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Real talk about running farms and raising families. Whether your farm is a raised bed in your backyard or 10,000 acres and whether your family is in the planning stages or you've got 12 kids, we're glad you found us!

No sales, no religious conversion, no drama. Just honest talk from two mamas who know what it's like when everyone is telling you to just get all your meals delivered and do all your shopping online, but your internet is too slow and you've got cows to feed.

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Barnyard Language Caite Palmer and Arlene Hunter

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 18 Ratings

Real talk about running farms and raising families. Whether your farm is a raised bed in your backyard or 10,000 acres and whether your family is in the planning stages or you've got 12 kids, we're glad you found us!

No sales, no religious conversion, no drama. Just honest talk from two mamas who know what it's like when everyone is telling you to just get all your meals delivered and do all your shopping online, but your internet is too slow and you've got cows to feed.

This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:

Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy

    Family Farm & Parenthood Transitions with Lexi Wright

    Family Farm & Parenthood Transitions with Lexi Wright

    In this conversation, Lexi Wright shares her experience of balancing work, family, and the transition of a family farm. She discusses the challenges and importance of communication in farm transitions, emphasizing the need for open dialogue and planning. Lexi also talks about the pressure of leaving a legacy and the realities of juggling work and childcare. The conversation highlights the need to let go of expectations and prioritize what works best for each individual family. In this conversation, Lexi Wright shares her experiences as a working mom on a farm and provides insights into transitioning from work to family life. She also offers valuable marketing tips for farm businesses and discusses the challenges and joys of raising kids on the farm. Lexi highlights the importance of managing different personalities and needs within the family and shares her struggles with sleep as a parent. The conversation concludes with a lighthearted discussion on cussing and discussing dirty dishes and weird kid obsessions.
    Connect with Lexi
    https://backpocketsocial.com/https://www.instagram.com/wrightatthemomenthttps://pod.link/1652386715https://www.facebook.com/backpocketsocialhttps://www.youtube.com/@wrightatthemoment/videos
    We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.
     You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.
    If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at barnyardlanguage@gmail.com.
    Takeaways
    Open communication is crucial in farm transitions to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts.Planning for the future of the farm and discussing it with family members is essential.Balancing work and family can be challenging, and it's important to prioritize and let go of expectations.Leaving a legacy involves working towards financial security and setting goals for the future. Transitioning from work to family life can be challenging, especially for working moms on a farm. Finding ways to shut off work brain and create a clear separation between work and family time is important.When marketing a farm business, clarity and knowing your goals and audience are key. Focus on creating content that aligns with...

    • 1 hr 27 min
    Budgeting on the Farm with Australian guest, Carmen Quade

    Budgeting on the Farm with Australian guest, Carmen Quade

    We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.
     You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.
    If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at barnyardlanguage@gmail.com.
    Follow Carmen & AgriFocused Online
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/agrifocused/
    Website: https://agrifocused.com.au/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/agrifocused/
    In this conversation, Caite & Arlene interview Carmen Quade, a farmer and business owner from Australia. They discuss Carmen's farming background, her business AgriFocus, and the challenges farmers face in office management. They also talk about the importance of financial planning and succession planning in agriculture. Carmen shares insights on incorporating kids into farm businesses and teaching them about finances and business management. They also discuss the transition to parenthood and balancing the needs of a large family with farm responsibilities. The conversation explores the challenges of balancing the needs of children of different ages and personalities. It delves into the difficulties of managing the needs of teenagers and younger children in a household. The speakers discuss the benefits of having children of similar ages and the joys of the golden stage of two primary school-aged children. They also touch on the pressures of succession and the importance of creating a comfortable and enjoyable life on the farm to attract potential successors. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the convenience of grocery delivery and the challenges of driving with teenagers.
    Takeaways
    Financial planning and succession planning are crucial for the long-term success of farm businesses.Incorporating kids into farm businesses can teach them valuable skills and provide opportunities for entrepreneurship.Teaching kids about finances and business management from a young age can help them develop important life skills.The transition to parenthood can be challenging, but finding a balance between family and farm responsibilities is possible.
    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and What Are You Growing?01:14 Carmen's Ag Background and AgriFocus Business08:30 Challenges Farmers Face in Office Management09:56 Importance of Financial Planning and Succession Planning18:15 Incorporating Kids into Farm Businesses26:17...

    • 1 hr 28 min
    Swine Obstacle Courses, the Joy of Aging, and Agritourism with Jenn Colby

    Swine Obstacle Courses, the Joy of Aging, and Agritourism with Jenn Colby

    We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.
     You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.
    If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at barnyardlanguage@gmail.com.
    In this conversation, Arlene and Caite interview Jen Colby, a farmer from Vermont, about her experiences in agriculture and agritourism. Jen shares her journey into farming and the various businesses she runs, including a podcast, farm stays, and an Airbnb. She discusses the challenges and rewards of hosting farm stays and the importance of managing profitable farm businesses. Jen also highlights the lessons she has learned from first and skip generation farmers and the considerations and regulations involved in starting farm stays. In this part of the conversation, the topics discussed include farmstay structures and privacy, advice for couples in farming relationships, parenting challenges on the farm, raising an only child on the farm, parenting advice, and Jenn's dominant category at the county fair: swine obstacle course. In this conversation, the hosts discuss various topics related to personal experiences and interests. They cover unconventional animal agility, repetitive motion injuries from parenting, the frustrations of aging, supporting children's interests, and the art of info dumping and special interests.
    Connect with Jenn Online
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hwfarmvt/
    Podcast: https://www.choosingtofarm.com/
    Takeaways
    Farm stays and agritourism can be a profitable and rewarding addition to a farming business.Hosting farm stays requires careful consideration of time commitments, marketing, and maintenance.First and skip generation farmers bring unique perspectives and creativity to the agricultural industry.Succession planning can be a complex and emotional process, requiring open communication and honest discussions.Navigating bureaucracy and regulations is an important aspect of starting and managing farm stays. Farmers face unique challenges when it comes to hosting farmstay guests due to the layout and privacy of their farms.Communication and understanding are key in relationships where one partner is a farmer and the other is not.Parenting on the farm can be isolating, but finding ways to spend quality time with your child and following their interests can help strengthen the relationship.There is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting, and it's important to respect and support your child's individuality

    • 1 hr 42 min
    Ontario Farmer, Diane Bergsma is Providing a Solution for Farmers in Need of Mental Break

    Ontario Farmer, Diane Bergsma is Providing a Solution for Farmers in Need of Mental Break

    We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.
     You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.
    If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at barnyardlanguage@gmail.com.
    Diane Bergsma shares her experience of raising a family on a farm and the challenges and joys that come with it. She also discusses the loss of her son, Dallas, and how it inspired the creation of Three Oaks Cabin, a retreat for farmers and first responders. The cabin provides a space for reflection and rejuvenation, with the goal of preventing tragedies and promoting joy and purpose in life. Diane emphasizes the importance of community support and the role it played in making the project possible. The conversation explores the contributing factors for suicide among first responders and farmers, the importance of supporting someone in crisis, creating space for mental health conversations, growing hope and redefining identity, prioritizing self-care in agriculture, rebuilding intimate agricultural communities, and recognizing the importance of volunteer fire departments.
    Connect with Three Oaks Cabin
    Learn more here: https://www.threeoakscabin.com/
    Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100083395868106
    Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/3oakscabin/
    Takeaways
    Raising a family on a farm provides opportunities to teach children about the beauty of life, the value of hard work, and the fragility of life.Parenting involves creating a sense of security and trust in children, while also preparing them to stand on their own and think for themselves.The loss of a child can be a catalyst for positive change and the creation of meaningful projects that benefit others.Community support and partnerships are crucial in bringing a vision to life and making a positive impact on the lives of others. First responders and farmers are more likely to contemplate or die by suicide due to factors such as mental fatigue, isolation, and trauma.Creating a supportive environment and normalizing mental health conversations can help individuals seek help and support.It is important to reach out to friends and family members who may be struggling and offer support and resources.Self-care and prioritizing mental health are crucial for individuals in the agriculture industry.Building strong and supportive...

    • 1 hr 27 min
    4-H, Advocating, and Farming Against All Odds with David Hafner

    4-H, Advocating, and Farming Against All Odds with David Hafner

    We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.
     You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.
    If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at barnyardlanguage@gmail.com.
    Episode Summary:
    This episode of Barnyard Language delves into the intricate balance of farm life, parenting, and community engagement with David Hafner. From the onset, it's clear that this conversation will take listeners on a journey through the trials and triumphs of rural living, as David shares his personal experiences and insights on nurturing the next generation of agricultural leaders.
    In the show, David opens up about his journey from running a larger scale operation to downsizing and re-evaluating his farming practices. He shares the challenges of facing unpredictable incidents like predator attacks and the impact of relocating his farm. Furthermore, David delves into his role as a 4-H agent, emphasizing the value of youth programs in developing leadership, public speaking, and advocacy skills. The insights he shares illustrate the adaptability required in modern farming and the importance of fostering a strong sense of community involvement and support. With a focus on passing down knowledge and preparing young individuals for future challenges, David exemplifies the spirit of forward-thinking within the agricultural world.
    Key Takeaways:
    Transitions in Farming: David speaks about the challenges of downsizing his farming operation and finding new paths, highlighting the importance of adaptability in agriculture.Farm Predator Challenges: Encounters with predators like coyotes and the loss of livestock underscore the ongoing challenges farmers face in protecting their animals.4-H Youth Development: As a 4-H agent, David emphasizes the value of educating youth in skills beyond traditional farming, such as public advocacy and leadership.Parenting Perspectives: The conversation touches on individual growth and the differences between the childhood experiences of parents and their children.Community and Farming: David's experience as a foster parent and community activist reflects the deep connection between farming communities and the welfare of children.
    Resources
    David Hafner's Website: https://www.farmeradvocate.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@farmer_advocateInstagram: a href="https://www.instagram.com/farmer_advocate/" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

    • 1 hr 10 min
    Mental Health and Agriculture in New Zealand with Kathryn Wright

    Mental Health and Agriculture in New Zealand with Kathryn Wright

    We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.
     You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.
    If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at barnyardlanguage@gmail.com.
    Summary
    In this conversation, Kathryn Wright, a mental health professional and farmer from New Zealand, discusses various topics related to agriculture and mental health. She shares insights into the agriculture industry in New Zealand, including deer farming and agricultural exports. Kathryn also talks about her research on rural mental health and the barriers young rural men face in seeking help. She emphasizes the importance of social connection and understanding farming life in mental health care. Additionally, Kathryn provides guidance on supporting children and teens in grief, as well as navigating complex relationships in grief. In this conversation, Caite Palmer, Arlene, and guest Katherine Wright discuss various aspects of grief and death. They explore the importance of embracing grief as a natural part of loving people and the need to acknowledge death instead of avoiding it. The conversation also delves into changing attitudes towards death, including the practice of bringing the deceased home and spending time with them. Alternative end-of-life care options and the role of respite services are highlighted. The discussion also touches on finding comfort in concrete actions and balancing grief with daily responsibilities. The hosts and guest share their thoughts on avoiding platitudes in grief and the underinvestment in youth mental health. The conversation concludes with information on how to connect with Kathryn Wright.
    Takeaways
    Grief is a natural part of loving people, and it is important to embrace it rather than avoid it.Changing attitudes towards death include practices like bringing the deceased home and spending time with them.Alternative end-of-life care options, such as respite services, provide comfort and support for families.Finding comfort in concrete actions, such as helping with household tasks, can be a meaningful way to show love and support.Balancing grief with daily responsibilities can be challenging, and it is important to seek support and accept help from others.Grief is a lifelong companion, and while it may become lighter over time, it never fully goes away.Avoid using platitudes when comforting someone who is grieving, and instead offer genuine support and empathy.There is a need for greater investment in youth mental health to ensure early intervention and support for young people.Extending grace and kindness to others, as everyone carries their own burdens, can create a more

    • 1 hr 14 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
18 Ratings

18 Ratings

jblunn5 ,

Honest and interesting

I have been impressed with the variety of interviews and topics covered. Always a good mix of honest and challenging conversation, and fun.

LotstoLearnCDA ,

So refreshing!

The guests are really interesting and the hosts are honest, down-to-earth, smart and funny

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Something for Everyone

Two neat hosts and a wide assortment of guests means this pod has something for all kinds of listeners, whether you’re a farmer, parent or both!

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