Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez
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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

  1. 1d ago

    Swinger Dynamics 101: Full Swap, Soft Swap & Knowing Your No

    What's your dynamic? It's the one question every couple new to the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) needs to know how to answer — and Adam & Pris break it down in this Wednesday Quickie. They dig into full swap vs. soft swap, same room vs. same roof vs. separate play, and why knowing (and stating) your dynamic up front saves everyone's time. Plus: mismatched libidos, menopause and the lifestyle, learning to say no, and why non-monogamy really is a team sport. In this episode: What "dynamic" actually means in the swinger lifestyle Full swap vs. soft swap, and why the label matters Same room, same roof, or separate play — how couples decide Handling mismatched pace and comfort levels as a couple Talking openly about menopause, hormones, and desire in ENM relationships Why Pris handles "the no" and how they split roles as a team The one question to ask any couple at a swinger event or meet & greet Whether you're brand new to open relationships or you've been in the lifestyle for years, this one will help you put words to what you actually want. Keep the conversation going: Everything Beyond Monogamy — episodes, blog, merch, and our Confessional — lives at beyond-monogamy.com Join us LIVE and free every Thursday at 7:00 PM Central right on the website — just hit the live button up top Catch us streaming on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central Mark your calendar for Krazy Winter Nights, coming this February — details on our events tab Check the events tab at beyond-monogamy.com for takeovers and meetups we're hitting up this month If you loved this episode, subscribe, share it with your favorite couple, and leave us a review — it seriously helps this swinger podcast grow.

  2. 4d ago

    Our First Swinger Experiences: Everything We Did Wrong

    What were your first swinger experiences really like? A listener couple just entering the swinger lifestyle dropped that question in our anonymous confessional, and Adam & Pris answer it with zero filter. From a drunk Halloween party that went completely sideways to a first full swap that turned into a lifelong friendship, this is the ethical non-monogamy origin story we've never told on the show — mistakes, jealousy, death glares, and all. In this episode: The Halloween party "non-experience" that almost ended everything — and the boxes every new ENM couple must check first (sober, communicating, on the same page) Pris's first single-guy experience, nerves on all sides, and why the equipment failing is almost never about you Adam's unauthorized round two — and the look Pris gave him that he calls "visual cyanide" The full swap couple who became forever favorites The strangest swap of all time: a historic mansion, uncontrollable laughter, and a velociraptor impression we cannot unsee Jealousy, disconnecting, and the communication lessons that saved their marriage Got a confession? Leave it anonymously at beyond-monogamy.com — where you'll also find every past episode, clips, the blog, and the merch store. Catch our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, right on the website. We're also part of the lineup at FullSwapRadio — Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. See us LIVE in February at Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbah and Full Swap Radio. Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — come say hi! This episode is sponsored by 3Fun — the app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. Easy, low pressure, and way less awkward than figuring it out on your own. Download it here: https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932

  3. Aug 5

    Swinger Birthday Weekend at the Club: Adam's Wild Quickie Recap

    Birthdays hit different in the swinger lifestyle. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris recap Adam's entire birthday weekend — from free sopapillas and a taco-house serenade to a full-blown celebration at their home club that proves ethical non-monogamy knows how to throw a party. In this episode of your favorite swinger podcast: Birthday breakfast at Eddie's Taco House, where Adam campaigned like a politician for free sopapillas An intimate dinner with three other couples — and Adam's very honest confession about where his mind goes at the table Their friend Ray and her famous bag of toys: why so many women say no, and why Pris says yes Kink vs. fetish — Pris finally settles which one exhibitionism is (for her, anyway) THC lemonade math gone wrong: Pris gets sent to the moon Midnight lap dances, a double birthday treat, and the moment Pris created a scene straight off a vintage VHS cover The Odyssey, new-job news, and why the sexiest plans sometimes lose to cold sheets and leftover pizza Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle, curious about open relationships, or a longtime ENM couple, this non-monogamy podcast episode is a fun, candid look at how one real couple celebrates — together and with friends. Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central, totally free, at beyond-monogamy.com — chat with us in real time. Replays live on our Patreon, along with ways to support the show. Also on FullSwapRadio: Catch us Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central at fullswapradio.com alongside a whole lineup of adult podcasters. Upcoming event: We're doing a LIVE show in February from Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbh and Full Swap Radio! Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — yes, it's spelled that way. We'd love to meet you there. Sponsor — ProDX Health: At-home testing for STIs, hormones, and more. No waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code beyomono at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round — even more during special events. Got a confession, question, or story? Drop it (anonymously if you like) at beyond-monogamy.com — you might hear it on a future episode.

  4. Aug 2

    Swinger vs Polyamory vs FWB: What's the Real Difference?

    Swinger? Poly? Friends with benefits? If you've ever mixed them up, you're in good company — Adam's own barber had no clue. This week on Beyond Monogamy, real-life couple Adam & Pris break down the real differences between swinging, polyamory, and friends with benefits in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) world — from a couple who has lived all three and collected a few red flags along the way. In this episode: Why so many swingers think they want polyamory… when what they really want is friends with benefits Adam & Pris's five years of poly: unicorn hunting, red flags, and the girlfriend who texted way too much Pris's journey from not knowing her worth to discovering her inner dom The Great Date Debate: why "date" is now a forbidden word in their house (say hello to the "meetup") Jealousy in open relationships, hierarchy, and the rules they hold sacred — no vacations with others, no showering with others (unless it's content) Could they ever date another couple? The empty-nester master plan Whether you're lifestyle-curious, a seasoned swinger, or somewhere on the open relationship spectrum, this candid, funny conversation will help you figure out which flavor of non-monogamy actually fits — before you learn it the hard way like we did. Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Come meet us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027 — use code BEYOMONO for your discount. https://www.krazykasbh.com Our sponsors: SDC.com — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Sign up with code 38236. ProDx Health — keeping us healthy and in the know. Use code BEYOMONO for 15% off.

  5. Jul 29

    Inside Club Eden: What Makes a Great Swinger Club?

    What actually makes a swinger club great? On this Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris throw open the doors of their home club — Club Eden San Antonio — for a candid, laugh-out-loud review of everything a lifestyle club should be. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just ethical non-monogamy curious, consider this your field guide to on-premise club life. In this episode: The #1 thing to look for in any swinger club (hint: it's not the dance floor) Why vigilant staff make or break a lifestyle club — and the single-men policy that keeps the playroom comfortable The ladies' restroom that's basically a rite of passage, stocked with wipes, mouthwash, and photo-op lighting The infamous toilet paper story from their very first club visit — Pris's nightmare scenario, fully realized BYOB culture, Jell-O shot generosity, relaxed dress codes, and dancing naked from the front door The BDSM room, the spanking bench Adam insists is a "horse," and the porn room that delivered seven orgasms Why you should ALWAYS tip the hardworking playroom "chambermaids" Loaded fries, pizza, and a friendly warning about eating before you play If you've ever wondered what an open relationship night out looks like — or how to judge a swinger club before you commit — this ENM podcast quickie has you covered. Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central, at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com, Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Come see us: Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount! krazykasbh.com  Thanks to our sponsor: Pro DX Health — use code BEYOMONO for 15% off.

  6. Jul 26

    Predators in the Swinger Lifestyle: Red Flags Every Couple Must Know

    This one's serious, y'all — but it's a conversation the swinger lifestyle needs. Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on one of the darkest corners of ethical non-monogamy: sexual predators in the lifestyle. It's not the highlight reel, but after seeing too much of it lately, they're saying the quiet part out loud. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, the swinger podcast for lifestyle-curious couples and ENM veterans alike: What actually makes a predator — the difference between an awkward newbie's mistake and a genuine pattern of circumventing consent The red flags: pushing past a "no," repeat asking to wear someone down, escalating touch without checking in, using alcohol to lower guards, and pressuring one half of a couple when the other said no The saga of the drunk single guy (and his big box of White Claws) who creeped out the whole club — and how a great club staff handled it The gut-punch of realizing people you called friends were grooming newbies and targeting the newly single Adam & Pris debate: do you blast a known predator to the community, or is that not your job? (Spoiler: Adam is not swinger Batman) Why CNC dynamics mean things aren't always what they look like — and the look that tells you something is genuinely wrong How to protect yourself: speaking up, partner check-ins, reading the room, and why verification (SDC, 3Fun, video-verified groups) matters in open relationships Hang out with us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every past episode, the blog, the merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Full livestream replays are a Patreon-only perk. Also streaming Thursdays at 2PM & 7PM Central on Full Swap Radio — fullswapradio.com. Come party with us: Crazy Casba's Crazy Winter Nights 2027 is happening in February and we're doing LIVE shows! Lock in your spot at crazycasba.com with code BEYOMONO for a discount. And next Saturday we're celebrating Adam's birthday at Club Eden in San Antonio — sign up on their site, come find our couches, and say hello. We love meeting listeners! Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — real talk on the swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and open relationships.

  7. Jul 22

    What Makes Someone Slutty? A Swinger Couple Reclaims the S-Word

    Slut. It used to be the worst thing you could call someone. On this Wednesday Quickie, swinger lifestyle veterans Adam & Pris grab the S-word by the collar and ask: what actually makes someone slutty — and why are we still letting a word from the 1400s do our thinking for us? In this candid ethical non-monogamy (ENM) conversation, the real-life couple behind Beyond Monogamy digs into slut-shaming, double standards, and why the swinger community doesn't just tolerate sluttiness — it celebrates it. In this episode: Pris gets called a slut in sixth grade — and again as a freshman, for not giving it up The actual Merriam-Webster definition of "slut" and its 1400s origin story Alcohol vs. weed: which one actually lowers your inhibitions? Adam's hotwife kink and consensual "cheating" fetish — and what happens when the fantasy talk ends Pris discovers her "hot husband" dominant side ("You can borrow him. He's coming back.") Is being touchy-feely slutty? Is teasing? The couple debates what counts as slutty behavior The double standard: what do you call a man who acts the same way? "Just a man, baby." Slut-shaming inside the lifestyle — yes, it happens, and it's ridiculous Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your lifestyle, ENM, or kink confessions and we might read them on air! Also streaming on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. Come see us: We'll be at Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027! www.krazykasbh.com | Use code BEYOMONO for your discount. Our sponsors: SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile and explore: no weirdness, no judgment, just like-minded humans. Sign up at sdc.com with code 38236. Pro DX Health — we test, and they've got the hookup. Code BEYOMONO gets you 15% off. Keywords: swinger podcast, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, hotwife, slut-shaming, swinger lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast

  8. Jul 19

    Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant

    Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant We're stepping outside our usual non-monogamy lane and into the wide, wild world of kink with special guest Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant. Amanda is a certified somatic sex & relationship coach and sexologist (and former NYC dominatrix!) who breaks down the real difference between a "kink" and a "fetish," why labels actually help you find yourself, and how power exchange, hot wifing, pre-claiming, and reclaiming sex all fit on the same spectrum. We also get into the light-bulb communication hack that took Adam's breath away, healthy boundaries around aftercare, and why justice might be Pris's real kink. In This Episode: Kink vs. fetish: what's actually the difference Amanda's journey from curious kid to NYC pro-domme to kink coach Foot fetishes, power exchange, and why "normal" kink is a spectrum The $20 light bulb trick for signaling dominant energy Hot wifing vs. hot husbanding, pre-claiming and reclaiming sex Compartmentalizing fantasy without cheating Aftercare, boundaries, and honest communication in ENM relationships Find Amanda Dames: Website: amandadames.com (grab her free guide, "Speaking Your Desires With Confidence") Podcast: The Kink Consultant Podcast Instagram: @the_kinkconsultant Facebook: The Kink Consultant TikTok: @the_kinkconsultant YouTube: @thekinkconsultant Email: info@thekinkconsultant.com Meet Amanda in Jamaica: swingcation.com - use code TKC50 Sponsors: ProDX Health - At-home STI & hormone testing, no waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round. SDC - Use code 38236 for the ultimate lifestyle community. 3Fun - Use code TK11932 for the app made for couples and singles exploring together. FirmTech - Use code BEYOMONO for performance gear built for the lifestyle. More From Beyond Monogamy: Website: beyond-monogamy.com - full episode library, listener confessionals, and our brand-new live show launching soon Streaming Radio: Catch us live every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central on Full Swap Radio Beyond Monogamy Live at Club Eden San Antonio - join us in person! Krazy Winter Nights KC (Feb 19-21, 2027) - use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com Enjoyed the show? Follow, rate, and leave us a review - it genuinely helps! Share this episode with a kink-curious friend.

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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

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