Do You Ever Feel Like?

DoYouEver
  • 5.0 (22)
  • SOCIETY & CULTURE
  • UPDATED BIWEEKLY
Do You Ever Feel Like?

Each week artists Phoebe and Jacque sit down and ask each other a question that everyone’s thinking, and no one is answering. Except them. Join the girlies as they unveil everything behind the curtain (no subject goes unturned) and get nitty, gritty about HOW it all works. doyouever.substack.com

  1. 5D AGO

    it's the end of the world?

    Do you ever feel like…the end of the world? This week the girlies go ABSURD but actually just average because absurdism is the trend of 2025. They chat if the world is actually ending, existentialism, freak shows, and their subsequent roles during the apocalypse. PLUS! * Men in ikea * Phoebe’s new crush * A lesson in existentialism, Kierkegaard who? * APOCOLYPTIC LEWKS, a slay! * The economic downturn to church going correlation 📉 * Soundscapes of the after times (sorry for the chanting) * The fourth turning and the cycles of mankind (ew) * How art shows us the way Join the green room to get access to our latest Artist Study The Universal Laws of Mike White Mentions/Sources Philosophy Lessons Chris Fleming Natalie Palamides Bjork adrienne marie brown’s podcast Margaret Atwood Octavia E. Butler Simon Peng Jameela Jamil Substack Freaks Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 🫶 Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! DYEFL is produced by Do You Ever Productions doyouevermedia.com Follow us: @doyou.everr Write to us: ⁠doyoueverpod@gmail.com⁠ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    51 min

  2. MAR 26

    therapy speak makes you sound wild my guy

    Hey babes thats just my boundaries, soz I have an anxious attachment style, I just don’t have the space for that emotional labour rn. JK! THIS WEEK WE CHAT THERAPY SPEAK! PLUS! * NO ONE DRESSES UP ANYMORE! * Walton Goggins fan club assembles (White Lotus recap duh!!) * The formalization of the brunch chat * Phoebe doesn’t know what gaslighting means * Learning to just say no babes 🫶 * The DYE rules for living (again) Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 🫶 Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! DYEFL is produced by Do You Ever Productions doyouevermedia.com Follow us: @doyou.everr Write to us: ⁠doyoueverpod@gmail.com⁠ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min
  3. making stuff for a billion years with Olivia Rafferty

    MAR 19

    making stuff for a billion years with Olivia Rafferty

    Welcome welcome to a stunning guest ep with olivia rafferty !!! Olivia is a songwriter, podcaster, and creators of chaotic google docs, but most importantly she has a new album Typical Forever that you can listen to NOW! You can buy it on Bandcamp Or stream Typical Forever wherever you stream your music (which of course we get into later…) We chat creative process (duh!!) , overcoming the cut and paste industry-standard advice, and crafting our own world inside all we create. We get a little substack nerdy (not in a like “grow your substack to 599202 new people kinda way, but in a like “how to use these platforms in ways we can have FUN ON!!!!!!) PLUS! * Being your own niche * Not taking every experts advice * Too many rock puns 😔 * bringing people along for the journey * being in the real world and leaving your HOUSE/not just talking to your phone * talking to scientists * sticking with your art (for literal YEARS! or like billions on years!) you make stuff! be so excited and like convinced by your own s**t that people cant help but be drawn in - Slay quote from Olivia herself Names dropped! * Erin Shetron * Gabrielle Ione Hickmon * Lexi Merritt Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 🫶 Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! DYEFL is produced by Do You Ever Productions doyouevermedia.com Follow us: @doyouevermedia Write to us: ⁠doyoueverpod@gmail.com⁠ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    55 min

  4. MAR 12

    good friend and roommate

    This week Phoebe asks…. do you wanna roommate? Probs not, maybe just a man to make food. Also we accidentally become economists this ep. because we’re actually geniuses. We chat the economic realities that drive the need for shared living spaces to our bad roommate stories and we wonder…are we the bad roommates? Plus! * A white lotus recap OBVI * Jacque’s Oscars recap OBVI * Girls Trip/sleep paralysis demon * RETREAT REFLECTIONS!!! * Phoebe has it down bad for Walton Goggins * What Boy meets world taught us about the housing crisis * IRL golden girls * Having a man servant? Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 🫶 Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! DYEFL is produced by Do You Ever Productions doyouevermedia.com Follow us: @doyouevermedia Write to us: ⁠doyoueverpod@gmail.com⁠ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    58 min
  5. if they wanted to they would

    FEB 27

    if they wanted to they would

    MATCH OUR FREAK! This week we chat community + friendships and yelling at everyone to get over themselves and grow up, the usual DYEFL vibes. Plus Jacque is in her own personal White Lotus girls trip and Phoebe has watched too much reality tv. Also Dr. Phoebe arrives and uses words like relational and attachment style. Professor Jacque clocks in with some community care tea (gossip). PLUS!… * Phoebes new glasses (A slay!) * Jacques award season DRAMA! * Galentine's Day + Girls trips! * Getting over ourselves and leaving the house! * Ditching rugged individualism for COLLECTIVE LOVE BABY! * Barf therapy speak * Join us on our moral high horse 🐎 Mentions: Christabel Mintah-Galloway, RN, BSN Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker How we Show Up by Mia Birdsong Obsessive, Intrusive, Magical Thinking by Marianne Eloise Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 🫶 Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! DYEFL is produced by Do You Ever Productions doyouevermedia.com Follow us: @doyouevermedia Write to us: ⁠doyoueverpod@gmail.com⁠ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    1 hr
  6. Speaking to the manager

    FEB 19

    Speaking to the manager

    This week the girlies slice their hair into asymmetric bobs, call the manager, and stomp their foots in the mall all to become the ultra-karen. JK we worked in customer service far too long to ever call the manager. This week we chat CUSTOMER SERVICE and more importantly the weirdos of the world who have never worked a customer service job in their life and made them into snake people. Plus all the weird bits like post pandemmy kiosk culture and if tipping has gotten out of control? Are we just old grumpy women? Are we in danger of becoming Karens? PLUS * Our first IRL recording! * Not invoking the evil eye/The Killer™️ * Bestie/Biz balance * gaslighting ourselves for the sake of #wellness * FACE AND MOUTH MASSAGES 💆🏻‍♀️ * Talking too much * Avoiding the Karen trap * Tipping selfishly * Post pandemic kiosk culture * Lounge access at the airport SECRETS! * MANNERS * Our long list of shitty jobs we’ve had Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 🫶 Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! DYEFL is produced by Do You Ever Productions doyouevermedia.com Follow us: @doyouevermedia Write to us: ⁠doyoueverpod@gmail.com⁠ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min

  7. FEB 12

    The Universal laws of Doechii

    Hello and welcome to our first ever ARTIST STUDY 🔬! I have had this episode half baked in my head for weeks but Doechii’s recent Grammy win put the FIRE under my butt. I am a woman in love and I DON’T CARE WHO KNOWS IT! We’ve got our first Artist Study up for free.99 for a few days but we will placing these eps behind our stunning new paywall 💃🏻. You can find monthly Artist Studies and Green Room eps by becoming a paid subscriber. Like so much of the internet I found Doechii from her STUNNING NPR Tiny desk concert (the tik tok music doesn’t seem to permeate my millennial algo). And have been captivated by her! The Universal laws of Doechii Study your craft Doechii is a student of Hip Hop, she is a lover of her craft. She studies not just the history but the context of the genre, constantly referencing artists before her placing her work in it’s own referential world. Playing the role of student quite literally for this promo cycle. Her most recent Grammy’s looks were dreamt up with designer Tom Brown to craft the “highly luxiourious” looks. Referencing the moment when Jay Z put on a suit in the early aughts to walk the red carpets. Class is very much in session. 🤓 Playing with performance references from Solange and MF Doom. From lyricism to production (her “breathing exersize” in “Denial is a River” is inspired by a Dougie Fresh beat boxing pattern). She plays with Lauren Hill’s vulnerability, Kendrick Lammar’s early mix tape formulas. Honestly I could go on but then it would turn into a Hip Hop history 101 seminar LOL. She is a student by nature. Performance + Place Theatre kid recognize theatre kid. It’s undeniable Doechii is a performer. She is CAPTIVATING to listen to and watch because of the world building Doechii does. From fashion, to stage presence to who is on stage with her. Doechii builds a world of whimsy Not to distract from the music itself but to place it firmly in time and place. Doechii exists inside the world she creates. Her choreography works to applyfy her message, not to distract from the music. Everything in her world building is purposeful and here tell a story and act like a play. Place is equally important. Her Florida roots are on display with the creation of her Swamp Princess persona, you get a sense of what Doechii’s Florida is like through her lyricism “BOILED PEANUTS” and “NISSAN ALTIMA” but also in the visuals for her album. And glamourizes the swamp and gators of it all with her eye for style, sexiness and subversion. You get a sense of Doechii’s Flordia without ever having to travel there and I think that says so much about her world building. It’s immersive. Honesty as a formula Ok it’s not just to quote her exclusively here because everything she has to say about ditching a formula is SO GOOD! She’s got her own blueprint and boiled down she is creating art “for therapy”. In her own words it has to have “honesty, detail and abnormal production”. Doechii makes for Docehii first. I make my best work when no one cares and when no one listens Doechii speaks very specifically about her experience as a dark skinned queer sober woman. And that specificity breeds universality. Finding the Doechii in us all – so to speak. Honestly I could say more but I’m just donna drop this codepentant line because I think it says so much about artists working towards “sucess” and tbh it rearranged my brain cells. I wanted to be able to detach myself from the “perfect project” and … Stop being codepandant on my label Everything is Fuel “I’m a hungry, I wanna be the best. If i have two days if i have 24 hours, I’m gonna work my hardest to make my best performance because I want to be the best”. Doechii takes the critics and the industry scaffolding and uses it to play the game she wants to play. Using all the the materials around her to craft her next move or response. It was hard not to slide her drag persona Ricardo under “performance” but I think it’s such a great example of playing the game. Ricardo is Doechii’s reply to critics misogynoir. She uses everything around to as ammunition. If it’s a time constraint, critisism, the formula of a mix tape or the demands of the industry, Doechii makes the system work for her OK FOLKS! Thanks for coming on this journey with us it was a STUNNING ride! We’ll be back next week with your regular, degular programming and join us next month for our next Artist study 🧐 (holler in the comments if there is someone you’re DYING for us to dive into.) Big Love! P+J 👯‍♀️ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    43 min
  8. the apps won't save us

    FEB 5

    the apps won't save us

    The girlies declared 2025 the year of the pod and then… swiftly ghosted the feeds. Isn’t that what having a living human body is all about? This week we chat THE GREAT META EXIT/the great substack intro/what is going on on the interent and can we all be ok? tbd! Plus we chat * New Wellness routine dropped: Gaslighting yourself! * Babygirl (and spoilliess!!!) 🥛 * Cinema-theatre-film-public-viewing education (pipe down in them seats!) * Flashbacks to our homes without internet * How to tell what is REAL online? * The Corporate Towns of the internet * Art art ART! Artists! Art! SHOUT OUT to Jacqueline for the research on this ep. My brain is 5x bigger, truly Links! Babygirl review by a man Babygirl review by a woman Media Literacy Social Media, Addiction, and Our Brains Alok on The Daily Show Blue Sky Free our Feeds Illusion of Choice American Imperialism + Social Media Dead Internet Theory Ismatu Gwenydoln These Men are Losers Thank you for listening to DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE? 🫶 Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts! Our artwork is no longer done by Simon Peng but we DO love him still, it is now by US! DYEFL is produced by Do You Ever Productions doyouevermedia.com Follow us: @doyouevermedia Write to us: ⁠doyoueverpod@gmail.com⁠ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 6m
See All (59)

5
out of 5
22 Ratings

About

Each week artists Phoebe and Jacque sit down and ask each other a question that everyone’s thinking, and no one is answering. Except them. Join the girlies as they unveil everything behind the curtain (no subject goes unturned) and get nitty, gritty about HOW it all works. doyouever.substack.com

Information

  • Creator
    DoYouEver
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    59
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © DoYouEver
  • Show Website
    Do You Ever Feel Like?

To listen to explicit episodes, sign in.

Stay up to date with this show

Sign in or sign up to follow shows, save episodes and get the latest updates.
Select a country or region

Africa, Middle East, and India

Asia Pacific

Europe

Latin America and the Caribbean

The United States and Canada