Family Dialogues

Dr. Taniesha Burke

When love feels strained, kids are struggling, and your home feels divided, it’s easy to wonder if peace and joy are still possible. The Family Dialogues Podcast reminds you they are. Each episode is a guide back to connection, helping couples heal, parents unite, and families grow stronger together, even when life gets messy. Listeners love this podcast because it starts where true change begins: with the partnership at the center of the home. Dr. Taniesha Burke helps parents rebuild love, trust, and teamwork so children can thrive in the security of a united family. You’ll gain proven, evidence-based strategies for nurturing emotional growth, fostering resilience in your kids, and creating a home that feels safe and joyful again. As a research psychologist, parenting coach, and mother of three, Dr. Burke brings both academic expertise and lived experience to every conversation. Her background in family relations, child development, and spiritual life coaching, combined with insights from world-class guests, offers practical wisdom you can apply right away. Whether you’re rekindling love, restoring peace, or building a stronger bond with your children, The Family Dialogues Podcast is your companion for raising families that stay connected, grounded, and full of joy no matter what challenges come your way.

  1. Your Spouse Isn't Lazy, Selfish, or Unloving. They Have ADHD | Melissa Orlov

    1D AGO

    Your Spouse Isn't Lazy, Selfish, or Unloving. They Have ADHD | Melissa Orlov

    When ADHD shows up in a marriage, it can often be misunderstood as laziness, selfishness, unreliability, or a lack of care. In this episode of Family Dialogues, Dr. Taniesha Burke speaks with ADHD relationship expert Melissa Orlov, author of The ADHD Effect on Marriage, about how ADHD can impact communication, trust, emotional regulation, household responsibilities, intimacy, and connection in couples.  Melissa explains why many adults first recognize ADHD patterns after a child is diagnosed, how a partner can misread ADHD symptoms, and why couples often fall into painful cycles such as over-functioning and under-functioning, resentment, criticism, emotional volatility, and the parent-child dynamic. She also discusses why education is often the first step toward healing, and how understanding ADHD can help couples move from blame and frustration toward compassion, accountability, and repair. This conversation is especially helpful for couples who suspect ADHD may be affecting their relationship, partners who feel overwhelmed by carrying the emotional or practical load, and adults who struggle with distractibility, time management, follow-through, emotional dysregulation, or feeling constantly criticized. Melissa reminds listeners that ADHD is not an excuse, but understanding it can provide a pathway to practical solutions. With the right tools, support, assessment, and willingness from both partners, ADHD-affected couples can rebuild trust, improve communication, and create a more connected and loving relationship. The episode also emphasizes that anyone who suspects ADHD should consider seeking a professional assessment rather than self-diagnosing. In This Episode How adult ADHD affects marriage and long-term relationships Why ADHD symptoms are often mistaken for laziness, selfishness, or not caring The parent-child dynamic in ADHD-affected couples Emotional dysregulation, resentment, defensiveness, and repair How ADHD impacts trust, communication, intimacy, and household responsibilities How to gently raise the possibility of ADHD with a partner Why education, support systems, and professional assessment matter How couples can move from blame to teamwork and reconnection Recommended Resources ADHDmarriage.com ADHD Marriage Consulting The ADHD Effect on Marriage by Melissa Orlov The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD by Melissa Orlov Melissa Orlov’s Couples Seminar / Nine-Session Seminar for ADHD-Affected Couples ADDitude Magazine Melissa Orlov’s ADDitude webinar on resentment in ADHD relationships Melissa Orlov - Psychology Today

    1h 2m
  2. Parenting ADHD with Confidence: How to Handle Defiance, Forgetfulness & Emotional Outbursts | Cindy Goldrich

    APR 21

    Parenting ADHD with Confidence: How to Handle Defiance, Forgetfulness & Emotional Outbursts | Cindy Goldrich

    Parenting a child with ADHD can feel overwhelming with the constant reminders, emotional outbursts, forgotten tasks, and daily power struggles. But what if the key isn’t more discipline… but deeper understanding?  In this episode of Family Dialogues, ADHD expert Cindy Goldrich shares practical, research-informed strategies to help parents move from frustration to connection. Learn how to support your child’s executive function challenges, reduce conflict, and build independence without shame, punishment, or burnout. Whether you're navigating ADHD parenting, emotional regulation struggles, or daily routines, this episode offers actionable tools to create a calmer, more connected family dynamic.  What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why ADHD is not a behavior problem but a skill gap How executive function challenges impact memory, motivation, and routines The powerful mindset shift: “Parent the child you have” Why reward charts and punishments often fail with ADHD children How to reduce power struggles and defiance through collaboration The difference between enabling vs. supporting your child Simple strategies to build independence and responsibility How to communicate effectively: “Be brief, firm, and gone” Tools to support emotional regulation and self-awareness Why connection, not correction is the foundation of lasting change Key Takeaways: ADHD brains work differently; understanding this changes everything Children with ADHD are not lazy or unmotivated: They need skill-building support Strong parent-child relationships reduce conflict and improve outcomes Small shifts in communication and mindset can lead to major family transformation Resources & Programs Mentioned: Special resource for listeners - www.PTScoaching.com/DrBurke PTS Coaching Calm and Connected Parents Program ADHD Parent Coach Academy ADHD Teacher Trainer Academy Eight Keys to Parenting Children with ADHD (book) Substack (Cindy Goldrich) Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/PTSCoaching Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ptscoaching LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ptscoaching

    57 min
  3. When Crisis Strikes: How One Family Survived a Brain Aneurysm & Built Unshakable Resilience | Scott Delahooke

    APR 14

    When Crisis Strikes: How One Family Survived a Brain Aneurysm & Built Unshakable Resilience | Scott Delahooke

    What happens when life changes in an instant? In this deeply moving episode of Family Dialogues, we explore how one family navigated a sudden, life-threatening brain aneurysm, and what kept them grounded through fear, uncertainty, and recovery.  Scott Delahook shares the powerful story of his wife Mona’s medical emergency, the emotional and spiritual resilience required during ICU uncertainty, and the practical steps every family should take to prepare for the unexpected. This episode is a must-listen for parents, couples, and caregivers seeking guidance on family resilience, crisis management, emotional strength, and faith during adversity. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: What really happens during a brain aneurysm and emergency brain surgery How to stay grounded in high-stress, life-threatening situations Why avoiding information overload can protect your mental health in a crisis The critical importance of medical directives, wills, and family preparedness How to build a strong support system and community before you need it The role of faith, surrender, and emotional resilience in healing Practical ways families can work together and delegate during emergencies Insights into traumatic brain injury recovery and long-term healing Why connection, love, and co-regulation are essential for both patients and caregivers Key Takeaway: Preparation, community, and faith are not optional; they are essential. Investing in relationships and having difficult conversations now can transform how your family survives and heals during crisis. Recommended Resources: Medical Directive / Advance Care Planning Resources Estate Planning & Family Trust Services Brain Injury & Stroke Recovery Support Groups Caregiver Support Communities (online & local) Faith-Based Counseling & Community Groups Mona Delahooke’s Parenting Resources & Books For episode feedback: info@tanieshaburke.com

    1h 9m
  4. Why 90% of Families Lose Their Wealth (And How to Prevent It) | Emily Griffiths-Hamilton

    APR 7

    Why 90% of Families Lose Their Wealth (And How to Prevent It) | Emily Griffiths-Hamilton

    In this powerful episode of Family Dialogues, Dr. Tanisha Burke sits down with family enterprise advisor Emily Griffiths Hamilton to unpack the truth about generational wealth, succession planning, and building a lasting family legacy. Most families focus on making money, but far fewer know how to sustain wealth across generations without conflict, entitlement, or loss. Emily introduces the concept of a “family bank” which a framework that goes beyond finances to include shared values, communication, and intentional parenting. You’ll discover why 70% of wealth is lost by the second generation, and 90% by the third, and how families can break that cycle. This episode explores: Why communication, not money, is the #1 reason families lose wealth The difference between financial wealth vs. human and intellectual capital How to create a family vision and shared values that guide decisions Why giving children “everything” can undermine resilience and independence How to raise children who are financially responsible, confident, and purpose-driven Practical ways to introduce money conversations at age-appropriate stages How to avoid inheritance conflict, entitlement, and family breakdown Whether you’re building wealth from scratch or thinking about your legacy, this episode will help you raise children who are not just wealthy—but prepared, grounded, and connected. 🔗 Recommended Resources Build Your Family Bank – Emily Griffiths Hamilton (Book) Family Meetings Course – Dr. Taniesha Burke

    1h 34m
  5. How to Save Your Marriage While Raising a Child with Disabilities (Real Strategies That Work) | Kristin Faith Evans

    MAR 31

    How to Save Your Marriage While Raising a Child with Disabilities (Real Strategies That Work) | Kristin Faith Evans

    What happens to your marriage when life takes an unexpected turn through diagnosis, chronic stress, and emotional overwhelm? In this powerful episode of the Family Dialogues Podcast, Dr. Taniesha Burke speaks with licensed therapist, author, and special needs mom Kristin Faith Evans about how couples can not only survive but build a thriving, connected marriage while raising children with disabilities. Kristin shares her deeply personal journey through trauma, chronic grief, and marital strain, and the practical tools that helped her rebuild trust, connection, and emotional resilience in her relationship. This episode offers real, research-informed strategies for parents navigating caregiving stress, mental health challenges, and the silent impact on their marriage. 🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The hidden impact of chronic sorrow and “living loss” in special needs parenting Why marriages often struggle under caregiving stress, and how to rebuild connection Practical tools for improving communication, emotional regulation, and intimacy How 5–10 minute daily check-ins can transform your relationship The role of mindfulness, self-regulation, and micro self-care moments How to support siblings and recognize signs of emotional distress What friends and family should really say (and do) to support parents Reconnecting spiritually when faith feels distant or strained 💡 Key Takeaways: Small, consistent actions, not grand gestures, strengthen marriages Emotional validation is more powerful than fixing problems Regulated conversations lead to better decisions and less conflict You are not alone, connection and support are essential 🎯 Perfect For: Parents raising children with disabilities or special needs Couples experiencing stress, disconnection, or caregiver burnout Therapists, coaches, and anyone supporting families Friends and family wanting to better support loved ones 🔗 Resources & Programs Mentioned: How to Build a Thriving Marriage While Caring for Children with Disabilities (book by Kristin Faith Evans) Disability Parenting Website: https://disabilityparenting.com Disability Moms Living Strong (Support Group) Instagram: @disabilityparenting If this episode resonated with you, share it with a parent or couple who needs encouragement today and don’t forget to follow the podcast for more conversations that strengthen families.

    1h 2m
  6. “I Grew Up Without a Father:” The Truth About Childhood Trauma & Healing | Adam B. Coleman

    MAR 24

    “I Grew Up Without a Father:” The Truth About Childhood Trauma & Healing | Adam B. Coleman

    In this powerful episode of Family Dialogues Podcast, we sit down with author and cultural commentator Adam B. Coleman to explore the long-term impact of father absence, single-parent households, and broken family systems on children and society.  Drawing from his deeply personal story and his book The Children We Left Behind, Adam shares how growing up without a consistent father figure shaped his identity, mental health, relationships, and self-worth. Together, we unpack the emotional realities many children silently carry from abandonment wounds to low self-esteem and why these experiences often go unnoticed. This conversation goes beyond personal stories to examine broader cultural trends, including the normalization of family separation, the role of extended family, and the societal consequences of prioritizing adult happiness over children’s well-being. We also explore: The psychological effects of fatherlessness on boys and girls Why children from single-parent homes often hide their pain The link between family breakdown, mental health struggles, and risky behaviors The dangers children face when non-biological adults enter the home How unresolved childhood trauma impacts adult relationships and parenting The importance of intentional parenting, emotional connection, and accountability Adam also offers hope by sharing how he broke generational patterns, rebuilt his identity, and is raising his son with intention, presence, and emotional awareness.  This episode is essential listening for parents, caregivers, and anyone seeking to understand the deeper impact of family dynamics on child development and long-term well-being.  Resources & Recommendations The Children We Left Behind – Adam B. Coleman Adam B. Coleman Substack Wrong Speak Publishing Wrong Speak Media Adam on YouTube/@wrong_speak

    1h 43m
  7. How Moms Can Start a Business Without Losing Their Family | Faith, Entrepreneurship & Motherhood | Cherene Francis

    MAR 17

    How Moms Can Start a Business Without Losing Their Family | Faith, Entrepreneurship & Motherhood | Cherene Francis

    Can mothers successfully balance entrepreneurship, marriage, and motherhood without losing themselves in the process? In this episode of the Family Dialogues Podcast, Dr. Taniesha speaks with multimedia creator, filmmaker, and business strategist Cherene Francis about how women can build meaningful businesses while nurturing strong families and staying grounded in their identity. Together, they explore the mindset shifts women need to move from uncertainty to confidence, practical ways to start a business with minimal resources, and how faith, discipline, and intentional family planning help women thrive in multiple roles. Cherene shares powerful insights from her journey as an entrepreneur, wife, and mother including how grounding your day, understanding your personal rhythms, and building an intentional family ecosystem can transform both your business and home life. This episode is especially valuable for mothers considering starting a home-based business, transitioning to entrepreneurship, or creating a more flexible work life while remaining deeply present for their children and marriage. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why mindset and identity are the foundation of successful entrepreneurship Practical steps to start a business with minimal money or resources How mothers can leverage their skills and passions to create income online The role of faith, purpose, and personal development in building a meaningful business How to avoid common pitfalls when choosing a business coach or program Why AI can be a helpful tool, but not a replacement for human creativity and purpose How to design a family-centered business plan that prioritizes marriage and children Strategies for raising independent and capable children while managing a busy life The wisdom of the Proverbs 31 woman as a model for leadership, entrepreneurship, and family life Simple ways to protect energy, intimacy in marriage, and personal wellbeing If you are a mother seeking to build a life of purpose, flexibility, and strong family connection, this conversation will inspire you to think differently about work, identity, and leadership in the home. Platforms, Tools & Resources Mentioned Fiverr – freelance platform for hiring or offering services Upwork – global freelance marketplace ChatGPT / AI tools – used for brainstorming business ideas and automation The Baby Whisperer – parenting book on baby routines and self-soothing Connect with Cherene Francis Instagram: @ChereneFrancis Website: ChereneFrancis.com If you enjoy this episode, please follow, rate, and share the Family Dialogues Podcast so more families can build stronger, healthier relationships.

    1h 26m
  8. Raising a Child With Disabilities: Advocacy, Marriage, Faith & Thriving as a Special Needs Parent | Christine Staple-Ebanks

    MAR 10

    Raising a Child With Disabilities: Advocacy, Marriage, Faith & Thriving as a Special Needs Parent | Christine Staple-Ebanks

    Raising a child with disabilities can transform every aspect of family life from medical decisions and advocacy to marriage, sibling relationships, and personal identity. In this powerful episode of Family Dialogues, Dr. Taniesha Burke speaks with author, advocate, and speaker Christine Staple-Ebanks, a mother whose son Nathan was diagnosed with cerebral palsy after surviving a life-threatening birth condition. Christine shares her deeply personal journey navigating medical uncertainty, building resilience, and becoming a fierce advocate for her child. From raising Nathan in Jamaica, where services were limited, to navigating complex systems in the United States, Christine reveals how parents can move from overwhelm to empowerment. This conversation explores how families can stay connected, how parents can advocate effectively for their children, and how faith, community, and knowledge can transform a difficult diagnosis into a meaningful life mission. Whether you’re a parent of a child with special needs, a professional working with families, or someone supporting loved ones through similar challenges, this episode offers practical tools, emotional insight, and hope. In This Episode, We Discuss The emotional impact of receiving a cerebral palsy diagnosis Trusting parental intuition when developmental milestones seem delayed The difference between aggressive vs. assertive advocacy in healthcare and education Navigating IEP meetings and special education systems How disability affects siblings, marriage, and the entire family system Rebuilding identity after leaving a career to become a caregiver Why community support and parent networks are essential How faith, resilience, and purpose can emerge through hardship Practical strategies for balancing caregiving, finances, and self-care Preparing for your child’s transition to adulthood and guardianship Key Takeaways Parents are experts on their children: document observations and ask questions. Effective advocacy is informed, calm, and solution-focused. Disability impacts the entire family ecosystem, not just the child. Building a support network of other parents can provide life-changing knowledge and resources. Scheduling intentional time for siblings, marriage, and self-care helps families thrive. About Our Guest Christine Staple-Ebanks is an author, speaker, and special needs advocate. As the founder of the Special Needs Mama Bear community, she equips families with tools, education, and encouragement to navigate life after a diagnosis. Through coaching, books, and online resources, she helps parents build confidence in advocacy and create thriving family systems. Connect With Christine YouTube: Special Needs Mama Bear Facebook: Special Needs Mama Bear Community Parent coaching and resources available through her Special Needs Mama Bear membership platform Platforms & Programs Mentioned in This Episode (Helpful resources referenced during the conversation) Special Needs Mama Bear Community & Store – Parent resources and coaching Udemy – Online course platform (Christine’s advocacy training) YouTube – Educational resources from Special Needs Mama Bear Facebook & Instagram – Parenting and community support groups Ronald McDonald House – Housing support for families with hospitalized children MyChart – Patient portal for accessing medical records and results UN Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (CRPD) – International disability rights framework

    1h 21m

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When love feels strained, kids are struggling, and your home feels divided, it’s easy to wonder if peace and joy are still possible. The Family Dialogues Podcast reminds you they are. Each episode is a guide back to connection, helping couples heal, parents unite, and families grow stronger together, even when life gets messy. Listeners love this podcast because it starts where true change begins: with the partnership at the center of the home. Dr. Taniesha Burke helps parents rebuild love, trust, and teamwork so children can thrive in the security of a united family. You’ll gain proven, evidence-based strategies for nurturing emotional growth, fostering resilience in your kids, and creating a home that feels safe and joyful again. As a research psychologist, parenting coach, and mother of three, Dr. Burke brings both academic expertise and lived experience to every conversation. Her background in family relations, child development, and spiritual life coaching, combined with insights from world-class guests, offers practical wisdom you can apply right away. Whether you’re rekindling love, restoring peace, or building a stronger bond with your children, The Family Dialogues Podcast is your companion for raising families that stay connected, grounded, and full of joy no matter what challenges come your way.