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Miss Reign is your safe space to rebuild, reclaim, and reign. This podcast is for women who’ve outgrown old roles—the good girl, the fixer, the silent one—and are ready to return to themselves. Expect real conversations, soulful guidance, and identity-reset reflections that help you rise with elegance, clarity, and power. Hosted by the Identity Reset Coach behind Miss Reign — guiding you to reign over your life with elegance, power, and softness. You don’t have to start loud. You just have to start.

  1. HÁ 3 DIAS

    25. The Scary Thing About 'Finding Yourself': What If You Don't Like Who You Find?

    You did the work. You healed the wounds. You processed the trauma. You set the boundaries. And now you're standing at the shore of your healing journey, finally meeting yourself—the real you, stripped of masks and performance. But here's the terrifying question no one talks about: What if you don't like who you find? What if your "authentic self" isn't who you thought you'd be? What if finding yourself reveals something uncomfortable? What if the real you makes you uneasy? This episode explores the scariest part of self-discovery—and what to do when meeting yourself feels wrong. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: - The myth of the "perfect authentic self" (why self-discovery isn't always comfortable) - Why finding yourself can trigger discomfort (3 psychological reasons) - The False Self vs. True Self (Dr. Donald Winnicott's framework) - Why authenticity threatens your relationships (differentiation theory) - Grieving who you thought you'd be vs. who you actually are - The critical difference between "I don't like me" and "I'm uncomfortable with truth" - What finding yourself actually reveals (complexity, needs, boundaries, evolution) - 5 practices to navigate the discomfort of authenticity - When the authentic you is worth the discomfort RESEARCH & PSYCHOLOGY MENTIONED: - Dr. Kristin Neff - Self-compassion and authentic messiness - Dr. Donald Winnicott - False Self vs. True Self theory - Dr. Murray Bowen - Differentiation in relationships - Dr. William Bridges - Transitions and the Neutral Zone - Dr. Richard Schwartz - Internal Family Systems (befriending all parts) KEY TAKEAWAYS: → Authenticity isn't always comfortable—your real self might have edges → You've been conditioned to be someone else; the True Self can feel wrong at first → When you change, relationships must change too (some won't survive your authenticity) → You might grieve who you thought you'd be vs. who you actually are → Critical distinction: Are you harmful or just honest? (Different responses needed) → Finding yourself reveals: You're complex, you have needs, you're not for everyone, you can evolve → Your authentic self might not be immediately likable—but it's respectable → The world doesn't need another performance; it needs the real you THE 5 PRACTICES: 1. Separate conditioning from truth (whose voice is the discomfort?) 2. Befriend parts you don't like (every part has positive intention) 3. Test authenticity in safe spaces first (don't reveal everything to everyone) 4. Grieve the version you thought you'd be (mourn the old identity) 5. Remember—finding yourself is not the endpoint (you're allowed to evolve) THE TWO POSSIBILITIES: Possibility 1: You find yourself and feel aligned, whole, home. Your work was worth it. Possibility 2: You find yourself and feel uncomfortable, confused, disappointed. This episode is for you. This episode is for anyone who's done the healing work and feels unsettled by who they've become, anyone scared of self-discovery, anyone who found parts of themselves they don't know how to accept, and anyone navigating the discomfort of authenticity. You don't have to like everything you find. But you have to meet yourself honestly. That's where freedom lives. Get freebies and connect with Miss Reign here!

    25min

  2. 12 DE FEV.

    24. The Ugly Healing Era: When You Get Worse Before You Get Better

    You started therapy. You're doing the work. You're journaling, setting boundaries, processing your feelings. And you thought you'd feel better by now. But instead? You're crying more. You're angrier. Old wounds you thought were healed are bleeding again. You're breaking down in places you used to hold together. And you're wondering: "Why do I feel worse? Is healing breaking me?" Here's the truth no one warns you about: Healing doesn't make you feel better first. It makes you feel everything first. The breakdown comes before the breakthrough. In this episode, we're diving into the ugly healing era—the phase where you get worse before you get better—so you don't give up right before your transformation. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: - Why healing makes you feel worse before better (neuroscience and psychology explained) - The phases of healing no one talks about (honeymoon, excavation, breakdown, integration) - Why old wounds resurface when you start healing (the layers of healing) - The extinction burst: Why your symptoms intensify before they disappear - How suppressed emotions flood in when you remove coping mechanisms - Neuroplasticity and brain rewiring: Why your brain resists new patterns - The difference between healing pain and staying-stuck pain - 5 practices to navigate the ugly era without giving up - When to keep going vs. when to pause RESEARCH & PSYCHOLOGY MENTIONED: - Dr. Bessel van der Kolk - The Body Keeps the Score (trauma storage in the body) - Dr. Rick Hanson - Neuroplasticity and rewiring the brain - Dr. Peter Levine - Somatic Experiencing and layers of healing - Extinction burst theory (behavioral psychology) - The ECG principle: Flat line = death, up-and-down = alive KEY TAKEAWAYS: → Healing is non-linear—up and down means you're alive, not failing → When you remove coping mechanisms, suppressed emotions flood in → Your brain resists new neural pathways and fights to keep old patterns → Extinction burst: Symptoms intensify before they disappear (this is normal) → Old wounds resurface in layers—you're healing deeper, not regressing → Healing pain moves you forward; staying-stuck pain keeps you circling → The breakdown is you falling apart to rebuild stronger → You're not getting worse—you're feeling what you suppressed THE 5 PRACTICES FOR UGLY HEALING: 1. Normalize the mess (healing isn't pretty—expect chaos) 2. Create a healing container (time, space, people, energy boundaries) 3. Track patterns not days (zoom out—measure months, not moments) 4. Get support—you can't heal alone (therapy, coaching, community) 5. Remember why you started (anchor to your purpose when you want to quit) PERMISSION TO FEEL: You're allowed to cry. To rage. To grieve. To break down. You're not a superhuman. This is the darkness before your breakthrough. If you give up now, you can always come back—but if you can keep going, the version of you on the other side is worth meeting. This episode is for anyone in therapy feeling worse, anyone questioning if healing is worth it, anyone breaking down and wondering if they're broken, anyone who needs permission to be messy while becoming whole. You're not getting worse. You're getting real. And real is messy before it's beautiful. Connect with Miss Reign!

    24min

  3. 5 DE FEV.

    23. The Waiting Room Era: What to Do When Life Puts You on Pause

    You lost the job. The relationship ended. The door closed. And now you're waiting—with no idea when your name will be called. If you're in a season where life feels stuck, paused, or like nothing is moving... this episode will change how you see waiting forever. The uncomfortable truth: The pause isn't punishment. It's preparation. And what you do in the waiting room determines who you become when you finally get called. In this episode, we break down the psychology, neuroscience, and spiritual wisdom of navigating life's in-between seasons—when you're no longer who you were, but not yet who you're becoming. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: - Why waiting feels unbearable (neuroscience of uncertainty and dopamine drought) - The psychology of liminal space: Why "in-between" seasons are actually transformation accelerators - Islamic wisdom on Sabr (active patience vs. passive waiting) - The ECG principle: Why a flat line means death, but up-and-down means alive - Productive waiting vs. anxious waiting - The story of Prophet Yusuf (Joseph): The ultimate waiting room testimony - 5 practices to use your waiting season intentionally - When to push forward vs. when to surrender RESEARCH & PSYCHOLOGY MENTIONED: - Dr. Archy de Berker (UCL) - Neuroscience of uncertainty - Dopamine and the brain's response to waiting - Arnold van Gennep - Liminal space theory - William Bridges - Transition theory psychology - Islamic concept of Sabr (active patience) - Quran 2:153, 2:155, 39:10 on patience and testing - Prophet Yusuf's (Joseph) story - Years of waiting before elevation KEY TAKEAWAYS: → Uncertainty is more stressful than knowing bad news (neuroscience) → Waiting creates dopamine drought, triggering restlessness and distraction → Liminal space (the in-between) is where transformation happens → Sabr = active patience: Do your part, trust Allah with the timing → Divine delays are not divine denials → The ECG principle: Up-and-down means you're alive, flat line means death → Productive waiting focuses on internal preparation, anxious waiting spirals → The pause is preparing you for what you prayed for THE 5 PRACTICES FOR WAITING ROOM ERA: 1. Allow the grief, then redirect (honor disappointment, then choose trust) 2. Identify what you can control (focus energy on internal work) 3. Use waiting as preparation time (become who you need to be) 4. Practice Tawakkul (tie your camel, trust Allah with outcome) 5. Reframe the narrative (from "I'm stuck" to "I'm in preparation") PERMISSION TO FEEL: This episode starts by giving you permission to be sad, angry, disappointed. You're not a superhuman. Feel it fully—just don't drown in it. Transformation is non-linear. How would you know happiness without sadness? The smile without the cry? This episode is for anyone stuck in: career transitions, job loss, relationship endings, waiting for opportunities, life plateaus, or feeling behind while everyone else moves forward. You're not stuck. You're in the waiting room before your breakthrough. Connect with Miss Reign!

    26min

  4. 29 DE JAN.

    22. The Algorithm Is Reading Your Mind: How Your Feed Is Shaping Your Reality (Psychology + Spirituality)

    You mention something out loud. Phone in your pocket. Next time you open Instagram—there it is. An ad for exactly what you were talking about. Is your phone listening? Or is something more powerful happening? The uncomfortable truth: The algorithm isn't just reflecting what you want. It's shaping what you want. It's not just reading your reality—it's writing it. In this episode, we break down the psychology and spirituality of how your feed is quietly influencing your thoughts, beliefs, desires, and entire worldview—without you even noticing. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: - The science of predictive algorithms: How your phone predicts your desires with 95% accuracy without listening - Confirmation bias on steroids: How algorithms create echo chambers that feel like reality - The Reticular Activating System (RAS): How your brain filters 11 million bits of information per second based on what you consume - Emotional contagion: Why your mental state jumps between emotions in seconds - Islamic wisdom on guarding what you consume (relevant to all belief systems) - The spiritual principle: What you feed grows, what you starve dies - How your algorithm might be keeping you stuck in victim narratives, comparison, or fear - 5 practices to take back control and curate your algorithm intentionally RESEARCH & PSYCHOLOGY MENTIONED: - MIT & Stanford research on behavioral prediction (95% accuracy) - Dr. Eli Pariser - The Filter Bubble (echo chambers & algorithmic curation) - Reticular Activating System (RAS) neuroscience - Facebook emotional contagion study (2014) - Islamic teaching: Quran 17:36 on guarding your senses - Frequency and energy consumption KEY TAKEAWAYS: → Algorithms predict your behavior with 95% accuracy based on digital patterns → Your feed creates confirmation bias that makes your beliefs feel like objective truth → Your RAS filters reality based on what you've programmed it to notice through consumption → Emotional contagion means you absorb emotions from your feed without realizing it → What you consume affects your frequency, thoughts, beliefs, and reality → Your algorithm might be keeping you stuck in negative narratives → You can curate your algorithm to support your growth instead of sabotage it THE 5 PRACTICES TO TAKE CONTROL: 1. The Feed Audit (observe how your feed makes you feel) 2. Intentional Curation (80/20 rule - 80% growth content, 20% entertainment) 3. The Content Detox (7-day reset for your algorithm and mind) 4. Guard Your Inputs (boundaries around consumption) 5. Use the Algorithm for Good (train it to serve your vision) This episode is for anyone who feels watched by their phone, influenced by their feed, or struggling with anxiety, comparison, or overwhelm from social media. You're not paranoid. You're aware. And awareness is power. Connect with Miss Reign!

    25min

  5. 22 DE JAN.

    21. The Overstimulation Epidemic: Why Your Brain Can't Rest (And How to Reclaim Your Peace)

    Your brain isn't broken. You're not lazy. You're overstimulated. If you feel like you can't focus anymore, like resting makes you anxious instead of relaxed, like you're constantly behind even when you're doing "nothing"—this episode will change everything. We're living in the most stimulating era in human history, and no one taught us how to protect our nervous system from it. Notifications, screens, infinite content, and constant comparison—all competing for your attention, all day, every day. In this episode, we break down the overstimulation epidemic: what it's doing to your brain, your nervous system, and your peace—and how to reclaim your attention without disappearing from modern life. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: - The neuroscience of overstimulation (why your brain feels tired but wired) - Dopamine overload & resistance: Why things that used to feel good now feel dull - Attention fragmentation: Why you can't focus like you used to - How overstimulation dysregulates your nervous system - Why discipline alone doesn't fix this (and what actually does) - 4 gentle practices to reclaim your peace: boredom, micro-stimulation reduction, regulation, and protecting your mornings/evenings - The identity shift from stimulated to sovereign RESEARCH & SCIENCE MENTIONED: - Dr. Daniel Levitin - The Organized Mind (information overload) - Dr. Anna Lembke—Dopamine Nation (dopamine desensitization) - Dr. Gloria Mark—Attention fragmentation research (UC Irvine) - Dr. Stephen Porges—Polyvagal Theory (nervous system regulation) - Dr. Sandi Mann - The Science of Boredom (Default Mode Network) - Roy Baumeister—Ego depletion theory - Islamic concept of Sukoon (tranquility & rest) THE 4 GENTLE PRACTICES: 1. Create boredom on purpose (activate your Default Mode Network) 2. Reduce micro-stimulation (notifications, apps, transitions) 3. Regulate before you focus (30-second nervous system reset) 4. Protect your mornings & evenings (most sensitive times) This episode is for the woman who feels constantly overwhelmed but doesn't know why. For the woman who's "always tired" but can't rest. For the woman ready to reclaim her peace. You don't need to escape society. You need space. Space to think, feel, and hear yourself again. Connect with Miss Reign

    25min

  6. 8 DE JAN.

    20. The Detachment Era: Why Caring Less Made Me More Magnetic

    What if the reason nothing is flowing... is because you're gripping too tightly?Detachment is trending everywhere—but most people are doing it wrong. This episode breaks down the psychology behind why caring less makes you more magnetic and how to practice healthy detachment without becoming cold, avoidant, or emotionally unavailable. TOPICS COVERED: - Attachment Theory & why chasing pushes people away - Outcome Independence & nervous system regulation - The Law of Reverse Effort - How to stop over-giving without hardening your heart - Why feminine magnetism comes from grounded self-trust - Islamic wisdom on Tawakkul (trust in divine timing) THE 4 PILLARS: 1. Feel fully, don't suppress 2. Stop chasing clarity from people who haven't chosen you 3. Build a full life that doesn't orbit around one thing 4. Anchor into identity, not outcomes This is for the woman who's ready to stop proving and start choosing. For the woman who knows her worth isn't negotiable. Research mentioned: Attachment Theory (Bowlby & Ainsworth), Self-Determination Theory (Deci & Ryan), Emotionally Focused Therapy (Dr. Sue Johnson), Paradoxical Intention (Viktor Frankl) Connect: Instagram Freebies!

    27min

  7. 31/12/2025

    19. Before You Plan 2026 Do This: The Raw 2025 Review Nobody's Talking About

    You're looking at your 2025 goals feeling behind. Most boxes unticked. That voice saying "you should've done more." But what if you're measuring the wrong things? This raw, unfiltered episode isn't about pushing you forward—it's about bringing you home. While everyone's creating 2026 vision boards, we're pausing to review 2025 with honesty, science, and zero judgment. In this episode: ✨ Why "slow years" are actually preparation, not punishment (spiritual + psychological perspective)✨ The research on why social media comparison is destroying your self-worth✨ What achievement ACTUALLY looks like (hint: it's not what you think)✨ The 7 journal prompts that will change how you see your entire year✨ Why you're not behind—you're in season Backed by research from: Positive psychology, neuroscience, social comparison theory, and eudaimonic wellbeing studies. If you kept going when you wanted to quit—you already won. Perfect for anyone feeling behind on goals, struggling with comparison, in a "waiting season," or ready to redefine success. 🔖 Free Resource:The Identity Reset Starter Map🌸 Freebie: The Self-Forgiveness Journal⁠THE NICE GIRL BOUNDARY BLUEPRINT💬 Connect With Us:Instagram: @themissreignEmail: Miss Reign ⭐ Loved this episode? Leave a 5-star review and share it with someone who needs to hear this message.

    25min

  8. 18/12/2025

    18. AI Era Identity: Why Reinvention Is No Longer Optional for Modern Women

    The world is changing faster than ever—and many women are quietly feeling it. In this episode of Miss Reign, we explore what it truly means to evolve your identity in the AI era — without losing your softness, intuition, or self-trust. As artificial intelligence reshapes work, productivity, and value, many women are realizing that the old labor-based identity—“I am worthy because I work hard”—is no longer sustainable. In this conversation, we unpack: Why identity tied only to output, creates anxiety in times of rapid change The difference between labor-based worth and leverage-based selfhood How feminine intuition becomes an edge in an AI-dominated world Why reinvention is emotional, not just strategic How to adapt without abandoning who you are This episode is for the woman who feels like she’s outgrowing her old life — quietly, internally, and deeply. You are not behind. You are evolving. 🎧 Listen if you’re ready to reign from within—gently, wisely, and on your own terms.⁠Share your thoughts with me!

    10min
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Miss Reign is your safe space to rebuild, reclaim, and reign. This podcast is for women who’ve outgrown old roles—the good girl, the fixer, the silent one—and are ready to return to themselves. Expect real conversations, soulful guidance, and identity-reset reflections that help you rise with elegance, clarity, and power. Hosted by the Identity Reset Coach behind Miss Reign — guiding you to reign over your life with elegance, power, and softness. You don’t have to start loud. You just have to start.

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  • Criado por
    Miss Reign
  • Anos de atividade
    2025 - 2026
  • Episódios
    26
  • Classificação
    Livre
  • Copyright
    © Miss Reign
  • Site do podcast
    Miss Reign