Links for Life

Tommy Thompson

Golf is a microcosm of life. In the short hours we spend on the links, each shot challenges our focus and tests our emotions. When hitting that small, dimpled ball, we strive to stay present and to trust. Golf offers us the opportunity to grow physically, mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually. How often in casual conversations about the game have we heard someone say, "Golf is just like life!" And yet, we frequently miss the lessons that golf affords. Through golf, we learn to wrangle destructive emotions. We learn to stay present in the moment, letting go of the past and resisting the allure of projecting into an unknown future. In a round of golf, we have unrushed time to enjoy our favorite relationships with fewer distractions than everyday life. Golf is beautiful and challenging. Golf is play, and hard work. Golf shows us who we are and teaches us how to become better versions of ourselves. This is the "why" of Links for Life, a show that explores the intersection of golf, growth, and God. Tune in for inspiring and empowering episodes that explore the beauty of golf and how it can teach us to improve our daily lives. Join your host, Tommy Thompson, to discuss relationships, mindset, faith, leadership, and, at the same time, how to improve your golf game. In Links for Life, find out how the game of golf parallels the challenges you face along your journey, offering incredible mental strategies for personal growth while at the same time learning from the masters how to lower your handicap. Learn how to focus on the present, let go of past negativity, and free yourself of anxieties about the future. Get tips on overcoming nerves, improving your chipping and putting, and having more fun along the way. Tommy sits down with golfers at all levels who openly share their life experiences and how they use the game of golf in their everyday lives. Gather practical advice and inspiration from their stories to transform your life. Let their personal experiences and learned lessons guide you in elevating your beliefs, spirituality, and perspectives. Of course, golf isn't just about self-improvement. It also teaches you how to connect with others on a deeper level. Through these conversations, discover how this sport can help you build better relationships in all areas of your life. Find out how to create lasting connections with the people around you. Learn how to cultivate and appreciate relationships with the most important people in your life, helping you become a better spouse, parent, sibling, or friend.  Your host, Tommy Thompson, has been a golfer for over five decades. He knows the game inside out and fully understands how it brings people together on a much deeper level. Beyond that, Tommy is also a professional life coach and business entrepreneur who has mentored countless executives and leaders, helping them achieve balance, fulfillment, and more significant impact. He also has a seminary degree and is the author of Space to Breathe Again: Hope for the Overloaded and Overwhelmed. Tommy is host of the sibling podcast Space for Life. Tommy's journey stands at the intersection of golf, personal growth, and a vital relationship with God, making him the best person to lead these thought-provoking conversations.  Join Tommy in improving your scores, dissecting the intricacies of golf, and exploring its limitless links with human life.  Listen to Links For Life at linksforlife.golf

  1. 5D AGO

    First Tee Jitters, Managing Nerves, and Playing Through Pressure

    First tee jitters are a shared experience for golfers at every level, yet many players don’t understand why they happen or how to handle them. In this episode of Links for Life, Tommy Thompson and Joe Wise explore the reality of first tee nerves, why they show up even in casual rounds, and why trying to eliminate them often makes things worse. Through personal stories—from casual rounds to tournament play—Tommy explains that nerves aren’t something to overcome, but something to play through. He introduces a simple framework centered on acknowledging nerves, slowing the body through intentional breathing, and giving extra attention to the think box before stepping into a normal, unchanged pre-shot routine. The episode emphasizes that managing nerves is about regulating the body, not overthinking the shot, and that first tee shots can actually become some of the best shots of the day when approached with clarity and consistency. Key TakeawaysFirst tee jitters happen to everyone, from beginners to experienced tournament playersNerves often come from caring, wanting to do well, or trying to impress othersTrying to fight or eliminate nerves usually makes them strongerAcknowledging nerves helps reduce their powerThe goal is not to remove nerves, but to learn how to play through themThe think box is where extra time should be spent preparing the body, not overthinking the shotSlowing your breathing helps calm tension, regulate tempo, and improve focusOnce you enter the play box, your pre-shot routine should stay exactly the sameRushing to “get it over with” often leads to poor first tee shotsWith proper preparation, first tee shots can be some of the most focused and solid shots of the round 00:00 First Tee Jitters and Why They Happen 02:59 Personal First Tee Stories and Early Golf Experiences 05:50 The Psychology Behind Nerves and Performance 09:12 Learning to Play Through Pressure 12:07 Why You Shouldn’t Fight Nerves 14:53 Breathing Techniques to Calm the Body 17:51 The Think Box and Pre-Shot Preparation 20:50 Why First Tee Shots Can Be Your Best Shots 28:02 Final Thoughts on Managing Nerves and Letting It Fly Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!

    31 min
  2. 2025-12-16

    Jose Alvarez on Pitching for the Atlanta Braves, the Pro Rivals Open, and Finding Purpose Through Faith

    Former Major League Baseball pitcher Jose Alvarez joins Links for Life to reflect on his journey from pitching for the Atlanta Braves to competing in elite events like the Pro Rivals Open and serving in golf ministry through Links Players International. After a 16 year professional baseball career, including multiple seasons in the MLB, Jose shares what success taught him and what it couldn’t, exploring identity beyond performance, the pursuit of lasting fulfillment, and how faith ultimately reshaped his sense of purpose. Through stories from professional sports, competitive golf, and decades of mentoring athletes, this conversation highlights how golf became a powerful avenue for meaningful relationships, spiritual growth, and life changing conversations on and off the course. Chapters00:00 The pursuit of happiness in sports 03:03 From MLB pitching to golf and ministry 05:53 Competing in the Pro Rivals Open 09:12 Finding purpose beyond winning 12:04 Faith and family as the foundation 18:05 Forgiveness and overcoming adversity 24:02 The illusion of success in professional sports 30:02 Life lessons revealed through golf 39:12 The Refresh Box and conversations on the course 44:00 Identity beyond performance 49:03 Links Players 55:04 Golf tips, mindset, and faith in action Links Players - https://linksplayers.com Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org

    1h 6m
  3. 2025-12-02

    Creating a Golf Performance Routine (Think, Play, Memory, Refresh)

    In this episode of Links for Life, Tommy and Joe break down one of the simplest but most powerful frameworks for playing better golf: the four-box cycle of Think, Play, Memory, and Refresh. Adapted from the book Be a Player by Pia Nilsson and Lynn Marriott (Vision54), the framework turns every shot into a repeatable rhythm that helps golfers manage emotions, make smarter decisions, and execute with clarity. Tommy explains how each “box” creates structure around the chaos of a golf round. Joe shares how the model is helping him eliminate overthinking and separate decisions from execution. Together, they highlight how this cycle not only improves performance on the course — it also maps beautifully onto rhythms of daily life. Timestamps0:00 Intro 16:14 Introducing the four-box performance framework 20:16 Overview of Think, Play, Memory, Refresh 26:34 The Think Box 46:35 The Play Box 1:05:40 The Memory Box 1:16:11 The Refresh Box 1:23:55 Applying the four boxes to daily life TakeawaysThere’s genius in this framework — it simplifies everything.Each box is its own action, helping you avoid blending thinking and execution.The cycle repeats every shot, giving you a clean reset.The Memory Box keeps you from dragging emotions into the next shot.The Refresh Box is where rhythm, joy, and presence return.This same cycle maps onto daily life: plan, act, reflect, rest. ResourcesBe a Player by Pia Nilsson & Lynn MarriottVision54 Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!

    1h 33m
  4. 2025-11-18

    Why Most Golfers Never Improve and How You Can

    In this episode of Links for Life, Tommy and Joe unpack one of the most surprising realities in golf: most golfers never actually get better. Handicaps stay the same for years, even decades — not because people aren’t trying, but because most golfers don’t know how to practice in ways that lead to real improvement. This episode dives deep into the art of practicing well. Tommy and Joe explore why so much effort gets wasted, what effective practice actually looks like, and how intention, experimentation, and honest self-assessment can transform both your game and your enjoyment of it. They break down practical strategies for range sessions, short game work, overcoming weaknesses, and building an off-season plan that sets up a breakthrough season ahead. Whether you're new to practice or you’ve been stuck at the same scoring plateau, this episode gives you a clear, encouraging roadmap for how to finally start improving. Takeaways:Most golfers fail to improve because they practice the same habits without intention.Effective practice is purposeful, targeted, and fun enough to keep you engaged.Gamifying practice boosts focus and accelerates learning.Experimenting with ball flight and feel on the range teaches more than grinding stock shots.Short game practice is essential — yet it’s the least practiced part of the game.Honest self-assessment helps you identify what’s actually holding you back.An off-season plan turns “winter rust” into real progress.Balancing strengths and weaknesses keeps practice structured and sustainable.Improvement comes from rhythm, reflection, and the courage to face what’s sabotaging your game.Better practice in golf mirrors better practice in life — clarity and intention matter everywhere. Golf Self-Assessment List (1–10 Scale)Use this to determine where your practice should go: PuttingChippingSand playPitchingHalf wedges (40–70 yards)IronsFairway woods / hybridsDriver Life 360–Style Reflection List (as applied to golf)Framework referenced by Tommy: CommunicationFinancesMarriage / relationshipsParentingHealthWork / vocationPersonal growthEmotional lifeSpiritual lifeRhythms / rest Chapters00:00 The Challenge of Improvement in Golf 02:42 The Importance of Effective Practice 05:48 Mindset and Intentionality in Practice 08:53 Making Practice Fun and Engaging 11:49 The Role of Intention in Practice Sessions 14:50 Experimentation and Learning on the Range 17:45 Short Game as the Key to Golf Success 28:03 Mastering the Short Game 30:50 Developing an Off-Season Plan 33:32 Self-Assessment for Improvement 38:47 Embracing Frustration in Practice 42:50 Identifying and Overcoming Sabotaging Weaknesses 47:44 Balancing Perfectionism and Progress Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!

    56 min
  5. 2025-10-21

    Bringing the Good News to the Golf Nation with Pete Hiskey

    In this episode of Links for Life, host Tommy Thompson sits down with Pete Hiskey, a lifelong golfer, ministry leader, and passionate advocate for connecting faith and golf. Pete shares his multi-generational story in the game, from his family’s deep ties to the PGA Tour and his 24-year career with Ping Golf, to his calling to serve what he calls his “nation”—the golfers of the world. Together, they discuss the mission of Links Players, the legacy of the PGA Tour Chapel, and Pete’s newest venture, The Saltire House in St. Andrews, Scotland—a spiritual home for golfers from around the globe. This episode is a story of purpose and calling, showing how one man’s love for golf became a way to live out faith, mentorship, and community across the world. Key TopicsHow Pete Hiskey found his calling to reach the golf worldThe multi-generational Hiskey legacy in professional golfHow Links Players connects faith and community at local clubsThe history and impact of the PGA Tour ChapelWhat it means to live out the Great Commission in your own “nation”The vision behind The Saltire House in St. AndrewsMentorship and investing in the next generationFinding purpose and adventure in life’s second seasonBringing faith to the fairways—how golf connects people and God ResourcesLinks Players: https://linksplayers.comThe Saltire House: https://www.thesaltirehouse.orgTimestamps(0:00) Intro (10:32) Links Players and Community Building in Golf (15:41) The PGA Tour Chapel and Its Legacy (21:55) Defining Purpose and Mission in Golf and Life (26:11) Connecting Golf and Faith (29:57) Living Out the Great Commission (32:03) Embracing Life’s Second Season (36:13) Mentoring the Next Generation (36:58) The Saltire House: A New Venture (45:08) Golf Tips for All Levels Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!

    51 min
  6. 2025-10-14

    The Greenbrier’s Justin Beard on Raising a Junior Golfer

    In this episode of Links for Life, Tommy sits down with golf professional Justin Beard, Director of Golf at The Greenbrier Sporting Club, to talk about raising a junior golfer and keeping the game fun along the way. Justin shares his journey in golf, his experience parenting a talented junior player, and the lessons he’s learned about confidence, humility, and perspective. Together, they explore how parents can create a healthy, pressure-free environment that helps kids enjoy the game for life. From balancing competition and fun to knowing when to step back as a parent, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and heartfelt stories for anyone navigating youth sports or simply looking to make golf a more meaningful family experience. Key TopicsGolf should be a fun experience for kids, not a source of pressureParents serve best as “guardrails,” not drill sergeantsWinning doesn’t define a young golfer’s worthConfidence and humility can coexistEncouragement is more effective than criticismPatience and perspective are essential in youth sportsThe journey is about experiences, not just resultsGolf can strengthen family relationships and create lifelong memories Timestamps0:00 Introduction 4:05 The Ryder Cup Experience with His Son 8:55 Justin’s Journey in Golf 14:34 The Importance of Humility and Confidence 17:49 The Role of Parents in Junior Golf 22:44 Coaching, Confidence, and Character 28:15 Parenting as Guardrails 31:26 Encouragement Over Pressure 35:20 Lessons from a Summer of Competition 38:44 The ROI of Golf and Family Time 43:44 Introducing Kids to Golf the Right Way 50:10 Keeping Golf Fun and Creative for Kids 54:00 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!

    57 min

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Golf is a microcosm of life. In the short hours we spend on the links, each shot challenges our focus and tests our emotions. When hitting that small, dimpled ball, we strive to stay present and to trust. Golf offers us the opportunity to grow physically, mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually. How often in casual conversations about the game have we heard someone say, "Golf is just like life!" And yet, we frequently miss the lessons that golf affords. Through golf, we learn to wrangle destructive emotions. We learn to stay present in the moment, letting go of the past and resisting the allure of projecting into an unknown future. In a round of golf, we have unrushed time to enjoy our favorite relationships with fewer distractions than everyday life. Golf is beautiful and challenging. Golf is play, and hard work. Golf shows us who we are and teaches us how to become better versions of ourselves. This is the "why" of Links for Life, a show that explores the intersection of golf, growth, and God. Tune in for inspiring and empowering episodes that explore the beauty of golf and how it can teach us to improve our daily lives. Join your host, Tommy Thompson, to discuss relationships, mindset, faith, leadership, and, at the same time, how to improve your golf game. In Links for Life, find out how the game of golf parallels the challenges you face along your journey, offering incredible mental strategies for personal growth while at the same time learning from the masters how to lower your handicap. Learn how to focus on the present, let go of past negativity, and free yourself of anxieties about the future. Get tips on overcoming nerves, improving your chipping and putting, and having more fun along the way. Tommy sits down with golfers at all levels who openly share their life experiences and how they use the game of golf in their everyday lives. Gather practical advice and inspiration from their stories to transform your life. Let their personal experiences and learned lessons guide you in elevating your beliefs, spirituality, and perspectives. Of course, golf isn't just about self-improvement. It also teaches you how to connect with others on a deeper level. Through these conversations, discover how this sport can help you build better relationships in all areas of your life. Find out how to create lasting connections with the people around you. Learn how to cultivate and appreciate relationships with the most important people in your life, helping you become a better spouse, parent, sibling, or friend.  Your host, Tommy Thompson, has been a golfer for over five decades. He knows the game inside out and fully understands how it brings people together on a much deeper level. Beyond that, Tommy is also a professional life coach and business entrepreneur who has mentored countless executives and leaders, helping them achieve balance, fulfillment, and more significant impact. He also has a seminary degree and is the author of Space to Breathe Again: Hope for the Overloaded and Overwhelmed. Tommy is host of the sibling podcast Space for Life. Tommy's journey stands at the intersection of golf, personal growth, and a vital relationship with God, making him the best person to lead these thought-provoking conversations.  Join Tommy in improving your scores, dissecting the intricacies of golf, and exploring its limitless links with human life.  Listen to Links For Life at linksforlife.golf

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