Master Stress with Dr. S

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Welcome to Master Stress with Dr. S, the podcast that empowers high-achievers to unlock their full potential by mastering stress and achieving burnout-proof success. Hosted by Dr. Safia Debar, a renowned stress expert, medical doctor, speaker and coach. Each episode dives deep into the neuroscience of stress, blending logic and intuition to give you practical tools for thriving in a fast-paced world. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of leadership, striving for peak performance, or yearning for a life of balance and freedom, Dr. Safia Debar will guide you through powerful strategies, expert insights, and personal stories to help you regain control, nurture your well-being, and live authentically. Tune in to discover how to stop stress from holding you back and start living your best, empowered life.

  1. 3D AGO

    Why Do We Stay for So Long?

    Dr. S continues a series on addiction by exploring why empathic, responsible people stay in rescuer dynamics and why leaving can feel so hard, framing it through attachment patterns, nervous-system regulation, and behavioral psychology. She explains how helping can trigger bonding and reward chemicals (oxytocin, dopamine, endorphins), conditioning a cycle where purpose becomes tied to managing another’s distress, especially when chronic dysregulation replaces true co-regulation. Early caregiving roles and caretaking attachment can prime people for “overfunctioning empathy,” while intermittent reinforcement (unpredictable good moments amid relapse) can intensify attachment and contribute to trauma bonding. She distinguishes compassion from responsibility and lists key truths (they own their healing; potential isn’t reality; you can’t love someone into recovery; small betrayals erode trust; hope can keep you stuck; your life matters). She also outlines what doesn’t work: fixing, monitoring, shielding consequences, empty ultimatums, and making recovery your purpose. 00:00 Why We Stay 02:59 Listen to the Quiet Truth 04:26 Rescuer Neurobiology 09:28 Attachment and Caretaking 12:28 Intermittent Reinforcement 14:37 Hard Truths List 20:28 Compassion vs Responsibility 26:05 Ten Reality Checks 33:37 What Doesnt Work 37:05 Reclaim Yourself 38:21 Next Episode Teaser Connect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    40 min

  2. APR 27

    Who Loves Someone With Addiction?

    Dr. S introduces a 3–4 episode series sparked by a conversation with Charlie Engle, focusing not on demonizing “the addict” but on what happens to those who love someone with addiction. She describes how a partner, parent, or friend can become a rescuer/fixer whose life reorganizes around monitoring, preventing crises, and managing the other person’s mood, creating a shared nervous-system dynamic marked by hypervigilance and chronic stress. She links this to health costs (sleep, immune, metabolic dysregulation), coping/bypassing behaviors, and the impact on children’s modeling of love and boundaries. Framing codependency as safety becoming tied to regulating another’s behavior, she argues rescuing can become an “invisible addiction” and emphasizes that recovery belongs to the individual. The episode sets up the next question: why people stay in these patterns so long. 00:00 Series Purpose 04:12 Three Big Questions 06:59 Loving Someone Addicted 10:06 Addiction Takes Many Forms 11:21 The Rescuer Role 16:02 Hidden Health Costs 19:48 Kids and Modeling 20:51 Codependency Reframed 23:03 Why We Get Pulled In 24:57 Why We Stay So Long 26:35 Wrap Up and Next Episode Connect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    29 min

  3. APR 20

    REPLAY: The Fundamentals of Gut Health

    In this episode of 'Master Stress with Dr. S,' Dr. Safia Debar delves into the critical importance of gut health and its fundamental role in overall wellness. She begins by stressing the interconnected nature of gut health with various body systems, emphasizing that ignoring gut issues can impact hormones, the neuroendocrine system, and the immune system, among others. Dr. Debar lists symptoms that warrant medical attention, explains what the gut ecosystem entails, and highlights the significance of the gut microbiome. She draws an analogy between the gut and a garden that needs to be cultivated for long-term stability and health. Factors negatively affecting gut health, such as chronic stress and poor diet, are discussed, alongside practical tips to improve gut function through regular meals, mindful eating, and nervous system regulation. The episode also touches on how integrative approaches combining conventional and functional medicine can offer a more comprehensive understanding and treatment of gut health issues. 00:00 Introduction to Gut Health 02:25 Recognizing Gut Symptoms 05:10 Understanding the Gut Ecosystem 06:57 The Microbiome: Our Inner Garden 13:34 Factors Affecting Gut Health 15:10 Mindful Eating and Gut Awareness 26:06 Integrative Approach to Gut Health 29:08 Conclusion and Next Steps Connect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    31 min

  4. APR 13

    Why Can’t People Just Stop? The Medical Reality of Addiction

    Dr. S continues the podcast’s addiction theme by reframing “why can’t they just stop?” through a medical lens, emphasizing addiction as stress, attachment, and reward dysregulation rather than a simple substance problem. She explains how addictive substances and behaviors alter dopamine-based reinforcement, downregulate receptors, activate stress systems, and weaken impulse control, making addiction compulsive and self-regulating for distress. The episode prioritizes medical stabilization and supervised detox—especially for dangerous withdrawals like alcohol and benzodiazepines—and reviews treatments such as thiamine and benzodiazepines for alcohol withdrawal and methadone/buprenorphine for opioid dependence. She surveys alcohol, drugs, gambling, eating disorders, and high-performing behavioral addictions, then outlines longer-term recovery: therapy, trauma-informed work, communities, nervous system regulation, rebuilding relationships and meaning, and redirecting intensity into constructive pursuits. She advises starting with a GP, seeking urgent care for emergencies, approaching loved ones with compassionate curiosity, and using listed support resources. 00:00 Why Can’t They Stop 03:26 Addiction Is Stress 06:38 Brain Reward Circuitry 12:37 Medical Detox First 15:59 Alcohol Addiction Basics 17:19 Drug Addiction Risks 17:48 Gambling Without Substances 19:17 Eating Disorders Overview 21:33 Hidden Behavioral Addictions 23:59 Healing Underlying Drivers 30:31 Rebuilding Life in Recovery 33:57 Where to Start Getting Help 36:28 Supporting Loved Ones Safely 39:06 Resources and Final Takeaway Practical resources: GP / NHS primary careNHS Addiction ServicesTalk to Frank (drug support)Alcohol Change UKGamCare (gambling addiction)Beat Eating DisordersAlcoholics Anonymous / Narcotics AnonymousConnect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    42 min

  5. APR 6

    The Addict Within: The Science Behind Why You Can't Stop Chasing

    Reflecting on episode 58 with Charlie Engle—who moved from crack and alcohol addiction to endurance running—the host focuses on the process of moving from despair to thriving by understanding dopamine, addiction, and stress physiology. Dopamine is framed as anticipation and motivation, not just pleasure, and repeated high “spikes” (from substances, social media, achievement, or validation) desensitize receptors, raising the baseline and making ordinary life feel flat, driving further chasing. Addiction is presented less as “the thing” and more as attachment, pain avoidance, nervous system dysregulation, and identity reinforcement, with high performance often mirroring addictive loops. The episode explains stress inoculation: voluntary, time-limited hardship followed by recovery builds resilience and rewires fear circuitry, but using hardship to avoid emotion reinforces dissociation. Practical dopamine-reset themes include reducing artificial spikes, increasing effort-based rewards, reintroducing boredom, prioritizing sleep, exploring stress, daily movement, and building relational safety, alongside asking “what am I addicted to?” and telling oneself the truth. 00:00 From Despair to Process 03:01 Why Wiring Matters 04:30 Dopamine Myth Explained 05:50 Peaks Valleys Baseline 08:47 Addiction Beyond Substances 12:09 Stress Inoculation Tools 17:44 Hardship vs Avoidance 21:00 Discipline or Compulsion 25:02 Resetting Dopamine Baseline 30:59 Redirect the Addict Within 34:29 Truth Questions and Wrap Connect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    38 min

  6. MAR 30

    Running from the Dead Sea to Everest: Why Charlie Engle Does Hard Things on Purpose

    Dr. S continues a conversation with ultra-runner Charlie Engel about addiction as part of human evolution, the loss of identity and belonging that can come with quitting substances, and the need to develop skills for grief, transition, and loneliness rather than numbing out. Engel describes getting sober on July 23, 1992 by committing to an AA meeting and a run every day, taking sobriety one day at a time, and how this helped him become a father and husband, though he later divorced amicably. He explains how endurance running taught him to avoid catastrophizing, focus on the next “aid station,” and make clear-headed decisions rather than quitting in emotional moments. Engel recounts running across the Sahara for 111 consecutive days at two marathons per day, learning to detach from outcomes, and he previews a planned expedition from the Dead Sea to Mount Everest as a metaphor for life’s peaks and valleys, emphasizing integration over constant self-help consumption and prioritizing basic movement like walking for longevity. 00:00 Welcome Back Part Two 01:13 Beyond Shame and Numbing 02:27 Identity After Quitting 05:48 Meetings and Running Daily 09:57 Running as Mind Training 16:21 Ultra Performance Questions 19:12 Sahara Run and Mindset 22:16 Travel Trust and Humanity 27:15 Everest Metaphor Peaks Valleys 33:25 Integration Over Consumption 36:09 Longevity Basics and Walking 37:44 Closing Reflections Thanks Connect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    41 min

  7. MAR 24

    Why Rock Bottom Looks Different Every Time: Addiction, Survival, Adrenaline & Sobriety with Charlie Engle

    Dr. S interviews ultrarunner and author Charlie Engle about addiction, wellness, and the choices people make in response to hardship. Engle recounts his years of crack cocaine and alcohol addiction, prison time, and later extreme endurance running, and discusses how “healthy” addictions can still be criticized due to others’ fear of losing belonging. He traces contributing factors to insecurity, loneliness, and early life experiences, describing how alcohol initially brought comfort but led to predictable cycles of destruction and attempted resets. He explains the codependent dynamics with his first wife, argues ultimatums don’t work, and emphasizes caregiver self-care, avoiding enabling, and letting consequences land. Engle lists prior attempts to change (AA, church, a shaman, meditation) and describes a final binge after his son’s birth that led to a sincere prayer to stop feeling his inner burden. He advises asking how a behavior is serving you rather than debating labels. 00:00 Meet Charlie Engle 03:38 Addiction and Wellness 06:29 Fear and Tribe Dynamics 11:35 Roots of Addiction 19:15 Wiring and Binge Patterns 22:01 Codependency and Enabling 29:02 The Moment of Sobriety 32:35 What He Tried Before 36:57 Ask the Right Question 39:17 Part One Wrap Up Connect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    41 min

  8. MAR 17

    The Gut Tests Worth Your Money (And the Supplements You Should Stop Taking): Part 3 with Hayley Paul

    In the final episode of a three-part series on gut health, Dr. S and guest Hayley Paul discuss preferred gut tests, how to choose them based on clinical needs and budget, and principles of supplementation. Hayley compares tests including GI 360 Complete (noting add-ons like H. pylori), GI-MAP as a more cost-effective but less replicable option that includes markers such as calprotectin, secretory IgA, enzymatic markers, H. pylori, and an IgA reaction to wheat, and GutID for deeper microbiome profiling that currently lacks functional digestion data. She shares a case where GutID identified an overgrown commensal bacteria linked to the client’s homeland exposure, helping reduce longstanding severe diarrhea (up to 12 explosive bowel movements daily) to three normal bowel movements within four months, alongside bile acid support. They also mention GI Effects and Vibrant’s Gut Zoomer, and note Haley often pairs gut testing with hormone analysis (including cortisol) and an organic acids test. On supplements, both emphasize food and lifestyle first—diet, exercise, and sleep as foundational (with sedentary behavior and ≤6 hours sleep associated with lower microbial diversity)—and describe supplements as temporary tools to address gaps and fast-track recovery rather than lifelong regimens. Haley supports baseline supplementation for highly stressed city professionals, advocates food-based, low/slow dosing when possible, highlights widespread magnesium insufficiency, suggests non-oral options like Epsom salt baths, discusses winter low serotonin and SAD with preference for light therapy over supplements (though 5-HTP may be used), and recommends vitamin D support in the UK typically from October to March based on testing. They underline personalization, strategic use of adaptogens ahead of predictable stress (noting they may take up to six weeks), and the goal of patient autonomy. Haley shares how to find her (Haley Paul on Dr. Phi), her clinic Habitude, and her practice locations and consultation options (HCA Outpatients on Wimpole Street, Portland Hospital privileges, in-person Thursdays and online on other days). The episode closes with encouragement to start small with practical steps like adding apples, chia and flax (soaked), and focusing on hydration. Connect with Dr Safia Debar Dr Safia Debar Speaker / Coach | Medical Doctor | Breathwork Facilitator  One of Tatler's "Top 21 private doctors in Britain" 2020 www.drsafiadebar.com contact@drsafiadebar.com IG: @drsafiadebar Tiktok: drsafiadebar Find our free resources here: www.drsafiadebar.com/resource

    27 min
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Welcome to Master Stress with Dr. S, the podcast that empowers high-achievers to unlock their full potential by mastering stress and achieving burnout-proof success. Hosted by Dr. Safia Debar, a renowned stress expert, medical doctor, speaker and coach. Each episode dives deep into the neuroscience of stress, blending logic and intuition to give you practical tools for thriving in a fast-paced world. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of leadership, striving for peak performance, or yearning for a life of balance and freedom, Dr. Safia Debar will guide you through powerful strategies, expert insights, and personal stories to help you regain control, nurture your well-being, and live authentically. Tune in to discover how to stop stress from holding you back and start living your best, empowered life.

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  • Creator
    Safia Debar
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    65
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Safia Debar
  • Show Website
    Master Stress with Dr. S

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