How to (Not) Kill Your Community

Delaware Community Foundation

Delaware Community Foundation President & CEO Stuart Comstock-Gay gathers insights from remarkable experts across Delaware, each offering their perspective on what it takes to build and sustain thriving communities for the long haul.

  1. JUN 9

    Jill DiPaolo and Jamar Rahming: (Don't) Bury the Libraries

    In this episode, Stuart Comstock-Gay speaks with Delaware librarians Jill DiPaolo and Jamar Rahming about the vital role libraries play in sustaining our democracy. Jamar Rahming serves as the Executive Director of the Wilmington Public Library in Delaware. Under his leadership, the library has become a vibrant community hub, hosting notable figures such as Angela Davis, LeVar Burton, and Dolly Parton. In recognition of its exceptional service, the library received the 2022 National Medal for Museum and Library Services. Rahming's dedication to community engagement and inclusivity earned him the 2025 "I Love My Librarian" award. With a career spanning two decades across eight states, including a fellowship at the Smithsonian Institution, Rahming continues to champion the transformative power of libraries. Jill DiPaolo is the Director of the Lewes Public Library. Before assuming her current role, she served as Director of both the Selbyville and Milton Public Libraries and held leadership positions in outreach and technology services at the Sussex County Department of Libraries. In 2022, DiPaolo spearheaded the inaugural Sussex County Scripps National Spelling Bee. She was also instrumental in securing technology grants from the Gates Foundation to enhance library services statewide. Residing in Lewes with her husband, Mike, and their two children, DiPaolo maintains strong ties to the community she serves.

    21 min
  2. MAY 27

    Mariah Ghant and Patti Grimes: (Don't) Undervalue the Arts

    In this episode, Stuart Comstock-Gay sits down with Mariah Ghant of Delaware Shakespeare and Patti Grimes of the Freeman Arts Pavilion to explore how the arts create space for connection across difference. Mariah Ghant is the Producing Artistic Director of Delaware Shakespeare. Before she assumed the position in 2024, she served as the Artistic Associate and Literary Manager at the Wilma Theater in Philadelphia. An accomplished actress, Mariah portrayed Hippolyta/Titania in Delaware Shakespeare's A Midsummer Night's Dream, Marc Antony in Julius Caesar, and took on the title role in Macbeth. She has also been a member of Delaware Shakespeare's Artistic Squad, contributing to the organization's creative initiatives in a variety of ways including being a teaching artist, developing new events, and directing short programs. Originally from the suburbs of Chicago, Mariah is an alumna of Vassar College. Patti Grimes is the Executive Director of the Freeman Arts Pavilion and the Carl M. Freeman Foundation. Under her leadership, the Freeman Arts Pavilion has welcomed over a million visitors since 2008. She also oversees the Carl M. Freeman Foundation, which has granted over $60 million to nonprofit organizations. Grimes serves as Vice Chair for Delaware Technical Community College and serves as a Board Member for Leadership Delaware. With over four decades at the Carl M. Freeman Companies, she continues to foster community engagement and cultural growth in the region.

    31 min
  3. MAY 12

    Jac Rivers and Christopher S. Gunter: (Don't) Lock Out Local Talent

    In this episode, Stuart Comstock-Gay speaks with the Equitable Hiring Initiative (EHI) co-founders Jac Rivers and Christopher S. Gunter about why businesses cannot afford to ignore local talent. Jac Rivers is a Vice President and Program Officer at JPMorgan Chase, leading the firm's strategic philanthropic investments in Delaware, Pennsylvania, and Southern New Jersey. With a background in law, public policy, and government administration, she focuses on innovative approaches to racial equity and wealth creation for Black and Latino communities. Before joining JPMorgan Chase, Jac served as Chief of Staff in the Managing Director’s Office for the City of Philadelphia, overseeing five operating departments. She earned her Juris Doctor from the University of Maryland Carey School of Law and holds both a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree in Sociology from Lehigh University. Christopher S. Gunter is the Community Impact & Investment Philanthropy Lead at Capital One's Wilmington office, where he directs the foundation's philanthropic investments across the Delaware Valley and Midwest regions. His work emphasizes enhancing socio-economic mobility through innovative programs, inclusive products, and impactful philanthropy. He is also a certified diversity professional, with research interests in areas such as racially-based police targeting and the re-entry process of African-American males post-corrections. Christopher holds a Bachelor of Science in Criminology and Public Administration from the University of Delaware and a Master of Science in Administration of Justice, focusing on criminal behavior, from Wilmington University.

    29 min

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Delaware Community Foundation President & CEO Stuart Comstock-Gay gathers insights from remarkable experts across Delaware, each offering their perspective on what it takes to build and sustain thriving communities for the long haul.