The Relationship Pod

Sarah Boutros

Welcome to "The Relationship Pod," where your host, Sarah Boutros, a seasoned relationship coach, delves into the intricacies of human connections. Whether you're navigating the complexities of romantic relationships, building stronger family bonds, or fostering deeper friendships, this podcast is your go-to resource for practical advice, insightful conversations, and expert guidance. Join Sarah as she shares her extensive knowledge, engages with guests from diverse backgrounds, and answers your most pressing questions about love, communication, trust, and everything in between. Each episode is designed to help you cultivate healthier, happier, and more fulfilling relationships. Tune in and transform your relationships one episode at a time. Subscribe now and start your journey to better connections with "The Relationship Pod."

  1. Anxious Attachment & Dating Dynamics: Insights with Sarah, Reshma & Aanu

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    Anxious Attachment & Dating Dynamics: Insights with Sarah, Reshma & Aanu

    In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible therapists of The SECURE Method, Reshma and Aanu, to explore dating dynamics that look fine on paper but leave you questioning your standards, expectations, and attachment style. We cover scenarios like partners who are amazing in person but inconsistent between dates, or who rush emotional depth before it’s earned. Here are some of the key insights from our conversation: → Recognize and understand your own needs and desires before expecting others to meet them → Rushing emotional depth can backfire; depth should be earned and built on consistency → Consistent communication is essential, but your expectations are valid—your needs are not “too much” → Play, vulnerability, and curiosity are powerful ways to build trust and emotional safety → Set healthy boundaries and communicate openly about what makes you feel safe → Emotional safety is demonstrated through collaborative problem-solving and aftercare after difficult conversations → Compromise is okay, but not at the cost of abandoning your own needs → Recognize patterns from anxious attachment and learn to respond in ways that honor yourself →True emotional connection is built gradually, with a foundation of trust, consistency, and mutual care If you’ve ever felt anxious about mixed signals, unsure how much to compromise, or wondering if someone is “safe” to open up to, this conversation offers compassionate guidance and practical tools for navigating dating with clarity and confidence.

    45min
  2. Are Your Hormones Destroying Your Relationships?

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    Are Your Hormones Destroying Your Relationships?

    In this episode of The Relationship Pod, I sit down with Rebecca, a holistic nutritionist who shares her deeply personal journey of healing from the inside out. Rebecca opens up about the years she spent disconnected from her body, struggling with painful periods, migraines, mood swings, and emotional chaos, until she realized her body had been begging her to slow down and listen. What started as a fight against symptoms turned into a journey of self-compassion, nervous system regulation, and emotional safety. We talk about how blood sugar imbalances, stress, and self-criticism don’t just affect your hormones, they ripple into how you show up in your relationships and love. Her story is a reminder that healing isn’t about doing more; it’s about learning to be with yourself again. 🎧 Inside this conversation: ✨ Why PMS isn’t normal, and what your body’s trying to tell you ✨ The link between hormones, emotions, and relationships ✨ How nervous system regulation changes everything ✨ The truth about self-love, and why empathy is medicine If you’ve ever felt like your body is working against you, this episode will help you see that it’s always been trying to protect you. 🤍 🎧 Tune in now on The Relationship Pod and tag us with your favorite takeaway! Follow Rebecca on Instagram @re.nutrify for more insights on holistic healing and hormone balance. And follow @therelationshippod for more conversations that help you heal, grow, and love differently.

    33min
  3. Meet Aanu, Clinical Psychiatrist, Psychologist & Relationship Coach @ The SECURE Method

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    Meet Aanu, Clinical Psychiatrist, Psychologist & Relationship Coach @ The SECURE Method

    In this episode of The Relationship Pod, Sarah introduces Aanu Ojo, the newest member of The Secure Method team. She’s a Clinical Psychologist, Relationship Coach, and Trauma Specialist who has spent the last six years helping people heal relational wounds, break free from insecure attachment patterns, and build secure, healthy connections. Aanu opens up about how her curiosity and childhood experiences in a tense, religiously strict household led her to psychology, first as a way to understand herself, and later as a way to help others name and validate their own stories. Through her work, she’s seen how powerful it is when someone can finally say, “This isn’t okay, and I deserve better.” She shares her thoughts on the healing power of relationships, the importance of learning to trust your gut, and why true healing doesn’t happen in isolation but through new, safe connections. With training across cultures and approaches like CBT, ACT, and the Gottman Method, Aanu brings a blend of curiosity, compassion, and cultural understanding to her work with individuals and couples. From supporting women reclaim their independence after abuse to helping couples rebuild communication, Aanu’s story is one of resilience, growth, and deep empathy. She reminds us that love can be both the wound and the medicine. If you ever needed proof that healing and secure love are possible, meet Aanu, the heart behind it.

    23min
  4. How Art Heals Trauma with Annie Rees

    26/06/2025

    How Art Heals Trauma with Annie Rees

    In this episode of The Relationship Pod, I sit down with art therapist Annie Rees to explore how creativity can be a powerful path to healing trauma. Annie shares her journey from a high-pressure fitness lifestyle to a health crisis that woke her up to the importance of listening to her body. Through body painting, abstract art, and nervous system-informed practices, she found deep healing—and now helps other women do the same. We talk about how art therapy supports nervous system regulation, especially for those who struggle with traditional mindfulness tools. Annie breaks down the neuroscience behind practices like the bilateral butterfly exercise and offers practical tools anyone can try—whether you're dealing with perfectionism, dissociation, or just want to reconnect with your body. You’ll learn simple, accessible ways to ground yourself through play, nature, and creative expression—even if you don’t have a therapist or partner to co-regulate with. This episode is full of wisdom for anyone healing from trauma or looking for new ways to connect with themselves. 🎨 Topics we cover: → Annie’s personal healing journey through art → How body painting and play can help with trauma and dissociation → The science behind creative regulation tools like bilateral drawing → What to do when perfectionism or shame blocks your creativity → At-home exercises for grounding, connection, and nervous system balance → Why co-regulation is so powerful during healing This conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t have to be quiet or still—it can be messy, playful, colorful, and deeply creative.

    38min

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Welcome to "The Relationship Pod," where your host, Sarah Boutros, a seasoned relationship coach, delves into the intricacies of human connections. Whether you're navigating the complexities of romantic relationships, building stronger family bonds, or fostering deeper friendships, this podcast is your go-to resource for practical advice, insightful conversations, and expert guidance. Join Sarah as she shares her extensive knowledge, engages with guests from diverse backgrounds, and answers your most pressing questions about love, communication, trust, and everything in between. Each episode is designed to help you cultivate healthier, happier, and more fulfilling relationships. Tune in and transform your relationships one episode at a time. Subscribe now and start your journey to better connections with "The Relationship Pod."