THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH

Laura B. Carrillo

I’m a certified Feng Shui Practitioner, Curator and Stylist. I explore ways to live your best life with both the practical and mystical arts. This is a hybrid Podcast & Newsletter. thefengshuilady.substack.com

  1. APR 10

    Take Your Medicine ~

    Hola & Welcome To The Feng Shui Money Couch where I am hosting my first in person guest on the Money Couch Natalya Cehelnik. Natalya is an Intuitive Healer, Astrologer & Psychic. She Reads The Cards & Your Chart; While I Read The Room & Your Style. You can connect with Natalya via her website, Instagram, and attend her upcoming Intuitive Gifts Class at The Chakra Shack in Laguna Beach. You can also save your seat for my MANIFESTING WITH THE FENG SHUI LADY CLASS in Laguna Hills on Saturday May 2nd at Awakening’s! I look forward to meeting you in person and answering your questions in real time! We almost didn’t record the Pod or go to the pool because they closed the whole area for a deep cleaning with super loud equipment. It was too loud to record anything and we couldn’t access the fancy pool for fun in the sun. Eventually the power washing ended and we recorded in our pool attire at the last minute. This was not what I had planned on wearing to record, but here we are. The whole day was a series of plot twists. Anyone else feeling that unpredictable Uranus energy? We also used 2 cameras hers and mine so please excuse any far away gazes. Please Subscribe, Like, & Spread The Love! Cheers Everyone & Ciao for Now… Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    40 min
  2. Who Will Soar with Feng Shui?

    MAR 13

    Who Will Soar with Feng Shui?

    Hello & Welcome to The Feng Shui Money Couch! Today’s theme and title is “Who Will Soar with Feng Shui? “ I’m speaking to and working with the Seekers who are legitimately doing the work and taking accountability for their role in how their lives play out but who still feel blocked. You are Seeking Fulfillment in your career where you get to do work that makes your heart sing and pays handsomely! It doesn’t feel like work because it’s an extension of who you are. It’s work that you would do even if you weren’t getting paid except you are getting paid and paid well. It feels like you are getting paid to play! That’s the dream right? You are seeking Big Love, a Love match gives as good as it gets where you feel seen, heard and understood. You get each other and can be your authentic selves. You both love the same music, or cuisine. You even enjoy working out together and bring out the best in each other. You connect physically, intellectually and spiritually in a way you never imagined was possible. Together you amplify each other and you can finally look back at what it took for you to arrive at this Love and say it was worth it. You’re out here giving this life your all during some very tumultuous times! Yah we are! You have trained in your craft and you care deeply about making a difference. You have worked with coaches and gone on retreats, yet you’re maybe you’re still struggling to make a splash. I get it! You are the kind of person who Feng Shui is the perfect practice for because you will do the Practical with the Woo with Gusto and that’s why it works for you. In Feng Shui Human Luck is predicated on attitude and energy and you are the kind of person who can get the most benefits because you have the ingredients to not just move the couch into the power position. You have the intention and the imagination to make that a sacred act. You feel like you are doing all the right things like limiting your consumption of news that feels like trauma dumping just to keep your sanity and wellbeing intact. You’re wondering what else can you do? Well Feng Shui, That’s what you can actually do…. You are working hard to pivot and create a unique lane for yourself in a technologically accelerating world so that you can’t be replaced. The more techy the world becomes the more grounded we need to be and Feng Shui is an Earth Science that’s over 5000 years old! It’s been working for people long before technology and will continue to work as we evolve because it has always evolved with humanity. You are consuming wellness and self help content, like this, and investing in therapy. Yes, I am talking to You! You want to feel like you have a soft place to land and recharge your batteries no matter what’s happening in this big crazy world. Feng Shui is your Space Therapy. If you’re not doing these kinds of things and you’re not taking accountability for your part in making the most of this life. My work may not resonate with you. Perhaps you have looked up to mentors in the past, Spiritual Teachers or Gurus who turned out to be frauds or just flawed humans. I’ve been there and yes that will leave a mark. But you also end up with a new level of discernment so I am talking to you too. You are drawn to the Woo but you like it grounded and aligned with an Embodied Example. Instead of Do as I say, you are looking for Do as I Do. That’s Embodied Woo. I’m here to build community around this premise. I can teach you simple actionable Feng Shui cures and adjustments that can fit seamlessly into your lifestyle and turn your home into a manifesting tool! The days of self aggrandized, narcissistic, predatory “Gurus” are falling away. We are currently watching many of them fall from grace. I along with many others are stepping up. I work with seekers because l am one. I see you. You have done the shadow work! You are my people! I can help you. Feng Shui is an energetic practice that is especially effective when you are clear about who you are and ready to create alignment with your environment. If you have worked with a Shaman, you be familiar with Ayahuasca. This plant medicine clears away your energetic blocks through purging both physically and energetically. It’s not for the faint of heart! Feng Shui does it in a much gentler way with decluttering and rearranging. It’s physical and energetic but if you have done the aforementioned soul work in Therapy or with Plant Medicine, you’re going to love Feng Shui’s medicine and find it a breeze! A breath of Fresh Air! Your new love language! Feng Shui is a physical language after all! With Feng Shui, when you make your adjustments internal and external, you can trust the universe to take care of the rest. It is such an empowering practice. Who Soars with Feng Shui? Well, people come to me when they have done all the hard “obvious” work and they are looking for the missing link. Feng Shui is exactly that! My client Vanessa came to me after reaching a breaking point in her adoption journey. It was an expensive, often painful and exhausting process. She and her husband had been unsuccessful in pitching themselves to birth mothers and agencies for over 2 years. In what she said was “A final hail Marry” she reached out to me. When I worked with them, I helped them perform a combination of Feng Shui Adjustments for their home and a Blessing Ceremony inviting their baby home. The Practical with the Mystical. Six Days later, Vanessa was paired with a birth mother and had a baby in her Arms. I was personally floored! She was my first Feng Shui for Baby Client. That said, it’s worked every time since then! I have helped couples with both conception and adoption. I can’t explain exactly why it works or promise a guaranteed outcome. I can only say that it has worked every time I have used this practical with the mystical protocol. Everyone’s Story is different but when you align your environment with your intentions, the Universe Responds! If you aren’t accessing the success or outcome you feel you have worked so hard for, Feng Shui could be the energetic variable missing. It’s what for Thousands of years Kings & Queens and the Elite class used to remain in power and withheld from the masses. It’s what they are still using today! The difference is now we too have access to these powerful ancient sacred tools. Perhaps they have been made available to help humanity bridge the gap in wealth inequality. That’s how I think of it. Why should so few have so much? Let’s spread the love! The world is pretty crazy right now and we can’t really control what is happening but we can control our personal energy and our immediate environment with Feng Shui. My new 2 for 1 Birds of a Feather Feng Shui Together offer is meant to welcome more seekers to the world of Feng Shui. Of course you can fly solo because I will be with you for the full six week journey. That said if you do bring a friend, you can split the bill and soar together. Either way it’s about building community around Feng Shui and making it more accessible. I don’t focus on how bad the economy looks, I focus on how in spite of that, I have the most abundance I have ever had. I’m here to help others in these times of uncertainty experience expansion and abundance too. Be sure to spread the love far and wide by sharing, liking and Subscribing! With Much Love & A Little Woo; The Feng Shui Lady. Cheers & Ciao for now! Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    10 min
  3. Invest In Your Nest

    MAR 6

    Invest In Your Nest

    Hi & Welcome to The Feng Shui Money Couch where I explore themes around Feng Shui, Wellness and other Woo. During Chaotic times where we cannot control what is happening in the outside world and our only sphere of influence is through our personal energy and our immediate environment, Feng Shui is the perfect tool to turn to! I titled this episode “Invest In Your Nest “ because as a Feng Shui consultant, this is one of my personal mantras. It’s similar in sentiment to Voltaire’s “Paradise is where I live.” Or his other famous quote “Il faut cultiver notre jardin.” Which translates to (“We must cultivate our garden.”) As far as Feng Shui is concerned investing in your home or nest is akin to investing in Gold. The ROI is pretty much guaranteed. If you don’t want to feel like you need a vacation from your life, then do all you can to create your own personal paradise. Covid created a crisis around the importance of home and having our own personal Idaho so to speak. When you can’t hop on a plane at the drop of a dime either because you don’t have the discretionary income or the time of work or there’s a global pandemic, you’re ultimately confronted by your four walls. I encourage my clients to cultivate spaces they love and are fed by. It’s also important for your home to evolve with you so as you grow and change so to does your environment. There’s plenty of environmental psychology and science to support this. Epigenetic’s really drives home the importance of your environment over your genetics from a health perspective. In the words of environmental biologist Bruce Lipton, You change the container, you change the contents. This is for good or ill. The environment dictates the outcome. I was actually introduced to Epigenetic’s while I was studying Feng Shui at Terah Katherine’s Collin’s Western School of Feng Shui some 16 plus years ago. In her Books about Feng Shui Terah introduces her students to these ideas and their origins. Feng Shui goes well beyond just decorating and into the realm of creating spaces that heal and nourish their inhabitants so they can thrive. That’s why when I make decorative choices they are always informed by Feng Shui. Decorating with Feng Shui turns your homes decor into a self fulfilling prophecy. If you treat your home like a manifesting tool suddenly every little choice you make becomes a collaboration with your environment towards a positive outcome or at the very least an enhanced one. That is Feng Shui in a nutshell. Understanding things like where your money is represented in the home suddenly changes your relationship with that area of your home. By the way, your Prosperity Gua which is the area of your home which represents wealth is located in the far back left hand corner of your home in relationship to the front door facing in. If money matters to you, go see what’s happening in that area of your home. Is it it tidy, does it feel or look rich? Perhaps you can place something expensive here or a healthy thriving money tree or something purple like amethyst. Purple is the color of Abundance in Feng Shui. If your bathroom happens to land in this Gua and it feels like money is going down the drain. A Feng Shui practitioner can help cure that and redirect the chi so it doesn’t get flushed away. The point is your home is a mirror to what’s happening with you and Feng Shui helps you recognize what’s being depicted and helps you curate a positive and supportive environment. If you feel like you could use some help feathering your nest, consider hiring a Feng Shui consultant. If you would like to work with me, I am offering a flat rate special journey on virtual consultations launching now in March. Along with this flat rate, I will work with and coach you for 6 weeks so you have my support In effectively implementing your Feng Shui adjustments and cures for a full lunar cycle and change. I’ll curate a specific Feng Shui protocol based on your individual space and walk you through activating all 9 Guas or life Themes of your home over a 6 week period. I include 2 Zooms one at the beginning and one at the completion of our journey along with six weeks of Telegram coaching and materials. As an added incentive I am offering limited time 2 for 1 deal on this VIP service! If you sign up with a friend and take the Feng Shui Journey with me together, you can split the cost between you! It’s so much fun to take this journey with a friend and share your experience of transformation in collaboration! I am opening up my calendar and schedule to dedicate March and April to these VIP coaching containers and this limited time 2 for one offer. I encourage you to share this experience with someone you love! Links for both options will be in the show notes! Individual VIP Feng Shui Journey & 2 for 1 VIP Feng Shui Journey. Whether you take the journey with me privately or with a friend, it’s like having me on tap for a comprehensive 6 week Feng Shui journey! Be sure to spread the love by telling a friend, subscribing, liking and sharing! Cheers & Ciao for Now! Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    7 min
  4. Riding The Fire Horse!

    FEB 27

    Riding The Fire Horse!

    Happy Lunar New Year! The Fire Horse Lunar New Year Started with a bang on February 17th. A New Moon Lunar Eclipse which for me personally coincided with a rainstorm and a 2 day long packed agenda of very detailed Sacred Ceremonial Practices and deep inner work. It was intense! The final days of the year of the Snake seemed to universally challenge everyone I knew with some kind of upheaval or drama. The shift in energy from the Snake To The Horse have felt jolting. If you consider the world stage in this regard, s**t is getting real. The final weeks of the Snake year found me preparing for my Valentine’s Day event to both Create and Promote my pilot Welcome The Love with Feng Shui program. A labor of love with an emphasis on labor. I basically created a program from scratch that pulled from all my years of experience helping women make space for love. The Feng Shui wisdom I included in the presentation is a consolidation of the most impactful and effective tools that have served to create breakthroughs for both myself and my clients. I pulled from all the various Feng Shui Schools I have trained in to create a unique program you’re not going to find anywhere else. If you’ve been listening to the pod you’ve probably heard me talk about it. But today I am going to be transparent about taking you behind the curtain of what it takes to birth a pilot program as an entrepreneur on a subject as powerful and vulnerable as love. All this preparation was happening while I had simultaneously committed myself to producing and filming 2 reels a day for LTK with an emphasis on Fashion Feng Shui and delivering my weekly podcast. I was spreading myself pretty thin. This also coincided with the 1 year anniversary of my mom’s passing and funeral so I had a lot of emotions unexpectedly come up for me. I’m going to be real with you, I was whipped out! So yes I took a week of the Pod to recalibrate. In reality Friday’s are my self imposed deadline and I suppose it’s an arbitrary one because no one is paying me to show up or going to be affected adversely if I don’t. It’s a structure I created to hold myself accountable and I usually do. However, I have come to the conclusion that Periodically I need to give myself some grace and this last week I just wasn’t feeling well and needed to recharge my batteries. I need to occasionally take a digital vacation but I promise to come back bearing gifts! Maybe you too have been feeling overwhelmed and pulled in many directions or stretched thin. The Energies & The Astrology is no joke. We are now officially in The Year of the Fire Horse 🐴 and it’s going to ask a lot from us energetically. My advice is to commit to a self care routine that will support the level of energetic output you are immersed in. Meditation, Exercise, Rest, Journaling & Therapy for example are all expressions of self care. Even just a couple of these habits can help us navigate life’s challenges. The Fire Horse Year is a marathon and if you don’t pace yourself, you could burn out before the race is over. It’s a one year as numerologist Gail Minogue spoke about when I interviewed her back in December! One years are beginnings so they don’t necessarily yield immediate results. Instead they demand a lot of foundational work and the stamina to get it done. I’m here to tell you it’s ok to ask for help! For my part, I called in some back up from my super lovely Tech meets Woo lady Ashley who recently started helping me with the backend of my website and business portal. She’s an absolute angel! I called her in to help me upload the newly recorded live presentation of my Welcome The Love program to my Kajabi portal and build out a sales page for it and an email sequence to support the program. If I try to do this stuff by myself it takes hours and a lot of Chat GPT prompts to accomplish. Also no guarantee that I would do it correctly. This kind of Tech is not my jam. Ashley can set this up for me in 5 minutes while standing on her head so I love her!!! While I was working with Ashley, I was explaining to her that at the beginning of my live Zoom presentation on Valentine’s Day no one showed up into I was a third of the way in. Not only was this humbling, it forced me to have to repeat the beginning and mess up the flow and order of the recorded presentation. I had to spend hours meticulously editing the recording to get the sequence correct. As I was explaining this to Ashley, I burst into tears. All the emotions I had been holding in just came to the surface. Ashley was so sweet. She does energy work, human design, breath work, etc so she knows how to hold space. She also supports a lot of Spiritual entrepreneurs and is one herself so she let me cry then shared how she too had broken down earlier that same morning with her own stressors. It is eclipse season and everyone is going through something. She shared with me how common my experience was among creators and it was ok to re-record if I wanted. Especially when launching a new program and building a new audience there’s some trial and error. She also suggested that Valentines Day might not have been an ideal day to host a live. People are often busy or distracted that day. Yes, I told her, you have a point but even my friends didn’t show up for one reason or another. It doesn’t matter who makes the live Ashley said, it’s All About The Replay. People pay for the option to watch it live or at their leisure. Plus you’re going to sell the recording on the portal for immediate download. Ashley also helped me understand that the people who will actually value and pay for my expertise will gravitate to my work as I put myself out there more and more. I just have to keep showing up and letting you know where to find me and how I can help. I really poured my heart and soul into the program and I know I have something special here that can really help women especially women who have struggled to find love for years and years. But really anyone who is out there in this current dating climate. I was out there very recently too and for a really long time. And I’m not here giving you doom and gloom advice about how bad it is or insisting either gender is the problem. That’s not my point of view. My approach focuses on energy, action and timing. I’m offering a unique approach through the lens of Feng Shui with actionable solutions to make space for love. I also believe most people need some sort of therapy around attachment styles in order to not only be a good partner but to also pick a good partner. I certainly benefited from this type of therapy. The more tools we have in our arsenal the better. Feng Shui is my favorite tool but it’s not my only tool! Talking to Ashley really helped me put things in perspective. We all need support in some area of our lives and businesses. Now that I have worked through the hard part of birthing the course, I can make tweaks knowing the foundation for the body of work is built. I get to introduce Welcome The Love to my new community and present it locally at Awakening’s in Laguna Niguel soon! Since we are in Mercury Retrograde now I am thinking I might rename the course “Where Is The Love?” because that seems to be the primary question folks are asking themselves these days. There’s a location in your home that Feng Shui can help you find and cultivate. I’m excited for the opportunity to connect with a whole new organic audience. As of right now we are talking about hosting my live event on Saturday March 21st at 2pm. Community is important and I just moved here so I’m eager to connect with like minded people! I want to support my local community and my online community. I’m so grateful for my evolving professional community including Ashley who is equal parts Tech Goddess, Business coach and Therapist. Priceless. She’s worth every penny because for a long time I did everything myself and the one thing I am really good at is Feng Shui and helping folks make space for their blessings and Love is one of those blessings. Tech & Marketing are new muscles I’m learning how to build and it’s a little painful in the beginning but that’s why you get a trainer. This year I am working with people like Ashley and my Feng Shui & Business Mentor Kristina so I know I am no longer doing this alone. I’m also here to serve and that’s the energy behind my Love Program. I’m currently making the tweaks to the downloadable version to add as much value as possible. We are in Mercury Retrograde as I record this starting from Wednesday February 25th until March 20th so it’s an ideal time to rework reimagine and edit things. I’m also working out the date for my live presentation which might end up being in April. Eclipse season mixed in with a Mercury Retrograde is like working with a moving target so bear with me! I will definitely keep you posted! Remember to spread the love by Subscribing, liking and sharing. Wishing you all a glorious Fire Horse Year. Cheers & Ciao for now! Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    12 min
  5. Single, Coupled or Resting up for Romance; Feng Shui is For You!!!

    FEB 13

    Single, Coupled or Resting up for Romance; Feng Shui is For You!!!

    Single, Coupled or Resting up for Romance; Feng Shui is For You!!! Hello & Welcome to The Feng Shui Money Couch! Happy Feng Shui Friday on Friday the 13th. It’s your lucky day because I’m here to talk to you about Feng Shui. Did you know that from a Feng Shui perspective, your bedroom is the most important room in your home and actually your life? Do you long for a good nights sleep? Maybe you wish for someone to share your bed with. You might want to ask yourself if your bedroom is designed with these priorities in mind. Have you made sacred space for Rest and Romance? If you want to share your space with another, you actually have to make room for them physically and energetically. If you want a good nights rest, you need a setting in which that is likely. A few adjustments to your home and bedroom could make all the difference. Valentine’s Day is tomorrow so I thought this would be a great topic! Not only do I have a self-paced Bedroom Feng Shui Course available for immediate download that’s also on sale, I am actually teaching a Welcome The Love With Feng Shui Masterclass on Zoom live on Valentine’s Day at 2pm Saturday which is tomorrow! You can access both because I’m offering a significant discount on the Bedroom Feng Shui course for anyone who signs up for my $20 Masterclass Welcome The Love this Saturday at 2pm. Listen even if you can’t join me live you’ll have access to the replay for those $20 if you sign up now and the Bedroom Feng Shui download at over a $100 discount! After this pilot run of the Masterclass class, it will be priced significantly more on my portal or when I offer it in person. I will be teaching this Masterclass live in March in the flesh at Awakening’s in Laguna Niguel on Saturday March 21st at 2pm for $60 and I’ll share a link for Awakenings for that event in the show notes as well. I’d love to see you in person or virtually and connect and answer your questions in real time. The desire for love and romance is a universal theme and Feng Shui can truly help you create a setting that welcomes and makes space for love and partnership physically and energetically. If you are single and long for the right partner, you have probably tried dating apps, social networking, self help books, love programs and even therapy. All of these strategies are great but if you don’t make the room for love in your life, it won’t be able to enter or have any place to stay... Whether you share space with another or not, the Feng Shui principles of balance and harmony can be applied to your relationships outside of the bedroom as much as inside the bedroom. The themes portrayed in the home and your bedroom in particular extend to your outer life as well. Friendships, professional relationships, even casual relationships can benefit from good Feng Shui. Consider the premise that you create an energetic narrative in your private physical space that is then reflected in your public external life. Sometimes we all need to step back from romantic partnerships and have a nurturing relationship with ourselves before we can entertain a new romantic partner. I believe the relationships we have with others reflect the relationship we have with ourselves. I would even go so far as to say that self love is the path to true love… If you happen to be single these Feng Shui tips I am teaching will help you rest up for love and if you are in a loving relationship, they will enhance and strengthen it! When I think of R&R, I think about Rest and Romance. These are the 2 priorities and themes I focus on when helping clients Feng Shui their bedroom and their Love Guas. I am pleased to be teaching these principles for aligning your space and creating a setting that truly enhances your life and all of your relationships. My greatest wish is that what you learn from me enhances your life no matter what your relationship status is! Every home and every room has its own story to tell and with Feng Shui you have the power to write a new chapter. If you want help that is personalized to your story and your space, you can always reach out to me for a private consultation with my scheduling link here: https://thefengshuilady.as.me/ in the show notes. I hope to see you on Saturday 2pm or on the replay if you can’t join me live. Or on Saturday March 21st at Awakening’s in Laguna Niguel at 2pm! I invite you to spread the love by Subscribing, Liking and Sharing! Cheers & Ciao for now! Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min
  6. Decorating & Dressing For Love ~ With Feng Shui!

    FEB 7

    Decorating & Dressing For Love ~ With Feng Shui!

    Hello & Welcome to the Feng Shui Money Couch! Today I am talking about Decorating & Dressing for Love! I specialize in a particular niche in Feng Shui that I am also certified in called Fashion Feng Shui. While Feng Shui is all about our relationship with our environment and creating the right setting for things, our bodies are actually our most intimate environments. Just like we work with the elements in Feng Shui, we apply the same principles to dressing in Fashion Feng Shui. We work with Earth, Fire, Wood, Metal and Water and each of the elements is imbued with specific characteristics and ways to communicate our intentions and help us embody the roles we wish to play in life. In Fashion Feng Shui, we dress with intention and the elements help us harness specific energies to assist us in achieving our goals.  Color is one of the most powerful ways of representing an element.  Think about how you might dress for say a funeral. Context matters here. You generally wouldn’t wear red to a funeral unless you were trying to cause a scene or be disrespectful. You would typically wear something black and demure or formal like I did last year for my mom’s funeral. She passed away last February a week before Valentine’s Day. Her funeral was the day after Valentine’s Day, so I can’t help but make this analogy. Certain color palettes are associated with specific elements. Black and very dark colors like Navy represent Water. And what happens at funerals besides everyone wearing black, well lots of tears are shed. Peoples emotions flow so black being water element makes sense here in this context.  Black also represents qualities like depth, mysticism, and creativity. Silhouettes also play an important role in Fashion Feng Shui and they are associated with specific elements as well as our body types, skin, hair and even eye color. Shapes, prints and designs are also very powerful and associated with the elements. And of course material and what our clothes are actually made of matter. Cotton for example is Wood. We each have a personal elemental profile that helps determine what elements, colors, silhouettes and styles suit us best and amplify our energy.  Our Essence represents the dominating element or energy of your spirit or archetype.  We also have an influencing element that comes a close second as an archetype.  And finally an Element that represents our Intention or qualities we aspire to.  These elemental profiles that we address in Fashion Feng Shui work in a similar fashion as how our sun, moon and rising signs work in Astrology.  I for example I have a Water, Fire combo as my Essence & Influence, however I vacillate between which is more dominant.  I think I was very watery when I was younger and as I get older my Fire wants to shine.  Maybe it’s my Leo moon finally coming out to play. All that said, you can harness specific elements to achieve or communicate something of importance on a particular day. Think of dressing as a language or a story you are curating each day with your body as the billboard. I have been thinking about Valentine’s Day because I’m teaching a Welcome The Love with Feng Shui Masterclass that day. It will be taught live on Zoom Saturday February 14th at 2pm Pacific. I’ll share a link for Welcome The Love in the show notes for anyone who wants to participate and could use a little more love in their life! It’s $20 and will be an hour of beautiful Romantic Feng Shui Wisdom to help you Welcome The Love this year. As I was deciding what to include in the class I thought to myself I need to include some Fashion Feng Shui because that’s a big part of how I personally prepared for love. Last year after my mom’s passing immediately came Valentine’s Day which was particularly sad for me. Per usual, I was single and extra morose because I was mourning. I decided at that time to make some changes to my life and actively make room for love and blessings.  Our days are numbered and you want to experience as much love as you can while you can. So what did I do? In addition to practicing Feng Shui on STEROIDS, I started curating a dating wardrobe. Part of what I included in that wardrobe love capsule was lingerie. I basically only purchased clothes for the love capsule with an emphasis on evening wear. Then for a couple months, I would just hang out in my house in my lingerie as if my lover was coming over. Until he finally did. I know that sounds a little delusional but before I knew it, I had actually manifested him just 2 days before what would have been my mom’s birthday on August 8th.  Honestly, that just occurred to me as I’m writing this. Maybe she was in on it; who knows. From February to August, I was dressing for the role of lover and embodying it. I really had fun deciding what I would wear for my imaginary boyfriend. Then when he finally showed up, I had all these great outfits to wear! Listen if you’re single I feel you. If you’re in a relationship that could use some spicing, I feel you too.  Either way, let’s Feng Shui it. I’m excited to help you Welcome The Love with Feng Shui on Valentine’s Day! Sign up with the link in the show notes and don’t forget to spread the love by subscribing, liking, and sharing. Cheers & Ciao for now! PS The Pod Normally drops on Feng Shui Fridays but I had some technology challenges this week. I hope you were pleasantly Surprised when it arrived in your inbox Saturday morning instead! Cheers 😊 Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min
  7. Practical versus Mystical Feng Shui…

    JAN 30

    Practical versus Mystical Feng Shui…

    Hello & Welcome to The Feng Shui Money Couch. Today I am talking about the Practical versus the Mystical aspects of Feng Shui. I want to begin by explaining what Feng Shui actually is so you have context around why it works and how it can serve you. Feng Shui is not just a Space Planning or Design Practice. It’s actually an Earth Science and energy practice that’s over 5000 years old and some form of it spans across all cultures. In China it’s called Feng Shui, in India it’s Vastu and in Western Culture, it’s Sacred Geometry. It’s largely based on our relationship with nature. At its core, Feng Shui is the study of how environmental patterns affect living systems, especially humans. The Ancient Chinese observers didn’t separate the “spiritual” from the “environmental.” They watched how landforms, water, sunlight, wind, and orientation influenced survival, health, agriculture, and social stability—and they recorded patterns that worked. The Energetic Map in Feng Shui called the Bagua was born of this. While Feng Shui predates modern geology, ecology, and environmental psychology, it overlaps with all three. The reason it still works to this day and perhaps is even more important in modern society and the buildings we now inhabit is because it addresses issues like: • Poor layouts increase cortisol • Lack of daylight affects mood • Noise disrupts sleep • Clutter impairs cognition • Disordered flow increases anxiety Etcetera, Etcetera…. So yes it’s super practical and imbued with health benefits, safety and really good common sense. All that said, I spent the early part of my Feng Shui career trying to demystify it and promote its practicality, but people still reacted to the idea of Feng Shui as Woo. And in truth they weren’t entirely wrong, it is Woo but that’s not the whole story. Dismissing the pragmatic benefits by solely focusing on the Woo is like throwing the baby out with the bath water. For years I tried to introduce Feng Shui to the corporate space and furniture world. I was met with a lot of resistance. It was frustrating because you can practice Feng Shui without applying any of the more mystical and transcendental adjustments or cures and still benefit greatly from it. In those terms it’s just good design and lifestyle choices. There are a number of different approaches or schools of Feng Shui and while they all work, they differ based on location, culture, training, and practitioner. What’s interesting is that For a long time Feng Shui was only available to Kings & Queens and the most elite in society. They didn’t want the masses to have this information. The most powerful teachings and transcendental cures cannot even be found in books because they are verbally handed down from Masters and Mentors to students. Much of this information is only to be shared through a sacred monetary exchange of value using red envelopes. For example I’m not allowed to share certain cures, adjustments, mantras, or meditations without such an exchange. Because it’s an energy practice and if the energetic exchange isn’t equitable the practitioner can fall ill and the person receiving the information will not access it’s full potential. Before I fully understood this, I was running around with my Feng Shui Tourette’s spewing my Feng Shui advice to anyone who would listen. I learned the hard way that this ultimately serves no one. A reciprocal exchange of worth should always be in place. I learned this from one of my mentors Kristina. Much of what is taught in Feng Shui is very practical and I can freely share it as content, and I do! I also no longer shy away from discussing its mystical and energetic qualities. In fact, now I do so with reverence and without fear of judgment. That which is sacred is verbally transmitted from Master to Student or Practitioner to Client with the exchange of currency using red envelopes in multiples of 9. The greater the depth of knowledge the more envelopes are shared. As someone who has been practicing Feng Shui for over 16 years, I can honestly say that the greatest transformational experiences that I have had with Feng Shui came through the mystical practices and with an exchange of the red envelopes. Listen, as mentioned I focused primarily on the practical for many years because I was operating in environments where the spiritual was frowned upon or mocked. I was working in corporate environments with various high end Furniture brands. It wasn’t until the Universe pulled me out of the corporate world that I was able to delve deeper into my Feng Shui education with an emphasis on mystical practices. I finally went all in on the Woo and worked with mentors and masters to operate with Feng Shui at an elevated level. That’s when my life dramatically improved. My finances, my love life, my approach to my business, everything. I invested in myself and it paid off handsomely. They say that when the student is ready, the teacher or mentor appears. When I was ready to go full Woo, my mentor Kristina Hollinger entered the picture! The truth is you need to do the practical stuff first before you can even truly apply the woo. You want to master that first. For example Chanting mantras in the middle of a hoarders home isn’t going to help them. They need to start with the practical stuff like decluttering and cleaning. We all need to learn to walk before we run! I had walked a certain path long enough and I was finally ready to run and that’s when Kristina Hollinger entered my life. I’m really excited to announce that Kristina will be making an appearance here on the pod on March 13th! Don’t worry we are recording it in the 11th but you get to watch it on Super Woo Friday the 13th. All right everybody, Cheers and Ciao for now! Laura’s Substack ~ Where Feng Shui Meets Fashion! is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    8 min
  8. JAN 23

    WELCOME THE LOVE

    Hello & Welcome to The Feng Shui Money Couch! Today I am officially announcing my WELCOME THE LOVE Events for February & March ~ Starting with my Virtual Valentine’s Day Event on February 14th at 2pm! Whether you are Single or Coupled, you can open your Home & Heart to Love & Romance this Valentine’s Day with Feng Shui. Every year this holiday for Love can bring up feelings of sadness, loneliness and despair for so many — I myself can attest to this! It wasn’t long ago that I too found myself endlessly scrolling dating apps and only meeting men that were emotionally unavailable. I finally broke the cycle with some very powerful Feng Shui adjustments and intention. I have helped countless women experience breakthroughs in love and I finally looked in the mirror and did it for myself! With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, I was Inspired to create a Love Masterclass with Feng Shui Wisdom for both inviting and making sacred space for love! One of my Feng Shui Specialties has been helping my clients magnetize love and babies through the teachings of Feng Shui! For example, last week I told about my client who had a Bar cart in her Love Gua which was magnetizing a string of alcoholic boyfriends for her. It took me pointing this out to her and her moving the bar cart to unblock her love Gua. That and a few more things but the bar cart in her love Gua was the symbolic crux of her problem. Once She figured that out and shifted the energy in her space, she met the love of her life within days! She is now married with 2 beautiful daughters! This Valentines Day I’m sharing the secrets that have worked for both myself and my clients. February 14 is meant to be a day for Love & Romance but what if you’re single or your relationship is experiencing a dip? Join me on Saturday February 14th at 2pm Pacific Time for a Virtual Valentines Day Masterclass on Feng Shui! Spread The Love and bring a friend! This could be your “Galentine’s Day” retreat with Feng Shui… Welcome The Love is about Romance — YES. And it’s also about self love because all love begins as an inside job! This Masterclass will help you make the Space For The Love you deserve starting with yourself! It will not only benefit your romantic relationships, but all kinds of relationship dynamics. Imagine a 2026 where you… Date with Intention and experience fulfilling relationships. A year where you welcome relationships where Deep, Soul-level Conversations are the norm. A time when you have Exciting Romantic Experiences unlike you have known before. And finally meet the Love of your Life! Receive the Attention you desire. Feel Seen, Heard and Understood. & experience healthy and rewarding relationships! You Feel confident and like you can be yourself within your relationships. Perhaps you actually welcome a baby and complete your family without even trying! All of this is possible for you in 2026 — the Year of the Horse. How do I know? Because every single example I just shared came from real client wins and my own personal experience! LET’s Make Sacred Space For Love Together on Saturday February 14th at 2pm PST!!!. I will share the link in the show notes! WELCOME THE LOVE When you sign up for Welcome the Love, you set yourself up to make space for love and show love for yourself — because you’ve made space for love just in time for The Year of The Horse which begins on February 17th, 2026! Inside Welcome the Love, you will learn the sacred Feng Shui adjustments that have helped hundreds of my clients Welcome Love and babies into their lives! This Masterclass is $20 and will be 60 minutes. Listen the energy of love is meant to be spread so I invite you to bring a friend looking for love to join you! It will make this all the more fun for everyone. We can support each other in Welcoming The Love for the Year of the Horse! Here’s what’s included when you enroll in Welcome The LOVE: You’ll get a Zoom link to join the class which will take place on Saturday February 14th at 2pm PST to 3pm PST. You’ll get a Welcome the Love Recording that will be shared after the LIVE. (and the replay will be available for 90 days). During our LIVE call, you’ll receive Feng Shui Wisdom, Adjustments and Cures for Love. & You can also ask me questions in real time! These Feng Shui adjustments will help you enter the Fire Horse Year with an open heart and the Space for Love. As a Bonus! I’ll include a free Bagua Map Download and access to sign up for my Bedroom Feng Shui Course at a significant 1 time discount! I really wanted to make this accessible to everyone in the digital space and not just limit it to my local community. That said, I’m still planning on hosting a live in person event at Awakening’s in Laguna Hills California on March 21st at 2pm. So if you’re in La or Orange County and want to meet and work with me in Person then put Saturday March 21st at 2pm on your calendars! That live in person Event and Space will be $60. I will share the link and details for the AWAKENINGS Welcome The Love event in the show notes as well. Awakenings is an established metaphysical Community and store with crystals and books and beautiful magical tools. They have sound baths and psychics so it’s definitely a vibe! I’m really excited to connect in a personal interactive way both online on Valentine’s Day & at Awakening’s in March with my new local community! I’m super excited to spread the Love With Feng Shui! Do me a favor and Subscribe, like & share with anyone who could use a little more love in their life! Cheers & Ciao for now! Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Laura’s Substack ~ THE FENG SHUI MONEY COUCH at thefengshuilady.substack.com/subscribe

    8 min

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I’m a certified Feng Shui Practitioner, Curator and Stylist. I explore ways to live your best life with both the practical and mystical arts. This is a hybrid Podcast & Newsletter. thefengshuilady.substack.com