Dad Without Borders

Blue Netherclift
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Modern fatherhood meets mountain grit. I’m Blue, host of Dad Without Borders — a podcast about raising kids across continents, navigating blended families, and staying connected against the odds. After losing custody of my eldest son, I found creative ways to keep our bond strong — even picking up a skateboard in my 40s so we had something to share across oceans. Each episode dives into the resilience and creativity of dads rewriting the fatherhood story, blending practical tools with soulful connection. This is fatherhood without borders. Connect: E-mail: dadwithoutborders@gmail.com Instagram: @dadwithoutborders Twitter: @WEadventure

  1. Dad Diary — The Father the Moment Demands

    8 HRS AGO

    Dad Diary — The Father the Moment Demands

    In this Dad Diary, I reflect on the dual challenges of fatherhood across distance and at home. Saying goodbye to my eldest son after a summer visit — complete with a broken arm and his first solo flight — pushed me to hold space for his sadness while staying steady. At the same time, helping my three-year-old navigate daycare transitions has reminded me that even small daily goodbyes ask for presence, consistency, and soft strength. What you’ll hear in this episode: The emotional goodbye of my son’s first solo flight back to the UKRituals our family uses to anchor connection through goodbyesHow daycare transitions mirror the bigger separationsReflections on Jason Wilson’s idea of being “the man the moment demands”

    24 min

  2. JUL 7

    The Journey Continues: Coming Soon – Introducing Dad Diaries

    In This Episode: Blue's podcast journey from 2020 pandemic start to presentHow a brutal custody battle became a gift for better parentingThe inspiration behind returning after a 2-year breakSeason 3 announcement: Dad Diaries format launching September 2025Upcoming Season 3 Topics: Handling anxiety in young childrenNavigating germ phobiaRaising a highly sensitive childManaging distance parenting as children approach teenage yearsStaying connected from afar - and should we?Time as a gift, not a sacrificeConnect with Blue: Visit bluenetherclift.com for more resources on international parentingFind all episodes at dad-without-borders-e10084dc.simplecast.comConnect with Blue on Instagram @dadwithoutbordersSeason 3: Dad Diaries launches September 2025 - subscribe wherever you get your podcastsResources Mentioned: International parenting challenges and solutionsBlended family dynamics across continentsProfessional consultation for parenting strugglesCommunity: Whether you're tuning in from Toronto or Tokyo, Manchester or the Middle East, if you're a parent trying to figure it all out, you're part of this community. Remember - there are no borders when it comes to a parent's love.

    8 min
  3. Archetypes, Leadership & the Power of Men’s Circles

    FEB 21

    Archetypes, Leadership & the Power of Men’s Circles

    David Stegman's offerings include: The Courageous Way - Business and Mindset coaching  https://www.thecourageousway.com/ The Rad Dad Collective https://www.raddadcollective.org/

    53 min
  4. Fatherhood After Divorce: Staying Connected

    FEB 7

    Fatherhood After Divorce: Staying Connected

    In this episode of Staying Connected: Fatherhood After Separation, we dive deep into the challenges and opportunities fathers face in maintaining a strong bond with their children after divorce, separation, or limited parenting time. No matter your circumstances, you can build a powerful connection with your child. So, whether you have limited time, live far away, or are adjusting to co-parenting, this episode offers hope and practical ways to make every moment count. ❤️ Parenting norms are shifting, but traditional stereotypes still paint fathers as mere providers and protectors. In reality, modern dads are stepping into both nurturing and leadership roles, proving that emotional intelligence, empathy, and presence are just as important as financial stability. Drawing from my own journey of co-parenting across borders, I share practical strategies for staying connected, from adjusting expectations to embracing shared activities that strengthen attachment. Whether you're a single dad navigating separation, a co-parent trying to redefine your role, or even a mother looking to understand the father’s perspective, this episode is for you. Key Topics Covered: ✅ Redefining Fatherhood: Moving beyond the outdated "breadwinner" model to embrace a holistic parenting approach. ✅ The Power of Shared Activities: How playing, learning, and adventuring together builds deep, lasting bonds. ✅ The Science of Connection: Exploring how dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins strengthen the parent-child relationship. ✅ The Role of Nature: Why spending time outdoors (hiking, canoeing, biking, or simply throwing stones on a beach) can create powerful emotional anchors. ✅ Navigating Emotional Challenges: How fathers can show up authentically and consistently, even when facing court battles, distance, or personal struggles. ✅ Resilience & Adaptability: Embracing both traditional strength and nurturing care without sacrificing masculinity. Why This Episode Matters: 💡 Fatherhood is evolving, and men are stepping into deeper, more emotionally present roles in their children's lives. 💡 Small moments matter. From baking and watching shows together to skateboarding and camping, it’s about being present and engaged. 💡 Dads have permission to nurture. Leaning into both masculine and feminine traits is a strength, not a weakness.

    28 min
  5. Everything Will Be Okay - Facing Your Fears

    JAN 31

    Everything Will Be Okay - Facing Your Fears

    In this episode, I open up about navigating fear, fatherhood, and maintaining a deep connection with my son despite the challenges of an international blended family. After my first wife was granted full custody and relocated overseas with our child, I had to redefine my role as a father - challenging the traditional archetype of being a provider and protector when my child was an ocean away. I share my personal journey of overcoming fear - fear of the unknown, financial instability, losing my connection with my son, and the stigma of failure. Through trial, error, professional guidance, and leaning into love over fear, I’ve learned what truly matters in co-parenting and long-distance fatherhood. This episode is for any parent - especially fathers - facing separation, uncertainty, or the struggle of maintaining a strong bond with their children. You are not alone. Join the conversation! DM me on Instagram @DadWithoutBorders or email me at dadwithoutborders@gmail.com to share your story.

    30 min
  6. Navigating the Challenges and Personal Growth as a Father - Part 2. Raw Conversations

    JAN 22

    Navigating the Challenges and Personal Growth as a Father - Part 2. Raw Conversations

    This is part 2 of a conversation with fellow dad Jasper as we build support for each other through our friendship. Topics we touch on: Staying engaged with your child's school timetable activities and teachers Advocating for therapy for the kids Honesty and openness with our kids Being a safe and trusted space for your kid The importance of being present Meditating with kids Importance of nature for connecting with children and as a family Renovations vs quality time with family Focusing on how our children feel in their home Investing time in our partners and meeting their needs Understanding our partners love language The importance of personal growth

    43 min
  7. Navigating Anger and Emotions as a Father – Part 1. Raw Conversations

    JAN 15

    Navigating Anger and Emotions as a Father – Part 1. Raw Conversations

    Navigating Fatherhood with Heart and Grit In this raw and honest episode, your host Blue sits down with Jasper, a local dad and close friend, for a deep dive into the realities of modern fatherhood. This episode marks the first part of an ongoing conversation about the ups and downs of being a dedicated and present father. Together, they explore the challenges that many dads face, from dealing with anxiety around being “worthy” as a parent, to the importance of seeking professional help through counselling. Jasper shares his personal journey, and the two discuss how our children often become our teachers, offering valuable insights into our own emotional growth. A key theme of the episode is the struggle with anger, and the impact it can have on our relationships with our children. They also touch on the responsibility we have as fathers to not burden our children with our emotions, and how to maintain a healthy emotional environment in the family. This episode is a must-listen for any dad—or parent—navigating the complexities of fatherhood. Whether you’re dealing with separation, blended families, or simply looking to grow in your parenting journey, this conversation will offer perspective, support, and practical advice. Stay tuned for future episodes as Blue continues to share his personal experiences, offer solo reflections, and invite professionals to weigh in on the important topics shaping fatherhood today.

    37 min
  8. Reclaiming Fatherhood: Navigating Loss, Rediscovering Strength, and Redefining Modern Parenthood

    JAN 9

    Reclaiming Fatherhood: Navigating Loss, Rediscovering Strength, and Redefining Modern Parenthood

    In this episode, I aim to reintroduce myself as the host and a father who has embarked on a tumultuous journey through separation and divorce from the mother of my first child. Throughout this turbulent period, I encountered immense challenges within the court system, grappled with a sense of isolation and lack of support within the community, and felt unfairly represented in society as a father. The absence of relatable role models further exacerbated my struggles, leaving me feeling adrift in a sea of societal expectations and stereotypes that did not align with my experiences and values. The challenges I have faced and ultimately losing custody of my first child, who then moved overseas with his mother - has been actually been a gift, allowing me to discover a deeper side of myself and develop a more mindful and creative approach to parenting as a father with an international blended family, and a long distance relationship with my eldest son. Despite the separation and distance my role and presence is integral to his well being. I just find ways of showing up in his home, his school and everyday life. So stay positive, listen and know that there is another way.

    20 min
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Modern fatherhood meets mountain grit. I’m Blue, host of Dad Without Borders — a podcast about raising kids across continents, navigating blended families, and staying connected against the odds. After losing custody of my eldest son, I found creative ways to keep our bond strong — even picking up a skateboard in my 40s so we had something to share across oceans. Each episode dives into the resilience and creativity of dads rewriting the fatherhood story, blending practical tools with soulful connection. This is fatherhood without borders. Connect: E-mail: dadwithoutborders@gmail.com Instagram: @dadwithoutborders Twitter: @WEadventure

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  • Creator
    Blue Netherclift
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodes
    56
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Show Website
    Dad Without Borders