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Santanna & Lacey
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  • BIWEEKLY SERIES

Two best friends showing up with honesty, humor, and a questionable amount of self-awareness. This is the podcast where we grow, heal, laugh, cry, spiral, recover, and repeat. We talk about the messy parts of womanhood, the love stories, the heartbreaks, the mom life, the therapy breakthroughs, and the parts of womanhood that feel tender, messy, and too real to go through alone. If you’re craving connection, comfort, a good laugh, or a friend group that feels like home, press play and stay awhile. We saved you a seat babe. 💖

  1. Character Development Starts Here

    EPISODE 1

    Character Development Starts Here

    We introduce ourselves, unpack how we became friends through a mutual we're definitely not friends with anymore, and recap the road trip where we almost got trafficked but somehow turned it into a joke. It's friendship lore, red flags, survival skills, and character development all in one episode.

    15 min
  2. BONUS: The Group Chat Leaked: Valentines Edition

    EPISODE 2

    BONUS: The Group Chat Leaked: Valentines Edition

    This Valentine's Day, the group chat is wide open and the submissions are unhinged. From sweet confessions to chaotic dating disasters, we're reading your stories, passing the phone, and reacting the way your best friend would. Silence your situationship and settle in, the group chat is leaking the red flags.

    26 min
  3. Love, Lies & Left on Read

    EPISODE 3

    Love, Lies & Left on Read

    We unpack the wild world of dating, the questionable decisions that somehow feel like good ideas at the time, and the moments when an ex sneaks back into the storyline like a recurring character nobody invited. From “How did I end up here again?” to “Why did I think this was a good idea?”, we’re breaking down the laughs, the lessons, and the delusional optimism that makes modern dating chaotic, relatable, and always podcast‑worthy.

    35 min
  4. Truths and Uncomfortable Conversations

    EPISODE 4

    Truths and Uncomfortable Conversations

    In this episode, we’re getting real about the things we usually avoid saying out loud. From the messy, hilarious, realities of co‑parenting and learning how to communicate without losing our minds, we’re laying it all out with honesty and heart. We also take a trip down memory lane, back to childhood summers, sleepovers, and the “outside until the streetlights came on” era, and compare it to the world we’re navigating now. The differences are wild, the lessons are real, and the nostalgia is strong.

    44 min
  5. Fool Me Twice

    EPISODE 5

    Fool Me Twice

    This week, we expose the world’s least talented catfish, someone who tried to fool us and still couldn’t get past our FBI‑level instincts. We walk you through how we spotted the red flags, the moment everything clicked, and the surprisingly hilarious aftermath. Come hang out with us and marvel at the sheer audacity!

    28 min
  6. Hot by Whose Standards?

    EPISODE 6

    Hot by Whose Standards?

    We dive headfirst into the messy, ever‑shifting world of beauty standards, who creates them, who benefits from them, and why we’re all still pretending they make any sense. From childhood insecurities to social‑media filters to the unspoken rules we’ve all absorbed without noticing, we’re unpacking the pressure, the performance, and the politics of “pretty.”

    51 min
  7. Hard Things, Soft Voices

    EPISODE 7

    Hard Things, Soft Voices

    We sit down for one of the most honest conversations we’ve had on the show. We break down the realities of physical and sexual assault, how it shows up, how it’s minimized, and how it impacts survivors long after the moment has passed. We talk about the systems that fail people, the language we use without thinking, and the ways communities can actually show up with care instead of judgment. Lacey also shares a personal story from her own life, offering a vulnerable look at what survival, reflection, and reclaiming your voice can look like. This episode is about truth, safety, and giving space to experiences that are too often pushed aside. If you or someone you love has lived through something similar, we hope this conversation reminds you that you’re not alone, your story matters, and healing doesn’t have to look one specific way. Support Resources: Regina Sexual Assault Centre - https://reginasexualassaultcentre.ca/support-resources Saskatchewan Interpersonal Violence and Abuse Programs Crisis Services - https://www.crsacsk.ca/crisis-services Local Help for Domestic Conflict - https://www.reginapolice.ca/domestic-conflict/local-help-and-support-for-domestic-conflict/

    39 min
  8. Back on Our B******t

    EPISODE 8

    Back on Our B******t

    It’s Lacey’s birthday, and the second we hit record it turned into full FaceTime energy. We got distracted immediately, and the episode spiraled into roasts, random tangents, questionable stories, and the kind of laughing‑so‑hard‑we-can’t-breathe moments that derail everything. It’s messy, it’s chaotic, it’s giving “best friends on a call forgetting the world exists.” It's raw, it's real and it is completely us!

    36 min
  9. Not Us Learning About Swingers 👀

    EPISODE 9

    Not Us Learning About Swingers 👀

    In this episode, we explore the world of consensual non‑monogamy through the lens of relationship dynamics, communication, and trust. We break down common misconceptions, discuss how different couples navigate boundaries, and look at the social and cultural factors that shape these relationship structures. Whether you’re curious, learning, or simply expanding your understanding of how people build connection, this conversation offers thoughtful insight

    1 hr
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Two best friends showing up with honesty, humor, and a questionable amount of self-awareness. This is the podcast where we grow, heal, laugh, cry, spiral, recover, and repeat. We talk about the messy parts of womanhood, the love stories, the heartbreaks, the mom life, the therapy breakthroughs, and the parts of womanhood that feel tender, messy, and too real to go through alone. If you’re craving connection, comfort, a good laugh, or a friend group that feels like home, press play and stay awhile. We saved you a seat babe. 💖

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  • Creator
    Santanna & Lacey
  • Episodes
    10
  • Seasons
    1
  • Rating
    Explicit
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