Feeling Seen: A UNC CAPS Podcast

Anthony Teasdale

Hosted by Dr. Erinn Scott, Psy.D. and Dr. Anthony Teasdale, Ph.D., staff psychologists at Counseling & Psychological Services (CAPS) at The University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill. Colleagues and friends come together to discuss and demystify mental health, therapy, and help seeking, and have some fun in the process. Speaking directly to UNC and its students, and giving listeners a more personal side of CAPS and its staff. There'll be insights, laughs, and mistakes, but always with the intention of reducing stigma and helping people "feel seen."

  1. 2025-11-01

    Failure is Not the End of the World

    You've probably heard the phrase, "nothing is certain in this world except death and taxes." Well, we'd add failure to that quote. As Albert Einstein noted, "anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new." Life IS trying new things. Failure is inevitable. We will all fail at some time, at some thing. The attempt to avoid failure often robs people of living; of experiencing new, exciting and unexpected opportunities. Because they DON'T try new things. DON'T do anything unfamiliar or that they are not assured will succeed. This narrows the POSSIBILITIES in life. And people who live this way often find themselves disenchanted, ruled by fear, and stuck. Many of the most successful people have shared stories of failure that helped shape their success and drive. A very famous example is Michael Jordan sharing the story of being cut from his high school varsity team and how that motivated him to work hard on his basketball skills. Many years later he is arguably the greatest basketball player ever. There are positive things to be gained and learned from failure. As therapists in a university setting we see fear of failure often in our students. Often they DON'T try new things, including meeting new people and social experience, because of fear of failure. It is no surprise that someone with this fear of failure could feel TONS of anxiety in a university setting. University is about learning. About learning things you DON'T already know. The belief many students have that they SHOULD already know, SHOULD have it be easy, SHOULD get all A's is a recipe for FAILURE. Today on the podcast we talk about failure. How we've failed in our lives and what we learned. And we encourage others to let go of the crippling fear of failure and embrace a different mindset. Join us for this interesting episode.

    42 min

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Hosted by Dr. Erinn Scott, Psy.D. and Dr. Anthony Teasdale, Ph.D., staff psychologists at Counseling & Psychological Services (CAPS) at The University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill. Colleagues and friends come together to discuss and demystify mental health, therapy, and help seeking, and have some fun in the process. Speaking directly to UNC and its students, and giving listeners a more personal side of CAPS and its staff. There'll be insights, laughs, and mistakes, but always with the intention of reducing stigma and helping people "feel seen."