Real Moms Talk

Life of Real Moms

Real Moms Talk about real life parenting experiences through the lens of reel-life content.

Episodes

  1. 4 FEB

    Ep 10 “I Sacrificed Everything for You” – Guilt, Boundaries & Indian Parenting Patterns

    What do parents really mean when they say, “I sacrificed everything for you”? In this episode of Real Moms Talk, we watched this reel by @Yuktha and unpacked guilt, victimhood, boundaries, and the quiet emotional patterns we pass on to our children without realising it. From Indian parenting culture and generational guilt to kids questioning parents and parents learning from their kids, this conversation moves between funny, uncomfortable, reflective, and deeply relatable. Whether you’re a mom navigating boundaries, unlearning people-pleasing, or just wondering why your child sounds exactly like you, this episode feels like therapy with friends. In this episode we talked about: Why moms slip into “sacrifice mode” and how it creates guilt cyclesHow kids mirror our behaviour back at us (sometimes uncomfortably well 😅)Is parenthood really a choice or a generational expectation?How guilt shows up in Indian householdsHow our children reveal who we really are as parentsOur panel for this episode has 💜 Katerina 💛 Nupur 💗 ⁠Prithvi 💜 Nikita Watch the video version of this on on our ⁠⁠⁠YouTubeChannel⁠⁠⁠ Follow the podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ for extra fun content If today’s episode made you feel seen, please follow, rate, and review the show! Share it with a friend who needs a warm, relatable parenting podcast. DM us on Instagram or email ⁠⁠realmomstalkpod@gmail.com⁠⁠ with your thoughts, stories, or reflections — we LOVE hearing from you.

    37 min
  2. 24/07/2025

    Ep 9 Raat Jawaan Hai Ep 2 Deep Dive: Stay at Home Dads (SAHDs) - when Dads become the primary caregiver, Conflicting Parenting Values, Screentime Battles, and Superhero Moms (NOT!)

    In the last episode we started our deep dive into a series on Real Moms Talk - the SonyLiv show Raat Jawaan Hai — a warm, slice-of-life web series that follows three young parents navigating modern parenthood, friendships, relationships, and the chaos of everyday life in India. This is the second of an 8-part conversation series, where we unpack what the show stirred up for us as parents. In true Real Moms Talk style, this is not a show review. We’re not critiquing acting or screenplay. Instead, we’re pulling out relatable parenting moments, reflecting on them, and seeing how they mirror our real-life experiences as moms. ALSO, SPOILER ALERT! In this episode we talked about: Stay-at-home dads and societal double standards Screen time negotiations & invisible labor of mothers Mom guilt vs. Dad validation, and why it stings Why RJH feels too real (in a good way) Our panel for this episode has 💜 ⁠Archita⁠ 💛 ⁠Disha⁠ 💗 ⁠Nikita⁠ Watch the video version of this on on our ⁠⁠YouTubeChannel⁠⁠ Follow the podcast on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ for extra fun content If today’s episode made you feel seen, please follow, rate, and review the show! Share it with a friend who needs a warm, relatable parenting podcast. DM us on Instagram or email ⁠realmomstalkpod@gmail.com⁠ with your thoughts, stories, or reflections — we LOVE hearing from you.

    39 min
  3. 10/07/2025

    Ep 8 Raat Jawaan Hai Ep 1 Deep Dive: Childcare Struggles, Navigating Mom Guilt, and Finding Your Village

    We’re kicking off a brand new series on Real Moms Talk, diving into the SonyLiv show Raat Jawaan Hai — a warm, slice-of-life web series that follows three young parents navigating modern parenthood, friendships, relationships, and the chaos of everyday life in India. This is the first of an 8-part conversation series, where we unpack what the show stirred up for us as parents. If you’ve ever tried to plan a simple outing only to cancel because childcare fell through, or wrestled with the guilt of craving “me time” while also missing your kids, this episode will feel like a warm, understanding hug. In true Real Moms Talk style, this is not a show review. We’re not critiquing acting or screenplay. Instead, we’re pulling out relatable parenting moments, reflecting on them, and seeing how they mirror our real-life experiences as moms. What we talked about: The invisible mental load mothers (or primary caregivers) often carry, and why even small breaks feel hard to take.The bittersweet dance between craving “me time” and battling mom guilt.Finding your “village” and building mom friendships that align with your parenting values.Why it’s so hard to trust others with your kids, even for a few hours.The challenges of explaining to your partner why you need a break too. Our panel for this episode has 💜 Archita 💛 Disha 💗 Nikita Watch the video version of this on on our ⁠YouTubeChannel⁠ Follow the podcast on ⁠Instagram⁠ for extra fun content If today’s episode made you feel seen, please follow, rate, and review the show! Share it with a friend who needs a warm, relatable parenting podcast. DM us on Instagram or email realmomstalkpod@gmail.com with your thoughts, stories, or reflections — we LOVE hearing from you.

    54 min
  4. 15/05/2025

    Ep 3 Rewatching 3 Idiots as Moms (Part 2): Our take on the humour, villainised characters, and the birth scene!

    Part 2 of our 3 Idiots rewatch - this time, through a parenting lens. We talk bullying, childbirth (yes, that scene), rule-breaking, what success really means, and why jokes don’t land like they used to. If you haven’t caught Part 1, check out the previous Episode (#2) for context. Or not — starting with this works too. No pressure. Oh — and spoiler alert! (Which we should’ve added in Part 1, but come on — it’s been 15 years. We’re assuming you’ve seen the movie. More than once.) We discuss all plot twists openly. In this episode of Real Moms Talk, we bring a parenting lens to 3 Idiots — looking past the jokes to ask: Why did we laugh back then… and why don’t we now? From the movie, we discuss: The speech scene that once had us in splits The ragging we brushed off as harmless The characters we rooted against, but maybe misunderstood That childbirth scene (yes, the webcam-vacuum one) — and how it feels watching it now, having actually given birth And those discussions led to us reflecting on... Toxic humour in Bollywood and Indian pop culture How 3 Idiots treats accents, class, and language as punchlines Chatur’s character arc: clown, villain — or bullied kid? Suhas and Pia: flawed characters or unfair plot devices? The unrealistic childbirth scene and what it gets wrong Rule-breaking, drunk antics, and lack of accountability in college films Parenting, alcohol, freedom, and real boundaries If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate us - it really helps others discover the show and share a laugh. Follow the podcast’s social accounts for some extra fun content: Instagram | Facebook Check out the video version of the podcast on YouTube To work with us, please write to realmomstalkpod@gmail.com 🎙️ Real Moms Talk is created and produced by five real moms who are on a mission to bring real life honesty back to reel life parenting. This isn’t a guidebook to "perfect parenting" (because really, what even is that?) - it’s a celebration of the beautiful, messy, hilarious life of real moms. Follow the moms behind Real Moms Talk here:  Nikita | Disha | Archita | Nupur | Shabeena

    44 min
  5. 08/05/2025

    Ep 2 Rewatching 3 Idiots as Moms (Part 1): Following Your Passion, Career Pressure & the ‘Engineer Bano’ Life - what we've learnt from our experiences

    In Episode 2, we’re heading back to school (with popcorn, and possibly a therapy session or two). Archita, Nupur & Nikita, from the admin team, sat down to rewatch, rethink, and (lightly) roast 3 Idiots…  the Bollywood cult classic that once made us laugh, cry, and adopt “Aal izz well” as a life mantra!  But this time, we’ve put on a parent’s lens. When we first saw the film back in 2009-10, we were fresh out of college (or mid-career confusion), idealistic, and feeling things. Now, 15 years later, we’re moms raising kids who’ll be making those same choices soon. And oof… the pressure’s real! This isn’t your regular movie review though. We’re not here to critique the screenplay or direction. We’re here for honest conversations about what the movie sparked in us — then and now — and how it shaped the way we think about parenting today. Inside this episode, you’ll find: Nostalgia vs. new perspective: how 3 Idiots hit us then vs. now The emotional cost of “safe” career choices Why Rancho’s ‘passion-led’ rebellion may not age that well And how our own stories shape the way we want to guide our kids now The movie sparked some interesting questions and while we don’t have all the answers - we’re the generation that’s hopefully learning to ask better questions. Because now we’re the parents - the ones our kids will look to for direction, advice, and permission to dream. This is Part 1 of a 4-part series on our discussion about 3 Idiots — because we had so much to talk about. You’ll see ! If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate us - it really helps others discover the show and share a laugh. Follow the podcast’s social accounts for some extra fun content: Instagram | Facebook Check out the video version of the podcast on YouTube To work with us, please write to realmomstalkpod@gmail.com 🎙️ Real Moms Talk is created and produced by five real moms who are on a mission to bring real-life honesty back to reel-life parenting. This isn’t a guidebook to "perfect parenting" (because really, what even is that?) - it’s a celebration of the beautiful, messy, hilarious life of real moms. Follow the moms behind Real Moms Talk here:  Nikita | Disha | Archita | Nupur | Shabeena

    51 min
  6. 01/05/2025

    Ep 1 Real Moms React to Reels, Discuss Swearing, Parenting Gen Z Kids, Teacher Respect, and more | Real Moms Talk Podcast

    Welcome to the very first episode of Real Moms Talk! 🎉 We’re kicking things off the way real moms do best… with messy laughter, sharp observations, and a little bit of what-even-is-happening energy. If you’ve ever sent a meme to your mom-friends instead of explaining how you feel, or found yourself laughing and slightly horrified at modern parenting moments — this episode is for you. Join Nikita and the OG admin team behind Life of Real Moms as they sit down to watch some reels. From savage teacher comebacks to hilarious desi toddler moments, this episode is packed with laughter, nostalgia, and the kind of real talk that’s been missing from picture-perfect portrayals of motherhood in reel life. But it’s not just about the LOLs. We get real about: Swearing and kids coming across swear words How respect for teachers (and authority) is evolving in desi homes How parents influence the attitudes and the vocabulary of kids towards everything Learning to laugh at the chaos instead of stressing over it IMPORTANT: This episode includes a brief mention of student mental health and suicide. Listener discretion advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional. India Helpline (iCall): +91-91529-87821If you want to watch the reels we discussed in this episode, here are the links: 1. Reel 1 - Teacher’s Comebacks 2. Reel 2 - Funny Toddler ✨ Special thanks to our fabulous guests Akshaya and Tamanna, and of course, Disha from our past as well as present admin team for joining this conversation and keeping it real!  If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate us - it really helps others discover the show and share a laugh. Follow the podcast’s social accounts for some extra fun content: Instagram | Facebook Check out the video version of the podcast on YouTube To work with us, please write to realmomstalkpod@gmail.com 🎙️ Real Moms Talk is created and produced by five real moms who are on a mission to bring real life honesty back to reel life parenting. This isn’t a guidebook to "perfect parenting" (because really, what even is that?) — it’s a celebration of the beautiful, messy, hilarious life of real moms. Follow the moms behind Real Moms Talk here: Nikita | Disha | Archita | Nupur | Shabeena

    43 min
  7. 25/04/2025

    Real Moms Talk Trailer - Part 2 | The unfiltered podcast that discusses parenting content all around us with a tadka of our own experiences

    So.... We’ve been working on something behind the scenes for months now… quietly building, planning, overthinking (a LOT), redoing, and now… finally… it’s ready to go out into the world. Part 2 of our trailer is here and this time, we’re not just giving you a peek into our chat group… we’re inviting you to sit with us. Because this is what it’s all been leading up to — Real Moms Talk, the podcast🎙️ It’s honest, a little messy, very real (obviously 💁🏻‍♀️), and basically what you’d hear if you eavesdropped on a long-@ ss voice note from your mom friends that starts with “yaar, I need to vent” and ends somewhere on the other side of a ranting about something they saw online 😅 Every week, we’re going to talk about the parenting content we love, the stuff that drives us a little nuts, the movie moms that gave us trust issues (👀), the reels that make us feel seen, the WhatsApp forwards that need to STOP, and the expectations we’re all navigating — one totally relatable, totally chaotic conversation at a time. We’re not here to give gyaan (we tossed that out of the window early on lol). But if you’ve ever watched a reel or show and gone “ummm...is it just me???” — this podcast is 100% for you. 🗓️ First episode drops May 2nd 📆 We’ll be back every Friday after that with more stories, laughter, and lots of very loud opinions. We can’t wait for you to hear this. Truly. This has been a labour of love and madness, and it means the world that we finally get to share it with you 💛  With love, Nikita, Disha, Archita, Nupur, and Shabeena

    2 min

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Real Moms Talk about real life parenting experiences through the lens of reel-life content.