Love Isn't Enough

Joree Rose
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Love Isn't Enough, hosted by partners in life and love, Joree Rose, LMFT and Dr. John Schinnerer, answers the question of what to do when your love isn't enough to carry you through the inevitable challenges of relationships.This podcast will inspire you to learn, grow and cultivate the awareness and the tools to create and maintain the fulfilling, thriving relationship you desire and deserve. Tune in each Tuesday morning for an intimate view into the raw and profound inner-workings of relationships, where you will feel seen and validated in hearing your story mirrored in the lives of others. Each episode features vulnerable and honest conversations between Joree and John, along with esteemed guests in the fields of psychology, relationships, and academia. Visit us at www.loveisntenough.net for more info and how to work with us.

  1. NOV 4

    Finding a Psychologically Rich Life…in Portugal!

    In this intimate, story-driven episode, Joree and John explore three complementary paths to a good life: pleasure (hedonic happiness), purpose (meaning), and the often-overlooked third path: psychological richness. Drawing on positive psychology research from Dr. Shigehiro Oishi's "Life in Three Dimensions," they unpack how novelty, challenge, and perspective shifts can transform not only your mood, but your worldview. You'll hear the mindset shifts behind their next big leap - relocating to Portugal - and how they moved from what was "pushing" them (escaping comfort and routine) to what was "pulling" them (following intuitive breadcrumbs, synchronicity, and community). They explore further what it means to be stuck on the hedonic treadmill, and how gratitude and savoring can interrupt it; why meaning without balance can narrow your life; and simple ways to diversify your daily experiences so you're changed by the way you choose to live. This episode blends candid storytelling including wrong turns, roundabouts, and serendipity, science-backed tools in areas of mindfulness, values, strengths, and relationship wisdom. If you've been craving more aliveness, adventure, and connection in your life, consider this your invitation to design a psychologically rich one. Connect with Joree & John: •: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    41 min

  2. OCT 21

    Dating Post-Divorce Part 2: Green Flags to Look For

    In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, Joree and John continue sharing the dating advice they followed in their own journey, along with the tips they give their clients on how to find - and maintain - the love you're looking for. While some of this episode is for those dating later in life, and specifically for those who are divorced, much of what they share will apply to anyone in the dating world. They talk about what green flags to look for, how to set up an authentic dating profile, how to not get attached too quickly to someone you just met, ways to ensure safety, and most importantly, being aware of the healing work you need to do prior to getting into a relationship and how to vet out someone to see if they have done their work; this is a key foundation for building a secure attachment. One tricky area for people newly dating is how to talk about sex - if you're sleeping with others, STI's or STD's, and what your boundaries are; these topics can feel especially vulnerable in a new relationship, and yet it's very necessary! Lastly, tune in to hear the #1 thing you need to know about yourself when out in the dating world. If you're ready to attract the partner of your dreams, this episode is for you.   Connect with Joree & John: •: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    40 min

  3. SEP 30

    Dating Post-Divorce, Part 1: How To Identify Red Flags

    Dating after divorce is a whole new game, with real wounds, real wisdom, and (yes) real hope. In this straight-talking, compassionate episode, John and Joree share their own post-divorce dating stories and how they guide their clients: what to put on your dating profile, how to spot genuine interest vs. mixed signals, and why behavior, not words, should guide your choices. They unpack red flags (inconsistency, judgment, defensiveness, love-bombing), safety must-dos, and the mindset shift that turns dating from desperate to discerning. This is Part 1 of a two-part series; next up: green flags, pacing intimacy, consent cues, and building something secure from the start. You'll learn: Profile basics that attract the right matches (cast a narrow, values-aligned net) How to read actions over explanations,and stop giving endless "benefit of the doubt" Safety first: practical ground rules for first meetings 10 common red flags after divorce (and what they look like early) The difference between interest, availability, and readiness Why your top 5 must-haves & 3 deal-breakers protect your peace Want deeper support? Explore our 12-part couples masterclass or therapy options at loveisntenough.net—and catch the video on YouTube. Connect with Joree & John: • Website: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    47 min

  4. SEP 23

    Do Love Languages Really Matter?

    What makes you feel loved might not be what your partner needs to feel loved - and that's where so many couples miss each other. In this playful, practical episode (yes, complete with Joree's giggles and Dr. John's faces 🙃), we revisit Gary Chapman's five love languages - Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Gifts - and talk through five powerful additional love languages from Dr. Elizabeth Frederick: Consistency, Nurture, Attunement, Vulnerability, and Foreplay (the all-day kind, not just the 10 minutes before sex). You'll hear real-life examples, how to stop giving what you want and start giving what lands for your partner, and learn simple scripts to ask for love in ways that actually get met. Watch this one on YouTube to see the antics - and stay for the tools that deepen safety, intimacy, and connection. You'll learn: How to identify your top 2 love languages—and your partner's (they likely will differ!) The "positive lens" shift that turns small annoyances into bids for closeness A quick check for consistency (actions > words) that builds everyday trust Gentle, non-defensive scripts to share needs and receive them with grace Why attunement + vulnerability = faster repairs and hotter chemistry Easy, all-day foreplay ideas across emotional, mental, and physical realms If you're ready to give and receive real and authentic love, this episode is for you - and be sure to catch the full video on YouTube. Want to go deeper with us? Visit loveisntenough.net for our 12-part masterclass or to explore couples therapy. Connect with Joree & John: • Website: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    45 min

  5. SEP 9

    The Ways Vulnerability Breeds Connection, and How to Practice It

    Intimacy isn't just physical, it's the courageous act of sharing your inner landscape: the thoughts, feelings, fears, and messy in-between moments most of us keep tucked away. In this candid, funny, and deeply vulnerable episode, John and Joree unpack why so many couples get stuck in transactional chatter (calendars, chores, carpools) and how to shift back into connection through everyday openness and non-defensive listening. They explore what makes intimacy so scary (hi, vulnerability!), how the first 90 seconds of your response shapes long-term safety, and why "two conversations" often work better than one: lead with validation, then explain or share concerns later. You'll hear stories from their work with couples, the power of bearing witness to your partner's life, and practical ways to make sharing easier, including their favorite relationship card decks. The episode ends with a fun and playful twist you won't want to miss; you'll have to hear to believe. You'll learn: What intimacy really is (and isn't) How to replace transactional talk with connection talk A simple "two-conversation" framework to reduce defensiveness The micro-skills that build emotional safety in the first moments Low-pressure tools (card decks, gentle prompts) to spark deeper sharing If you've ever thought, "We talk all the time, so why don't I feel close?" then this episode for you. Connect with Joree & John: • Website: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    47 min

  6. AUG 27

    Inside the Fight: How Attachment Styles Play Out in Real Time

    In this 3rd episode in our series on attachment styles, Joree and John take attachment theory off the page and into real life, breaking down patterns into tangible examples of how anxious and avoidant patterns play out in the middle of an argument. As we know, arguments in love are never just about the dishes or the eye rolls; they're often old wounds and hidden fears playing out in real time. A very common pattern underneath the dynamics is the anxious partner's fear of abandonment, the avoidant partner's shame and shutdown, and the painful stories of being "too much" or "not enough" that fuel disconnection. With humor, vulnerability, and hard-won lessons from their own relationship, Joree and John unpack how to slow down reactivity, spot the deeper patterns, and ways to practice repair that leads to true secure attachment. This isn't theory — it's the messy, human reality of how fights can either break you apart or bring you closer.   Connect with Joree & John: • Website: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    51 min

  7. AUG 12

    The #1 Thing to Practice to Feel Safe and Secure in Your Relationship

    What happens when someone who feels "too much" falls in love with someone who feels "not enough"? For years, that was us - Joree, the anxious partner, and John, the avoidant partner - stuck in the push–pull dance neither of us fully understood. It created disconnection, frustration, and the same repetitive patterns… until we learned what was really going on beneath the surface. In this episode, we take you deeper into the understanding of attachment styles and why they matter; we share what it means to have attachment needs, and how when they are unmet, form attachment wounds and ultimately negative patterns in your relationship. If you've ever wondered why you keep getting stuck, and want to know the best thing you can do to shift into a better connection, this conversation will change the way you see your relationship, and yourself, and ultimately guide you in how to feel safe and secure.   Connect with Joree & John: • Website: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    52 min

  8. JUL 22

    From Reactive to Relational: How We Healed Our Attachment Wounds

    In this heartfelt and vulnerable joint episode, we share our personal journey of healing from deep-rooted attachment wounds. We open up about the patterns we carried into our relationship—especially the anxious/avoidant dynamic that kept us stuck in cycles of disconnection—and how we consciously did the work to break free from it. Through honest reflection and therapeutic tools, we reveal what it took to stop reacting from old wounds and start relating from a place of safety and trust. We discuss how healing isn't just an individual journey, but a relational one, and why creating a secure attachment—within ourselves and with each other—is the foundation for a thriving partnership. Whether you're in a relationship, seeking one, or doing the inner work to heal your past, this episode offers hope, insight, and practical tools for growing into deeper connection. Connect with Joree & John: • Website: www.loveisntenough.net • Instagram: @loveisntenough33 • Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn't Enough • Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/   Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer: • Website: www.guidetoself.com • Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman • Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman   Connect with Joree Rose: • Website: www.joreerose.com • Instagram: @joreerose • Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose • Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/

    43 min
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Love Isn't Enough, hosted by partners in life and love, Joree Rose, LMFT and Dr. John Schinnerer, answers the question of what to do when your love isn't enough to carry you through the inevitable challenges of relationships.This podcast will inspire you to learn, grow and cultivate the awareness and the tools to create and maintain the fulfilling, thriving relationship you desire and deserve. Tune in each Tuesday morning for an intimate view into the raw and profound inner-workings of relationships, where you will feel seen and validated in hearing your story mirrored in the lives of others. Each episode features vulnerable and honest conversations between Joree and John, along with esteemed guests in the fields of psychology, relationships, and academia. Visit us at www.loveisntenough.net for more info and how to work with us.

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  • Creator
    Joree Rose
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    25
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2024
  • Show Website
    Love Isn't Enough

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