Awake & Aligned

Dr. Phyllis Hayes-Reams
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You know that quiet feeling — the one that whispers, "There has to be more than this"? You love God, you love your people, and you show up faithfully for your career, your family, and your faith. But somewhere along the way, you slipped into autopilot. You're going through the motions, but the joy, the fire, the sense of purpose — it's faded. It's time to wake up. Welcome to the Awake & Aligned podcast with Dr. Phyllis — faith-based personal growth and Christian life coaching for women who are ready to stop surviving and start living with intention. Whether you're navigating a major life transition, standing at a crossroads in your relationships, processing grief, managing complex family dynamics, or juggling roles that leave you stretched thin — this show meets you right where you are. No judgment. No fluff. Just honest, Spirit-led conversations designed to help you wake up to who God called you to be, align your life with His purpose, and walk in the fullness of your authentic self. Each episode is built around one mission: helping you live Awake. Aligned. Authentic. — because intentional living for women of faith isn't about doing more. It's about becoming more of who God created you to be. You weren't made to just get through the day, sis. You were made to grow, prosper, and walk boldly in your calling. Subscribe and join the community of women who are breaking free from autopilot and building lives that are fully awake, aligned, and authentic. 🌐 Learn more and connect: www.drphyllishayesreams.com

  1. -3 J

    136. Do You Even Remember Who You Were Before The World Starting Placing Orders

    What if the woman everyone depends on is not the real you? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Phyllis speaks to women who have spent years being strong, dependable, and needed, yet feel disconnected from themselves. She explains how constant performance can become a place of safety, while slowly burying your true desires, joy, and identity. Through honest reflection, a personal story, and the truth of Jeremiah 1:5, she reminds listeners that who they are was never meant to be built on what they do. This episode offers a gentle but powerful call to slow down, get still, and begin asking one simple question: What do I actually want right now? Real change begins there, in small moments of honesty, courage, and care. Episode highlights: (0:00) Performance as a safety net (2:32) Simple questions that reveal lost identity (6:26) How women become roles instead of people (9:40) Dr. Phyllis shares her own wake-up moment (15:28) Jeremiah 1:5 and identity before performance (20:36) Small choices that help you reconnect with yourself (24:24) Why this feels uncomfortable (27:53) This week’s practice (29:54) Grief over losing yourself (32:14) Why it is not too late (35:29) Picture your younger self (40:13) Next week’s question about busyness and avoidance Connect with Dr. Phyllis: http://drphyllishayesreams.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drphyllishayesreams/ https://www.facebook.com/phyllis.hayesreams

    44 min

  2. 16 AVR.

    135. Do You Still Sit or Do You Run Until You Crash?

    What happens when staying busy becomes the only way you know how to function? In this episode, Dr. Phyllis unpacks the pattern so many of us live in without questioning. We keep moving, managing, and showing up, but rarely slow down enough to actually feel our own lives. Over time, constant motion starts to feel normal, and stillness begins to feel uncomfortable. This conversation gets to the root of that. The drive to keep going didn’t come out of nowhere. It was learned, and at one point, it likely served a purpose. But what once helped you navigate one season can quietly begin to hold you back in the next. Dr. Phyllis draws an important distinction between crashing and choosing to rest. One happens when you’ve pushed too far. The other requires intention. Throughout the episode, she invites you to pause, pay attention to what you’re feeling, and notice when you’re slipping into autopilot. This is a grounded reminder that stillness isn’t empty. It’s where clarity returns. And learning to slow down, even in small ways, is how you begin to show up for your life in a way that feels real again. http://drphyllishayesreams.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drphyllishayesreams/ https://www.facebook.com/phyllis.hayesreams

    36 min

  3. 9 AVR.

    #134-Breaking Free: How to Stop Autopilot Decisions

    Have you ever caught yourself asking, is this really where I’m supposed to be? Or do you keep moving forward simply because it feels easier than stopping? Some seasons are spent reacting instead of pausing, seeking fulfillment in roles and routines that never truly feed the soul. Decisions stop being brought to God, and life runs on auto pilot, letting habit guide the way. Repeated outcomes often appear without notice whether in toxic relationships, unfulfilling work, or patterns that feel impossible to escape. Subconscious choices keep familiar habits alive, even when they no longer serve. Expecting different results while repeating the same decisions only leads to frustration. Breaking free from auto pilot requires courage. Courage to recognize patterns, courage to ask the hard questions, and courage to make different choices. Old habits will not lead to new promises. Dr. Phyllis shares a practical tool to start shifting: identify one decision repeated out of habit, uncover the fear that keeps it in place, and take one courageous step this week to break the cycle. One intentional choice can open the door to a life aligned with purpose rather than routine. For anyone ready to stop reacting and start choosing courage, this episode provides guidance to take the first step and move toward lasting change. http://drphyllishayesreams.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drphyllishayesreams/ https://www.facebook.com/phyllis.hayesreams

    21 min

  4. 2 AVR.

    #133- The Power of Return: How the Prodigal Son’s Story Mirrors Our Own

    What happens when you realize you’ve been living on auto pilot? In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares her personal story and draws a powerful connection to the story of the prodigal son. It’s an honest look at what it feels like to drift, to lose sight of who you really are, and what it takes to come back. She opens up about the moment she knew something had to change. The moment she realized that if she wanted to reclaim her identity, she had to return to Him. That decision didn’t just shift one area of her life. It changed how she navigates everything. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, stuck in roles, or just going through the motions, this conversation will hit close to home. So many of us are prone to living on auto pilot, slowly losing connection with our true identity without even realizing it. This episode is your reminder that you’re not too far gone. There is power in the return. Dr. Phyllis also introduces The Return Framework, a simple and meaningful way to begin breaking free from auto pilot and take your first steps back to who you really are.

    25 min

  5. 26 MARS

    #132- Reconnecting with Your True Self: Lessons from the Woman at the Well

    In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares a deeper look into her personal journey of breaking out of autopilot and reconnecting with her true self. She opens up about the pressure of trying to live up to the idea of the Proverbs 31 woman, focusing on what that looks like from the outside while never really considering what’s happening internally. There’s so much emphasis on her attributes and how she’s perceived, but not on how she actually experiences her life behind closed doors. Dr. Phyllis reflects on a season where she was stuck in autopilot, constantly taking on new roles and responsibilities in an attempt to fill a void. Instead of finding clarity, she found herself more disconnected. This episode walks through what that looked like and how it led her to start asking better questions about her purpose and her priorities. She also introduces the Will Framework, a simple but powerful way to come back to yourself. This isn’t a one-time exercise. It’s something you return to over and over as your life shifts and grows. If you’ve been feeling like you’re doing all the right things but still feel off, this conversation will help you pause, reflect, and reconnect with what actually matters.

    26 min

  6. 19 MARS

    #131- Stop Stepping Over Your Aspirations: How Small Actions Lead to Big Change

    In this episode, Dr. Phyllis talks about what it really looks like to move forward when you feel stuck. Not through big, overwhelming changes, but through small actions that actually build momentum. If you’ve been avoiding your next step or sitting in overthinking, this is your reminder that enough is enough. We can’t let our thoughts run the show. At some point, you have to shift your focus from staying stuck to taking action. Dr. Phyllis shares her framework for stepping forward, even when things feel unclear or uncomfortable. She walks through why imperfect action matters and how those small moves are often the thing that creates real change. This episode will push you to ask yourself what you can do next, instead of staying in the loop of thinking about it. One simple place to start is sitting down with your journal and getting honest about the steps in front of you. If you’ve been feeling stuck, this is the nudge to move.

    19 min

  7. 12 MARS

    #130- Breaking Free From The Busyness of Autopilot: Creating Space for Better Communication

    In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares her experience of realizing she had been living in a state of emotional autopilot. While managing the many roles and responsibilities of life, she found herself feeling disconnected and unsure how to step off the constant treadmill of expectations. Our conversation explores how easily parents can become overwhelmed by responsibilities and begin operating on autopilot. Dr. Phyllis reminds us that no parent is perfect and that not everything is ours to carry. She also discusses the tools that helped her begin the process of healing, strengthen communication, and repair important relationships. This episode is an encouragement to pause, reflect, and identify one area where more intentional communication could lead to meaningful change.

    29 min

  8. 5 MARS

    #129- Beyond the Clutter- Breaking Free From Emotional Autopilot

    Clutter is not always about being messy or disorganized. Sometimes it is a signal that something deeper is asking for our attention. In this episode, Dr. Phyllis talks about the connection between clutter and avoidance. The overflowing inbox, messy closet, or tasks we keep putting off can often point to emotions we have not slowed down enough to face. Instead of seeing clutter as a failure, she encourages us to see it as a message. Dr. Phyllis shares a simple framework called CLEAR to help move through both physical and emotional clutter. It begins by clarifying what you might be avoiding and listening to the emotions underneath it. From there, she encourages you to engage God and invite Him into the moment for courage and guidance. The next step is to act by taking one small step toward what you have been putting off. Finally, reflect and rejoice by noticing the progress you made. Clutter is not a character flaw. You are not lazy and you are not broken. Often it is simply a signal that something in your life needs care and attention. When we slow down long enough to notice the message, we create space for peace and clarity.

    18 min
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You know that quiet feeling — the one that whispers, "There has to be more than this"? You love God, you love your people, and you show up faithfully for your career, your family, and your faith. But somewhere along the way, you slipped into autopilot. You're going through the motions, but the joy, the fire, the sense of purpose — it's faded. It's time to wake up. Welcome to the Awake & Aligned podcast with Dr. Phyllis — faith-based personal growth and Christian life coaching for women who are ready to stop surviving and start living with intention. Whether you're navigating a major life transition, standing at a crossroads in your relationships, processing grief, managing complex family dynamics, or juggling roles that leave you stretched thin — this show meets you right where you are. No judgment. No fluff. Just honest, Spirit-led conversations designed to help you wake up to who God called you to be, align your life with His purpose, and walk in the fullness of your authentic self. Each episode is built around one mission: helping you live Awake. Aligned. Authentic. — because intentional living for women of faith isn't about doing more. It's about becoming more of who God created you to be. You weren't made to just get through the day, sis. You were made to grow, prosper, and walk boldly in your calling. Subscribe and join the community of women who are breaking free from autopilot and building lives that are fully awake, aligned, and authentic. 🌐 Learn more and connect: www.drphyllishayesreams.com

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  • Création
    Dr. Phyllis Hayes-Reams
  • Années d’activité
    2023 - 2026
  • Épisodes
    138
  • Classification
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  • Copyright
    © 2026 Awake & Aligned Woman: Break Free from Autopilot And Reclaim Your Life
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