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06-10-2025

Narcissists, Responsibility, and Big Emotions

Live from Risen King Church in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most asked-about topics in relationships and parenting—including how to deal with someone labeled a narcissist, how to raise responsible children, and how to guide kids through big emotions without losing connection. Whether you're navigating disrespect in your marriage, parenting toddlers with tantrums, or raising teens who resist chores, this episode offers deep wisdom, practical tools, and real talk from two leaders who’ve walked it out. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why trying to fix or change someone else (especially a narcissist) is a losing strategy. How to use the KYLO 5 to protect yourself and preserve connection. What it really means to set boundaries with love, not rejection. How to cultivate responsibility in kids through feedback and connection. Strategies for guiding children through sadness and anger with maturity and empathy. Key Takeaways: You can’t change someone who doesn’t think they have a problem—focus on managing yourself. Boundaries are not punishment; they are a message of hope for reconciliation. A ten-year-old isn’t too young to begin learning how to steward their part of the relationship. Emotionally explosive moments are opportunities to teach—not control—your children. As a parent, your job isn’t to stop emotions but to protect the culture of your home with self-control and leadership. Join the Conversation: What stood out to you in this episode? Have you been in a relationship where you tried to fix someone? How do you approach parenting through connection rather than control? Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

06-10-2025

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27 min.
20-07-2021

Irresponsibilty Cycle - The Victim

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney are teaching on the topic of abusive relationships. For those that are in an abusive relationship, it is very real and very scary but fortunately, there is a way out. The KYLO Principles are the antidote to abusive relationships and you’ll learn how it all works in this week’s episode. -- Do you want to develop your character, your relationships, and build a whole, healthy family of your own? Visit https://lovingonpurpose.com/ and get our online training and resources to build healthy relationships. Stop living in chaos and start building the relationships and family you've always hoped for by going to https://lovingonpurpose.com/ today!

20-07-2021

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46 min.
21-04-2025

When Feedback Fails: How to Stay Powerful with Defensive People

What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a one-sided relationship or struggled to confront dysfunction in love, this episode will equip you to stay powerful, connected, and courageous. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What to do when someone resists or shuts down your feedback. How to stay calm, clear, and connected when emotions run high. Why asking “What did you hear me say?” is a game-changer for clarity. The difference between repentance and self-justification in broken trust. How to approach accusations of narcissism in a culture that overuses the term. Key Takeaways: Don’t confuse judgment for feedback: True feedback is sharing your experience, not labeling or controlling the other person. Safe connection takes time: If someone has never experienced feedback as love, they may need consistent safety before they engage. Stay powerful, even when others aren’t: You get to choose self-control, honor, and clarity, regardless of how the other person responds. Build trust with repetition: Healing relational dynamics takes practice, courage, and time—not a one-time conversation. Repentance isn’t promises—it’s change: When trust is broken, words don’t restore it—consistent changed behavior does. Join the Conversation: Have you ever struggled to give feedback to someone who wouldn’t receive it? What helped you stay connected and powerful? Let us know by leaving a review or connecting on socials. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

21-04-2025

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18 min.
07-04-2025

Live from New Castle: How to Stay Connected Even When Emotions Run High

When fear, anger, and disconnection enter a relationship, it’s easy to slip into control, self-protection, or power struggles. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney answer live audience questions from the KYLO Show Tour and talk about the battle to stay connected even when emotions run high. They share personal stories about rebuilding trust in marriage, navigating conflict with respect, and overcoming deception in relationships. If you want to create a culture of love, accountability, and healthy communication, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and encouragement. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to stay courageous when building trust in a wounded relationship. Why connection—not control—should be your goal in conflict. Practical ways to manage fear and anger without damaging connection. How to recognize and respond to deception without breaking relationship. Why feedback, accountability, and a listening posture protect healthy connection. Key Takeaways: Connection heals fear: Staying connected in the middle of conflict is more powerful than rushing to fix or control the situation. Courage builds trust: Committing to connection, even when you feel hurt or scared, transforms relationships over time. Self-awareness is key: Recognizing your own fear, anger, or self-justification is critical to building safe, lasting connection. Feedback protects growth: Inviting honest feedback and staying accountable to others helps you stay out of deception and isolation. Join the Conversation: Where have you experienced the power of connection in the middle of conflict? We’d love to hear your story! Share with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

07-04-2025

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25 min.
02-06-2025

Learning to Listen, Love, and Lead in Relationship

In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan mindsets and newlywed advice—they highlight the courage and humility it takes to lead in relationships. Whether you’re married, mentoring others, or healing from disconnection yourself, this episode will challenge you to protect connection, prioritize self-awareness, and embrace the path of growth and reconciliation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How listening better than someone is talking changes the emotional climate of a relationship. Why hurt often masquerades as anger—and how to respond with compassion. What to do when someone is stuck in self-protection or an orphan mindset. Why curiosity and self-awareness are keys to thriving in marriage. How to use five simple words to communicate emotional truth and protect connection. Key Takeaways: Listening is an act of protection: When you slow down and truly understand what someone is feeling, you create safety and open the door to healing. Self-justification is the enemy of connection: Owning your part, even when it’s uncomfortable, is the path to deeper trust. Curiosity transforms conflict: When you stop blaming and start getting curious—about yourself and others—you create space for growth. Connection must be protected at all costs: React to disconnection like your couch is on fire—drop everything and deal with it. Simple words bring powerful clarity: Words like “ouch,” “yikes,” and “ugh” help you name what’s happening inside and move toward reconnection. Join the Conversation: Which part of this episode challenged you most? Do you need to slow down and listen better, or have the courage to speak your truth in love? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and let us know how you're keeping your love on. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

02-06-2025

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23 min.
16-06-2025

Confidence, Compatibility, and Choosing the Right Relationship

In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to the importance of aligning your life mission with your partner’s, this episode unpacks how to keep your love on from the very start. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring someone who is, you’ll gain insight on what it means to pursue connection with clarity, confidence, and community. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why self-awareness and confidence are critical before entering a relationship. How to discern if you're adjusting yourself to be what someone else wants. The importance of building relationships within the safety of community. Why shared life vision and mission matter more than chemistry alone. How early alignment can lead to long-term unity and growth. Key Takeaways: Don’t change your ticket: Choose relationships where your life mission and calling are already aligned—you’re heading the same direction. Be confident in who you are: Healthy relationships start when both people know, like, and are developing who they are in Christ. Stay in community: Surround yourself with trusted people who can speak into your relationships and help you stay grounded. Chemistry fades—clarity lasts: Compatibility rooted in purpose and values is more sustainable than just emotional or physical connection. Join the Conversation: Have you ever changed your “ticket” to make a relationship work? What’s one area of your identity that you’re learning to love and protect? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and keep the conversation going. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

16-06-2025

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25 min.
30-06-2025

Navigating Loss, Inheritance, and Joy in Difficult Seasons

Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most vulnerable and meaningful questions yet—from handling painful family inheritance situations to leading a business with integrity and learning to hold on to joy in the midst of grief. This episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for staying powerful and connected during life’s hardest seasons. If you’re in a challenging time or walking alongside someone who is, this one will speak straight to your heart. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to respond with maturity and integrity during family inheritance conflicts. Why staying a “good son” or “good sibling” matters more than what you receive. How to lead a godly business that reflects Christ in culture, excellence, and kindness. What it looks like to grieve powerfully and ask for help without losing yourself. How to access joy and hope even when life feels overwhelming and dark. Key Takeaways: You control your response, not the outcome: When it comes to inheritance or injustice, you can choose honor, integrity, and connection regardless of others’ decisions. Let your character lead your business: A godly business isn’t just about Christian language—it’s marked by the fruit of the Spirit and excellence in every interaction. Ask for help when you're grieving: Owning your need is a powerful step toward healing. You don't have to grieve alone. Joy is cultivated, not circumstantial: Don’t wait for life to go your way to choose joy. Build habits of gratitude and obedience that reconnect you to God’s presence. Stay connected even when it’s hard: Grief and hardship can make you want to isolate—but choosing connection, even imperfectly, is part of staying powerful. Join the Conversation: Have you been in a season where joy felt far away? What helped you return to hope and connection? Share your story with us at www.thekyloshow.com—we’d love to hear from you. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

30-06-2025

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21 min.
03-11-2025

Connection Before Correction: How to Guide Your Kids Without Losing Their Hearts

In this live episode from North Tonawanda, New York, Danny and Brittney Serpell respond to powerful audience questions about parenting, correction, and connection. From overcorrected kids and resistant teenagers to “I don’t know” shutdowns and sibling conflict, this episode is full of real-life moments, raw honesty, and practical tools for parenting with love and leadership. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to shift from punishment to wisdom when offering correction Why connection is the foundation for lasting influence with teens How to draw out your child when they shut down or avoid engagement What to do when sibling rivalry becomes the norm How to model repentance and rebuild trust as a parent Key Takeaways: Correction without connection breeds resistance—prioritize relationship over being right. When kids say “I don’t know,” it’s often self-protection—create safety by managing your reaction. You can’t control your kids, but you can control your access to resources, opportunities, and permission. Sibling relationships are training grounds for love—don’t settle for conflict as the norm. Leading your family well means owning your mistakes, leading with humility, and choosing connection every time. Join the Conversation: Have you navigated resistance, shutdowns, or sibling rivalry in your home? We’d love to hear what helped you reconnect. Share your stories and continue the conversation. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose Instagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

03-11-2025

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26 min.
31-10-2023

Vulnerable Conversations with Becky Johnson and Ruthie Ridley

This week on The KYLO Show, Brittney Serpell and Sheri Silk talk with our guests Becky Johnson and Ruthie Ridley to have an honest conversation about the joys and hardships they have walked through as a woman, wife, mother, and leader. We don’t shy away from vulnerability in this episode, you don’t want to miss! -- Do you have a question that you need answered? Send us your questions on instagram to @dannylovingonpurpose or @brittneyserpell or email info@lovingonpurpose.com and we will answer on the show! -- Support The KYLO Show by making a tax-deductible donation https://lovingonpurpose.givingfuel.com

31-10-2023

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41 min.
14-12-2021

We Need A Revival of Worship

In this week’s episode of The KYLO Show Danny and Brittney discuss how honor is ultimately rooted in worship and the need for a worship revival. -- Do you have a question that you need answered? Record and submit your question at http://thekyloshow.com. Danny and Brittney will answer your question and you’ll get the breakthrough you’ve been looking for! Go to http://thekyloshow.com and record your question now.

14-12-2021

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41 min.

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Narcissists, Responsibility, and Big Emotions

Irresponsibilty Cycle - The Victim

When Feedback Fails: How to Stay Powerful with Defensive People

Live from New Castle: How to Stay Connected Even When Emotions Run High

Learning to Listen, Love, and Lead in Relationship

Confidence, Compatibility, and Choosing the Right Relationship

Navigating Loss, Inheritance, and Joy in Difficult Seasons

Connection Before Correction: How to Guide Your Kids Without Losing Their Hearts

Vulnerable Conversations with Becky Johnson and Ruthie Ridley

We Need A Revival of Worship

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