Femme Talk

Femme

A casual yet insightful podcast about all things female fitness, from training, to mindset to girl chat. 

Episodes

  1. 22/12/2025

    Episode 5 - Navigating Relationships in Your 30s: A Modern Perspective

    In this episode of Fem Talk, Ella and Vic discuss the complexities of navigating relationships in your 30s, addressing societal pressures, family expectations, and the importance of mindset. They explore how understanding personal values can lead to healthier relationship choices and the impact of social media on dating. The conversation emphasizes the luxury of choice in modern dating, the significance of journaling and gratitude, and the journey of self-discovery that comes with being single. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to redefine success and embrace their unique paths in life. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Relationships in Your 30s 05:04 The Importance of Mindset and Self-Reflection 07:39 Understanding Values and Relationship Dynamics 10:07 The Luxury of Choice in Modern Dating 12:40 The Impact of Social Media on Relationships 15:22 Reframing Outdated Expectations 17:49 The Power of Journaling and Gratitude 24:40 Rewiring Body Positivity and Self-Perception 26:43 Self-Control and Mindset in Relationships 27:28 Navigating Dating in Your Thirties 29:07 The Complexity of Family Dynamics 30:34 Flexibility in Life Choices and Family Planning 32:28 Embracing Singlehood in Your Thirties 33:36 Knowing Your Worth and Self-Identity 34:51 Accountability in Relationships 35:30 The Gift of Self-Discovery 37:06 Celebrating Achievements and Shifting Perspectives 39:29 Mindset Shifts and Gratitude Practices 41:06 Overcoming Negative Mindsets and Jealousy 43:39 Finding Gratitude in Your Current Situation Takeaways Navigating relationships in your 30s can be challenging due to societal pressures. Family expectations often add stress to dating and relationship decisions. Mindset and self-reflection are crucial for personal growth and relationship success. Understanding your values helps in making better relationship choices. Modern dating offers more choices, but can also complicate decisions. Social media influences perceptions of relationships and personal worth. Redefining success and timelines can alleviate feelings of being 'behind' in life. Journaling and gratitude practices can enhance mental well-being. Being single in your 30s can be a time for self-discovery and freedom. Self-awareness is key to making healthy relationship choices. Keywords Fem Talk, fitness, health, mindset, women empowerment, 75 Hard Challenge, social media, sustainable fitness, mental health, self-discipline Follow us on Instagram: @femme_coaching_ @Ella_femme_coach @kaylesclarke @Victoria.mandi or checkout our website: www.femmesociety.co.uk

    45 min
  2. 01/12/2025

    Breaking the Silence: Men's Mental Health Matters

    guest: Andrew Keiller - Life coach @andrewrkeiller  https://www.skool.com/identityalchemy/about Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Men's Mental Health and Movember 02:57 The Transition from Fitness to Life Coaching 05:58 Understanding Men's Mental Health Issues 08:43 The Impact of Societal Expectations on Men 11:48 The Role of Internal Validation 14:54 The Effects of Feminism on Men's Identity 17:42 The Consequences of Traditional Roles 20:47 The Statistics Behind Male Suicide 23:26 Toxic Masculinity and Its Misinterpretations 26:28 The Economic Factors Affecting Gender Roles 29:32 The Need for Tolerance and Accountability 32:25 Conclusion and Final Thoughts on Men's Mental Health 41:32 Communication in Relationships 46:00 Understanding Gender Communication Styles 49:40 The Need for Emotional Education 52:32 Men's Mental Health and Societal Changes 01:01:15 The Impact of Dating Standards on Men's Mental Health 01:10:12 Breaking Down Barriers in Gender Communication 01:11:58 The Importance of Support for Women 01:13:04 Empathy and Communication in Relationships 01:14:23 Problem Solving and Solutions 01:15:34 The Role of Partners in Mental Health 01:17:47 Personal Responsibility in Recovery 01:19:02 The Prevalence of Male Suicide 01:19:30 Communication and Raising Awareness 01:21:17 Challenging Identity Politics 01:23:01 Closing Thoughts and Future Conversations Summary In this conversation, Andrew Keeler discusses the importance of men's mental health, particularly in the context of Movember. He shares his journey from fitness coaching to life coaching, emphasizing the need for deeper emotional understanding and the impact of societal expectations on men's mental health. The discussion touches on the effects of feminism on traditional gender roles, the importance of internal validation, and the need for better communication and emotional education in schools. The conversation highlights the challenges men face in navigating their identities and the stigma surrounding mental health issues. In this conversation, Ella Crouch and Andrew Keiller delve into the complexities of modern dating, self-esteem issues, and the mental health challenges faced by men. They discuss the unrealistic standards women often set in dating, the societal pressures that discourage men from approaching women, and the importance of community responsibility in addressing mental health. The dialogue emphasizes the need for better communication between genders, the significance of recognizing behavioral patterns, and the role of empathy in fostering understanding. Ultimately, they advocate for individual actions that can lead to broader societal change. UK SUPPORT LINKS FOR MEN’S MENTAL HEALTH: Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) https://www.thecalmzone.net/ Helpline: 0800 58 58 58 Shout – 24/7 text support Text SHOUT to 85258 https://giveusashout.org/ Samaritans – 24/7 emotional support 116 123 https://www.samaritans.org/ James’ Place – crisis support for men https://www.jamesplace.org.uk/ Keywords Men's Mental Health, Movember, Life Coaching, Toxic Masculinity, Emotional Regulation, Identity, Internal Validation, Communication, Feminism, Parenting, dating, mental health, self-esteem, communication, relationships, societal issues, empathy, unrealistic standards, community responsibility, gender dynamics Keywords Fem Talk, fitness, health, mindset, women empowerment, 75 Hard Challenge, social media, sustainable fitness, mental health, self-discipline Follow us on Instagram: @femme_coaching_ @Ella_femme_coach @kaylesclarke @Victoria.mandi or checkout our website: www.femmesociety.co.uk

    1h 24m
  3. She Survived: A Story of Strength on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women

    24/11/2025

    She Survived: A Story of Strength on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women

    for Rhiannon:   instagram @the.happy.hypnotist  https://www.instagram.com/the.happy.hypnotist?igsh=MWk2d3hwbXBlYXZ5bQ== website: https://www.thehappyhypnotist.co.uk/?utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZnRzaAONVjBleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAafsb9Dc2-_9MKjzrmj44pNTQ_GrHOgVBHVRl5mhToy0WTRk6e5y7T5Shnthsg_aem_ejy5-O_COqnsmKVVPjJ51Q Chapters 00:00:02 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:00:46 Rhiannon's Personal Experience00:03:22 Discussion on Support Systems00:05:53 Recognizing Red Flags00:21:06 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSummary In this episode, Ella and Vic are joined by Rhiannon to discuss important topics such as domestic violence, red flags in relationships, and personal experiences. The conversation covers the impact of these issues and provides insights into recognizing and addressing them. Keywords domestic violence, relationship red flags, personal experiences, Ella, Vic, Rhiannon Takeaways Rhiannon shares her personal experience with domestic violence.Understanding the red flags in a relationship is crucial.Ella emphasizes the importance of support systems.Vic discusses the role of awareness in preventing abuse.Rhiannon highlights the need for open conversations.The impact of domestic violence on mental health is significant.Recognizing early signs can prevent further harm.Support networks play a vital role in recovery.Education and awareness are key to prevention.Personal stories can inspire change and understanding. ⚠️ SUPPORT LINKS  (UK & GLOBAL) National Domestic Abuse Helpline (UK): 0808 2000 247 — 24/7, confidential.Refuge: refuge.org.ukWomen’s Aid: womensaid.org.ukUN Women Global Resources: unwomen.org Keywords Fem Talk, fitness, health, mindset, women empowerment, 75 Hard Challenge, social media, sustainable fitness, mental health, self-discipline Follow us on Instagram: @femme_coaching_ @Ella_femme_coach @kaylesclarke @Victoria.mandi or checkout our website: www.femmesociety.co.uk

    50 min
  4. Do you feel pressured to have a big goal?

    04/11/2025

    Do you feel pressured to have a big goal?

    Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Fem Talk 01:01 Exploring the 75 Hard Challenge 04:30 Breaking Down the Rules of 75 Hard 10:54 The Impact of Daily Progress Photos 13:46 The Pressure of Extreme Fitness Goals 17:49 Finding Joy in Fitness Beyond Competition Takeaways The 75 Hard Challenge is seen as extreme and unsustainable. Sustainable fitness is more effective than extreme challenges. Language around food can impact mindset and behavior. No foods should be labeled as 'bad' or 'cheat'. Mental resilience can be built without extreme measures. Social media can create pressure to conform to extreme fitness goals. Finding joy in fitness is more important than competition. It's okay to take a break from competitive fitness. Personal happiness should be the ultimate goal in fitness. Listening to your body and taking rest days is crucial.  Summary In this episode of Fem Talk, hosts Ella and Kaylee discuss the 75 Hard Challenge, critiquing its extreme rules and the impact of social media on fitness goals. They emphasize the importance of sustainable fitness practices and finding joy in movement rather than competition. The conversation highlights the need for a balanced approach to health and fitness, focusing on mental well-being and personal happiness. Keywords Fem Talk, fitness, health, mindset, women empowerment, 75 Hard Challenge, social media, sustainable fitness, mental health, self-discipline Follow us on Instagram: @femme_coaching_ @Ella_femme_coach @kaylesclarke @Victoria.mandi or checkout our website: www.femmesociety.co.uk

    28 min

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A casual yet insightful podcast about all things female fitness, from training, to mindset to girl chat.