
78 episodes

I'm Not Your Shrink Dr. Tracy Dalgleish
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- Kids & Family
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4.8 • 74 Ratings
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A Podcast for Women Looking to Change the Dialogue in their Life.
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Get Close and Intimate with These 100 Questions with Your Partner – with Greg Stewart
In this episode, I sit down with my husband Greg to discuss our experience completing my 100 Questions to Spark a Deeper Connection Guide. We'll also discuss the poll results from a series of relationship questions I shared on my Instagram, and share our perspectives on enhancing communication and connection with your partner.
In this episode we discuss:
Our experience completing the 100 Questions Guide (it's free!)
Finding balance between the quantity and quality of communication in your relationship
The significance of open discussions and setting expectations during major life transitions like starting a family
Identifying common triggers for resentment and finding effective ways to address them in relationships
Overcoming the challenges of initiating meaningful conversations with your partner
The benefit of dedicating regular check-ins with your partner to nurture and strengthen your relationship
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Living Abroad and Navigating Love and Relationships - with Kacie Rose Travel
In this episode, I sit down with Kacie Rose, the world traveler behind Kacie Rose Travel. After a life-changing solo trip and her own "Under the Tuscan Sun" moment, Kacie Rose moved to Italy in January 2021 to be with her long-distance partner. By sharing her experiences online about her life as an American living abroad, travel tips, and more, she has built an outstanding online community of 1.5 million people.
Together, we delve into her experiences of moving abroad and the struggles of navigating life living in a new country. She shares her experiences of embracing a new culture, navigating the language barrier, building friendships as an adult, and how she has worked to maintain a healthy relationship with her partner.
In this episode we discuss:
The importance of prioritizing quality time in a long-distance relationship
Navigating personal growth and significant life changes as a couple
Adapting to cultural differences in an intercultural relationship
Struggles with losing independence when navigating language barriers
Building and nurturing friendships as an adult
Tips for individuals planning to live abroad
EPISODE LINKS:
Kacie Rose Travel Instagram
Kacie Rose Travel TikTok
Kacie Rose Travel YouTube
Kacie Rose Travel Website
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From Micro-Betrayals to Emotional Neglect in your Marriage - with Matthew Fray
In this episode, I sit down with Matthew Fray, a relationship coach and author of "This is How Your Marriage Ends". He leans on the lessons of his failed marriage and divorce to help others avoid making the same mistakes he did.
Together, we discuss the importance of mindful validation and communication in marriages. He shares his insights on how small actions can lead to bigger messages and the impact of emotional neglect and micro-betrayals in relationships. Matthew also shares tips on how to embrace uncomfortable conversations and work towards conflict resolution in a marriage.
In this episode, we discuss:
The common struggle between communication and validation when there is a problem
Inadvertently delivering a message through small actions and the long term effects
How to get over your defensive and invalidating tendencies
Mindful validation during disagreements can help couples work through conflicts
How our relationships often reflect the stuff we are working through
The key to working towards conflict resolution is leaning into discomfort and embracing uncomfortable conversations
EPISODE LINKS:
Matthew Fray Instagram
Matthew Fray Blog
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Resentment, Confidence, and Coping with the Stepmom Role – with Christina Nelson
In this episode, I sit down with Christina Nelson, a social worker and creator of the Radical Stepmoms podcast.
Cristina is passionate about providing support to stepmoms and assisting them in getting unstuck so they can build the love and life they desire.
Together, we take a deeper look at the realities of being a stepmom and open up an honest conversation to discuss resentment, responsibilities, and dynamics within the stepmotherhood role.
In this episode, we discuss:
How stepmotherhood changes and challenges your identity
The negative representation of stepmoms in the media
Processing the grief and your initial expectations of motherhood
How to find confidence in your place and power in the stepmom role
The feeling of resentment and how to process through it
Addressing your needs and advocating for yourself when moving into a set family dynamic
Practicing open communication and boundary setting
The definition of "disengaging" and how to practice it
Tips to strengthen your relationship with your partner
EPISODE LINKS:
The Radical Stepmoms Podcast Instagram
The Radical Stepmoms Podcast Website
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Get intentional with your partner and reconnect with small actions every day with 28 Days of Love
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Postpartum, Grief, and The Mental Load – with Lo Mansfield
In this episode, I sit down with Lo Mansfield, a specialty certified OB nurse who has spent her career in labor and postpartum, and the teacher and face behind the Labor Mama community courses and resources.
Together, we discuss the intricacies of postpartum and the power of how resources and knowledge can change our experiences.
In this episode, we cover:
The feeling of grief in pregnancy and child birth
The importance of having a support system and receiving help in postpartum
How to acknowledge and have grace for your own change on the parenting journey
The ability to have an empowered and knowledgeable birth experience
Responding to fear in the labor process
How to practice pain with purpose
Recognizing postpartum mental health challenges and implementing accountability
EPISODE LINKS:
The Labor Mama Instagram
The Labor Mama Website
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Boundaries, Family Dynamics, and Defining Your Values – Q&A with Dr. Tracy
In this episode, Dr. Tracy sits down to answer some of your most asked questions across social media, her website, and clinical visits.
Listen as Dr. Tracy tackles key topics in marriage and parenthood when it comes to managing boundaries, the mother-in-law dynamic, and more.
In this episode, she covers:
Grief and raising your family in a city without family support
How to build friendship and connection with others outside of your family
How to process inner narratives in alignment with your values
Adjusting your expectations when the reality of family-life is different than you planned
The shifts to the marriage dynamic after having children
How to set, communicate, and act upon our boundaries with others
Practices to create safe and secure environments in your marriage
How to raise your children to be autonomous, interdependent individuals
Tips to navigate different background experiences in defining your values and creating compromise with others
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Get intentional with your partner and reconnect with small actions every day with 28 Days of Love
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Customer Reviews
Insightful and human Doctor to support my journey and growth
I was amazed by Dr Tracy’s advice on Instagram and became hooked with the podcast, THANK YOU she’s very relatable and unpacks trauma and healing in a kind and soft way. Must listen!
Endless great advice
This podcast is filled with such great insight and advice. Tracy has such a calm demeanour and find just listening to her voice calming. Every podcast I have a ah ha moment
Dr. Tracy is *the* relationship saviour
Such an informative, helpful, real, and also uplifting podcast to listen to. You’ll learn a ton about yourself, your relationships, and you’ll feel inspired to try out new approaches and techniques to enhance not only your relationships with others but also with yourself!