The Divorce Recovery Podcast

India L. Kern

India Kern discusses issues that relate to a person who is contemplating a separation or divorce, facing a marital breakup or has already gone through the process of divorce. India takes a spiritual approach, offering healthy solutions to common issues that appear during a breakup. The intention of the podcast is to teach the listener the necessary steps to take in order to avoid the typical mistakes that often occur before, during and after divorce.

  1. Spectacular Dysfunction

    08/04/2025

    Spectacular Dysfunction

    Chapter from India Kern's Book "Surviving the Unwanted Divorce"

    10 min

  2. 22/06/2020

    Mediation: Why Use a Wrecking Ball When All You Need is a Hammer?

    In today’s episode, I talk to Jo-Ann Little, CDFA and owner of Divorce Help, a mediation firm. Whether you choose mediation or litigation, there are certain steps everyone must take when getting divorced. Jo-Ann defines the necessary steps and clarifies the different options available when facing divorce. Divorce is not an easy process, unwinding a marriage is emotionally and financially draining. Many people immediately “lawyer up” and do not take the time to fully understand what mediation is all about. Jo-Ann explains how mediation can save your finances, as well as your emotional well-being. Honestly, why would you use a wrecking ball when all you need is a hammer? Jo-Ann helps us understand how mediation may be the better choice in the dissolution of your marriage.

    27 min

  3. 29/01/2020

    The Effects of Addiction on Marriages & Relationships

    Addiction is the wrecking ball to relationships - marriages, family ties, and friendships. But how does one know the difference between "abusing" a substance versus "being addicted?" Listen to the podcast to learn more about addiction from Scott Silverman, a Crisis Coach, and a Family Navigator. In this episode, I ask Scott the questions that are most commonly asked around addiction. He's the expert on addiction and he brings clarity to this topic that affects everyone in some capacity.

    32 min

  4. 12/11/2019

    A Life of Incongruence

    Today’s episode is meant to encourage you, and I am NOT speaking only to those facing divorce or going through a breakup. A “life of incongruence” has no bounds and most of us, at some point, find ourselves facing an inevitable transition. Because when you’re living a life of incongruence, there will be a guaranteed shift that will occur, whether you like it or not. I talk about my life of incongruence and the shakeup that followed…and boy, was it a doozy!

    9 min

  5. 12/11/2019

    Are you in a High Conflict Divorce?

    Is your divorce dragging on? Are you being pulled in and out of court? Or maybe the custody plan is a point of contention and you have found yourself in a mandatory meeting with the Family Court Service. Listen in as I discuss topics around high conflict divorce with Brian Victor, a Family Law Attorney. He sheds light on smart ways to handle yourself if you find yourself in the middle of a high conflict divorce.

    14 min

  6. 07/08/2019

    Real Estate and Divorce

    In today’s episode, I have a candid discussion about real estate and divorce with two real estate experts from Fairway Residential. Bob and Bobby Flynn answer the burning question, Should I keep or sell the house? They provide key considerations divorcing couples need to think about regarding their joint real estate. They also share the common mistakes to avoid and give us tips on what to look for in an agent. Listen in to discover answers to your burning real estate questions. For more information: Robert & Bob Flynn REALTORS® Fairway Residential Robert: (858) 775-3079 roberthflynn@fairwayresidential.com Bob: (619) 600-0999 bob@fairwayresidential.com 100 E San Marcos Blvd #400. San Marcos, CA 92069

    17 min

  7. 30/03/2019

    The Parenting Plan

    It’s a fact that parenting is difficult for any couple, but when the couple is facing divorce, co-parenting can be their greatest challenge. The couple is in divorce for a reason, so coming to terms and in agreement over large issues like the kids can cause unnecessary stress and turmoil for everyone. And if there’s no parenting plan in place to follow, the relationship between the parents can escalate to a high conflict situation, making life miserable for the kids caught in-between. In today’s episode, I talk to Brook Olsen, a Certified Parenting Educator, a Certified Divorce Mediator and a Divorce Coach. Brook tells us what a parenting plan is, how it benefits each party involved and the steps to take to avoid conflict when facing divorce with kids. If you are divorced or separated and have kids, this is a must listen! Want to know more about Divorce Recovery? Check out: www.indiakern.com or email India at connect@indiakern.com

    12 min

  8. 16/07/2018

    Forgiveness

    What does "forgiveness" look like? How will you know when you have truly forgiven a person? In this episode, Paul Cunningham sheds light on this topic and gives a pastor's perspective on "forgiveness." He discusses the spiritual approach to "forgiveness." If you're struggling to cultivate a forgiving heart, listen in. You will be surprised by what Pastor Paul has to say.

    18 min
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India Kern discusses issues that relate to a person who is contemplating a separation or divorce, facing a marital breakup or has already gone through the process of divorce. India takes a spiritual approach, offering healthy solutions to common issues that appear during a breakup. The intention of the podcast is to teach the listener the necessary steps to take in order to avoid the typical mistakes that often occur before, during and after divorce.

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