DADHOOD

Thomas McMinn

DADHOOD is a global conversation about what it really means to become a dad, a man, and a human being in today’s world. Hosted by Thomas McMinn each episode explores the stories, struggles, and breakthroughs that shape the journey of modern fatherhood. Through honest conversations with fathers, creators, and thinkers from around the world, we unpack the lessons behind love, growth, identity, and legacy.No filters. No perfection. Just presence. Because DADHOOD isn’t a parenting podcast — it’s a becoming podcast. It’s for the men rewriting the story of what fatherhood can look like — with vulnerability, purpose, and heart. Join the movement. Listen. Reflect. Evolve. New episodes every week.Follow @DADHOOD.co for stories, reflections, and community.

  1. 19 HRS AGO

    Sibling Dynamics and Emotional Awareness

    Send us a text In this engaging conversation, Thomas and Frankie reconnect after a break, sharing personal stories about parenting, sibling dynamics, and the challenges of communication. They reflect on a humorous yet insightful incident involving tinsel and bunk beds, exploring the emotional triggers that arise in family interactions. The discussion emphasizes the importance of awareness in parenting, the need for open communication, and the value of allowing children to navigate their own relationships. Through their anecdotes, they highlight the lessons learned from both successes and mistakes in their parenting journeys. Takeaways It's important to create memories with your children.Sibling dynamics can be complex and require patience.Recognizing emotional triggers can help in parenting.Taking a moment to cool off can prevent escalation.Children need space to navigate their own relationships.Communication is key in resolving conflicts.Calmness can influence children's behavior positively.Parents often mirror their children's behaviors and emotions.Effort in learning is crucial for children's growth.Reflecting on past experiences can inform better parenting. Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting After a Break 02:41 The Tinsel Town Incident 05:47 Navigating Sibling Dynamics 08:40 Reflections on Parenting Patterns 11:24 The Bunk Bed Decision 14:37 Sibling Relationships and Growth 17:33 Lessons in Communication 20:13 The Power of Calmness 23:23 Observations and Realizations 26:06 The Importance of Effort in Learning 29:12 Final Thoughts and Reflections 🎧 Whether you’re a new dad or deep into the journey, this episode offers practical insight and honest encouragement for becoming the father your kids need — not the flawless one you think you should be.

    33 min
  2. JAN 30

    Houston Merrill: Balancing Fatherhood, Music, and Life as a Single DadUntitled Episode

    Send us a text In this episode of the Dadhood podcast, host Thomas McMinn engages with Houston Merrill, a single dad and musician, discussing the intertwining of fatherhood and personal growth. They explore the challenges of balancing a music career with parenting, the importance of quality time with children, and the necessity of owning up to mistakes as a parent. Houston shares his journey through divorce, the lessons learned, and how he aims to leave a legacy of resilience and connection for his daughters. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care for dads and the impact of relationships on parenting. Takeaways Being a dad is central to my identity.Quality time with kids is more valuable than quantity.Apologizing to your kids is crucial for healthy relationships.Navigating divorce can be challenging but offers growth opportunities.It's important to model healthy relationships for your children.Legacy is built through deep connections with your kids.Self-care is essential for being a good parent.You can still be a good dad while pursuing your passions.Every experience, good or bad, contributes to your growth.It's okay to feel lonely during tough times, but keep pushing forward. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dadhood and Music 02:30 The Journey of a Single Dad 05:11 Balancing Career and Fatherhood 07:50 Quality Time vs. Quantity of Time 10:15 The Importance of Apologies in Parenting 13:06 Navigating Relationships as a Dad 15:47 Legacy Building Through Connection 18:20 The Impact of Divorce on Parenting 21:12 Creating Music from Life Experiences 23:37 Advice for Dads Going Through Divorce Make sure to check out more episode and visit the website for more dad resources. https://www.dadhood.co/

    48 min
  3. JAN 2

    The Conversations That Build Community

    Send us a text In this engaging roundtable discussion on the Dadhood podcast, the hosts and guests explore the importance of community, relationships, and vulnerability. They share personal experiences and insights on building connections, empowering women, and the evolution of media in fostering local engagement. The conversation highlights the challenges of introversion, the significance of tangible interactions, and the necessity of setting boundaries for self-respect. Ultimately, the group emphasizes the power of authenticity and the need for deeper connections in today's fast-paced world. Takeaways Community engagement is essential for building relationships. Vulnerability is a strength that fosters deeper connections. Tangible interactions are increasingly important in a digital age. Empowering women through platforms like Ember Women is crucial. Introversion can be a barrier, but it can be overcome. Setting boundaries is vital for self-respect and healthy relationships. Friendships require effort and cultivation over time. Men often struggle with vulnerability and forming deep connections. Authenticity is key to building meaningful relationships. The importance of belonging to a community cannot be overstated. Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Dadhood: A Roundtable Introduction 02:47 Community Engagement and Building Relationships 05:57 The Evolution of Media and Local Connections 08:36 Empowering Women Through Ember Women 11:27 The Importance of Tangible Connections 14:37 Navigating Male Friendships and Vulnerability 17:17 The Challenge of Building Deeper Connections 20:17 Overcoming Introversion and Social Anxiety 23:00 The Role of Vulnerability in Friendships 26:10 Setting Boundaries and Self-Respect 29:02 The Power of Community and Authenticity Check out our website DADHOOD and YouTube channel for more insights on showing up as a stronger dad.

    52 min
  4. 2025-12-26

    Words That Outlive You: Writing Legacy Letters for Your Children

    Send us a text In this episode, Thomas McMinn discusses the concept of legacy letters, emphasizing their importance in sharing personal values and beliefs with children. He highlights the significance of writing personalized letters to each child, fostering deeper connections and passing down wisdom through generations. The conversation also touches on the unique value of handwritten letters in a digital age, encouraging parents to embrace this meaningful form of communication as a way to build their family legacy. Takeaways Legacy letters are a way to share personal values with children.Writing down what you value can create a lasting impact.Personalized letters foster deeper connections with each child.Handwritten letters are unique in today's digital world.Sharing your beliefs helps build a family legacy.The way we make people feel is part of our legacy.Take time to reflect on what you appreciate about your children.Nostalgia plays a role in the value of physical letters.Legacy letters can be a meaningful gift during holidays.Encouraging personal communication strengthens family bonds. Sound bites "Imagine what that would mean to them." "It's all part of building this legacy." "Be the dads you're meant to be." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Legacy Letters 00:34 The Importance of Values in Legacy Letters 03:54 Personalizing Legacy Letters for Each Child 06:44 The Impact of Handwritten Letters in a Digital Age If you want to learn more about Legacy Letters check out our blog article and YouTube short

    8 min
  5. 2025-12-19

    The Emotions We Never Learned: What Fathers Pass Down

    Send us a text In this episode, Thomas McMinn discusses the often uncomfortable topic of emotions, particularly focusing on how men are typically not taught to manage their emotions. He emphasizes the importance of emotional awareness, regulation, and communication, and how these factors contribute to the emotional legacy that fathers pass on to their children. Through personal anecdotes and insights, he encourages men to break the cycle of emotional suppression and to create a nurturing environment for their children to express their feelings. takeaways Men do know how to feel; they just weren't taught how to express it.Emotional awareness and regulation are crucial for personal growth.Creating a safe space for children to express emotions is essential.Boys often receive fewer emotional conversations than girls.Anger is a secondary emotion that often masks deeper feelings.Vulnerability is often misperceived as weakness.Children learn emotional responses from their parents' behavior.Breaking the cycle of emotional suppression is vital for future generations.Legacy is not just financial; it's emotional connection and support.Most men are not emotionally unavailable; they are emotionally untrained.Chapters 00:00 Understanding Emotions in Men 02:52 The Emotional Legacy We Leave 05:41 The Importance of Emotional Conversations 08:48 Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Suppression 11:38 Vulnerability and Communication 14:24 Teaching Emotional Regulation to Our Children For more episodes and DADHOOD content go to https://www.dadhood.co/

    18 min
  6. 2025-12-12

    The Aware Traveler: Lessons for Life, Love, and Raising Humans

    Send us a text Join hosts Thomas McMinn and Frankie Corrigan as they dive into the transformative experience of traveling abroad with family—this time, through the vibrant streets and rich culture of Italy. They shares candid stories from their trip, revealing the challenges, surprises, and unforgettable moments that come with international travel. The conversation explores cultural differences, travel awareness, and the emotional dynamics that surface when families navigate new environments together. Thomas and Frankie shift into a powerful discussion on modern parenting, emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence, deep connection, and truly understanding our children in a fast-paced world. The episode wraps with a meaningful look at social connection, community, and the rising dangers of isolation in today’s digital age—reminding us why real relationships and quality time with loved ones matter more than ever. This episode is perfect for listeners interested in family travel tips, parenting insights, relationship building, and mental well-being in an increasingly disconnected world. Takeaways Traveling abroad with family can be a unique experience.Cultural differences can impact how people perceive travel.It's important to be aware of your surroundings while traveling.Traveling can be stressful, but it often leads to great stories.Parenting requires breaking down emotional walls to connect with children.Children are not rebelling; they are trying to express themselves.Isolation can lead to negative thoughts and mental health issues.Social connections are vital for emotional well-being.Spending time with loved ones is a valuable gift.Exploring new cultures can enrich family relationships.Chapters 00:00 Traveling Abroad: A Family Experience 09:28 Cultural Differences and Travel Challenges 19:22 Parenting Insights and Emotional Connections Don't forget to check out:https://www.dadhood.co/ for more insight on becoming the dad you want to be.

    35 min
  7. 2025-12-05

    Jon Mecham: Routines, Reps & Real Fatherhood

    Send us a text In this episode of the Dadhood podcast, host Thomas McMinn sits down with Jon Mecham to discuss various themes surrounding fitness, parenting, and personal growth. They explore Jon's fitness journey, the importance of physical activity for mental health, and the lessons learned from a memorable encounter at the gym. The conversation also delves into parenting dynamics, communication within families, and the significance of fostering joy and connection in life. Jon shares insights on how to intentionally arrange one's life to prioritize health and happiness, while also emphasizing the importance of open communication in family relationships. takeaways John shares his fitness journey and transformation.Physical activity is crucial for mental health and well-being.The importance of being competitive with one's kids.Life lessons can come from unexpected encounters.Open communication is key in family dynamics.Intentional living can lead to greater joy.Parenting requires understanding and flexibility.Finding joy in everyday life is essential.Maximizing workouts can enhance physical fitness.Building strong relationships with kids fosters trust.Sound Bites "I want to be a part of it.""You cannot over communicate.""I want them to feel good."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dadhood and Wellness 01:54 Fitness Journey and Personal Transformation 04:55 The Importance of Cardio and Strength Training 09:27 Physical Activity and Mental Health 11:47 Parenting and Staying Active with Kids 15:49 Life Lessons from the Gym 19:42 Intentional Living and Personal Growth 22:08 Parenting Insights and Raising Independent Kids 25:44 Unlocking Athletic Potential in Kids 27:31 The Balance of Academics and Athletics 29:44 Fostering Confidence in Children 31:45 The Importance of Communication in Family Dynamics 36:42 Navigating Chores and Responsibilities in Blended Families 38:58 Unified Parenting in Blended Families 43:19 Teaching Kids to Find Joy in Life For more information about DADHOOD go to https://www.dadhood.co/

    55 min

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DADHOOD is a global conversation about what it really means to become a dad, a man, and a human being in today’s world. Hosted by Thomas McMinn each episode explores the stories, struggles, and breakthroughs that shape the journey of modern fatherhood. Through honest conversations with fathers, creators, and thinkers from around the world, we unpack the lessons behind love, growth, identity, and legacy.No filters. No perfection. Just presence. Because DADHOOD isn’t a parenting podcast — it’s a becoming podcast. It’s for the men rewriting the story of what fatherhood can look like — with vulnerability, purpose, and heart. Join the movement. Listen. Reflect. Evolve. New episodes every week.Follow @DADHOOD.co for stories, reflections, and community.