Black Fluidity: Bi Black Men Talk

BlackFluidityPodcast

an examination of culture, current events, relationship, and sexual health viewed through African-descended bisexual and fluid male perspectives. BlackFluidity exists to build community for black bi men & our allies and to support & amplify diverse representations of the black bi male experience. With Cee Mo Love & Frank Le Roi Brun Connect with Us! blackfluiditypod@gmail.com IG @blackfluiditypod X @BlkFluidityPod Support our brandz! biblackmentalk.com biconicbrand.com

  1. 2025-01-30 · BONUS

    Polyamory & Monogamy

    Well, hey! It's been a while since we've holla'd at ya. How you holdin up? We've been on a little hiatus - or not so little, to be honest - focusing on life stuff, family milestones, and sometimes just barely keepin it together. Let the church say amen   In this episode which has been in the can since prior to our hiatus, our bi blank men take on the vast and rangy topic of polyamory & monogamy.   Along the way we get into the origin, meaning and nuance of the term polyamory in culture, as well as other terms like nonmonogamy and open relationships; we grapple with and debate our own conceptions of monogamy, as two folks that have long decided it's not for either of us; we explore class dynamics within the polyamorous community writ large, stimulated by relatively recent conversation around polyamory in mainstream media and social media; we even discuss the tricky phenomenon of polyamory (or nonmonogamy) as a fix for failed monogamous partnership;   And much more!  We hope you enjoy it, and we wanna hear your thoughts.     A few links to stuff & folks referenced in our convo:   Neo-pagan leader Morning Glory Zell Ravenheart - credited with originating the term 'polyamory' Tyler Austin Harper's article in The Atlantic which sparked our class convo The Ethical Slut, by Dossie Easton Polyamory advocate and educator Evita Sawyer Polysecure, by Jessica Fern Love's Not Color Blind, by Kevin Patterson Bisexual Married Men, by Rob Cohen

    1h 2m
  2. Terrel's Story

    2024-03-28

    Terrel's Story

    A powerful and deeply personal narrative shared by Terrell, a 23-year-old bisexual Black man who is also disabled. Born and raised in Decatur, Illinois, Terrell opens up about his journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and the challenges he faces at the intersection of his identities. From an early age, Terrell felt different from others, grappling with societal stereotypes and expectations tied to his race, sexuality, and disability. He speaks candidly about the internal conflict and self-hatred he initially felt upon realizing he was different, compounded by the difficulties of being Black and disabled in society.   Despite these challenges, Terrell's story is one of growth, self-love, and resilience. He recounts his adolescence, his first crushes on both a female and a male at the age of 16, and the process of coming out in a Christian household that had instilled fear of damnation for his sexuality. Terrell found solace and acceptance among friends who were also part of the LGBTQ+ community and through his involvement in a high school GSA (Gay-Straight Alliance), which provided a supportive environment to explore and affirm his identity.   Terrell's narrative also touches on the complexities of navigating sexual relationships, confronting biphobia, and the importance of connection over casual encounters. He emphasizes the significance of understanding and respecting LGBTQ+ history, advocating for self-education as a means to empower oneself and others.   He also reflects on the importance of embracing both his masculine and feminine sides, advocating for self-acceptance and the freedom to express oneself without fear of judgment. Terrell's journey is a testament to the power of self-acceptance, the value of supportive communities, and the strength found in embracing one's full identity. His story highlights the challenges and triumphs of living at the intersection of multiple marginalized identities, offering insights and encouragement to others navigating similar paths.

    26 min
  3. Ifadadefumi fasanmi Fayemi's Story

    2024-03-15

    Ifadadefumi fasanmi Fayemi's Story

    The speaker, Ifadadefumi fasanmi Fayemi (Dadefumi), shares an intimate and comprehensive account of his life, beliefs, experiences, and identities. Discussing his upbringing in Detroit within a supportive, artistically vibrant African American family, exploring themes of sexual fluidity, spirituality, family dynamics, artistic influence, polyamory, and societal expectations.    Dadefumi identifies as a cisgender, sexually fluid man of African descent, refusing traditional bisexual labels in favor of a more nuanced understanding of sexuality as a spectrum. He openly reflects on his journey of self-discovery, from childhood curiosities and challenges to his roles as a father, artist, and advocate for sexual fluidity and spiritual growth.    The narrative underscores his deep connection with his Yoruba spiritual roots, his experiences navigating polyamorous relationships, and his vision for the future of sexual fluidity framed as a 'superpower' tied to spiritual and natural alignments.    Dadefumi is a highly introspective, articulate, and multifaceted individual. He’s deeply rooted in his African heritage and spiritual beliefs while being an advocate for understanding and embracing the complexities of human sexuality and relationships.   Dadefumi's narrative is a rich exploration of his life as a cisgender, sexually fluid African American man, detailing his upbringing, artistic influences, family life, spiritual journey, and advocacy for a broader understanding of sexual identity and relationships. His story is a testament to self-discovery, acceptance, and the power of embracing one's full spectrum of identity.

    45 min

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an examination of culture, current events, relationship, and sexual health viewed through African-descended bisexual and fluid male perspectives. BlackFluidity exists to build community for black bi men & our allies and to support & amplify diverse representations of the black bi male experience. With Cee Mo Love & Frank Le Roi Brun Connect with Us! blackfluiditypod@gmail.com IG @blackfluiditypod X @BlkFluidityPod Support our brandz! biblackmentalk.com biconicbrand.com