Brandon The Dom

Brandon The Dom
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Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.

  1. JAN 30

    Discipline Isn’t Punishment: The Secret to a Thriving D/s Relationship

    Ever wondered how discipline can make your BDSM dynamic stronger and more erotic? Discover how expanding your understanding of discipline—beyond just punishment—creates structure, accountability, and deeper connection for both Dominant and submissive. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:16) - What is Discipline? (01:43) - Discipline vs. Punishment (02:44) - Why Use Discipline? (04:47) - Step 1: Start with Self-Discipline (06:20) - Step 2: Give the Dynamic a Purpose (09:52) - Step 3: Create a Code of Conduct (13:59) - Step 4: Use the Accountability Triangle (14:50) - Rewards (16:49) - Punishment (19:54) - Feedback (24:31) - Step 5: Adjusting the Code of Conduct ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Discipline Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖  Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖  Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards📖  Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖  Situationships: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship📖  Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations

    27 min

  2. JAN 30

    Tantric Eye Gazing: A Practice Far More Vulnerable Than Sex

    What if deeper intimacy could begin with a single gaze? Eye gazing is a powerful Tantric practice that helps couples and individuals build connection, trust, and presence by simply looking into each other’s eyes. Learn the difference between eye gazing and staring, why it’s so transformative, and how to start your own practice—solo or with a partner. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:22) - What is Tantric Eye Gazing? (02:12) - Eye Gazing vs. Staring (03:12) - Why Engage in Eye Gazing (07:28) - How Does This Improve Your Relationship and Sex Life? (08:46) - How to Engage in Tantric Eye Gazing (09:33) - How to Eye Gaze with a Partner (13:15) - How to Eye Gaze on Your Own ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Eye Gazing Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing📖 Tantric Breathing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-breathing📖 Tantric Touch for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch📖 Tantric Sex Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex

    17 min

  3. JAN 30

    Predicament Bondage: Turning Submission into an Exhilarating Game

    Curious about predicament bondage? Discover how this unique form of BDSM combines restraint, creativity, and psychology to create thrilling challenges where the submissive must choose between pain, pleasure, or surrender. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What Is Predicament Bondage? (02:01) - Why Do People Enjoy Predicament Bondage? (03:59) - How to Design Predicament Bondage (04:29) - Risk Management & Safety (08:27) - Motivations (09:51) - Strategies (13:28) - Tips for the Submissive ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Predicament Bondage Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/predicament-bondage📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Pleasure Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖  Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖  Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards📖  Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments

    15 min

  4. JAN 30

    10 Unexpected Benefits of Dom-Sub Relationships

    Ever wondered what makes a Dom sub relationship so powerful? This video explores the potential benefits of power exchange within BDSM dynamics, from deeper intimacy to hotter passion. I discuss how these relationships can lead to personal growth and offers valuable relationship advice for those curious about this kink lifestyle. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:11) - What Are Dom/sub Relationships? (03:37) - Who Actually Has the Power in the Relationship? (06:08) - Benefit 1: Needs Are Met. Boundaries Are Respected. (08:54) - Benefit 2: You Establish Consent for Everything (12:04) - Benefit 3: Shared Purpose & Values (13:47) - Benefit 4: Clearly Defined Roles (16:28) - Benefit 5: Knowing What You're Supposed To Do (17:51) - Benefit 6: Becoming New Versions of Yourself (19:31) - Benefit 7: Exploration of Identity (21:17) - Benefit 8: Polarity & Erotic Tension (23:34) - Benefit 9: Intimacy Through Vulnerability (24:43) - Benefit 10: Sex in the Foreground ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Dom sub Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖  Shadow Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play📖  Situationships: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship📖  Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖  Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards📖  Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments📖  Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations📖  Bratting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖  Building trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust📖  Public Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play-party📖  Cockwarming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/cockwarming📖  Free Use: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/free-use-kink

    27 min

  5. JAN 30

    Your First BDSM Party: Here's What to Expect

    Ever wondered what really goes on at a BDSM Play Party? Learn how to survive your first event, turn nerves into confidence, and have an unforgettable night of kink, connection, and fun—without feeling lost or overwhelmed. ---👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:--- FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Play Party Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play-party📖 Munch: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-munch📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop📖 Sample vetting: https://flogandflow.com/resources/safety/

    41 min

  6. 2025-12-26

    Is a Free Use Kink Really Just Unlimited Sex?

    Curious about free use kink? Discover what it is, how it works, why people enjoy it, and the rules of consent that make it both thrilling and safe. Learn how to explore free use kink responsibly in this guide. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:09) - What is a Free Use Kink (03:49) - Types of Free Use (04:41) - Why Do People Enjoy Free Use? (06:28) - How to Engage in Free Use (09:58) - Free Use Scenarios to Try ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Free Use Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/free-use-kink📖 Limits & Boundaries: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Public Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/public-sex📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage

    13 min

  7. 2025-12-26

    Types of Doms: Which One Are You Meant to Be?

    Curious about which Dom you are—or could become? Explore the different types of Doms in BDSM, from classic Masters to sensual Pleasure Doms, and learn how to find or craft a persona that fits your true desires. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:15) - What is a Dom? (02:36) - Types of Doms (08:45) - How to Create Your Own Dominant Persona (11:59) - Step 1: Understand Yourself (12:22) - Understanding Your Desires (15:56) - Understanding Your Personality (17:50) - Understanding Your Values (18:58) - Step 2: Decide What You Do (19:15) - Choosing Activities (20:23) - Choosing the Energy in Your Behavior (21:39) - Choosing Your Tools & Toys (23:21) - Step 3: Craft How You Look (23:57) - Craft Your Wardrobe (24:49) - Craft Your Environment ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Types of Doms Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/types-of-doms📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play📖 Pleasure Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom📖 Brat Tamer: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage📖 Orgasm Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/orgasm-control

    27 min

  8. 2025-12-26

    How to Set Boundaries and Limits in BDSM

    What’s the difference between BDSM limits and boundaries—and why do they matter so much? Learn how to confidently set, communicate, and honor your BDSM limits and boundaries to create safer, hotter, and more connected power exchange dynamics. ---👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:16) - BDSM Limits vs. Boundaries (02:41) - Why Have Limits and Boundaries in BDSM? (05:07) - How to Discover Your BDSM Limits (07:46) - How to Set Boundaries (10:15) - Set Boundaries for What You Can Control ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Limits Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations📖 Ethical Non-monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy

    14 min
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Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.

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  • Creator
    Brandon The Dom
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    60
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Brandon The Dom
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    Brandon The Dom