Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance. Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it! Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-A*****e question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions. As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week. Email your questions to: dearshandy@gmail.com

  1. 5d ago ·  Video

    Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489

    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This? 11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess? 37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help! 58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  2. Sep 1 ·  Video

    Love Is Blind UK S3: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 488

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the Reunion, aka Episode 11. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:43 - Ciara & Ajay 10:33 - Cuba & Ryan 22:23 - Sophie & Taylor 26:20 - Francesca & Joseph 29:35 - Yasmin & Jordan 34:18 - Faye & Jack 44:14 - Reviewing Shandy’s Predictions  45:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  3. Aug 26 ·  Video

    Love Is Blind UK S3: FINALE - Episodes 9 & 10 Recap & Review - Ep 487

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:20 - Episode 9 29:53 - Episode 10 58:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions 1:02:04 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  4. Aug 24 ·  Video

    Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 486

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your new night guard from now until the end of August with Remi Club Subscribe & Save! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time stamps... 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:34 - Episode 5 20:57 - Episode 6 56:50 - Episode 7 1:14:42 - Episode 8 1:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:40:21 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  5. Aug 19

    Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 485

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and one free breakfast per box for one year! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:31 - Episode 1 22:42 - Episode 2 37:16 - Episode 3 57:11 - Episode 4 1:04:41 - Ibiza 1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:12:52 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  6. Aug 13

    Q&A! Your Argumentative Boyfriend & Wedding Guests Who Don't Give Gifts - Ep 484

    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask about the gift, and if not, do you still need to write a Thank You card? Your social life has taken a hard hit by your post-COVID anxiety—what is Shandy's advice? Finally, you love your boyfriend but your parents do not—whose side should you choose? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:55 - Q1: Are The Perks Of Moving In With My Boyfriend Clouding My Judgment? 17:57 - Q2: My Girlfriend Looks Super Young & It Makes Me Self Conscious—Help! 21:50 - Q3: My Guest Attended But Didn’t Give Us A Wedding Gift—Is It OK To Ask About It? 33:43 - Q4: My Social Anxiety Has Reduced My Friend Circle To Non-Existent—Help! 52:02 - Q5: My Opinionated Boyfriend Is Rubbing My Parents Wrong—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  7. Aug 6 ·  Video

    LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483

    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum! Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off! - Go to https://skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! More Monica: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/monicapaynee TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@monicapaynee More Luke: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lukaswesselhoff TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lukeboxxx Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Monica & Luke! 1:30 - What We Didn’t See On The Show 6:56 - Luke’s Journey 13:36 - Monica’s Journey 19:33 - Would They Be Engaged Today Without ‘The Ultimatum’ 23:37 - Why They Went On The Show 32:00 - The Intimidation Of David/Luke’s Confidence 42:16 - High School/First Kiss 51:53 - Monica’s “Professionalism” 57:19 - Conflict Resolution 1:06:06 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  8. Jul 30

    Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482

    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your night guard! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - My Friend Keeps Making Digs About My Childfree Lifestyle—Do I Confront Her? 13:15 - My Husband’s Parents Are Likely To Become Our Financial Burden One Day—Any Advice? 30:25 - After 2 Months Of “Bliss”, He Ended It Due To His Father’s Illness—Do I Wait For Him? 57:05 - I Love My Guy But Not His Vegetarianism—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance. Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it! Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-A*****e question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions. As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week. Email your questions to: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  • Creator
    Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    488
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
  • Show Website
    Dear Shandy

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