The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

  1. 3 days ago

    Naughty N'awlins Party 1: Drinking, Dancing, and DJing

    Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 1: Drinking, Dancing and DJing | Episode 254 Dan and Lacy are back from Naughty N’awlins—and they have plenty of stories to tell! In Part 1 of their New Orleans recap, they take listeners along for the beginning of their wild weekend filled with old friends, unforgettable parties, plenty of drinks, and a little bit of trouble. The trip kicks off with a visit to Colette’s New Orleans, where Dan and Lacy reconnect with friends they have missed and settle into the Naughty N’awlins energy. From there, they dive into the event’s daytime festivities, sharing what it was like to spend their afternoons drinking, dancing, socializing, and soaking up the party atmosphere. Dan also steps behind the DJ booth for one of the nighttime parties and helps host one of the biggest events of the entire weekend—Kasidie’s legendary Foam Party at The Beach. Between the music, foam, drinks, and packed dance floor, the party definitely lives up to the hype. Of course, it would not be a Naughty N’awlins recap without sharing a little of the naughty. Dan and Lacy open up about an encounter involving two other couples and how the experience unfolded. This is only the beginning of their New Orleans adventure, so make sure you come back for Part 2 to hear about the rest of their trip, the moments they are still talking about, and even more Naughty N’awlins stories. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  2. 5 days ago

    Tuesday Talks: Cruise Together, Play Apart?

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Cruise Together, Play Apart? | Episode 117 A newer lifestyle couple is preparing to set sail on a Bliss Cruise with another couple they have played with before—but so far, their experiences have only involved parallel play. Since the other couple is comfortable with full swap, the listeners are wondering whether everyone has the same expectations for the trip or if their friends may be hoping for something more. Dan and Lacy explain why this is a conversation that needs to happen before anyone boards the ship. They also discuss the reality that most people do not spend the time and money to attend a lifestyle cruise with plans to only play with one couple. From setting clear boundaries to avoiding assumptions and leaving room for new experiences, they share their advice for navigating expectations, communication, and play on a Bliss Cruise. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  3. 9 Jul

    Hedo 101: Everything You Need to Know Before You Go

    Send us Fan Mail Hedo 101: Everything You Need to Know Before You Go | Episode 253 Thinking about a trip to Hedo but not sure what to expect? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the full Hedo 101. From the legendary pool parties and nightlife to the rooms, food, beach, and overall resort vibe, they break down what a first-time trip to Hedonism II in Jamaica can really look like. They also share why getting off the resort for an excursion can be one of the best parts of your vacation, along with a few of their favorite experiences to add to your itinerary. Plus, for couples who are curious about Hedo but still private about being in the lifestyle, Dan and Lacy offer practical advice for keeping your trip discreet around family, friends, coworkers, and anyone else who does not need to know the details. Whether Hedo has been on your bucket list for years or you are only beginning to wonder what all the hype is about, this episode is packed with honest insight, helpful tips, and everything you need to know before booking that Jamaican getaway. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  4. 7 Jul

    Tuesday Talks: When It's Time to Move On

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: When It's Time to Move On| Episode 116 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy respond to a listener question from a couple who thought they had found a great match for a full swap—until their first attempt took an uncomfortable turn. When the male half of the other couple was unable to perform, it led to an argument between him and his wife, leaving the listeners feeling like they had seen a major red flag and decided to step away. Since then, they have considered giving the connection another chance, but the other couple has repeatedly become too intoxicated when they make plans. Now they are wondering: Is it time to cut their losses and move on? Dan and Lacy share their honest perspective on recognizing compatibility issues, respecting your own boundaries, and knowing when a situation may bring more stress than fun. They also normalize something that happens more often than people talk about in the lifestyle: performance anxiety and difficulty performing in new, high-pressure situations. The key is not whether it happens—it is how everyone handles it. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about red flags, communication, alcohol, grace, and protecting the kind of experiences you want to have in the lifestyle. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  5. 2 Jul

    What’s Actually Hard in the Lifestyle—and What Isn’t

    Send us Fan Mail What’s Actually Hard in the Lifestyle—and What Isn’t | Episode 252 What do people think will be the hardest part of the lifestyle… and what actually is? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy break down some of the biggest assumptions people make before entering the lifestyle. Is it really difficult to watch your partner with someone else? How much jealousy actually comes up? And do boundaries and rules make everything easier—or can they sometimes create new challenges? Dan and Lacy share their honest perspective on the things couples often worry about most, versus the realities that tend to be more difficult once you are actually living the lifestyle. From communication and expectations to navigating emotions, mismatched comfort levels, and the unexpected situations that can come up along the way, this episode is a candid conversation for anyone curious about what lifestyle relationships are really like behind the scenes. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  6. 30 Jun

    Tuesday Talks: What to Wear for Splash Atlanta

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: What to Wear for Splash Atlanta| Episode 115 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with a question many Splash Atlanta attendees are probably asking: what exactly are we supposed to wear for Eroticon? With each themed night described a little differently, Dan and Lacy break down the dress codes in a way that makes them easier to understand—and a lot less intimidating. Lacy shares her interpretation of each theme, ideas for putting together an outfit, and ways to participate whether you want to go all out or keep it simple. Then Dan and Lacy reveal what they’re planning to wear themselves, how they approach themed events, and why the best outfit is always the one that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and ready to have fun. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  7. 25 Jun

    Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout

    Send us Fan Mail Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout | Episode 251 In this full episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy get real about something that can happen to anyone in the lifestyle: burnout. Between traveling, attending events, socializing, keeping up with messages, and trying to make the most of every opportunity, the lifestyle can sometimes start to feel more like an obligation than an escape. Dan and Lacy share their own experiences with feeling burned out this year, including how overcommitting to events and constantly being “on” can take a toll. They also talk about why other couples may be hitting that same wall, from pressure to play, packed social calendars, comparison, dating-app fatigue, and feeling like they have to say yes to every invitation. Most importantly, they offer practical advice for recognizing burnout early, communicating with your partner, setting boundaries, taking a break without guilt, and finding your way back to enjoying the lifestyle on your own terms. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

  8. 23 Jun

    Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed

    Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed| Episode 114 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question from a couple who are curious about exploring the lifestyle but need to keep things private because of their careers. How do you dip your toes in without putting your personal life on display? They share practical, real-world advice for protecting your privacy while still finding community, making connections, and deciding whether the lifestyle is right for you. From being thoughtful about where and how you meet people to skipping lifestyle-specific social media accounts altogether, Dan and Lacy talk through ways to keep your boundaries intact without letting fear keep you from exploring. Whether you are brand-new to the lifestyle or simply more private by nature, this episode is a reminder that you get to decide how visible—or invisible—your journey looks. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation -  Main Website  Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society -  Our Website to meet, connect & events  Swinger Society Discord  Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation  SDC 14 day free trial  Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **  SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -

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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!

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