She's Not Done Yet! Rebuild Your Life After Gray Divorce

Dr. Tamara Monosoff

She's Not Done Yet is a podcast for women navigating Gray Divorce, whether you're considering it, in the thick of it, or years beyond it and still figuring out what comes next. Dr. Tamara Monosoff, whose background in counseling psychology (MA) and Women in Leadership (Ed.D.) has always centered on how women move through change and identity, hosts the show. The show blends professional insight with deeply personal experience. After 38 years with her husband, Dr. Tamara unexpectedly found herself starting over, and eventually built a whole new life in Portugal with one suitcase, a new language, and no roadmap for what came next. She's Not Done Yet challenges the idea that life after Gray Divorce has to become smaller. Instead, Dr. Tamara invites women over 50 to explore what it looks like to rebuild a life around who they are now and what they truly want. Through honest solo conversations and interviews with trusted experts, she explores healing after divorce – Dating and sex after 50, friendship, identity, confidence, trusting your inner compass, creating a joyful & badass life, and the unexpected, sometimes hilarious realities of starting over. Here's what you can look forward to… A new episode drops every Thursday: First Thursday: A solo episode from me Second Thursday: A guest interview with a trusted expert Third Thursday: The Coffee Shop Guy series… My true love story after Gray Divorce Fourth Thursday: The Dish, where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for what’s on your mind. This is a Sisterhood for women asking the bigger questions. Where do I want to live? How do I want to spend my time? What do I want love and relationships to look like now? And what if this ending is also the beginning of something spectacular? Wherever you are in the process, you're not alone, Sister!. We're not done yet, Sisters! ❤️ Dr. Tamara ShesNotDoneYetSisterhood.com

Episodes

  1. 5d ago

    Life after Gray Divorce: You Get to Decide Who You Become Next | Kristen Kofoed

    How do you begin rebuilding when Gray Divorce changes not only your relationship, but your identity, finances, confidence, and sense of what comes next? Dr. Tamara Monosoff is joined by licensed therapist and certified divorce coach Kristen Kofoed, founder of Glass Waters Counseling, who brings both professional expertise and her own lived experience of divorce to a candid conversation about what women may face when the life they knew suddenly disappears. Dr. Tamara and Kristen talk openly about grief that cannot be rushed, the practical fears that can surface around money and work, the importance of choosing the right support, and why rebuilding often happens one small step at a time. They also explore identity after decades of marriage, navigating controlling or narcissistic dynamics, dating and body confidence later in life, and the possibility that eventually emerges when you realize you get to decide who you want to become next. What We’re Making Room For The grief that may need to be felt before you can begin figuring out what comes nextThe skills and resources you may be overlooking when financial fear takes overThe difference between support that truly helps and advice that makes you feel more aloneThe identity questions that surface when decades of familiar roles suddenly disappearThe confidence, freedom, and possibility that can slowly return as you rebuild About our Guest: Kristen Kofoed, LPC, is a psychotherapist and divorce coach with more than 20 years of experience working primarily with couples, divorce, grief, and loss. She founded Glass Waters Counseling and is known for creating a supportive, nonjudgmental space where clients can be fully authentic as they work through difficult transitions. Her approach blends solution-focused, cognitive behavioral, and directive methods with practical divorce coaching to help clients navigate communication, documentation, co-parenting, and the emotional and logistical challenges of starting over. https://glasswaterscounseling.com/ Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Life after Gray Divorce: You Get to Decide Who You Become Next | Kristen Kofoed
  2. Oct 22

    Ep 07: The Dish - She Swipes, I Smile. Two Ways to Get a Date After 60 🌶

    What does dating look like when you are no longer willing to lose yourself in the process? In the first edition of The Dish, Dr. Tamara Monosoff is joined by her friend Karen for a candid, girlfriend-to-girlfriend conversation about dating after Gray Divorce, putting yourself back out there, and discovering what you actually want now. Dr. Tamara and Karen compare online and offline dating, swap stories about awkward dates and unexpected connections, and talk openly about safety, body confidence, sex, boundaries, and the courage to walk away when something does not feel right. They also react to a caller’s unforgettable first-date story, using it to explore discomfort, people-pleasing, and the freedom to leave when a situation crosses your boundaries. Along the way, they return to a bigger question that goes far beyond dating: What happens when you stop waiting to be chosen and start choosing yourself? Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Ep 07: The Dish - She Swipes, I Smile. Two Ways to Get a Date After 60 🌶
  3. Oct 15

    Ep 06: The Coffee Shop Guy (Chapter 2) - The Most Unexpected Dating Aphrodisiac

    What happens when a first date after Gray Divorce starts to feel more real than expected? In Chapter Two of The Coffee Shop Guy, Dr. Tamara Monosoff steps into a connection that challenges the freedom, confidence, and emotional walls she has worked so hard to rebuild. As attraction deepens and old instincts kick in, Dr. Tamara begins questioning what is truly a red flag, what accountability looks like, and whether she is ready to let someone get close again. Don’t forget to subscribe so that you don’t miss future episodes of this new audio series. Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Ep 06: The Coffee Shop Guy (Chapter 2) - The Most Unexpected Dating Aphrodisiac
  4. Oct 8

    Ep 05: You're Not Lost. Is It Fear or Your Intuition Talking? | Dr. Lisa Langer

    What if feeling lost after a major life change does not mean you have actually lost your way? Taken from a She’s Not Done Yet Live Broadcast, Dr. Tamara Monosoff is joined by clinical psychologist and mindfulness teacher Dr. Lisa Langer (LisaLangerPhD.com) to explore how women can reconnect with their inner compass during Gray Divorce, grief, caregiving, empty nesting, and other major life transitions. Dr. Lisa Langer shares why difficult change can leave us feeling ungrounded, overwhelmed, and unsure which inner voice to trust. Together, she and Dr. Tamara Monosoff discuss the difference between fear and intuition, the importance of boundaries with well-meaning people, and why giving yourself time and space can help you find clarity. Dr. Lisa also guides a simple mindfulness practice built around breathing, settling, and softening, offering a way to quiet the noise long enough to hear yourself again. Even when fear, grief, or other people’s opinions are loud, your inner compass is still there. What We’re Making Room For The difference between feeling lost and actually being lostThe quiet clues that can help separate intuition from fearThe boundaries that protect your healing when outside voices get too loudThe value of slowing down long enough to feel grounded againThe small practices that can help you hear your own inner wisdom more clearly Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Ep 05: You're Not Lost. Is It Fear or Your Intuition Talking? | Dr. Lisa Langer
  5. Oct 8

    Ep 04: The Coffee Shop Guy (Chapter 1): Finding Love Again After Gray Divorce

    The Coffee Shop Guy is a true-story series about dating, desire, vulnerability, and finding love again after Gray Divorce. After 38 years of marriage, Dr. Tamara Monosoff found herself starting over at 60, rebuilding her confidence, creating a new life in Portugal, and unexpectedly meeting someone who made her wonder what might still be possible. Don’t forget to subscribe so that you don’t miss future episodes of this new audio series. Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Ep 04: The Coffee Shop Guy (Chapter 1): Finding Love Again After Gray Divorce
  6. Oct 8

    Ep 03: How to Turn What You Know Into Income After Gray Divorce

    Could becoming your own boss be part of rebuilding your independence after Gray Divorce? Dr. Tamara Monosoff explores new possibilities: creating income by starting with what you already know, what you enjoy, and the skills others may already recognize in you. Rather than jumping straight into a complicated business plan, Dr. Tamara encourages women to experiment. Maybe it starts with helping a friend organize a closet, taking a class in something you have always wanted to learn, or testing a service in your own community. She shares practical ways to explore an idea, gather feedback, find your first clients, and slowly build toward something that can generate income. More than that, creating work of your own can help rebuild your confidence, independence, and sense of identity after Gray Divorce. You do not need to have the whole business figured out. You just need a place to start. What We’re Making Room For The skills and strengths you may be overlooking because they feel too ordinary to countThe possibility that a hobby, interest, or past experience could become a source of incomeThe freedom to test an idea before deciding whether it needs to become a businessThe confidence that can grow when your work begins to reflect who you are nowThe kind of support that makes starting something new feel less overwhelming Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Ep 03: How to Turn What You Know Into Income After Gray Divorce
  7. Oct 8

    Ep 02: Finding Your North Star After Gray Divorce

    How do you find your way forward after Gray Divorce when you feel completely stuck? Dr. Tamara Monosoff introduces her five-step North Star framework, created from the process she wishes she had when her own marriage ended and she could not imagine what came next. Rather than pushing yourself to make big decisions or “move on,” the framework offers a gentler way to begin creating direction through small, manageable steps. Dr. Tamara walks through what it means to name what you are really feeling, open yourself to possibilities you may have dismissed, reconnect with who you are now, take one small step forward, and hold on to the women who understand what you are going through. She shares stories of women trying new careers, traveling alone, finding community, and slowly rebuilding confidence and often discovering unexpected moments of joy along the way. The goal is not to have your whole future figured out. It is to give yourself permission to explore what matters to you now and begin creating a new map when you are ready. What We’re Making Room For The raw emotions that need to be named before anything else can shiftThe possibilities you may have quietly ruled out for yourselfThe parts of you that got lost inside years of roles and responsibilitiesThe power of one small step when the future feels overwhelmingThe kind of support that helps you feel less alone while you find your way forward Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Ep 02: Finding Your North Star After Gray Divorce
  8. Oct 8

    Ep 01: Screw it! Here’s My Messy Gray Divorce Story

    How do you rebuild your life after Gray Divorce when the future you were building suddenly disappears? For Dr. Tamara Monosoff, the end of a 38-year relationship brought grief, loneliness, shame, and a loss of identity she never saw coming. And even with a master's in counseling psychology and decades spent supporting other women, nothing prepared her for how deeply this loss would cut, or how long it would take to find her footing again. In this first episode, Dr. Tamara shares the very personal story behind She's Not Done Yet. From sitting alone in a suddenly empty, quiet house, to asking herself a question she had rarely made room for before: what do I want now? She opens up about the pressure to "get over it," the well-meaning advice from friends and family that sometimes made the loneliness worse (through no fault of theirs, because she didn't know what she needed either), and the small choices that slowly helped her begin imagining a life of her own. This isn't about rushing past the grief or becoming a whole new person overnight. It's about giving yourself permission to move forward one tiny step at a time, discovering what matters to you now, and finding a Sisterhood of women who understand exactly why that can feel so hard. Whether he left or you left, you're not alone on this path. And you, Sister, are not done ye! What We're Making Room For: The grief that lingers long after a marriage endsThe questions that surface when your old identity no longer fitsThe particular loneliness even well-meaning people may not understandThe small choices that begin to create movement forward againThe freedom of asking yourself, maybe for the first time, what you want now Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

    Ep 01: Screw it! Here’s My Messy Gray Divorce Story
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    You’re Not Done Yet, Sister: Your Life After Gray Divorce Starts Here

    Gray divorce may close one chapter, but it does not mean your story is over. In She’s Not Done Yet, Dr. Tamara Monosoff brings together her professional expertise and her own experience of starting over after a 38-year marriage to create a sisterhood for women rebuilding life after divorce. From dating and friendship to trusting yourself again and creating a life that feels truly yours, this is a place to explore what comes next and remember that you’re not done yet, sister. Not even close. Join the Sisterhood at https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Let's Dish! 🌶️ Every fourth Thursday of the month, She’s Not Done Yet will bring you The Dish 🌶️ where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for whatever is on your mind. Have a question you’ve been hesitant to ask, a fear you’re working through, or an experience to share? We want to hear it. Dating app adventures and funny or awkward dating stories are always welcome! Record your submission through SpeakPipe (link below) using your first name or a made-up name if you prefer. Your question or story may be featured on the podcast, and if we use your audio, you’ll receive three free months of the paid She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood subscription. Please include your name and email in the SpeakPipe submission form so we can contact you. Your identifying information will remain private. https://www.speakpipe.com/ShesNotDoneYetPODCAST “She’s Not Done Yet” isn’t just a podcast. Stream the official song on Spotify and Apple Music. About the Host: Dr. Tamara Monosoff is a bestselling author, educator, speaker, entrepreneur, and founder of She’s Not Done Yet, a Sisterhood supporting women navigating Gray Divorce and redesigning their lives in midlife. She holds a doctorate in International & Multicultural Education, specializing in Women in Leadership, and a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Drawing on both her professional background and her own experience rebuilding after the end of a 38-year relationship, Tamara is passionate about helping women rediscover themselves, embrace new possibilities, and create lives that feel fully their own. She’s Not Done Yet Sisterhood: https://shesnotdoneyetsisterhood.com Website: https://tamaramonosoff.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesnotdoneyetsisterhood Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like automatic updates on new episodes, follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

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She's Not Done Yet is a podcast for women navigating Gray Divorce, whether you're considering it, in the thick of it, or years beyond it and still figuring out what comes next. Dr. Tamara Monosoff, whose background in counseling psychology (MA) and Women in Leadership (Ed.D.) has always centered on how women move through change and identity, hosts the show. The show blends professional insight with deeply personal experience. After 38 years with her husband, Dr. Tamara unexpectedly found herself starting over, and eventually built a whole new life in Portugal with one suitcase, a new language, and no roadmap for what came next. She's Not Done Yet challenges the idea that life after Gray Divorce has to become smaller. Instead, Dr. Tamara invites women over 50 to explore what it looks like to rebuild a life around who they are now and what they truly want. Through honest solo conversations and interviews with trusted experts, she explores healing after divorce – Dating and sex after 50, friendship, identity, confidence, trusting your inner compass, creating a joyful & badass life, and the unexpected, sometimes hilarious realities of starting over. Here's what you can look forward to… A new episode drops every Thursday: First Thursday: A solo episode from me Second Thursday: A guest interview with a trusted expert Third Thursday: The Coffee Shop Guy series… My true love story after Gray Divorce Fourth Thursday: The Dish, where your questions, fears, and experiences guide the conversation about life after Gray Divorce. From finding your confidence and facing uncertainty to starting over, dating, love, and sex, there’s room for what’s on your mind. This is a Sisterhood for women asking the bigger questions. Where do I want to live? How do I want to spend my time? What do I want love and relationships to look like now? And what if this ending is also the beginning of something spectacular? Wherever you are in the process, you're not alone, Sister!. We're not done yet, Sisters! ❤️ Dr. Tamara ShesNotDoneYetSisterhood.com

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