252 episodes

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

Husband Material Drew Boa

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 19 Ratings

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

    Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them

    Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them

    Why do we sexualize emotions, and how can we desexualize them? In this episode, I explain what it looks like to "right-size" sexual energy through processing emotions and releasing trauma.Free tools to process emotions:Feelings And Needs WheelFeelings And Needs InventoryReady to release some trauma?Come to the Husband Material Retreat in Colorado on September 6-10, 2024. Save $100 when you sign up before June 8 at husbandmaterial.com/retreat"Before the retreat, I was plagued with an overwhelm...

    • 26 min
    Overcoming Sexual Entitlement (with Noah Filipiak)

    Overcoming Sexual Entitlement (with Noah Filipiak)

    What happens when you feel entitled to sex and treat your wife like a replacement for porn? In this episode, Noah Filipiak tells his story of overcoming sexual entitlement and objectification. Along the way, he unpacks the false promises of purity culture, what love really looks like, how God's grace changes us, and the power of gratitude. Noah Filipiak is a pastor, author, and the host of The Flip Side Podcast. He also blogs at noahfilipiak.com. Noah and his wife Jen have three daughters. He...

    • 39 min
    Hope And Healing For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King)

    Hope And Healing For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King)

    What is the definition of sexless marriage? Why do couples experience this? Sexless marriage is often a symptom of deeper psychosomatic issues. Adam and Karissa teach practical tools to build a sexful marriage through vulnerability, intimacy, and safe touch. This episode can also help couples for whom intercourse is painful or not possible. Adam and Karissa King are a licensed coach/therapist team and the founders of Dear Young Married Couple, where they help couples become intimately connect...

    • 40 min
    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Respond To A Story (Part 4)

    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Respond To A Story (Part 4)

    How do you respond to someone else's story with curiosity and compassion? In part 4 of this 4 part series, Marcus Spaur shares his story: "If I Only Could Have Been..."If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups.Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/groupDrew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.comWendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a ...

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)

    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)

    How do you write a story about your trauma and sexual experiences? In part 3 of this 4-part series, Wendell Moss shares his story: "Sex & Sexuality"If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups.Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/groupDrew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.comWendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead ...

    • 42 min
    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)

    Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)

    Why is story work absolutely essential for men outgrowing porn? In part 2 of this 4 part series, Chris Inman shares his story: "The Lonely Walk."If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups.Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/groupDrew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.comWendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instruc...

    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
19 Ratings

19 Ratings

Fierce F#1 ,

Curiosity & Compassion

Husband Material has been a game changer for me in how I understand my relationship with desire and how porn became the pacifier in my life to survive painful emotion. I can’t emphasize how much I value the courage and vulnerability that Drew intentionally dives into in his podcasts. I consistently notice the values of curiosity and compassion as story and experience is shared and that huge!

There have been so many times when I’ve been listening and Drew goes that extra mile, and I feel a deep gratitude because he went “there” with the podcast. What I mean is that he asks a question that most of us would be inhibited to ask, or he shares things that many of us are too scared to put into words. My heart celebrates these moments as I hear courage and authenticity embodied on the podcasts.

I’m a better man and human because of my connection to Husband Material. It’s a gift to find connection with other men and their stories as we pursue growth and maturity together.

Tooth222 ,

Encouragement For The Journey

So much thoughtful and challenging content. So much more then strategies for self control but he digs into the issues of trauma and wounding‘s and how they affect our desires. I always leave encouraged.

smwright953 ,

No Shame

I’ve loved listening to the podcasts and watching them on YouTube. The topics are relevant for today’s generation, speaking to heart issues that those in the church tend to sweep under the rug. There is no shame and we are encouraged to go deeper with ourselves to become who we are meant to be. Definitely recommend!

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