LOVING LIFE AT HOME - Christian Marriage, Biblical Parenting, Creative Homemaking, Purposeful Living

Jennifer Flanders: Bible-believing wife and homeschooling mother of 12
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Do you want a peaceful, orderly home where your family can thrive? Would you like to cultivate stronger family bonds with your husband and kids? Do you long for a joy-filled, purposeful life free from fear and anxiety? Have you ever longed for a seasoned mentor who’d provide practical pointers? Fortunately for us, the Bible speaks to every one of these goals. God’s Word will help you cut through all the confusion caused by popular but conflicting marriage and parenting advice. Welcome, friend! My name is Jennifer Flanders. As a devout Christian, happy wife, homeschool mom of twelve, and grandma of 20 (so far!), I’m well-practiced in minding the things that matter most. And since the Bible charges older women to teach younger women to love their husbands, love their children, and be keepers at home, I have a scriptural mandate to share the things I’ve learned with you. Loving Life at Home is your go-to podcast for Titus 2 encouragement in marriage, motherhood, and minding what matters most. In it, I’ll teach you how to: - nurture your marriage and cultivate a life-long love with your husband - communicate with your husband in a way he understands and appreciates - raise children you not only love, but enjoy spending time with - create a warm, peaceful, inviting home that is a blessing to all who spend time there - cheerfully attend to all the sanctifying work that marriage, motherhood, and managing a home entails - use your time wisely, looking to God for the grace and strength to fulfill His call on your life So grab a cup of tea and tune in every Monday morning. In each 20-minute episode, you’ll get biblical encouragement, actionable advice, and firsthand insights on faith and family gleaned from over 35 years of marriage and motherhood and over 50 years of following Jesus. Next Steps: Read my marriage blog: https://lovinglifeathome.com Download my free printables: https://www.flandersfamily.info Connect with me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/flanders_family/ Check out my books: https://amazon.com/author/jenniferflanders Send me a message: flandersfamily@flandersfamily.info

  1. Jun 17

    EP 113 - A Letter to My Father (& How to Make Peace with Yours)

    Father's Day is right around the corner. So this seems like a good time to revisit the topic of fathers and fatherhood – including how to make peace with the dad you had, whether he was warm and loving and generally around. Or cold and distant and seldom available. Or somewhere in between. Show Notes VERSES CITED: Psalm 68:5 – “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling.” Psalm 118:29 – “Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good! His faithful love endures forever.” Corinthians 6:18 – “I will be a Father to you, and you will be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.” John 1:12 – “But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name” Galatians 3:26 – “You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus.” 1 John 3:1-2 – “Behold what manner of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God. And that is what we are!” Deuteronomy 31:6 – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” Romans 12:18 – “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” Philippians 4:8 – “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” RELATED LINKS: EP 87: Lost and Found Ice Cream for Breakfast Boosts Brain Power STAY CONNECTED:  Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

    16 min

  2. Jun 3

    EP 112: Avoiding Alzheimer's: 9 Science-Backed Strategies

    Today we're talking about research-based, proactive steps you and I can take now to (hopefully) avoid developing Alzheimer’s dementia later. I hope you'll listen in and be encouraged! Show Notes VERSES CITED: John 3:30 - “He must increase; I must decrease.” Thessalonians 5:17 - “Pray without ceasing.” Colossians 4:2  - “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.” Ephesians 6:18  - “Pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests.....” Philippians 4:6-7 - “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication....” Mark 12:30 – “And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and... soul, and... mind, and...strength.” 1 Corinthians 10:31- “Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” John 3:30 – “He must increase, but I must decrease.” RELATED LINKS: Your Parent Has Dementia. Here’s the $405,000 Survival Guide Nobody Gave You Gut: The Inside Story of Our Body's Most Underrated Organ Blueberries, the well-known 'super fruit,' could help fight Alzheimer's Study of green tea and other molecules uncovers new therapeutic strategy for Alzheimer’s Preventive Effects of Olive Oil on Alzheimer’s Disease: What to Know Eating Avocados: Does It Help Prevent Dementia The effect of curcumin (turmeric) on Alzheimer's disease: An overview Beneficial Effects of Walnuts on Cognition and Brain Health Association of Egg Intake with Alzheimer’s Dementia Risk in Older Adults Rainbow Salad Recipe Comparison of types of diabetes The Hidden Threat: How Refined Grains and Sugar Impact Dementia When Diet Meets Dementia Intermittent Fasting as a Neuroprotective Strategy: Gut–Brain Axis Modulation and Metabolic Reprogramming in Neurodegenerative Disorders Research reveals: smart wives reduce the risk of Alzheimer's disease Marital status and risk of dementia over 18 years: Surprising findings from the National Alzheimer's Coordinating Center Marriage linked to reduced Dementia Risk Inside the Box Free Printable Prayer Guides Pimsleur Language Program Why "Grandma Hobbies" Could Be the Secret to Better Mental Health Is Sunshine Key to Reducing Dementia Risk Influence of physical activity on cognition and brain function Association Between Mentally Stimulating Activities in Late Life and the Outcome of Incident Mild Cognitive Impairment Three science backed lifestyle changes to lower your dementia risk Reading writer lower dementia risk study finds Reading Challenge Bible Memory Tips and Tricks A Grand Investment Can prayer reduce the risk of Alzheimer’s? Prayer regularly reduces risk of dementia STAY CONNECTED:  Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

    29 min

  3. Apr 29

    EP 111: Are You Up for a Challenge?

    Thirty-eight years, eight months, one week, and six days. That's how long I've been married to my husband. You might think that after nearly four decades, we'd have this marriage thing down pat. That by now, the hard work would be behind us. That maybe we could just coast through the rest of our marriage with the wind on our faces, enjoying the view. But being married is like riding a bike. You can only coast for so long before losing your momentum and falling over. You've got to keep pedaling if you don't want to crash. One way I've kept peddling is by taking the challenge I'm sharing on the podcast this week. Maybe you'd like to join me? Listen in to here more about it. Show Notes VERSES CITED: Ephesians 5:33 - "Nevertheless let each individual among you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see to it that she respect her husband." RELATED LINKS: 30-Day Respect Challenge - my free email series for wives 30-Day Love Challenge - Doug's free email series for husbands 25 Ways to Respect Your Husband - full book available in print, digital, or audio formats 25 Ways to Love Your Wife - my husband's companion book to the title above Love Your Husband, Love Yourself - surprising ways science confirms the superiority of God's design for sex in marriage New Orleans Botanical Garden - snapshots from our recent visit Oak Alley Plantation - photos I took of the gorgeous house, gardens, and grounds Tasty food - pictures from our lunch at N7 Learn to Speak Your Spouse’s Love Language​ - communicate in a way that's meaningful to him Is Date Night Essential?​ - what if kids and finances make it impossible to get away? What if My Husband Won’t Plan Date Nights?​ - the situation isn't as hopeless as you may think How to Date a Husband Who’d Rather Stay Home​ - there's no place like home, so enjoy it! 50 Great Date Ideas​ - break out of the dinner-out and a movie rut Dating through the Alphabet Challenge​ - a fun way to add variety to your dating life Do Not Disturb Signs​ - free printable door hangers for when you need some privacy STAY CONNECTED: Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

    11 min

  4. Apr 20

    EP 110: Are You a Joyful Mother?

    The Bible tells us children are a blessing, but we can sometimes lose sight of that fact amid all the diaper changes and temper tantrums and bedtime struggles. Then our joy dries up like a baby's crusty drool on the shoulder of Mom's T-shirt. What can be done to regain it? That's the topic of this week's podcast, sent in by a young mother who feels guilty for not being more joyful and playful. If you've ever struggled with such feelings, I hope you'll listen in and be encouraged. Show Notes VERSES CITED: Lamentations 4:3 - “...my people have become heartless like ostriches in the desert.” Job 39:14-17 - “The ostrich leaves her eggs on the ground....” Galatians 5:22-23 - “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness....” John 4:14 - “…whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst....” Jeremiah 2:13 - “For My people have...have forsaken Me, the fountain of living water....” 1 Corinthians 10:31 - "So whether you eat or drink ...do it all for the glory of God." Matthew 10:42 - “And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these....” Matthew 25:34-40 - “ I was hungry and you gave Me something to eat...’” Psalms 113:9 - “He makes the barren woman abide in the house as a joyful mother...." Proverbs 31:14-15 - "...She brings her food from afar." Proverbs 31: 21 - "...she has no fear for her household, for they are all clothed...." Proverbs 31:26 - "She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue." Proverbs 31:27 - "She... does not eat the bread of idleness." Matthew 11:28 - "Come to Me, all you who are weary and heavy laden....” Proverbs 3:5-6 - "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own...." Psalm 23:4 - "Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil..." James 1:5 - "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God who gives to all...." Isaiah 40:31 - "But they that wait upon the LORD will renew their strength...." 2 Kings 6:16-17 - "Do not fear, for those who are with us are more than...." Luke 14:27 - “Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me cannot....”  Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way he should go...." Proverbs 29:17 – “Discipline your son, and he will give you rest...." Ephesians 6:4 – “Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead....” Proverbs 19:18 – “Discipline your children while there is hope....” (NLT) Proverbs 19:18 – “...let not thy soul spare for his crying.” (KJV) Proverbs 3:12 – “For whom the LORD loves He disciplines....” Hebrews 12:11 – “No discipline seems enjoyable at the time, but painful....” Galatians 6:9 - "Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we shall reap...." RELATED LINKS: EP 1: How to Find a Good Mentor EP 81: When You Feel Like You're Only Treading Water Taming Toddler Temper Tantrums Staying in Bed Chart Best Books for Bedtime STAY CONNECTED: Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

    28 min

  5. Mar 10

    EP 109: Does Your Marriage Need a Miracle?

    The topic for this episode is something that is absolutely essential to building a strong and happy marriage. In fact, I have never seen a marriage truly thrive without this thing, but I’ve seen many a marriage crumble in its absence. Tune in to find what this important ingredient is, and how it can miraculously transform a not-so-happily-ever-after marriage. Show Notes VERSES CITED: Ephesians 4:15 -“...speaking the truth in love.” 2 Timothy 3:1-6 - "...in the last days difficult times will come...." Colossians 3:12-17 - "...clothe yourselves with hearts of compassion...." James 4:6-10 - ” ...Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you." 1 Peter 5:5-6 - "...humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you..." Matthew 18:21-22 - "...Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me?..." Ephesians 4:32 - "...forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Philippians 2:3-4 - "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit...." Romans 15:1-2 -  "Now we who are strong ought to bear the weaknesses of those..." 1 Thessalonians 5:18 - “In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Colossians 4:2 – “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.” Ephesians 5:20 – “always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Psalm 105:1  - “Give thanks to the LORD and proclaim His greatness. Let the whole world know what He has done.” Psalm 107:1 – “Oh, give thanks to the LORD, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever.” James 1:17 - "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father..." Philippians 4:8 - “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Philippians 4:6 - “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.” John 2:9-10 - "When the headwaiter tasted the water which had become wine, and...." RELATED LINKS: Free Printable Prayer Guides - download as many of these as you like from my Loving Life at Home blog Love Your Husband/Love Yourself - with regard to sex, this is a why-to book, not a how-to EP 82: On Cultivating Contentment - another really important trait for marital bliss! EP 10: We Find What We Look For - motivation to change your focus if you tend to find fault EP 104: Giving Thanks Through Hardship - admittedly a challenge, but it is doable Don't Let Anything Steal Your Joy - we must guard against these stealthy theives of joy and contentment On Remembering to Say Thank You - because gratitude begs to be expressed Free Printable Thank You Notes - several designs to choose from Be Thankful -- and Give Thanks - a short post, but with a great quote on gratitude   STAY CONNECTED: - Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources - Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content - Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables - Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers - My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

    13 min

  6. Feb 13

    EP 108: How Can You Tell When You Need a Break?

    In today's episode, I share what my family has been doing lately and answer a fellow homeschooler's question about how you can tell when you need a break. Show Notes VERSES CITED: - Mark 2:27 - "The Sabbath was created for man, not man for the Sabbath." - Matthew 12:11 - “What man is there among you who, if he has only one sheep and it falls into a pit on the Sabbath, will not take hold of it and lift it out?" RELATED LINKS: - EP 14: Is Date Night Essential - is it possible for your marriage to thrive without weekly nights out? - EP 94: Raising Kids Who Don't Rebel - on cultivating a home where your child feels loved and heard - Until the Streetlights Come On - Ginny Yurich's book on how playing outdoors benefits our bodies and brains - 5 Reasons Our Family Loves Factory Tours - How to Plan the Perfect Staycation - Pack Up & Leave: Travel Tips for Fun Family Vacations - a book full of ideas that have worked well for our family - Bananagrams - on of our favorite games (which we tote with us on vacation) STAY CONNECTED: - Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources - Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content - Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables - Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers - My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

    28 min

  7. Jan 14

    EP 107: Q&A - Passports, Prayers, Post-40 Pregnancy, and Purged Inboxes

    I'm cleaning out my inbox for the new year and answering some of the questions that have piled up there since my last Q&A. Show Notes VERSES CITED: 1 Thess. 5:17 – “Pray without ceasing.” Titus 1:7-9 – “For the overseer must be above reproach as God’s steward, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not addicted to wine, not pugnacious, not fond of sordid gain, but hospitable, loving what is good, sensible, just, devout, self-controlled,  holding fast the faithful word which is in accordance with the teaching, so that he will be able both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who contradict.” RELATED LINKS: Passport to the US Capitol Buildings Passport to the US National Parks “New Year’s Goal Setting for People with Actual Lives” Arkansas State Capitol Kansas State Capitol Free Printable Prayer Guides EP 28: Bible Memory Tips & Tricks Supermom Vitamins STAY CONNECTED: - Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources - Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content - Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables - Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers - My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

    22 min

  8. 2025-12-31

    EP 106: 10 New Year Resolutions We All Should Make

    I love the fresh start January represents, so I normally kick it off with a list of New Year’s resolutions as long as my arm. Some of my goals are specific and easily quantifiable: Walk a mile a day. Read a book a week. Get 7 hours of sleep a night. That way, even if I only walk 5-6 miles a week, read 3 books a month, or occasionally stay up late, I’ll still be better off than if I didn’t try to do those things at all.  But some of my goals – the really challenging ones – take the form of more general reminders. Today I'm sharing ten such resolutions I think should be on everybody’s list. Show Notes VERSES CITED: Proverbs 16:9 - “A man’s heart plans his way, But the LORD directs his steps.” Proverbs 19:21 - “Many plans are in a man’s heart, but the purpose of the LORD will prevail.” Jeremiah 10:23 - “I know, O LORD, that a man’s way is not his own; no one who walks directs his own steps.” James 4:13-15 - “...you ought to say, 'If the Lord is willing, we will live and do this or that.'” Proverbs 31:16 (Amp) – “She considers a [new] field before she buys or accepts it [expanding prudently and not courting neglect of her present duties by assuming other duties]….” Luke 1:37  - “…with God nothing will be impossible.”  Philippians 4:13 – “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness....” Proverbs 15:13 – “A joyful heart makes a cheerful face, But when the heart is sad, the spirit is broken.” Proverbs 17:22 - "A joyful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones." 1 Corinthians 9:27 - “I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should.” Philippians 4:6  -  “Don’t worry about anything, but pray about everything….” Ephesians 6:18 - “Pray in the Spirit at all times, with every kind of prayer and petition.” Psalms 103:2 - “Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits.” James 1:19 - “Let everyone be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger.” RELATED LINKS: How Can I Feel Productive as a Mom? EP 25: 7 Ways to Nail New Year’s Resolutions A Prayer for the New Year One Year Bible Reading Plan Setting Goals for the New Year 10 New Year Resolutions We All Should Make Printable STAY CONNECTED: - Subscribe: Flanders Family Freebies -weekly themed link lists of free resources - Instagram: @flanders_family - follow for more great content - Family Blog: Flanders Family Home Life - parenting tips, homeschool help, printables - Marriage Blog: Loving Life at Home- encouragement for wives, mothers, believers - My Books: Shop Online - find on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble, or through our website

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Do you want a peaceful, orderly home where your family can thrive? Would you like to cultivate stronger family bonds with your husband and kids? Do you long for a joy-filled, purposeful life free from fear and anxiety? Have you ever longed for a seasoned mentor who’d provide practical pointers? Fortunately for us, the Bible speaks to every one of these goals. God’s Word will help you cut through all the confusion caused by popular but conflicting marriage and parenting advice. Welcome, friend! My name is Jennifer Flanders. As a devout Christian, happy wife, homeschool mom of twelve, and grandma of 20 (so far!), I’m well-practiced in minding the things that matter most. And since the Bible charges older women to teach younger women to love their husbands, love their children, and be keepers at home, I have a scriptural mandate to share the things I’ve learned with you. Loving Life at Home is your go-to podcast for Titus 2 encouragement in marriage, motherhood, and minding what matters most. In it, I’ll teach you how to: - nurture your marriage and cultivate a life-long love with your husband - communicate with your husband in a way he understands and appreciates - raise children you not only love, but enjoy spending time with - create a warm, peaceful, inviting home that is a blessing to all who spend time there - cheerfully attend to all the sanctifying work that marriage, motherhood, and managing a home entails - use your time wisely, looking to God for the grace and strength to fulfill His call on your life So grab a cup of tea and tune in every Monday morning. In each 20-minute episode, you’ll get biblical encouragement, actionable advice, and firsthand insights on faith and family gleaned from over 35 years of marriage and motherhood and over 50 years of following Jesus. Next Steps: Read my marriage blog: https://lovinglifeathome.com Download my free printables: https://www.flandersfamily.info Connect with me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/flanders_family/ Check out my books: https://amazon.com/author/jenniferflanders Send me a message: flandersfamily@flandersfamily.info

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