The Healing Trauma Podcast

Monique Koven
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Everyone deserves to be seen, soothed, and understood. This podcast is here to light your path on the healing journey, offering empathy and hope along the way. Through conversations with trauma experts, w'ell share insights and practical support to help you heal and move forward. Disclaimer: This podcast is for information purposes only and should not be considered as legal advice.This podcast is not intended to replace professional medical and mental health advice. Guest view's do not necessarily reflect that of the host or podcast.

  1. The Emotionally Immature Mother With Dr. Lindsay Gibson

    -6 J

    The Emotionally Immature Mother With Dr. Lindsay Gibson

    In this conversation, Monique welcomes back Dr. Lindsay Gibson to discuss the complexities of emotionally immature mothers and their impact on daughters. They explore the characteristics of emotional immaturity, the need for empathy and connection, and the challenges faced by adult children in navigating relationships with such parents. The discussion also touches on healing strategies, the importance of supportive relationships, and the future of parenting emotionally mature children. takeaways Emotional immaturity can manifest in various ways, affecting relationships.The need to be seen and understood is fundamental for emotional health.Daughters of emotionally immature mothers often feel invisible and misunderstood.Empathy is crucial for healthy relationships and emotional maturity.Navigating relationships with emotionally immature parents requires self-care and boundaries.Healing is a process that involves recognizing and managing one's own emotional needs.Supportive friendships can provide the empathy and connection lacking in parental relationships.Understanding emotional immaturity can help adult children cope with their experiences.Raising emotionally mature children involves fostering empathy and emotional intelligence.It's important to acknowledge the pain of unmet emotional needs and work towards healing. Watch this episode on youtube https://youtu.be/fthdfUk5WHE?si=X4qmjUrY5jbzT373 Find Lindsay's books here: Adult children of Emotionally Immature Parents https://amzn.to/4kpLu1l Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy  https://amzn.to/42YKdHg Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with Confidence https://amzn.to/3RTG6XX Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents https://amzn.to/44qhHRo Connect with Monique on IG https://www.instagram.com/thehealingtraumapodcast/ Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    41 min
  2. IFS: Working With Child Part's With Dr. Richard Schwartz

    4 OCT.

    IFS: Working With Child Part's With Dr. Richard Schwartz

    This episode is a re release from a previous season. In this conversation, Monique is talking with Dr. Richard Schwartz, the creator of Internal Family Systems, (IFS) They discuss the model and its application in healing trauma, particularly childhood and complex trauma. Richard emphasizes the importance of understanding the 'self' within IFS, the process of unburdening parts of oneself that carry trauma, and the transformative potential of accessing one's inherent self. The discussion also covers practical techniques for working with protectors and exiled parts. takeaways IFS helps in healing trauma by addressing parts of oneself.The self is an untainted essence that knows how to heal.Unburdening parts can lead to rapid transformation.Curiosity and compassion are key in working with inner critics.Healing involves retrieving and nurturing the inner child.Protectors must be honored and understood, not fought against.Accessing the self can take time and patience.Children can easily understand and engage with their parts.Spiritual insights suggest that the self is inherent in everyone.The upcoming book aims to make IFS accessible to a wider audience. https://ifs-institute.com/ The Internal Family Systems Workbook: A Guide to Discover Your Self and Heal Your Parts https://amzn.to/3Ky7nPf No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model https://amzn.to/4mUZHUF Introduction to Internal Family Systems https://amzn.to/3VPnudK **Anxiety Recovery & Deep Rest Super Conference Sign up here: http://consciouslife.com/conferences/anxiety-rest?_ef_transaction_id=&oid=3&affid=697 Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    35 min
  3. Indigenous Generational Trauma : Sixties Scoop with Nakuset

    30 SEPT.

    Indigenous Generational Trauma : Sixties Scoop with Nakuset

    *This episode is being re released on September 30 to honour the National day For Truth And Reconciliation. In this episode of the Healing Trauma Podcast, host Monique Koven speaks with Nakuset, an Indigenous woman who shares her powerful story of being a survivor of the 60s scoop and the impact of residential schools on her life and family. Nakuset discusses her journey of self-discovery, the challenges faced by Indigenous communities, and her work as the executive director of the Native Women's Shelter in Montreal. The conversation highlights the importance of healing, community support, and the need for accountability in addressing historical injustices. takeaways Trauma recovery is a messy and challenging process.The 60s scoop involved the forced adoption of Indigenous children.Residential schools had a devastating impact on Indigenous families.Sisterly bonds can be both a source of strength and trauma.Grief can be transformed into action for social change.Empowering Indigenous women is crucial for community healing.Creating sustainable solutions for homelessness is essential.Collaboration with youth protection is necessary for effective support.Accountability for historical injustices is vital for healing.Community-driven solutions are key to addressing systemic issues. https://www.instagram.com/supacree/ Documentary: https://youtu.be/9P4iYYL4FYY?si=tayMiSmckkSWOe9C *Anxiety Recovery & Deep Rest Super Conference Sign up here: http://consciouslife.com/conferences/anxiety-rest?_ef_transaction_id=&oid=3&affid=697 Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    33 min
  4. Complex Trauma & Parenting With Sidu Arroyo

    25 SEPT.

    Complex Trauma & Parenting With Sidu Arroyo

    *This episode is a re release from a previous season. In this conversation, Monique is talking with guest family therapist Sidu Arroyo about the critical aspects of emotional regulation, particularly for those with trauma histories. She emphasizes the importance of understanding that emotions are neither good nor bad, and that self-regulation is a skill that requires practice and co-regulation with others. The discussion also addresses the feelings of guilt and shame that parents may experience when they lose control, and the significance of repairing relationships with children after emotional outbursts. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for compassion towards oneself and the importance of creating a safe environment for emotional expression. takeaways Emotions are neither good nor bad; they are experiences.Self-regulation is a skill that takes practice.Safety is essential for effective self-regulation.Co-regulation is crucial for children to learn self-regulation.Parents often struggle with guilt and shame after losing control.Repairing relationships is vital after emotional outbursts.Acknowledging emotions with compassion is important.Children need consistent support to develop emotional skills.It's okay to be human and make mistakes as a parent.This journey of emotional regulation is a process, not linear. Sidu Arroyo: https://www.instagram.com/becomingathome/ *Anxiety Recovery & Deep Rest Super Conference Sign up here: http://consciouslife.com/conferences/anxiety-rest?_ef_transaction_id=&oid=3&affid=697 Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    28 min
  5. A Journey of Healing With Linda Pevac

    12 SEPT.

    A Journey of Healing With Linda Pevac

    In this conversation, Linda Pevac shares her journey of healing through writing, discussing her three books that explore her experiences as an adoptee and the therapeutic techniques that have aided her growth. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's identity, the impact of trauma, and the necessity of embracing change for personal development. The discussion also highlights the nuances of the adoptee experience and the significance of creating a safe space for healing. takeaways Healing is a continuous journey that brings joy.Writing has been a powerful tool for self-discovery.Therapy can help individuals connect with their inner parts.Choosing to breathe symbolizes making conscious choices.Adoption starts with trauma, affecting identity development.Creating a gathering place allows for dialogue with inner parts.Truth and authenticity are essential for personal growth.Anxiety can cloud creativity and self-expression.It's important to challenge the stories we tell ourselves.The journey of healing can inspire others to find their own path.Watch this episode on Youtube https://youtu.be/c6I8Z76syKM Linda's new book: Choosing to Breathe https://amzn.to/4mynPMR The Gathering Place: An Adoptee's Story https://amzn.to/3JYO1T7 A Fire is Coming https://amzn.to/4mdBc4y Linda's website: www.emmastevenswriter.com https://www.instagram.com/thehealingtraumapodcast/ Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    30 min
  6. Complex Trauma with Tim Fletcher

    5 SEPT.

    Complex Trauma with Tim Fletcher

    In this episode of the Healing Trauma Podcast, Guest host, Dr. Mark McNear interviews Tim Fletcher, who shares his journey from burnout to becoming a trauma counselor. Tim discusses the roots of complex trauma, the importance of emotional needs in childhood, and the long road to recovery. He emphasizes the significance of self-love, finding safe people, and the challenges of navigating emotions in complex PTSD. Tim also provides insights on tools for emotional regulation and the necessity of patience in the healing process. Takeaways Tim's journey into trauma counseling began unexpectedly.Complex trauma includes both big T and little t traumas.Unmet childhood needs can lead to complex trauma.Healing from trauma is a long and messy process.Finding safe people is crucial in recovery.Emotions can be difficult for those with complex PTSD.The past can influence present emotional responses.Self-love and validation are essential for healing.Emotional regulation tools can aid in recovery.Connection with safe people is vital for healing. *Anxiety Recovery & Deep Rest Super Conference Sign up here: http://consciouslife.com/conferences/anxiety-rest?_ef_transaction_id=&oid=3&affid=697 Watch this episode on Youtube https://youtu.be/llF501d9mkY?si=ywL7to0XUXnmPsJYTim's Website:https://www.timfletcher.ca/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/timfletcherco/ Guest host :Dr. McNear's Website: https://markmcnear.com/ Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    37 min
  7. Fawning: Answering Your Questions With Dr. Ingrid Clayton

    29 AOÛT

    Fawning: Answering Your Questions With Dr. Ingrid Clayton

    In this conversation, host Monique Koven has invited Dr Ingrid Clayton back to answer your questions. They explore the concept of fawning as a relational trauma response, discussing its implications on identity, relationships, and personal growth. They delve into the complexities of fawning, including its connection to chronic pain, dissociation, and the importance of setting boundaries. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-compassion and understanding in the healing process, as well as the role of environment in shaping fawning behaviors. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they highlight the journey towards authenticity and self-worth, encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves. Ingrid's new book: Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back https://amzn.to/45QPceD IG:https://www.instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd/ Website: https://www.ingridclayton.com/ Watch this episode on youtube https://youtu.be/0noqt2I1oa0 Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    51 min
  8. Fawning: A Hidden Response to Trauma With Dr. Ingrid Clayton

    22 AOÛT

    Fawning: A Hidden Response to Trauma With Dr. Ingrid Clayton

    In this conversation,Trauma psychologist and author Dr. Ingrid Clayton shares her journey of healing from complex trauma and the significance of the fawn response in understanding relational dynamics. She discusses her experiences as a survivor and therapist, emphasizing the importance of recognizing fawning behaviours and their impact on self-identity and relationships. The dialogue explores the process of building self-trust, compassion, and the ongoing journey of healing, highlighting the need for a trauma-informed perspective in understanding these responses. Ingrid's insights aim to empower listeners to embrace their experiences and foster a deeper connection with themselves. takeaways Ingrid's first podcast experience was transformative for her healing journey.Fawning is a response to relational trauma that often goes unrecognized.Understanding fawning can help individuals make sense of their behaviors.The journey of healing involves recognizing and addressing fawning behaviors.Building self-trust is crucial for personal empowerment and healing.Fawning can manifest in various relationships, including familial and romantic.Self-compassion is essential in the healing process.The importance of creating safe spaces for sharing personal stories.Healing is an ongoing process that requires patience and understanding.Everyone deserves access to tools and information for healing. Ingrid's new book: Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back https://amzn.to/45QPceD IG:https://www.instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd/ Website: https://www.ingridclayton.com/ Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE: https://buymeacoffee.com/thehealingtraumapodcast Subscribe and watch on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PA Disclaimer: This episode and website may contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code HEALING for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-healing-trauma-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    35 min
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Everyone deserves to be seen, soothed, and understood. This podcast is here to light your path on the healing journey, offering empathy and hope along the way. Through conversations with trauma experts, w'ell share insights and practical support to help you heal and move forward. Disclaimer: This podcast is for information purposes only and should not be considered as legal advice.This podcast is not intended to replace professional medical and mental health advice. Guest view's do not necessarily reflect that of the host or podcast.

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  • Créateur
    Monique Koven
  • Années d’activité
    2018 - 2025
  • Épisodes
    99
  • Classement
    Tout public
  • Copyright
    © 2024 The Healing Trauma Podcast
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