Notice That

Jen Savage and Bridger Falkenstien

An EMDR Podcast

  1. FEB 5

    Fostering Resilience in EMDR: Neuroplasticity, Meaning, and Healing

    What if resilience isn’t about “bouncing back,” but about the brain’s ongoing ability to adapt—moment by moment, across a lifetime? In this episode of Notice That, Bridger and Jen are joined by Laurel O’Neal Thornton, EMDR clinician, consultant, and educator, for a rich conversation on the neuroscience of resilience and what it actually looks like in EMDR therapy. Drawing from neuroscience, EMDR, and years of clinical experience, Laurel reframes resilience as an innate human capacity—one that exists even in the presence of trauma, depression, neurodivergence, and chronic stress. Together, we explore how shame disrupts resilience, why meaning-making matters, and how EMDR can foster regulation, integration, and adaptability without chasing perfection or symptom elimination. This episode is especially resonant for clinicians working with complex trauma, neurodivergent clients, chronic depression, or anyone feeling stuck in rigid models of “healing.” ✨ In This Episode, We Explore: Why resilience is adaptation, not toughness or “bouncing back”How EMDR naturally supports resilience through plasticity, regulation, and integrationThe role of shame as a major disruptor of innate resilienceWhy healing doesn’t mean never being triggered againHow meaning, purpose, and relational connection show up in resilience researchWorking creatively within the EMDR protocol—especially Phase 2 and Phase 8Supporting neurodivergent and highly intelligent clients in EMDRWhy spontaneity, play, and pattern-breaking matter in therapyWhat it really means to “trust the brain” in EMDR 🧩 Key Takeaways for Clinicians Resilience exists before healing—and therapy helps clients reconnect to itEMDR doesn’t fix broken brains; it helps glitching systems reintegrateDecreasing shame may be one of the most powerful therapeutic interventionsCreativity and flexibility are not deviations from EMDR—they’re part of its designHealing is about faster recognition, quicker recovery, and greater self-understanding 👩‍🏫 About Our Guest Laurel O’Neal Thornton is an EMDR clinician, consultant, educator, and practice owner who specializes in the neuroscience of trauma, resilience, and neurodivergence. She trains and consults clinicians internationally and is passionate about helping therapists integrate neuroscience in ways that are practical, humane, and deeply respectful of the client’s nervous system. Learn more about Laurel’s work at Whole Brain Solutions See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 5m

  2. JAN 29

    Sex Therapy Meets EMDR: Healing Shame, Reclaiming Pleasure, and Sexual Health with Cassie Krajewski

    In this episode of Notice That, we dive into one of the most avoided—and most essential—topics in mental health: sex, pleasure, and sexual health. We’re joined by Cassie Krajewski, LCSW, AASECT-certified sex therapist, EMDRIA Approved Consultant, and co-founder of Iris Training Collective. Cassie brings a deeply integrative lens to sexuality—one that moves far beyond technique and into conceptualization, embodiment, and healing. Together, we explore how sexual health is not a “specialty concern,” but a core dimension of human wellness—and how EMDR therapy offers a powerful, attuned framework for addressing sexual shame, desire, pleasure, and trauma. In this conversation, we explore: Why sexual health is a birthright, not a performance metricHow culture, religion, and shame disrupt embodiment and desireThe role of pleasure as a healing mechanism, not a rewardWhy many therapists avoid sex—and how that avoidance shows up clinicallyIntegrating sex therapy principles into EMDR case conceptualizationCreative and embodied resourcing for sexual trauma and low desireConsent, curiosity, and reclaiming agency in sexualityHow therapists can reflect on their own relationship to sex and pleasureThis episode is an invitation—to therapists and humans alike—to pause, notice, and gently question the stories we’ve inherited about sexuality… and to consider what healing might look like if pleasure were allowed back into the room. Free Resources on Cassie's website at inneratlastherapy.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    58 min

  3. JAN 15

    EMDR for Couples: Simultaneous Processing, Attachment Trauma, and Healing Together with Arilda Surridge

    EMDR for Couples: Healing Together Through Simultaneous Processing A Conversation with Arilda Surridge, LMFT What happens when EMDR moves beyond the individual—and into the relationship itself? In this episode of Notice That, Bridger and Jen sit down with Arilda Surridge, LMFT, author and EMDR clinician, to explore how EMDR can be ethically, safely, and powerfully integrated into couples therapy. Arilda shares a clear, grounded framework for working with two nervous systems in the room—without deviating from EMDR fidelity—and offers concrete clinical examples that bring this work to life. This conversation goes far beyond theory. Together, we walk through: When couples EMDR is and is not appropriateHow to assess whether a trauma is individual, shared, or relationalWhat simultaneous EMDR reprocessing actually looks like in practiceHow compassion, accountability, and repair emerge through bilateral stimulationWhy tools alone often aren’t enough for deeply dysregulated couplesArilda also shares clinical wisdom from her work with couples navigating car accidents, attachment injuries, guilt and shame, trust ruptures, and relational enactments—highlighting how EMDR can help partners move from reactivity to empathy. This episode is especially valuable for: EMDR therapists working with couplesClinicians navigating attachment trauma and relational enactmentsTherapists curious about maintaining EMDR fidelity in non-traditional applicationsAnyone interested in how trauma lives between people—not just within themAbout the Guest Arilda Surridge, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist, EMDR clinician, and the owner of Wellness Counseling Inc. She specializes in integrating EMDR into couples therapy while maintaining fidelity to the eight-phase protocol. Arilda is the author of a practical, clinician-focused book on EMDR for couples and offers professional trainings on this emerging area of practice. Find out more about her practice here: https://wellnesscounselinginc.com/about/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 11m

  4. 2025-12-12

    F*ck 'em: Authenticity, Play, and Vulnerability as a Therapist

    In this special “take your learner hat off” episode of Notice That, Bridger and Jen sit down with Jennifer Ann Counseling—EMDR therapist and comedy content creator—for a playful, honest conversation about being a therapist and a human. This episode isn’t about teaching a specific technique. It’s about humor, authenticity, and why laughter belongs alongside depth in trauma work. We talk about how Jennifer’s platform grew, what it’s like navigating social media as a therapist, handling negative comments, and why being real often connects more than being polished. We also explore EMDR in everyday practice—ritual, intention, parts work, and the familiar client experience of “I don’t know why this works… but it does.” Connect with Jennifer Ann Counseling Instagram / TikTok: @JenniferAnnCounseling Free resources available via her bio If this episode resonates, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a colleague who needs a reminder that therapy can be human, playful, and deeply meaningful. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 7m

  5. 2025-12-05

    Tagging Trauma in the Nervous System: EMDR, Somatics, and Polyvagal Wisdom with Dr. Arielle Schwartz

    In this episode of Notice That: An EMDR Podcast, Jen and Bridger sit down with Dr. Arielle Schwartz—somatic psychologist, EMDR therapist, and author of EMDR Therapy and Somatic Psychology—to explore what really happens when EMDR and body-based work are woven together in the therapy room. Together, they dive into: How Arielle’s early training in somatic psychology shaped the way she learned and practices EMDRWhy the body scan and somatic check-ins are not just “boxes to tick,” but core guides for pacing, target selection, and resolutionPolyvagal theory’s view of how trauma gets “tagged” in the nervous system—both in external cues and internal sensationsWhat to do when clients say, “I don’t feel anything in my body” and how even that response is meaningful dataThe myth that SUDs “should always go down,” especially with dissociative and complex trauma presentationsArielle and Barb Maiberger’s “golden nugget practice” and why we shouldn’t wait for a SUD = 0 to install and future-template meaningful shiftsTherapist embodiment: using our own nervous system as an instrument for attunement, pacing, and repair Arielle also shares about her Somatic EMDR trainings through BodyLab, her therapist retreats in Sedona and Costa Rica, and her Beyond Trauma nervous system care retreats, including an immersive experience in South Africa that combines yoga, nervous system education, and observing animals in the wild. You’ll hear practical language, case examples, and flexible ways to honor EMDR’s structure while staying deeply relational, embodied, and responsive to the nervous system in front of you. Learn more about Dr. Arielle Schwartz: Website (events, retreats, trainings): resilienceinformedtherapy.comWebsite (blog, yoga, additional resources): drarielleschwartz.com Check out her card deck that integrates nature photography with quotes from The Post-Traumatic Growth Guidebook—a powerful tool for helping clients locate themselves in their healing process and set intentions for EMDR and somatic work. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    59 min

  6. 2025-12-02

    Neurofeedback + EMDR: A Conversation with Leigh Povia

    In this episode of Notice That, Bridger and Jen sit down with neurofeedback expert Leigh Povia, LCSW, RPT, BCN, founder of Center for Dynamic Growth, to explore how neurofeedback can strengthen, support, and accelerate trauma therapy. Together, they discuss: What neurofeedback actually is—beyond the buzzwordsHow brainwave training mirrors internal states and supports regulationWhy neurofeedback can open doors when EMDR alone feels “stuck”How clinicians can partner with neurofeedback providersThe developmental trauma connection: attachment, arousal, and brain-based interventionsA powerful case example of a child whose system finally found calmPractical uses for neurofeedback in resourcing, closure, and state stabilizationLeigh shares candidly about her own learning curve, what it’s like to bring neurofeedback into an EMDR practice, and how both modalities can work in harmony rather than competition. If you’ve ever wondered whether neurofeedback could strengthen your EMDR work, this episode is a rich and relatable introduction. Resources Mentioned: Leigh’s course: Demystifying NeurofeedbackCenter for Dynamic Growth: CenterForDynamicGrowth.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    55 min

  7. 2025-11-20

    The Future of EMDR Tech: Inside WeMind with Founder Sander Kamphuis

    In this episode, we wrap up our series on working memory theory in EMDR by sitting down with Sander, co-founder of WeMind—a digital platform designed to optimize bilateral stimulation, track real-time client engagement, and bring advanced working memory taxation into both virtual and in-person EMDR sessions. We explore: How WeMind adapts working memory load dynamically during setsWhy random-interval taxation may enhance reprocessingThe shift from hardware (light bars, tappers) to integrated platformsCultural differences in EMDR practice across countriesHow tech can support relational, attuned therapy rather than replace itThis episode features conversation only—the demonstration portion appears exclusively on YouTube. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    44 min

  8. 2025-11-04

    Bonus Episode! Conference Recap… A Bit Late

    Jen and Bridger finally sit down to share stories and reflections from the 2024 EMDRIA Conference — a few weeks (or months?) later than planned. From early-morning flights and beachside content shoots to laughter-filled dinners and deep professional reflections, this episode captures the whirlwind of being presenters, exhibitors, and community builders all at once. They talk candidly about what it was like to present Enactment-Focused EMDR for the first time, the energy of meeting listeners face-to-face, and their behind-the-scenes take on the polarizing buzz around EMDR 2.0. It’s part travelogue, part professional reflection, and all the reasons this work matters. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 14m
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An EMDR Podcast

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  • Creator
    Jen Savage and Bridger Falkenstien
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    170
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    Notice That

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