Beneath The Story

Brea Segger

Every life has a story people can see. I'm interested in the story underneath. Beneath The Story is a podcast about the experiences that shape us long before we understand what they mean. Through conversations with athletes, entrepreneurs, artists, leaders, and other thoughtful people, we look back on the moments that changed them, what surprised them, and what only became clear with time. Not just what happened. What changed because it happened.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    EP 01 with Traver Boehm

    Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise, Man UNcivilized and 28 Days In Darkness. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. Most recently, Traver completed an extraordinary 49-day dark retreat and released his latest book chronicling his first such journey, 28 Days In Darkness. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity. Summary Of course, I wanted to know what happens to a person in 49 days without light. What comes up when so much of the outside world disappears. But I was just as interested in what happened when he came back out. We talk about what Traver encountered in the darkness, the fears and old pain that surfaced, and what the experience showed him about identity, relationships, and our need for one another. We also get into the ache we so often try to get rid of, what happens when the person we’ve known ourselves to be starts to fall away, and learning to live without needing to know exactly what comes next. Here’s my conversation with Traver Boehm. Episode Links https://traverboehm.com/ https://www.manuncivilized.com/ Instagram @traverboehm And all podcast platforms: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Traver Boehm and His Journey 03:03 Facing Fears and Life Transformations 06:01 The Dark Night of the Soul 09:07 The Power of Choice and Responsibility 12:04 The Dark Retreat Experience 15:06 The Importance of Human Connection 17:51 Lessons from the Dark Retreat 21:09 Emerging from Darkness and New Beginnings 38:15 The Epidemic of Loneliness 46:17 Facing Darkness: A Personal Journey 52:19 The Weight of Time in Solitude 01:00:28 Emerging from Darkness: Transformation and Growth 01:08:17 The Holy Ache: Connection and Authenticity

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Every life has a story people can see. I'm interested in the story underneath. Beneath The Story is a podcast about the experiences that shape us long before we understand what they mean. Through conversations with athletes, entrepreneurs, artists, leaders, and other thoughtful people, we look back on the moments that changed them, what surprised them, and what only became clear with time. Not just what happened. What changed because it happened.