Dear Men Podcast

Jeremie Lotemo
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Raw, honest conversations and reflections on life, love, God, and what it takes to step up as men in a society shaped by absent and weak fathers.

  1. JAN 20

    why narcissists and fckboys succeed with women

    The modern man has been fed a beautiful delusion: "Just be kind, communicative, and emotionally available and women will want you." This is a half-truth. In this episode, we dive into exactly why and what to do instead. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    45 min

  2. 2025-05-22

    poly… or just longing for the village?

    In this episode I explore what I believe is a misdiagnosed hunger for tribe, elders, touch, and true belonging in a world that’s lost the village. We unpack the collapse of communal life, the overconsumption of intimacy, and why many are mistaking emotional starvation and gluttony for expansive love. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    29 min

  3. 2025-05-04

    How to keep her sexually attracted to you

    Most men lose their woman’s desire because they forget the three P’s: penetration, presence, and polarity. In this episode, we break down how to embody these core masculine principles so she stays turned on by you not just emotionally, but sexually. If you’ve ever felt her pull away or have been in a sexless relationship without knowing how you got there, this will hit different. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    30 min

  4. 2025-02-20

    Women are just as nasty, freaky, and kinky as you, but...

    Women are just as wild, kinky, and sexual as men—sometimes even more. But if she’s not bringing that side out, it’s not because she doesn’t have it… it’s probably because she doesn’t trust you with it. This episode is for you if you want to unlock a deeper level of attraction, passion, and desire in your relationships. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    30 min

  5. 2025-01-31

    Are they your partner or your renovation project?

    If you have to constantly set boundaries and remind someone how to treat you, you didn’t choose a partner you may have signed up for a renovation project. In this episode, how to spot misalignment before you get attached, and the key to choosing relationships that don’t require you to potty train, coach, or micromanage their healing work. Tune in and learn how to stop dating potential. 🔗 Ladies, follow this link to join our virtual workshop on how to stop doing the work for him: www.byermeas.com/claimed-without-chasing Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    33 min

  6. 2025-01-23

    Be a little bit possessive bro, its actually healthy

    Possessiveness gets a bad rap, but what if a little bit of it is actually healthy? In this episode, I break down the difference between obsession (toxic and rooted in insecurity) and possessiveness (a natural, protective instinct). Learn how to set boundaries that make her feel claimed, not caged, and why embracing your territorial nature is part of being a strong, integrated man. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    25 min

  7. 2025-01-15

    You cannot save her, only God can

    In this episode, we dive into the complex struggle of wanting to save a woman we care about, only to realize that some battles are beyond our control. That we are not heroes or superhuman, but simply humans. What does it mean to let go and trust a higher power? Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemo Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    27 min

  8. 2024-10-14

    Your vulnerability isn't the problem, your approach is

    In this episode, we explore how to be truly open and vulnerable with women in a way that connects, not pushes them away. Learn the art of male vulnerability—what works, what doesn’t, and how to show up authentically without losing your strength or her respect. Looking to improve your focus and mental clarity?  Use code GATES20 for 48% off a subscription or 20% off a one-time purchase of MagicMind here. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    43 min
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Raw, honest conversations and reflections on life, love, God, and what it takes to step up as men in a society shaped by absent and weak fathers.

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  • Creator
    Jeremie Lotemo
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    70
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2020 All rights reserved.
  • Show Website
    Dear Men Podcast

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