QUESTION EVERYTHING

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Behind every headline is a person + a deeper story. Question Everything with journalist Danielle Robay cuts through social media buzz to uncover the voices, ideas, and cultural moments that shape how we see the world. Each week, she asks bold questions that challenge assumptions and reveal the nuance behind the narratives, inviting you to look closer at the world, and at yourself. Because there's always more to the story. —— Danielle is also the creator of the bestselling QUESTION EVERYTHING card game series, which has sparked connection and conversation in thousands of living rooms around the world. She's also the co-executive producer (alongside Reese Witherspoon) and host of Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club. With her signature curiosity—dubbed "The Queen of Questions"—and a background in political science, Danielle brings both heart and rigor to every conversation. A Gloria Steinem Fellow and mentee of Larry King, she's carried forward a legacy of curiosity and connection, interviewing icons from Taylor Swift to Malala Yousafzai in more than 8,000 hours of elevated conversation.

  1. How to Tell the Story Only You Can Tell with Girlfriends Creator Mara Brock Akil

    19 hr ago

    How to Tell the Story Only You Can Tell with Girlfriends Creator Mara Brock Akil

    What if the stories that stay with us are really trying to tell us something about ourselves? In this episode, Danielle speaks with legendary television creator, writer, and showrunner Mara Brock Akil, the creative force behind Girlfriends, The Game, Being Mary Jane, Love Is, and now the debut novel The Revelation of Dionne Daphne. Together they explore the deeper questions that have fueled Mara's work for more than three decades: friendship, identity, ambition, shame, love, healing, and why the stories we tell often reveal who we are before we even realize it ourselves. Mara reflects on creating some of television's most iconic female characters, the Black Hollywood renaissance of the 1990s, why our closest friends become the "surrogate parents" of adulthood, and how journaling—even for an audience of one—can become an act of healing. In this episode you’ll also learn: What inspired Mara to write her debut novel, The Revelation of Dionne Daphne. Mara reflects on creating Girlfriends and its lasting cultural impact. How Girlfriends changed the way women saw themselves on television. The Black Hollywood renaissance that transformed television in the 1990s. Lessons from creating The Game, Being Mary Jane, Love Is, and more. Where Mara finds inspiration for her unforgettable characters. Why imperfect women make the most meaningful protagonists. The role shame, desire, identity, and love play in every great story. Why Mara believes our girlfriends become our surrogate parents. The surprising reason she thinks friendship becomes the foundation of adulthood. The question Mara asks before writing every story. Why storytelling is one of the most powerful tools for self-understanding. Mara explains why journaling can be the beginning of healing. Why your story matters—even if the audience is only you. How great stories help us understand who we're becoming.   Make sure to grab a copy of Mara’s novel The Revelation of Dionne Daphne here.   Follow Mara on Instagram here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 16min
  2. You Will Marry the Wrong Person (Couples Therapist Vienna Pharaon)

    25 Jun

    You Will Marry the Wrong Person (Couples Therapist Vienna Pharaon)

    What if the biggest challenge in your relationships isn't finding the right person, but understanding the person doing the choosing? This week on QUESTION EVERYTHING, relationship therapist and bestselling author Vienna Pharaon joins Danielle to unpack the hidden wounds that shape our dating lives, relationships, and marriages. From the five core origin wounds we all carry to the surprising reason we keep repeating the same patterns, Vienna explains how childhood experiences quietly influence who we're attracted to, what we tolerate, and why some relationships feel impossible to leave. Together, they explore the difference between chemistry and compatibility, why awareness alone isn't enough to create change, how emotional maturity transforms relationships, and the questions healthy couples ask that most people avoid. Plus, Vienna shares her thoughts on modern dating, reality TV relationships, betrayal, healing, and the one question everyone should ask themselves about their childhood. In this episode, you’ll also learn:  Why Vienna believes most relationship problems start long before we meet our partners The five core wounds shaping your dating patterns, relationships, and marriage How childhood experiences influence who you're attracted to and why you stay The surprising reason we often choose familiarity over healthy love Why awareness alone isn't enough to break unhealthy relationship patterns How to identify whether you're choosing someone from love or from a wound The hidden connection between shame, emotional immaturity, and defensiveness Why people-pleasing and shape-shifting can sabotage your relationships How childhood attachment wounds show up in dating and long-term partnerships Why emotionally mature couples handle conflict differently The relationship questions healthy couples ask that most people avoid Vienna's take on Love Island, Love Is Blind, and what reality dating shows reveal about modern relationships Why "if they wanted to, they would" isn't always true Vienna weighs in on Kylie Jenner and Timothée Chalamet's romance and why she thinks they’ll last  The one childhood question that could completely change how you understand yourself and your relationships   Make sure to check out Vienna’s book The Origins of You, and follow her on Instagram @mindfulmft  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    54 min
  3. 11 Jun

    Peptides, Ozempic, Lies + Health Hacks: What Actually Works? with Harley Pasternak

    Peptides are everywhere. Ozempic won't leave the headlines. And social media seems determined to convince us that the next health breakthrough is only one purchase away. So what's actually worth paying attention to? In this episode, Danielle welcomes celebrity trainer, nutrition scientist, and bestselling author Harley Pasternak for an unfiltered conversation about the biggest wellness trends dominating the internet right now. From peptides and Ozempic to detoxes, supplements, fiber-maxxing, and celebrity health culture, Harley breaks down what's backed by science, what's overhyped, and what's potentially dangerous. In this episode, you'll learn: Why Harley says most peptides being promoted online are essentially an uncontrolled experiment on human beings The surprising reason he trusts Ozempic and GLP-1s, but remains deeply skeptical of most other peptides The scary reality of what's actually being found inside many peptides sold online Why "Big Pharma doesn't want you to know" is often a red flag, not a revelation The wellness trend Harley says has absolutely no evidence behind it How social media created a generation of people taking supplements they can't explain Why Harley changed his mind about Ozempic after years of opposing it The concept of "food noise" and what GLP-1s may actually be doing inside the brain The shocking reason Harley walked away from The Biggest Loser before it became a hit Why focusing on weight loss can make you less healthy (and what to focus on instead) The Viktor Frankl quote that completely changed Harley's approach to health, happiness, and success The lesson about weight loss that most busy people miss Why intermittent fasting may be a lot less revolutionary than you've been led to believe The one form of exercise Harley believes every woman should prioritize—even if she hates it What working with Jessica Simpson, Megan Fox, Halle Berry, and the Kardashians taught Harley about discipline and success In a world obsessed with hacks, shortcuts, and miracle solutions, what Harley says actually works Make sure to follow Harley on Instagram @harleypasternak  Check out Harley’s latest book The Carb Reset here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 6min
  4. 4 Jun

    The Math Behind Modern Womanhood: With Corinne Low

    Women entered the workforce. We got the degrees. We built careers. So why do so many of us still feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and like we're falling behind? In this episode of Question Everything, economist, professor, and author Corinne Low helps us unpack the hidden economics of modern womanhood, from invisible labor and unequal leisure time to the surprising role our relationships play in our ability to become who we want to be. Corinne and Danielle explore what "having it all" actually means, why choosing a partner may be one of the most important decisions we'll ever make, and whether women are still making trades inside a social contract we never agreed to. Because this conversation isn't really about chores, marriage, or even economics. It's about a bigger question: What does becoming look like for us—and what are we willing to trade to get there? In this episode, you'll learn: Why women still perform trillions of dollars of unpaid labor every year What 400 extra hours a year could mean for our careers, health, creativity, and happiness Why equality at work didn't automatically create equality at home The hidden reason so many ambitious women feel perpetually exhausted Why Corinne says choosing a partner is one of the most important economic decisions we'll ever make The surprising quality that's sexier than "sexy" in a long-term relationship How invisible labor affects ambition, career growth, and self-worth Why resentment often starts with time, not money The trap many couples fall into when one person's goals take priority over the other's Corinne's argument that a happy marriage requires both people to be self-actualized Why "having it all" may be the wrong question entirely The tradeoffs every woman is making (whether she realizes it or not) How modern relationships can either accelerate or limit who we're becoming A question Danielle couldn't stop thinking about: What would you do with ten extra weeks of your life every year? Make sure to pick up a copy of Corinne’s book Having It All, here. Follow Corinne on Instagram here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 5min
  5. 28 May

    Why High-Achieving Women Can Still Feel Empty With Brooke Taylor (ex-Google)

    What if the version of success you’ve been chasing was inherited, not consciously chosen? In this episode, Brooke Taylor, former Google Marketing Lead turned career coach and author argues that many ambitious women are unknowingly suffering from what she calls “the success wound”: the belief that our worth has to be earned through achievement. From elite schools to prestigious careers, we’re taught to chase accomplishment as the path to freedom. But what happens when you finally get there… and still feel empty? Brooke opens up about how her own success nearly destroyed her career at Google and shattered her sense of self. She also details why achievement can become a coping mechanism, how comparison quietly shapes our identities, and why so many outwardly successful women are falling apart behind the scenes. Brooke shares: Why high achievers often feel empty after “making it” The hidden psychological cost of tying self-worth to achievement Why success can quietly become a coping mechanism The breaking point that led Brooke to leave Google and completely reevaluate her life What Healing the Success Wound reveals about burnout, ambition, and identity The difference between healthy ambition and trauma-driven hustle The five types of unfulfilled achievers: Grinder, Pleaser, Hider, Seeker & Work Hard Play Hard Why outward success doesn’t guarantee inner fulfillment The surprising reason high-achieving women experience more anxiety and burnout How perfectionism keeps women stuck playing small Why curiosity (not confidence) may be the real key to healing Why learning to make decisions with only 51% certainty can transform your confidence and self-worth The dangerous lie behind “I’ll relax once I get through this season” How to stop using productivity to prove your worth Practical ways to rebuild self-worth without losing your ambition Follow Brooke on Instagram @brookevtaylor Be sure to check out Brooke’s book Healing the Success Wound here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 10min
  6. 21 May

    This Is Why Your Dreams Haven’t Happened Yet: Morgan Radford (NBC News) on the Rejection Letters She Kept + the One Yes That Changed Everything

    What if you did everything right… and still weren't seen? NBC News anchor and author Morgan Radford is the kind of person who makes you rethink in real time. From being rejected by every local news station she applied to becoming one of NBC's most trusted correspondents and anchors, Morgan shares the truth behind her success and the moments that almost broke her. Inspired by her debut novel Now Then, this episode centers on the question passed down through generations of women in her family: "Where can we go to be whole?” In this episode, Morgan shares: The rejection letters she saved + the unpaid 2AM CNN internship that changed everything Why success doesn't protect you from feeling unseen The workplace moment she realized she could have a job, but not a career What it costs to be "the only one in the room" The love story that came back 12 years later + the pregnancy test she took that same night Why motherhood made her see the world "in Technicolor" The emotional inheritance passed down through the women in her family What writing Now Then forced her to confront about identity and vulnerability Her take on "fake news" and why journalism is at a breaking point The line that stopped Danielle in her tracks: "Dreams aren't something you have. Dreams are something you build." Grab a copy of Morgan’s debut novel Now Then here Follow Morgan on Instagram @morgankradford See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 6min
  7. 7 May

    Rachel Goldberg-Polin on Being a Tragic Optimist + Why Love Is the Strongest Force We Have

    On October 7, 2023, Rachel Goldberg-Polin's son Hersh was taken from the Nova Music Festival into Gaza. For 330 days, she and her husband John fought to bring him home; meeting with world leaders, speaking at the UN, and wearing a piece of tape on their chests with the changing number of days he'd been held captive. Hersh was murdered in captivity on day 330. In this raw and unforgettable conversation, Rachel sits down with Danielle to talk about her new book When We See You Again (NYT bestseller). She opens up about the reality of living inside grief, the pressure society places on people to “heal,” why she rejects toxic positivity, the philosophy of “tragic optimism” that now guides her life, and why she refuses to let her humanity break.In this episode, she shares:  The final two texts Hersh sent his parents and what they meant Why Rachel calls herself "disordered"  The story behind the tape that millions of people around the world started wearing "Toxic positivity" vs. "tragic optimism" — and the Viktor Frankl quote that Hersh lived by How Rachel held space for the suffering of mothers in Gaza while her own son was held there The one question she still can’t answer: “How are you?” Why Rachel says motherhood changed “the DNA” of who she is in the world The Jewish mystical idea that reframes why we're here at all What it means to mother a child who is no longer in this world Why Rachel says “hope is mandatory” even after unimaginable loss "Every soul comes to this world to do one act of kindness." The teaching that helps Rachel make sense of Hersh's life and her own Grab a copy of Rachel’s NYT bestselling book When We See You Again here Follow Rachel + her family on Instagram here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    57 min
  8. 30 Apr

    Erin Walsh on Styling Anne Hathaway, The Devil Wears Prada 2, and the Real-Life Andy Sachs Arc

    What if the way you get dressed every day is shaping more than your appearance? In this episode of Question Everything, Danielle speaks with celebrity stylist Erin Walsh, known for shaping the iconic looks of Anne Hathaway, to explore the deeper psychology of style, identity, and intentional living. From styling Selena Gomez, Sarah Jessica Parker and more, to her full-circle connection to The Devil Wears Prada and her new book The Art of Intention, Erin reveals why getting dressed is more than fashion. It's a daily practice of self-definition. If you’ve ever wondered how to become the person you’re meant to be, this conversation reframes transformation as something you choose—one decision at a time. In this episode you’ll also learn: Erin’s full-circle journey: from working at Vogue to becoming a The Devil Wears Prada fan, to styling Anne Hathaway on the The Devil Wears Prada 2 press tour What Erin has learned about fashion and pop culture from styling celebrities like Selena Gomez, Kerry Washington, and Sarah Jessica Parker The rise of “method dressing” and storytelling through red carpet fashion Why Erin believes “what should I wear?” is the wrong question, and what to ask instead The concept of intentional dressing and how it impacts confidence, identity, and performance The biggest lesson Erin learned from working at Vogue How to use fashion as a form of self-therapy and emotional regulation The “3-word method” to define how you want to feel each day Why most people disconnect from their personal style, and how to rebuild that connection The difference between dressing for the event vs. dressing for yourself Why criticism (and even harsh feedback) can be a creative advantage How small daily choices compound into major life direction shifts The role of intention in manifestation, success, and personal growth How many times a year you should be cleaning out your closet Why your closet might be holding you back, and how to turn it into a “portal of possibility” A new definition of transformation: becoming the you you were meant to be Make sure to check out Erin’s book The Art of Intentional Dressing here Follow Erin’s journey on Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    42 min

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Behind every headline is a person + a deeper story. Question Everything with journalist Danielle Robay cuts through social media buzz to uncover the voices, ideas, and cultural moments that shape how we see the world. Each week, she asks bold questions that challenge assumptions and reveal the nuance behind the narratives, inviting you to look closer at the world, and at yourself. Because there's always more to the story. —— Danielle is also the creator of the bestselling QUESTION EVERYTHING card game series, which has sparked connection and conversation in thousands of living rooms around the world. She's also the co-executive producer (alongside Reese Witherspoon) and host of Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club. With her signature curiosity—dubbed "The Queen of Questions"—and a background in political science, Danielle brings both heart and rigor to every conversation. A Gloria Steinem Fellow and mentee of Larry King, she's carried forward a legacy of curiosity and connection, interviewing icons from Taylor Swift to Malala Yousafzai in more than 8,000 hours of elevated conversation.

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