The Family Captain

John Michael Clark
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Lead your family with strength and love. Become the greatest man they've ever known. Have incredible sex with your wife.

  1. 4D AGO

    Why 50/50 Marriage Doesn't Work (Do This Instead)

    Perhaps the most common marriage advice of the past 50 years has been: "Happy Wife, Happy Life" But it's a lie. It's not biblical. It leads to misery. We're here to destroy the myth of the "50/50" marriage by doing something radical... Reading the Bible and applying it. In this episode you'll learn why this is the biggest lie, how it slowly corrodes attraction in your marriage, and what to do instead. Implement our 3 legs of leadership and watch your family life flourish. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:27 Why is "Happy Wife, Happy Life" a lie? 2:43 Why wives lose respect for husbands in "50/50" marriages 12:10 What about BIG decisions? 17:31 Family Leadership in the Bible 23:31 Hierarchy and delegation 29:41 Micromanaging and being controlling 32:17 If you're doing everything right... 42:03 Is a good wife necessary for SUCCESS? --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    46 min

  2. MAY 1

    How Feminism Is Secretly DESTROYING Your Marriage

    Feminism has subtly rooted itself in most marriages today. And yes, probably your marriage, too. Men and women who truly love the Lord are settling for meh, or even miserable, marriages...all because they've let demonic, feminist lies infiltrate their lives. In this episode, we'll break down how to identify and start to push back against feminist lies, how to bring peace to your wife by leading as a godly, masculine husband, and what the Bible ACTUALLY says about marriage, men, and women. This one will have immediate application for most marriages, so buckle up. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:44 Feminism in Christian Marriages 6:29 Covert Feminism 14:31 Leading AGAINST culture 19:08 If your wife was taught male leadership is dangerous... 21:58 Why feminists feel threatened by us 27:04 What the Bible reveals 30:29 Bringing peace to your wife 34:05 Is submission only because of The Fall? 41:21 How to become the man she trusts 47:37 The SECRET to a happy marriage --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    50 min

  3. APR 22

    Why Husbands Become Resentful (And How to Fix It)

    Bitterness and resentment. After working with so many Christian husbands, we know that these feelings come up and create distance, even in Christian marriages. If left to their own devices, these do immense damage to families. That's why Family Captains nip resentment in the bud and get back to leading. How? In this episode we'll give you 3 questions to ask and answer that'll get you back on track, conquering resentment in your heart, and moving forward with strength and love. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:02 The Marriage That Breeds Resentment 3:27 Do You Keep "The List"? 8:46 Have You Removed Your Protection? 24:43 Wife Screen Time Example 34:03 What Do You Do When You're Disappointed? Mentioned: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004C438CW/ No More Christian Nice Guy by Paul Coughlin: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MBTYGK8/ --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    43 min

  4. APR 15

    Husbands Who Kill Addiction Do This

    👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Addiction stops many husbands from taking their life and their family to the next level. Inside the Family Captain, we're (accidental) experts on crushing addiction. I say accidental, because we never explicitly talk about it. We don't have curriculum that helps our clients defeat addiction. Our program simply creates so much momentum in men's lives that they don't have time or desire to do the things they used to cope or numb with. Internet lust. Gambling. Drinking. Scrolling. You name it. Many of our clients have come to us after and told us they broke free from the grips of addiction because of everything else we helped them put in place. This episode starts that process for YOU. No 12 step programs, just a solid 3 step plan to help you live the life you want to live, and addiction naturally crumbles. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:56 Big Shift #1 4:22 Husband 1.0 vs 2.0 10:43 Can You Even Level Up If You're Stuck in Addiction? 19:00 Big Shift #2 31:43 Sports and Food 40:17 Big Shift #3 45:42 First Step Mentioned: Death by a Thousand Lies by Blaine Bartel: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0692104860 --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    49 min

  5. APR 8

    How to Lead Your Family When Nobody Showed You How

    The thing you're missing? Leadership. The reason you're missing it? Nobody ever showed you what it looked like. We live in a strange generation. God's Truth is still True. Marriages still function ideally within that Truth. But, almost all of us are completely divorced from seeing it in action. So we become passive. Uncertain. We stop leading. Our marriages are..."okay". But they're certainly not God's best. They're usually not even that much different than secular, non-believer marriages. This episode helps fix that. What leadership ACTUALLY looks like.How to start leading today.How to use systems and strategies, not just tactics, to BECOME the man who leads, not just pretends.Let's dive in. -- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ -- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:02 Didn't Learn Leadership From Dad? 4:16 If You're "Winging It" on Family Leadership 11:00 What To Do When You Get Home 24:11 Building The 3 Legs of Leadership 30:07 Masculinizing Your Wife 41:58 Busy Is Not Leading Mentioned: AI Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyIVKodyYZI --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    49 min

  6. APR 1

    Help, My Wife Doesn't Want Sex

    "My wife loves me...but she doesn't WANT me." This is something we hear all the time from men here at The Family Captain. You're doing life really well together, you're operating as a team, you're friends with one another... But sex is irregular and infrequent, and you have a hard time telling the difference between what a "wife" means versus what a "good friend" means. This episode helps to change all of that. You'll learn some tactical stuff, but you'll also learn the thing underlying all of it that makes all the difference. Oh, and stick around to hear why we coach men to literally never ask for sex from their wives ever again. -- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ -- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:07 The WRONG Way To Think About The Problem 14:08 Warm and Fuzzies vs. Hot and Bothered 16:11 Friend vs Roommate Marriage 20:09 Pursuing vs Pressuring 30:37 If You've Stopped Asking 38:29 The Pout 41:34 What To Do Tonight --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ -- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    51 min

  7. MAR 27

    Is Your Wife Proud of You? (Or Just Loyal to You)

    If your wife is loyal but not inspired - this episode is for you. Many women vent to each other about their husbands' "failings". Maybe your wife doesn't vent, but... She's probably not bragging about you, either. If you're a Christian husband looking to have the greatest marriage you know of, full of respect, love, intimacy, and growth in the Lord, you probably need to level up in at least one of the 5 traits we're going to be talking about today. These are the traits that make wives proud of and grateful for their husbands. The things that make a wife whisper, "thank you, Lord, for my husband". Level up in these areas, and you'll become a better husband, lead in your marriage, and make your "roommate marriage" a thing of the past. Let's dive in. -- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ -- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:38 What it looks like when your wife brags on you 3:07 What your wife WON'T brag on 6:18 How to become the man your wife brags on 15:13 Where do you need to grow so she brags on you? 18:18 Where to start 23:10 The 5 traits your wife will love to brag about 26:10 Trait 1 28:04 Trait 2 32:39 Trait 3 37:20 Trait 4 46:54 Trait 5 50:45 What to do first Mentioned: The 5 Silent Killers of Attraction in Marriage Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PFl3JEWjWqI --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    56 min

  8. MAR 20

    Your Wife Doesn't Respect You (And You Don't Even Know It)

    Most modern men think that the spectrum of respect they can expect from their wife goes from 1 (blatant disrespect) to 6 (neutral). We're here to tell you that neutrality is NOT respect. Respect LOOKS like something. It's not just the absence of disrespect. From 3 godly women in the Bible to countless specific examples guys can probably relate to, our job in this episode is to provide a framework and pray that God gives you revelation for what respect actually looks like in a marriage, and how to become the man who makes it EASY for your wife to obey God by respecting you. It's time to level up. -- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ -- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 3:18 The Levels of Respect 10:27 Culture Creep Into the Church 14:35 Why Neutrality is NOT Enough 18:35 Sexual Distance and Respect? 21:10 How To Tell If You're Not Being Respected 24:58 Make It Easier For Your Wife To Respect You 35:26 What Are You Missing? 38:24 Biblical Examples of Respect 52:04 The First Step To Success 54:57 The 3 Solutions To Be Respected 58:34 WARNING --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

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Lead your family with strength and love. Become the greatest man they've ever known. Have incredible sex with your wife.

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  • Creator
    John Michael Clark
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    111
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © John Michael Clark
  • Show Website
    The Family Captain

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