Known and Trusted

Anna Sonoda, LCSW

Known and Trusted with Anna Sonoda, LCSW Grooming doesn’t look like danger. It looks like trust. Known and Trusted is the podcast that exposes how child predators gain access to kids, focusing on how they do it, not why they do it. Hosted by Anna Sonoda, LCSW, former therapist to convicted offenders turned grooming prevention authority, this series equips families, parents, and professionals with clear tools to recognize grooming before harm occurs. Through real survivor stories and expert insights, each episode reveals the hidden patterns predators use and shows how adults can build stronger safety around children. Because when families understand grooming, they can stop it. And that’s how we start a movement to end child sexual abuse, one story, one strategy, one conversation at a time. Who should listen? Parents who want to raise confident, safe, and aware kids. Educators, coaches, and youth leaders looking for clear, practical tools. Therapists, advocates, and policymakers committed to prevention. What will you gain? Real-world insights into how grooming works and how it hides in plain sight. Survivor stories that reveal patterns others miss. Clear strategies to strengthen your family’s safety net without fear-based messaging. A new lens on trust-how to recognize it, protect it, and teach it to kids. Why share it? Because grooming prevention is the next parenting revolution. Every download, every share, and every conversation helps shift our culture from silence to safety. Together, we can make grooming visible before harm occurs.

  1. 2D AGO

    The Tricky People Trap

    The conversation delves into the limitations of the tricky people model in child safety and introduces the concept of grooming literacy as a more effective approach. It challenges the traditional teaching of kids' boundaries and emphasizes the importance of institutional conversations and implementing grooming literacy in everyday conversations with children. Chapters 00:00 The Tricky People Model05:29 Teaching Kids Boundaries11:44 Implementing Grooming Literacy

    12 min

  2. FEB 2

    What the Epstein List Misses

    Keywords Epstein files, child abuse, survivor empowerment, systemic failure, prevention strategies Summary In this conversation, Anna Sonoda, LCSW, delves into the implications of the Epstein files, emphasizing the need for a deeper understanding of the systemic failures that allowed abuse to persist. She highlights the importance of survivor agency, the dangers of transparency without care, and the necessity of proactive prevention strategies. The discussion calls for a shift in focus from sensationalism to structural accountability, urging parents and communities to recognize patterns of behavior that may indicate grooming and abuse. Takeaways The Epstein files reveal a history of known harm. Survivors often feel exposed rather than accountable. Transparency without care can lead to further harm. Systems play an active role in enabling abuse. Waiting for proof often means waiting too long. Patterns of behavior are crucial for prevention. Survivors need control over their narratives. Communities must document concerns early. Anger alone will not prevent future abuse. Prevention strategies must be proactive and informed.

    13 min

  3. JAN 26

    Preparing for the Storm

    The conversation explores the concept of preparation and readiness in the face of uncertainty and risk. It emphasizes the importance of function over completeness, the need for readiness to survive fatigue and changing conditions, and the guarantee of readiness through preparation. The chapters delve into the preparation process, the uncertainty of risk, the function under disruption, and the importance of showing up, looking up, and speaking up. Takeaways Preparation is about function, not completenessReadiness must survive fatigue and hold when conditions changePreparation does not guarantee impact, but guarantees readiness

    7 min

  4. JAN 19

    Nothing Happened

    Summary In this episode of "Known and Trusted," Anna Sonoda, a licensed clinical social worker, delves into the often-overlooked topic of grooming behaviors that can lead to child sexual abuse. She emphasizes that grooming is a subtle, insidious process that typically occurs without any immediate illegal actions, making it difficult for parents to recognize. Anna highlights the importance of awareness and proactive measures, urging parents to develop a language and framework that allows them to address potential risks before they escalate into harm. By understanding the signs of grooming and implementing early detection systems, parents can create a safer environment for their children. Anna shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies for parents to maintain oversight and visibility in their children's lives. She encourages listeners to trust their instincts and act on any feelings of discomfort, even when nothing illegal has occurred. The episode serves as a call to action for parents to engage in open conversations about safety, establish clear boundaries, and foster a supportive community that prioritizes child protection. Ultimately, Anna reassures parents that they do not need to wait for something to happen to take action; prevention can begin at any moment.keywords grooming, child safety, parenting, child protection, awareness, early detection, emotional loyalty, prevention strategies, Anna Sonoda, Known and Trusted Grooming is often misinterpreted and goes unnoticed.Waiting for something illegal to happen is waiting too long.Parents need clarity and language to address potential risks. Sound Bites "Nothing happened. It's a sentence that sounds reassuring.""Waiting for something to happen is waiting far too long.""Waiting for illegality is waiting too long."Chapters 00:00Understanding Grooming and Its Impact 02:45The Importance of Early Detection 04:49Creating a Safe Environment for Children 07:19Empowering Parents to Act 09:49Conclusion and Call to Action

    10 min

  5. JAN 12

    Trusting Your Gut Isn't Enough

    Keywords grooming, parenting, trust, child safety, instincts, social work, awareness, protection, relationships, evaluation Summary In this episode of Known and Trusted, Anna Sonoda, LCSW, discusses the complexities of grooming and the limitations of parental instincts. She emphasizes that many parents do not recognize grooming behaviors because they are conditioned to rely on gut feelings, which are often inadequate for identifying subtle manipulations. Instead, she advocates for a structured approach to evaluating relationships and understanding the patterns of grooming across different age groups. The episode aims to empower parents with better tools and frameworks to protect their children from potential harm. Takeaways Most parents who experience grooming-related harm don't say they ignored their gut. Trusting your gut was never the right tool for this job. Grooming is a slow exposure, not a sudden event. Your gut is like a smoke alarm; grooming is carbon monoxide. Predators rely on systems with high trust and low oversight. Parents miss grooming because they watch for smoke while risk builds. You were taught to rely on instinct, not to evaluate patterns. Protection at a young age lives in conversation or dialogue. Grooming introduces exceptions, not fear, in children's relationships. Understanding grooming changes outcomes for child safety. Sound bites "I never had a bad feeling." "Grooming is carbon monoxide." "You were taught to rely on instinct." Chapters 00:00 Understanding Grooming and Parental Instincts 04:05 Evaluating Relationships: A New Framework for Safety 07:57 Empowering Parents: Tools for Protection

    9 min

  6. JAN 5

    Known is Not the Same as Safe

    Keywords trust, safety, grooming, parenting, communication, awareness, children, relationships, prevention, clarity Summary In this episode of Known and Trusted, Anna Sonoda, LCSW, discusses the critical distinction between being known and being safe, particularly in the context of parenting and child safety. She emphasizes that most harm to children comes from trusted individuals rather than strangers, and that familiarity can often be mistaken for safety. The conversation delves into the dynamics of grooming, the importance of clear communication, and the need for parents to be aware of their children's relationships and environments. Anna provides actionable steps for parents to enhance safety and encourages reflection on the nature of trust and oversight in their children's lives. Takeaways Most harm to children does not come from strangers. Familiarity feels like safety, but it's just proximity. Safety is built through transparency, accountability, and shared oversight. Grooming exploits the gap between familiarity and safety. Parents often blame themselves after the fact. Awareness is preventative; we teach kids to notice patterns. You do not need to determine intent to intervene. Language matters in how we communicate safety to children. Reflection questions can help parents notice potential issues. Prevention lives in shared language and expectations. Sound bites "Grooming doesn't wave red flags." "Awareness is preventative." "Prevention doesn't live in fear." Chapters 00:00 Understanding Trust and Safety 02:51 The Dynamics of Grooming 05:47 Empowering Parents with Language 08:24 Reflection and Awareness for Caregivers

    10 min

  7. 2025-12-22

    Re Release Trust Your Gut

    This episode is the most played, streamed, and shared among all the episodes of Known and Trusted. Find out more by taking a listen today. In this compelling episode, Anna Sonoda, LCSW, engages in a heartfelt conversation with L, a mother who bravely shares her family's harrowing experience with clergy abuse. L recounts the early signs of weird behavior, the emotional turmoil, and the eventual confrontation that led to justice. Her story is a powerful testament to trusting one's instincts and the importance of speaking out. This episode offers invaluable insights for parents and caregivers on recognizing and addressing grooming behaviors.

    32 min

  8. 2025-12-15

    Structure Safety with the G.A.S. Model

    In this episode, Anna Sonoda, a licensed clinical social worker, discusses the GAS model (Grooming, Access, Space) as a framework for preventing child sexual abuse, particularly during family gatherings. She emphasizes the importance of understanding how grooming behaviors manifest in familiar environments and provides practical strategies for parents and caregivers to create a safer atmosphere for children. The conversation highlights the need for awareness, structure, and proactive measures to interrupt potential grooming behaviors and ensure children's safety. takeaways Harm often starts with access and trust, not violence.The GAS model helps parents design safety into family culture.Most child sexual abuse occurs in familiar settings.Parents experience cognitive dissonance regarding safety around trusted adults.Unstructured familiarity creates risk, but risk is not destiny.Control the conditions that allow harm, rather than identifying 'bad' people.Pre-game discussions with children can set safety expectations.Routine check-ins during gatherings help maintain awareness.Forced affection can confuse children about bodily autonomy.Debriefing after events helps children process their experiences.

    15 min
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Known and Trusted with Anna Sonoda, LCSW Grooming doesn’t look like danger. It looks like trust. Known and Trusted is the podcast that exposes how child predators gain access to kids, focusing on how they do it, not why they do it. Hosted by Anna Sonoda, LCSW, former therapist to convicted offenders turned grooming prevention authority, this series equips families, parents, and professionals with clear tools to recognize grooming before harm occurs. Through real survivor stories and expert insights, each episode reveals the hidden patterns predators use and shows how adults can build stronger safety around children. Because when families understand grooming, they can stop it. And that’s how we start a movement to end child sexual abuse, one story, one strategy, one conversation at a time. Who should listen? Parents who want to raise confident, safe, and aware kids. Educators, coaches, and youth leaders looking for clear, practical tools. Therapists, advocates, and policymakers committed to prevention. What will you gain? Real-world insights into how grooming works and how it hides in plain sight. Survivor stories that reveal patterns others miss. Clear strategies to strengthen your family’s safety net without fear-based messaging. A new lens on trust-how to recognize it, protect it, and teach it to kids. Why share it? Because grooming prevention is the next parenting revolution. Every download, every share, and every conversation helps shift our culture from silence to safety. Together, we can make grooming visible before harm occurs.

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  • Creator
    Anna Sonoda, LCSW
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Anna Sonoda, LCSW