Long Term Podcast

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Let's find the meaning of life together. Join me! 3 There is a place for YOU in this chaotic world, never lose hope, strengthen your faith & KEEP IT LONG TERM!

  1. #172 - Eunju Park - Healing the Wounds of Suicide

    3 HRS AGO

    #172 - Eunju Park - Healing the Wounds of Suicide

    Eunju Park is a visionary Hanji artist from Korea who transforms the traditional craft of paper-making into a profound medium for emotional restoration. Hanji, a resilient and beautiful traditional Korean paper, serves as the foundation for her unique creative process where she meticulously tears and assembles the material to form intricate Korean letters. These characters are not merely linguistic symbols but are vessels for deeply held positive messages intended to resonate with the viewer’s soul. Through her art, Eunju bridges the gap between ancient heritage and contemporary healing, inviting us into a world where the act of creation is a deliberate step toward light and resilience. The genesis of Eunju’s artistic journey is rooted in a profound personal tragedy: the loss of her father to suicide nine years ago. At the time, she was a young mother of two, and the weight of unresolved grief eventually manifested as a deep depression that began to fracture her personal relationships. It was during this period of darkness that she discovered the music of BTS, whose themes of self-love and hope reignited her creative spark. Choosing Hanji allowed her to reconnect with her Korean identity while finding a tactile way to process her sorrow. By tearing the paper, she found she could deconstruct her pain, and by assembling it into uplifting words, she began to reconstruct her own life, turning a legacy of loss into a vibrant practice of cultural preservation and personal survival. Eunju’s experience with depression and mental health was marked by a painful realization of how her internal struggle affected her family, creating a household atmosphere of tension and guilt. In a culture where mental health often carries a heavy stigma and her father's death was shrouded in silence, she had to find the courage to take responsibility for her own healing. She discovered that while grief must be felt, one cannot remain in it forever; art became the vehicle that allowed her to move from self-pity to self-love. By sharing her story openly, she breaks the traditional silence surrounding mental illness, offering her journey as a testament to the fact that finding a passion, something that "lights you up" is a vital tool for sustaining long-term mental well-being. Through this intersection of tragedy and craft, Eunju’s understanding of the purpose of life has evolved into a mission of radical acceptance and the spreading of hope. She no longer sees life as a series of events to be controlled, but as a journey to be accepted, a perspective further solidified by her recent diagnosis of leukemia. Her art serves as a visual reminder that even when we cannot change our circumstances, we can change our internal response to them. When people encounter her work, Eunju hopes they feel the same profound sense of comfort that she felt during her recovery, realizing through the delicate textures of Hanji that hope is not just a feeling, but a choice that can be beautifully and tangibly expressed. In conclusion, Eunju Park’s work stands as a powerful bridge between the fragility of the human experience and the enduring strength of the spirit. By weaving her father’s memory, her battle with depression, and her cultural heritage into every fiber of her Hanji pieces, she offers the world a roadmap for turning vulnerability into a source of universal inspiration. Her story reminds us that while we may be torn by life’s hardships, we have the power to reassemble ourselves into something even more meaningful. Eunju’s art is a gift of "radical acceptance," proving that within the characters of a language and the texture of a paper, one can find the courage to live a life fueled by purpose and unyielding hope. KEEP IT LONG TERM!

    1h 29m
  2. #171 - Kempes Pandey - Your Insecurities are Limiting Your Success

    6D AGO

    #171 - Kempes Pandey - Your Insecurities are Limiting Your Success

    Kempes Pandey is a University of Alberta student and content creator who is building confidence, discipline, and a voice of his own, both online and in real life. His journey is centered on learning, growing, and sharing the mindset shifts that have helped him step into a better version of himself every day. By documenting his progress and the lessons he learns along the way, Kempes aims to inspire others to navigate their own paths toward personal excellence. Through a focus on self-improvement, physical health, and internal belief, he has developed a framework for living that prioritizes intentionality and long-term growth over temporary comfort. For Kempes, the drive toward self-help was born out of his lowest moments, rooted in the belief that hitting rock bottom provides a solid foundation upon which to build. He navigates the often-saturated world of online advice by filtering for reliability, only adopting strategies that resonate with his personal experiences and practical reality. Central to his daily drive is a powerful, albeit intense, mindset shift: a deep awareness of the passage of time. By viewing every moment as a non-renewable resource, he utilizes the fear of wasted potential as a catalyst to stay focused on his goals, ensuring that his daily actions align with the person he intends to become. Fitness serves as a vital pillar in Kempes’ life, acting as the physical manifestation of his commitment to discipline while balancing his responsibilities as a student and creator. In a world of fleeting motivation, he maintains consistency by relying on routine rather than temporary feelings, showing up even when the initial excitement fades. The gym has taught him that progress is a slow, iterative process that requires showing up day after day, a lesson that translates perfectly into the "real world" where success is rarely overnight. This physical journey not only changed his physique but also provided the mental toughness necessary to handle the pressures of content creation and academic life. Building self-confidence has been a journey of overcoming the fear of judgment and the innate desire for universal approval. Kempes discovered that true confidence is not an absence of fear, but a byproduct of repetition and execution doing the things he is afraid to do until they no longer hold power over him. He tackles his insecurities by distinguishing between what he can change, such as his fitness, and what he must embrace, such as his height. By taking measurable action and showing up for his creative work even on difficult days, he has learned that self-trust is built through keeping the promises he makes to himself, eventually reaching a point where he can embrace his flaws so fully that they can no longer be used against him. In conclusion, Kempes Pandey’s story is a testament to the power of taking ownership of one’s life through action and reflection. By integrating the principles of self-help, the discipline of fitness, and the resilience of self-confidence, he has created a life guided by purpose rather than circumstance. His journey reminds us that while insecurity is a universal human experience, it does not have to be a permanent barrier. Through consistent effort and a willingness to face the uncomfortable, Kempes continues to prove that anyone can bridge the gap between who they are and who they have the potential to be. KEEP IT LONG TERM!

    1h 23m
  3. #170 - Chadimus - The Heroic Nature of Creating

    2025-12-21

    #170 - Chadimus - The Heroic Nature of Creating

    Chadimus is a passionate creative whose world seamlessly blends content creation, anime conventions, and genuine community building. Whether he’s capturing stories, celebrating fandom culture, or creating spaces where people feel connected, he brings an energy that’s authentic, curious, and uplifting. His journey is rooted in a deep-seated love for storytelling that transcends mediums, turning personal interests into a platform that inspires others to embrace their own passions. By bridging the gap between digital content and real-world connection, he has become a guiding voice for those looking to find their place in a fast-moving world. His evolution in content creation began in 2006, sparked by the early days of YouTube with Smosh and the playful creativity of Robot Chicken. This initial spark led to a decade-long journey in stop-motion animation using Star Wars figures, a period that saw him grow from an amateur hobbyist into a pseudo-professional director. Today, his work has shifted toward personality-focused content, driven by a professional philosophy that "a professional creates, while an amateur waits." To stay motivated, he relies on strict deadlines and the pursuit of his "Ever Dream" vision, ensuring his work remains memorable by avoiding fleeting trends. For Chadimus, truly impactful content must do more than entertain; it should inspire the viewer to think, "I want to do this too," or "I have to show this to someone else." Anime conventions serve as a vital extension of this creative spirit, acting as a bastion where people can shed their self-consciousness and find their tribe. To Chadimus, these events are a "vessel for courage," offering a heroic environment where niche interests are celebrated and cosplay acts as a bridge for both craftsmanship and bonding. He views these spaces as a separate world that feels like both a grand adventure and a return to home. This sense of belonging was solidified at Animethon 2024, where he experienced a profound cultural exchange with a visitor from Poland and received his first standing ovation for his panel, "Let's Make a Shonen Battle Arc!" These moments reinforce his belief that conventions allow people to liberate themselves and be seen exactly as they are. Beyond the screen and the convention floor, community building is the heartbeat of his work, centered on the idea that facilitating people facilitates the future. He has learned that true community happens when people don't just connect with him, but with each other, leading to lifelong friendships and even romantic partnerships born from his platform. By being transparent about his own journey and the uncertainties of life after high school, he creates a safe harbor for the shy or awkward to feel seen and heard. In a digital age where connection can feel artificial or fleeting, he views people as anchors of hope. His goal is to tear down the walls of isolation, offering his audience something exclusive, brave, and new that reminds them of the immense value of every human presence. Through this intersection of art and empathy, Chadimus has built a legacy that is as much about the people he reaches as it is about the stories he tells. His journey from a young animator to a community leader proves that authenticity is the ultimate tool for connection. By staying true to his roots while constantly evolving, he provides a roadmap for others to navigate their own creative and personal paths. As he continues to grow, his commitment remains clear: to create joy, foster bravery, and ensure that no one has to navigate their fandom or their life alone. KEEP IT LONG TERM!

    1h 20m
  4. #169 - Aiden Carabine - What No One Tells You About Stand-Up Comedy

    2025-12-15

    #169 - Aiden Carabine - What No One Tells You About Stand-Up Comedy

    Aiden Carabine is a third-year psychology student and rising comedian who draws inspiration from comedy, comic books, pop culture, and storytelling, even if the world has yet to catch up to his genius. Balancing school with creative self-expression, he brings a dry, self-aware honesty to everything he does, fully aware that many consider him unfunny and his comedy career questionable at best. Still, that tension between ambition and perceived failure fuels his perspective, shaping a voice that leans into discomfort, irony, and the absurdity of taking oneself seriously in a world that rarely does. Aiden Carabine approaches comedy and comic books as parallel universes where time does not always age kindly, and that’s part of the joke. From comic storylines that are now unintentionally hilarious to characters whose flaws are more memorable than their heroics, he sees humor in decay and misfires. Rather than viewing himself as a heroic figure refining the craft, he likens his role to a villain or anti-hero someone actively destroying stand-up comedy through relentlessly terrible sets. If he were to merge stand-up with a comic-style narrative, it would involve inventing a universally loved superhero or villain, delivering one perfect joke, and immediately becoming rich and famous without ever having to improve. Aiden Carabine’s creative identity has been shaped most by sarcastic sitcom characters and comedians who mastered the art of saying the wrong thing perfectly, including figures like Will Ferrell, Will Arnett, and Norm Macdonald. He’s especially interested in how irony dominates modern pop culture, not just as a joke but as a shield, allowing people to say anything while pretending they don’t mean it. For him, this trend reveals something deeper about society’s discomfort with sincerity, and if he could change one thing about today’s pop culture, it would be simple: people would be nicer, even if that idea feels more unrealistic than most sitcom plots. Aiden Carabine finds his literary inspiration primarily in science fiction, a genre that allows big ideas to exist alongside deeply flawed characters. Books like Dune have shaped the way he thinks about power, identity, and systems far larger than any one person, influencing how he views both school and comedy. When it comes to recommending something to someone who feels lost or creatively stuck, he sticks with Dune or The Secret History of the IRA, believing that dense, challenging material can sometimes be the fastest way to shake loose new perspectives. Aiden Carabine ultimately embodies the contradiction of someone deeply committed to creativity while openly doubting his own success within it. Through comedy, pop culture, and books, he explores failure, irony, and ambition with a tone that never fully commits to confidence yet refuses to quit. Whether he’s positioning himself as a villain, a sarcastic observer, or a misunderstood creative, his work reflects a willingness to keep showing up, even when the laughs don’t at least not yet. KEEP IT LONG TERM!

    1h 26m
4.9
out of 5
18 Ratings

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