3:55) of his communist homeland – were absolutely captivating. He recounted his first encounter with diversity, including an immigration officer using a Polish translation book, which truly highlighted the unique circumstances of that era. We explored the daily shocks of adapting to American life, from the car-centric culture to the abundance of choices in supermarkets – a world away from the "right to buy" lottery (14:36) for basic goods in Poland. I personally resonated with his "rejection" of long lines, a visceral memory from our shared Eastern European past (15:53). Rafal beautifully articulated how Hollywood movies shaped his expectations versus the reality he encountered, and how the infamous unofficial movie translators played a role in opening up communist societies (18:04). What struck me most was Rafal's honest reflection on how his childhood shaped him. He's a man driven by gratitude, prioritizing experiences over possessions, a lesson he now instills in his own daughter. We also delved into the stark differences in career paths (31:36) and the unique opportunities the US offers, contrasting with the "low floor, low ceiling" existence in communist Poland. This conversation was a powerful reminder that despite our different backgrounds, our shared history from Eastern Europe connects us on a profound level. Hearing Rafal describe feeling like a "permanent stranger" (50:07) – belonging everywhere and nowhere – truly resonated with me. His story is a testament to resilience, adaptation, and the enduring human spirit. I promise you'll gain a deeper understanding of what it means to truly navigate a world of contrasts.

    1h 3m
  3. 16 JAN

    From Window Cleaner to Language CEO #0054

    In this episode of Whereabouts Tales, I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Azren The Language Nerd (https://azrenthelanguagenerd.com), a man whose life story is as rich and multi-layered as the languages he speaks. From the moment we started, I was captivated by his unique upbringing, speaking Gujarati, French, and English at home, a childhood that really sparked my own reflections as I’m raising a bilingual son myself (01:36). We delved deep into how growing up with multiple languages isn’t a hindrance, but rather a powerful developmental tool, shaping his brain from an early age. Azren shared a fascinating story about his exchange trip to rural France at just 15, a pivotal experience that ignited his passion and determination to truly "become French" (00:39). This commitment to cultural immersion, even as a teenager, set the stage for a compelling discussion on how language proficiency can influence our personality and interactions, and the subtle yet profound impact of cultural norms (06:42). We laughed about the importance of saying "bonjour" in France (08:09) and the "pronunciation privilege" (14:30) that can disarm strangers and build instant connection, a concept I’ve certainly witnessed in my own life. Beyond his linguistic prowess, I was particularly inspired by Azren's entrepreneurial journey. From running a window cleaning franchise (23:08) while still in university to founding Calgary Language Nerds, his path wasn’t linear. He openly discussed the initial struggles, the "baby steps" (28:56) he had to take, and how acknowledging his ego (34:03) was a massive hurdle. What truly impressed me about CLN’s philosophy is their focus on providing a reliable pathway to fluency (38:16) and their unique hiring approach, prioritizing human connection and the ability to learn over prior teaching experience (41:57). We also touched upon the future of language learning in an age of AI translation and wondered aloud if we’ll still need to speak languages in 10 years (53:45). Azren’s perspective on humans’ innate desire for skill, even when technology offers shortcuts, was incredibly thought-provoking and offered a hopeful outlook. Our conversation culminated in a profound discussion about resilience, gratitude, and how seeing life’s hard experiences as "features" rather than "bugs" (1:11:05) can shift our entire perspective. This episode is packed with personal insights, cultural revelations, and entrepreneurial wisdom. Azren's story is a testament to the power of passion, persistence, and an open mind.

    1h 23m
  4. 9 JAN

    "Mexico is Too Mexican": An Expat's Story

    Hey everyone, get ready for an episode that truly impressed and moved me. My guest, Fatima Martinez, is a force of nature whose journey of self-discovery and resilience spans continents. She started off with a statement that immediately grabbed me: "Mexico is too Mexican... and I don't like that." (0:00) That set the stage for a conversation full of unexpected twists and profound insights. Fatima's story begins in Mexico, where she was a national-level athlete, living a highly disciplined life. But at just 18, she faced what she calls her first "existential crisis," prompting a spontaneous leap to Italy, then London, simply because a university facade looked nice. I was deeply impressed by her early independence; at 17, she was already traveling solo internationally for competitions! Her parents, despite initial shock (especially when she announced her marriage in her final year of university without the traditional "asking for her hand"!), trusted her fiercely independent spirit. From London, Fatima and her husband embarked on another adventure: teaching English in China. This was a massive culture shock, as she navigated rural China with miming and broken Mandarin. We even share a laugh about a taxi driver who was a huge fan of Mexican telenovelas – what are the chances? (45:25) After returning to London and experiencing the 2008 financial crisis, Fatima found her footing in an unexpected job in jewelry sales, where her "hands-on experience" with fakes from China actually gave her an edge! But the real heart of our conversation lies in Singapore. When Fatima's husband got a job there, she moved pregnant and faced immense struggles with the heat, loneliness, and postpartum depression (1:01:59). She romanticized London, only to realize upon visiting that her old home was not set up for a new mom (1:10:04). It was in Singapore that Fatima found a unique community and a system that truly works. I was absolutely amazed by their COVID response, including free tests and even two dedicated doctors assigned to her children via WhatsApp, 24/7, for free (1:23:06). This level of care and organization is truly a testament to the "kampung spirit" – a sense of community and mutual support that she found there. However, this incredible chapter had to end. Fatima explains the bittersweet reasons for their departure, including the introduction of a "Compass System" (1:44:03), a points-based system for foreigners that made it increasingly difficult for her to work and live affordably as their contract perks ended. My key takeaway from her Singapore experience is the profound value of stability, predictability, and a community where you can truly trust your neighbors and feel safe – something she contrasted starkly with her observations back in Mexico. It’s a powerful reminder of what we, as social animals, truly need to thrive. Join me as Fatima shares her incredible story of never saying no to adventure, constantly adapting, and ultimately finding "home" in the most unexpected places. You don't want to miss this one!

    2h 15m
  5. 2 JAN

    From Poetic Terms to Piezoelectrics #0052

    This was such a captivating conversation! I was so excited to welcome back Gregory Dizzia, co-founder of the Cosmos University, for our third deep dive into the mysteries that bridge ancient wisdom and modern science. From the moment we started, it was clear we were on the trail of uncovering things that truly challenge our understanding of history and the "magic" that once permeated it. Greg shared the incredible origin story of Cosmos University, born from his lifelong fascination with alternative archaeology and the vast gap between conventional scientific understanding and profound spiritual or folkloric claims. We explored how seemingly "magical" properties of materials, like those attributed to precious stones or even common garlic, might have a verifiable scientific basis. For example, Greg broke down the mythical power of Solomon's Ring (5:00), explaining how its combination of silver, brass, and emerald could, in fact, leverage bioenergy, potential differences, and piezoelectric properties to "mess with the ether." It made me realize: **what we call "magic" today might simply be science we haven't yet understood or explained in modern terms** (38:31). We also discussed how ancient civilizations likely knew this, but chose to explain it in poetic rather than scientific terms. But the conversation truly took a mind-bending turn when we delved into our deep dive on the Book of Enoch. Greg revealed connections that left me speechless. He uncovered a prophecy within the book describing a 10,000-year period until "guilt is consummated." When aligning this ancient text with scientific flood dates, the timeline incredibly points to a momentous event like Christ's crucifixion (51:00) a discovery that sent shivers down my spine. Even more astounding was our discussion on the "Shepherd's Vision" (1:13:48). Enoch foresees 35 "good" leaders, followed by a 36th whose flock becomes corrupted. Greg's meticulous research revealed an uncanny parallel with the succession of Catholic Popes: 35 early Popes canonized as saints, followed by Pope Liberius, the 36th, whose tumultuous reign and the subsequent rise of Pope Damasus (often associated with the Council of Laodicea, which established strict new rules and a fixed canon of biblical texts around 1:20:00) profoundly reshaped Christianity. It made me wonder: **could these ancient texts contain truths so monumental that they remain hidden or dismissed even today, perhaps even within the secretive archives of the Vatican?** (1:27:13). We also touched on critical contemporary issues, from the ethical dilemmas of scientific advancements like AI-driven dream manipulation to the overwhelming "spam of information" in our digital age. Greg compellingly argued that perhaps we're not "reinventing the wheel," but rather rediscovering truths once widely known, now obscured by time. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the hidden layers of history, the science behind the mystical, and the urgent need for open-mindedness in understanding our past. Greg's insights are not just thought-provoking; they're truly paradigm-shifting. I guarantee you'll want to re-evaluate everything you thought you knew!

    1h 34m
  6. 26/12/2025

    The Art of Becoming: A German's Entrepreneurial Journey in the US #0051

    Welcome to a truly extraordinary episode where I sit down with Max, a man whose life story defies conventional paths and radiates an infectious curiosity. From the moment we started, I was captivated by his candidness, beginning with the fascinating reason behind changing his birth name to "Max" upon arriving in America (0:07) – a decision rooted in practicality and a touch of old Hollywood cool. Max's journey began in a small German town, but his heart beat to an American rhythm, fueled by a deep love for blues, bluegrass, and the gritty allure of 40s noir literature (3:06). His early fascination wasn't just a hobby; it was a compass, guiding him to major in American literature and, ultimately, to New York City in 1989 as a journalist (16:04). His account of those initial months, living next to Katherine Hepburn and defying expectations to stay in the US, felt like something out of a movie. I loved hearing about his unique journalistic assignments, including riding Route 66 four times, which led to a bestselling book and an award-winning CD-ROM (20:49)! One of my biggest takeaways was Max's belief that America liberates the spirit, fostering an environment where "audacity is encouraged" (43:10) and failure is seen as a stepping stone. This contrasts sharply with the stifling mindset he observed in Europe, a point I deeply resonated with as someone who believes in "fail culture" not just as a concept but as a lived experience. We also delved into his surprising cultural shocks, particularly around social interactions (31:36), and his deep appreciation for American diner culture (36:40), which he fondly calls "the democratic restaurant of the new world." But Max's story doesn't stop there. Disillusioned with journalism after a major scandal (58:00), he completely reinvented himself, first as a children's apparel entrepreneur, then as a winemaker. A personal decision to stop drinking alcohol led to his most recent, incredibly innovative project: Glass Rose, a line of sparkling non-alcoholic beverages made from unfermented grapes (1:30:15). It’s a testament to his boundless creativity and willingness to embrace new challenges, even at 66 years old. His definition of "home" as an "emotion" (1:42:25) beautifully encapsulates his entire journey. Join me for an inspiring conversation that explores chasing dreams, embracing change, and finding home not in a place, but within yourself.

    1h 45m
  7. 19/12/2025

    8 Months to the Middle East: T.E. Lawrence's Path Revisited #0050

    In this episode, I had the privilege of speaking with Wells Jones, a man whose life story is nothing short of an epic adventure. Wells, along with his partner Miles Spencer, embarked on an audacious journey in 2006, retracing T.E. Lawrence's path through the Middle East. What truly captivated me wasn't just the destination, but the sheer, mind-boggling preparation that went into it. Imagine spending eight months preparing for a trip through Saudi Arabia, Jordan, and Syria – not as soldiers, but as civilians, in the volatile post-9/11 era. Wells shares how they had to draft wills, secure international kidnap and ransom insurance, and even undergo specialized conflict and risk assessment training (04:05), led by a former SAS major who once guarded Princes Harry and William. It's truly a testament to their commitment! Their adventure was a fascinating blend of historical exploration and cutting-edge (for 2006!) technology. I was absolutely amazed to hear about their Motorola Razr phones, a satellite phone that doubled as a weapon (07:39), and their Panasonic Toughbook – which I promptly Googled – powered by a roll-out solar panel. And get this: they even had a Broadband Global Access Network (BGAN) terminal for *satellite internet in the desert* (13:34)! This wasn't just a trip; it was a self-contained, high-tech expedition into the unknown. Beyond the gear, Wells shares deeply personal encounters: the chaotic border crossings at gunpoint (20:57), the surprising welcome from Saudi citizens, including Prince Khalid bin Faisal himself, who apologized for 9/11 (26:44). But the most profoundly moving moment for me was hearing about their driver, Mahmoud, a Palestinian whose visceral hatred for Israel was palpable during a tense checkpoint encounter (36:35), and the raw, tearful confession of a Saudi friend whose own village produced 9/11 terrorists (1:11:03). These stories aren't just history; they're heart-wrenching human experiences. Wells and Miles later penned the incredible book, *A Line in the Sand*, which, as I discovered, masterfully blends historical accuracy with captivating fiction, including a time-travel device to revisit pivotal moments. My key takeaway from Wells's wisdom is his emphasis on "graciousness" as a universal language (49:56) and his message to the next generation: trust yourself, fully engage with where you are, cultivate curiosity, and *take action*. This conversation is a powerful reminder that understanding comes from truly listening and immersing yourself in different cultures, not just from headlines. Dive in and prepare to be inspired!

    1h 37m
  8. 12/12/2025

    California to Spain: Our Quest for Growth #0049

    Hello, and welcome back to the podcast! I recently had the incredible pleasure of sitting down with Adam and Gabby Gonzalez (https://www.instagram.com/thegonzalezinspain/ )a dynamic couple who made the bold move from Southern and Northern California to Valencia, Spain, with their two daughters. Their story is a masterclass in intentional living and a powerful reminder that sometimes, you’re not running from anything, but towards a life you’ve always dreamt of. From the very beginning, I was captivated by their "why." As Gabby shared her experiences as a Crime Scene Investigator for 15 intense years, and Adam spoke of his remote work, it became clear that the pandemic acted as a pivotal moment for them. Like many of us, COVID-19 forced a re-evaluation of priorities, highlighting the grind of daily life versus precious family time. I deeply resonated with their realisation that there’s indeed "life after work," a stark contrast to the relentless pace many of us experience (04:41). Their journey to Spain was incredibly thoughtful. We delved into their decision-making process, from initially considering places like Texas or Florida, to exploring Portugal, and finally choosing Valencia over bustling Madrid or party-centric Barcelona. What struck me was their unwavering commitment to integrating, especially wanting their daughters to be fully bilingual. This dedication shone through even when tackling the infamous "Spainful" bureaucracy (07:52), a challenge they smartly navigated with professional help, something I always advocate for when making such a monumental life change. One of my biggest takeaways from our conversation was the profound cultural shifts they experienced. Adam's initial struggle with "sobremesa" the Spanish tradition of long, leisurely post-meal conversations against his American programming for efficiency was hilarious and incredibly relatable. And Gabby’s love for the daily cafe culture versus the "to-go" lifestyle of the US truly highlighted Europe's slower, more present pace. But perhaps the most eye-opening part was our discussion on the transformative walking culture (27:03). Hearing Adam boast about walking 24,000 steps in a day, compared to his 600 back home, underscored the drastic difference in daily movement and overall well-being. It sparked a personal reflection on the often-sedentary habits we fall into, and how movement can drastically improve our quality of life. We also touched on the stark difference in perceived safety, particularly concerning their daughters' independence. And of course, being the food enthusiast I am, our chat about Valencia’s incredible fresh markets and the unexpected craving for spice was a highlight! Ultimately, Adam and Gabby's story, particularly the feeling of truly "feeling human" that Spain offers (1:14:30), resonated deeply with me. It reinforced my own belief that "home is a feeling, not a place," and that stepping outside your "village"—no matter how big or small is a gift that broadens horizons and connects you with your true self. Tune in to hear how they navigated this exciting new chapter, from their first "holy crap" moment to their vision for the future. Their candidness, humor, and refreshing perspective will inspire anyone dreaming of a different path.

    1h 29m

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Whereabouts Tales shares the real stories of expats, returnees, and cultural explorers. Host Paul Puscas dives into life between worlds unpacking identity, transformation, and what it means to belong. Each episode is a conversation about chasing dreams, navigating change, and discovering yourself far from home. Tune in for raw, thoughtful, and inspiring journeys across borders. 🎧 New episodes every week | 🌍 Real people. Raw stories. Remarkable paths.