For The Confused 20s

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For the Confused 20s is a space for the in-between season, when life feels unclear, faith is being stretched, and you’re becoming someone you don’t fully recognize yet. Through honest conversations, we talk about navigating your twenties with God, learning, unlearning, and choosing faith even when the answers aren’t obvious. This isn’t a podcast about having it all figured out. It’s about walking gently with God while you figure it out.

  1. Sep 4

    Help, I am a PK - J.0.A

    The podcast episode explores the life of a PK (preacher's kid) and the expectations and experiences associated with it. It delves into childhood realizations, awareness of PK identity, proximity to church hurt, and the subtle and outspoken expectations placed on PK children within the church community. The conversation delves into the complexities of expectations, both from parents and society, and the impact they have on pastor's children. It also explores the blessings and responsibilities of being a PK, as well as the challenges of dealing with spiritual burnout and finding strength in faith. Takeaways Childhood realizations of being a PKProximity to church hurt and its impact on PK children Understanding the impact of expectations on pastor's childrenBalancing blessings and responsibilities as a PKFinding strength and comfort in faith during spiritual burnout Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the Podcast01:33 Introduction to the Life of a PK03:15 Childhood Realizations04:48 Awareness of Being a PK05:16 Realization of PK Identity07:33 Proximity and Church Hurt12:55 PK Children and Church Expectations27:37 Subtle and Outspoken Expectations30:20 Understanding Expectations41:12 Blessings and Responsibilities of Being a PK48:41 Dealing with Spiritual Burnout

  2. Aug 21

    Help, I think I’m idolizing my career - Chidinma

    The conversation delves into the topics of career building, passion, and ambition. It explores the challenges of aligning one's career with their passion, the evolving nature of career paths, and the impact of ambition on personal well-being. The speakers share personal experiences and insights on the intersection of ambition, passion, and career choices. The conversation delves into the themes of ambition, purpose, and spirituality, emphasizing the balance between career aspirations and spiritual alignment. It explores the dangers of making work an idol and the importance of seeking divine guidance in decision-making. The speakers stress the significance of excellence without equating success with one's identity. Takeaways Career choices may not always align with one's passion, leading to a search for fulfillment and purpose.Ambition is both encouraged and worshipped in society, leading to self-reliance and anxiety.The evolving nature of career paths and the need for balance between work, passion, and personal well-being. Ambition and career aspirations should be balanced with spiritual alignment.Making work an idol can lead to negative side effects such as anxiety and burnout.Excellence should be pursued without equating success with one's identity. Chapters 00:00 Exploring Career Building11:05 The Impact of Ambition on Well-being31:23 Balancing Ambition and Spirituality53:15 The Dangers of Making Work an Idol

  3. Aug 7

    The David to my Jonathan (Do I really need Friends?) - Anointed

    The conversation explores the power of honesty and intentionality in friendship, the evolution of friendship over time, the importance of mutual understanding, and the need for community and friendship in life. Each chapter delves into the depth of these themes, providing valuable insights into the dynamics of friendship and the significance of genuine connections. The conversation delves into the impact of finding God and genuine friendships, highlighting the safety and space for authenticity that these relationships provide. It also emphasizes the sovereignty of God in bringing relationships at the right time. Takeaways HonestyIntentionality in friendship Genuine friendships provide safety and a space to be oneselfThe sovereignty of God brings relationships at the right time Chapters 00:00 The Power of Honesty in Friendship09:12 The Importance of Mutual Understanding18:35 The Power of Community and Hope23:58 Forgiveness, Sacrifice, and Friendship29:24 Finding God and Genuine Friendships

  4. Jul 17

    The married episode: The truth about being married in your 20s - Shalom

    The conversation delves into the topics of love, marriage, and motherhood, exploring the challenges and triumphs of these life experiences. It highlights the importance of faith, forgiveness, and ambition in building and strengthening a marriage. The discussion also addresses the idea of marriage in one's 20s and the need to unlearn societal narratives about marriage and motherhood. Takeaways Marriage and MotherhoodNavigating ChallengesBuilding a Strong MarriageAmbition and Marriage Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Love and Marriage08:28 Coping with Bell's Palsy During Pregnancy14:20 Qualities and Mindset for a Strong Marriage27:02 Navigating Marriage and Ambition36:16 Marriage in Your 20s

  5. Jul 3

    The unmarried episode: Is the 20s really for love? Am I idolizing marriage?- Mishael

    The conversation explores the expectations and pressures surrounding love, marriage, and relationships, as well as the influence of social media on these expectations. It delves into the misconceptions and purpose of singleness, emphasizing the importance of embracing every phase of life and self-discovery. It explores the desire for marriage, idolization of marriage, and the balance between desire and obsession are also discussed. The speakers emphasize the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships, not limiting God to one's timeline, and creating a safe and joyful home environment. They also encourage listeners to find purpose and love in other areas of life and affirm that they are complete and loved by God. Takeaways Expectations and pressures in relationshipsThe purpose and value of singleness Self-discovery and communication challenges in singlehoodBalancing desire for marriage and avoiding obsessionRecognizing imperfections and learning from past experiences Recognize red flags in relationshipsFind purpose and love in other areas of lifeAffirm that you are complete and loved by God Chapters 00:00 The Expectation of Love in the 20s06:01 Financial Stability and Marriage14:33 The Purpose of Singleness and Relationships23:12 Self-Discovery and Growth in Singleness31:07 Marriage and Relationships39:32 Self-Reflection and Growth46:57 Desires and Distractions52:06 Becoming a Supportive Partner01:08:20 Finding Purpose and Self-Love

  6. Jun 19

    The Pressure that comes with everyone seeming to “make” it - Aunty PDA

    The episode features a conversation about the pressure to 'make it' and the impact of comparison on social media. The hosts share personal experiences and insights on dealing with societal expectations and the pressure to achieve certain milestones. The conversation delves into the emotional impact of comparison, rejection, and people-pleasing, highlighting the need for self-awareness and authenticity. It emphasizes the importance of understanding one's unique journey and avoiding the pitfalls of comparison and people-pleasing. Takeaways Individual timelines vary, and success should not be restricted to a particular societal timeline.Comparison on social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy and pressure, prompting the need for self-care and self-validation. Emotional Impact: Comparison, rejection, and people-pleasing can have a profound emotional impact, leading to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.Self-Awareness and Authenticity: Understanding one's unique journey and embracing authenticity is crucial for personal growth and fulfillment. Chapters 00:00 Comparison and Social Media01:11:34 Embracing Authenticity and Self-Discovery

  7. Jun 5

    I love Jesus but…. (Navigating contradictions) - Bobola

    The conversation delves into the challenges of transitioning into adulthood, the psychology of adulthood, learning through experience, navigating contradictions in life, shared childhood experiences, as well as the journey with the Lord and personal background. It emphasizes the importance of the right environment and the power of vulnerability in personal growth and spiritual development. Takeaways Transition to AdulthoodNavigating Adulthood Challenges Importance of the right environmentThe power of vulnerability Chapters 00:00 Journey with the Lord and Personal Background49:17 The Power of Vulnerability and Community Support

  8. May 15

    I love Jesus but…. (Navigating contradictions) with Timilehin Emmanuel

    The conversation delves into the theme of navigating contradictions in faith, exploring the human experience of loving Jesus, the responsibility of Christians to be honest and vulnerable, the experience of pain as a contradiction in faith, the impact of pain on faith and community, the sovereignty of God and the goodness of the Lord, and the role of pain in faith and isolation. The conversation delves into the common struggle of believers with contradictions and habits, emphasizing the balance between grace and responsibility. It also highlights the importance of devotion as a lifeline for believers in navigating these struggles. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Contradictions in Faith08:39 The Experience of Pain as a Contradiction in Faith25:16 The Sovereignty of God and the Goodness of the Lord31:26 The Role of Pain in Faith and Isolation52:36 The Lifeline of Devotion

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For the Confused 20s is a space for the in-between season, when life feels unclear, faith is being stretched, and you’re becoming someone you don’t fully recognize yet. Through honest conversations, we talk about navigating your twenties with God, learning, unlearning, and choosing faith even when the answers aren’t obvious. This isn’t a podcast about having it all figured out. It’s about walking gently with God while you figure it out.

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  • Creator
    Treasure
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    13
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Treasure