Feel It First Podcast

Natalie Carranceja
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A podcast teaching women how to feel the energy, emotions and essence of their desires FIRST, so that they can turn their reality into their version of wealth. Inside this podcast we cover emotional intelligence, spirituality, breathwork, embodiment, wealth and abundance, and how it contributes to building a life that YOU choose. Here we reject hustle culture, pressure and force, and replace it with slowness, contentment, purpose and fulfilment. This is where we get to live out our version of wealth, by feeling it all FIRST! Welcome!

  1. 16 HRS AGO

    149// The Reason You Feel One Step Behind In Your Own Life

    Have you ever had the sense that you are somehow missing things that are right in front of you? You're trying. You're smart and capable. But you feel like you are living in a kind of tunnel. Functional, getting through it, but narrow. Like your vision has quietly shrunk without you noticing. That is not a you problem. That is what happens in a body that is carrying too much. When you are at capacity, your brain quite literally filters out anything that does not feel immediately relevant to managing the load. Opportunities that were always there become invisible. Your own instincts go quiet. Desire gets muffled. You might know what you think you should want but the actual felt pull toward it has gone somewhere you cannot quite reach. You are missing them because your system is too full to register them. Its got nothing to do with wether you were ready or not. And when that load starts to lift, even a little, what becomes available is kind of extraordinary. Not in a woo way. Just in the way that happens when there is finally room to perceive more. That is what this week's episode is about. GET ON THE FEEL IT FIRST WAITLIST DOWNLOAD THE FREE AUDIO "THE PRESSURE RELEASE" BOOK A 1:1 BREATHWORK SESSION INSTAGRAM

    23 min

  2. APR 3

    148// You're Tired But You Can't Rest. This Is What Nobody Told You.

    You have heard the words. Nervous system. Regulation. Capacity. Window of tolerance. And intellectually you get it. But it has stayed kind of abstract, like something you understand in theory but have never actually been able to locate in your own body. Nobody really describes what it feels like. What you are actually working toward. What the other side of all this work is supposed to feel like when you get there. So let me try. It does not feel like achieving a state. It does not feel like performing calm or holding yourself together really well. It feels more like something lifting. A soft inner exhale that does not immediately reverse itself. Thoughts slowing down enough that you can actually hear yourself think. Being able to sit with something without immediately needing to fix it or move away from it. And if that sounds completely foreign to you right now, if you genuinely cannot remember the last time you felt anything close to that, that is not a you problem. That is what living at capacity for a long time does. The low hum becomes so familiar it just starts to feel like normal life. This week's episode is about what you are actually working toward. And for the first time it might feel like a real possibility rather than just a concept. DOWNLOAD THE PRESSURE RELEASE - FREE BREATHWORK AUDIO GET ON THE FEEL IT FIRST WAITLIST BOOK A 1:1 BREATHWORK SESSION COME HANG ON INSTA

    36 min

  3. MAR 27

    147// The Goal Isn't The Problem. The Emotional Environment You're Setting It From Is.

    _*]:min-w-0 gap-3"> You have been here before. New goal, real motivation, genuine effort. You make the plan, you take the steps, you do the work. And for a while it feels like it is working. And then slowly, you find yourself back in the same feeling. Same pressure, same doubt, same felling of not quite getting there. And you cannot figure out what you are doing wrong. So you go back to the strategy. Maybe that needs adjusting. You go back to the mindset work. Maybe you need to believe harder. You look at your habits, your routines, your commitment level. Msybe it could be better. You interrogate all of it. But here is the thing. The goal was never the problem. The emotional environment you have been setting the goal from, that is what keeps recreating the same experience. Because the nervous system organises around what feels familiar, even when familiar is uncomfortable. Even when you are actively trying to change it. This week's episode is about why that happens and what actually shifts it. Not more strategy. Not better mindset work. Something deeper. _*]:min-w-0 gap-3"> DOWNLOAD THE FREE BREATHWORK AUDIO - THE PRESSURE RELEASE BOOK 1:1 BREATHWORK SESSION HANG ON INSTAGRAM _*]:min-w-0 gap-3">

    19 min

  4. MAR 20

    146// The Self Development Industry Got It Backwards. And You've Been Paying The Price.

    You did not half heartedly try this stuff. You showed up. You invested time and money and genuine belief. You journaled, you did the courses, you repeated the affirmations, you watched the mindset content. You were not lazy about any of it. And something would shift, for a little while. A breakthrough here, a good few days there. But then you would find yourself back in the same feeling, wondering what you were missing. Here is what I want you to hear. You were not missing discipline. You were not missing the right morning routine or the perfect journal prompt or enough belief. You were given an incomplete map and told it was everything you needed. Of course it did not work the way you hoped. Of course you are tired. The self development industry has been teaching that thoughts create reality for decades. Change your thoughts, change your life. It sounds right. It is just not the whole picture. And this week's episode is about what actually is. FREE PRESSURE RELEASE BREATHWORK AUDIO BOOK A BREATHWORK SESSION INSTAGRAM

    28 min

  5. MAR 14

    145// I've been so good at holding it together, and now I am tired.

    If you have ever found yourself thinking, nothing is actually wrong, so why am I so exhausted, this episode is for you. You know...the bone-deep kind of tired. The kind that sits underneath. For a lot of high functioning women (hi, its me), feeling got quietly set aside a long time ago. Why? Because there was always something more pressing going on. Something to handle, someone to show up for, a problem to solve. Functioning became the default mode, and over time, the feelings just... waited. In this episode I am talking about self override. The small, everyday moments where we jump to solutions before we have truly felt the problem. Where we tell ourselves it is fine or "I'm fiiiine" (said as Ross Geller), others have it worse. Where we keep moving because stopping feels more dangerous than staying busy. Each of those moments on its own feels minor. But the accumulation of them over months and years is what creates that heaviness, the exhaustion. That sense of being far from yourself. That not knowing what you actually want anymore. This is a learned strategy that made a lot of sense once. And it is worth understanding where it came from before you try to change it. We also go into what actually happens in the body when emotions are consistently overridden. They do not dissolve. They accumulate. They take up space. And they make clarity hard to access even when life is genuinely quiet. The question I want to leave you with after this episode is a simple one. When was the last time you let yourself feel something fully, without immediately moving to fix it, reframe it, or set it aside? Sit with that answer. DOWNLOAD THE FREE "PRESSURE RELEASE" BREATHWORK AUDIO BOOK A BREATHWORK SESSION HANG ON INSTA

    27 min

  6. MAR 6

    144// Something deeper is going on, and I can't think my way out of it this time.

    You know it is fine. You can list all the reasons it is fine. You have done the journaling, you have reframed it, you have talked yourself through it more times than you can count. And yet something in you still does not feel okay. That gap between what you know and what you actually feel in your body is one of the most disorienting places to live. Because from the outside it looks like resistance. It looks like you are choosing to stay stuck. And from the inside it feels like you are failing at the one thing you have been working so hard at. You are not failing. You are not resistant. You are not broken or too deep in your head or lacking discipline. You have just reached the edge of what thinking alone can do. And that edge is not a dead end. It is actually the beginning of something more honest. This week's episode is for the woman who has done everything right on paper and is exhausted by the fact that it is still not shifting. There is a reason for that. And it is not what she thinks.   DOWNLOAD THE FREE BRESTHWORK "THE PRESSURE RELEASE" BOOK A 1:1 BREATHWORK SESSION INSTAGRAM

    26 min

  7. FEB 27

    143// Unhooking you from toxic positivity.

    Its not going to work. The quiet pressure you (or others) put on you to remain high vibe, optimistic and positive, while things could be feeling heavy, clunky, or uncertain. Look at the silver lining. Focus on the positive. Look on the bright side. These won't work for you while you're carrying so much, and holding yourself together. Instead whats going to happen, is youre going to feel pressure. The more you force yourself into a positive state and mindset, and the more you notice it not working, the more you will feel like crap. All the while youre teaching your body that these heavier (and very valid) emotions arent welcome...leaving your body to think "I am only safe when I feel good" Nah...you dont want that. You dont want to teach your body emotional surpression... ...you want it to know and understand emotional healthy and mastery, so you can live a life of spaciouness and abundance. Unhooking yourself from toxic positivity, is about release the pressure to perform. It means letting yourself feel whats true for you, and decoding it all. Its about increasing your capacity (so you can hold MORE). We dive into this convo inside todays episode. I hope it serves you, and that you gently release that pressure youve been putting on yourself.   BOOK A BREATHWORK SESSION INSTAGRAM

    29 min

  8. FEB 20

    142// Why trying harder or putting MORE effort in, isn't working anymore

    I've been thinking about something a lot lately. There's this really specific kind of frustration that happens when trying harder used to work… and now it just doesn't. Like you know how to be disciplined. You know how to show up. You've done hard things before. You've built things before. You're not new to effort. But lately it feels like you're putting in the same energy and getting half the movement. Or you're pushing and instead of momentum, you just feel more tired. And that's the part that's unsettling. Because if effort has always been your safety net, your identity, the thing that made you capable… what does it mean when it stops working? I see so many women quietly turn this inward. They start wondering if they've gotten lazy. If they've lost their drive. If they just need to get it together. But what if that's not what's happening at all. What if trying harder isn't working because you're not lacking discipline… you're lacking capacity. Effort works beautifully when there's space inside you to receive the results of that effort. When your nervous system isn't already overloaded. When you're not carrying layers of responsibility, emotion, identity shifts, invisible labor. If you've been holding a lot for a long time, pushing more doesn't create progress. It creates pressure. And pressure doesn't build. It braces. Sometimes when effort stops working, it's not a sign to double down. It's a sign that your system is asking for room to breathe. You don't need to prove you still have it in you. You don't need to earn your rest by collapsing first. It might just be that this season requires something different. Not more force. More space. I talk about this more deeply in this week's podcast episode, but I just wanted to say this here in case you needed to hear it. Nothing is wrong with you. You're not behind. You might just be full. BOOK A BREATHWORK SESSION COME HANG ON INSTAGRAM

    22 min
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A podcast teaching women how to feel the energy, emotions and essence of their desires FIRST, so that they can turn their reality into their version of wealth. Inside this podcast we cover emotional intelligence, spirituality, breathwork, embodiment, wealth and abundance, and how it contributes to building a life that YOU choose. Here we reject hustle culture, pressure and force, and replace it with slowness, contentment, purpose and fulfilment. This is where we get to live out our version of wealth, by feeling it all FIRST! Welcome!

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