Days Like These

J. Malik Asher
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Some days look normal on the outside…but inside you’re questioning everything: Your choices. Your relationships. Your past. Your next move. Days Like These is a podcast for the moments we don’t post about. The days you’re laughing one minute and fighting for clarity the next. The quiet realizations. The uncomfortable truths. The dark humor that somehow keeps you sane. Real conversations about life while you’re living it, not after you’ve figured it all out. Because the days that change you rarely look perfect while you’re living them.

  1. 5D AGO

    [EP2] Why Men Cheat… And Why Women Almost Never Get Caught

    The conversation delves into the subtle moments that lead to infidelity, highlighting the significance of small choices and dissatisfaction. It explores the progression from micro-cheating to the turn towards infidelity, emphasizing the importance of understanding human curiosity and the need for prevention and communication in relationships. Takeaways Cheating starts with small choicesInfidelity begins with dissatisfaction Chapters 00:00 Final Remarks

    8 min

  2. 6D AGO

    Oh...So now He's Your Husband?

    The conversation delves into the impact of quiet moments on life and the unspoken boundaries within marriage dynamics. It explores the goal of relationships, the patterns of behavior, and the concept of competing with benefits. It also addresses the importance of the front door of marriage and the system built around innocence. Takeaways Quiet moments shape lifeMarriage dynamics and boundaries Chapters 00:00 Life's Quiet Moments05:44 Competing with Benefits

    4 min

  3. MAR 22

    So Now She's Your Wife?

    The episode explores the behavior of men in relationships and the discrepancy between their public and private treatment of their partners. It delves into the concept of protecting the title of 'wife' rather than the person holding the title, and the impact of behavior on relationships. Takeaways Protecting the title of 'wife' vs. protecting the personBehavior as the foundation of relationships Chapters 00:00 The Shield of the Title

    5 min

  4. MAR 19

    Too Sensitive? Or Finally Done Pretending?

    The conversation explores the evolution of emotional expression, the impact of social media on emotional communication, the recognition and validation of emotions, resilience and emotional evolution, building a hybrid generation, emotional evolution and the future, and the importance of sensitivity and resilience in today's world. Takeaways Emotional expression vs. suppressionGenerational differences in emotional expression Chapters 00:00 Evolution of Emotional Expression07:01 Resilience and Emotional Evolution

    7 min

  5. MAR 17

    I Stayed Until I Realized I Wasn’t Chosen

    The conversation delves into the concept of 'almost chosen' relationships, highlighting the importance of choosing each other and not settling for less. It explores the discomfort of temporary relationships, the avoidance of commitment, the value of clarity, and the destructive nature of delay in relationships. Takeaways Choose each otherDon't settle for almost chosen Chapters 00:00 Recognizing Almost Chosen Relationships08:23 The Value of Clarity in Relationships

    6 min

  6. MAR 16

    [EP1] Why Men Cheat… And Why Women Almost Never Get Caught

    The conversation delves into the nature of cheating, exploring the differences in how men and women cheat, the psychology behind cheating, motivations for cheating, and the importance of self-commitment. It provides insights into the complexities of infidelity and the underlying reasons behind it. Takeaways Cheating is not always physicalMen and women cheat for different reasons Chapters 00:00 The Nature of Cheating12:33 The Psychology of Cheating

    10 min

  7. MAR 15

    You Don’t Cross My Mind. My Body Just Remembers You

    The conversation explores the nature of healing, the choice in remembering, the act of forgiveness, and the meaning of healing. It emphasizes that healing is a continuous process and that the passing of a memory is not a wound coming back. Takeaways Healing is a continuous processMemory passing through is not a wound coming back Chapters 00:00 The Meaning of Healing

    4 min

  8. MAR 15

    My Phone Won’t Let Me Forget Who I Used to Love

    The conversation explores the theme of healing and growth, emphasizing the importance of integrating past experiences rather than erasing them. It delves into the significance of memories as indicators of personal growth and closure, highlighting the transformative nature of healing. Takeaways Healing is about integration, not erasureMemories show how far you've come Chapters 00:00 The Past Tapping You on the Shoulder02:24 Memories and Closure

    3 min
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About

Some days look normal on the outside…but inside you’re questioning everything: Your choices. Your relationships. Your past. Your next move. Days Like These is a podcast for the moments we don’t post about. The days you’re laughing one minute and fighting for clarity the next. The quiet realizations. The uncomfortable truths. The dark humor that somehow keeps you sane. Real conversations about life while you’re living it, not after you’ve figured it all out. Because the days that change you rarely look perfect while you’re living them.

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  • Creator
    J. Malik Asher
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    31
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 J. Malik Asher
  • Show Website
    Days Like These