Post Trauma Secrets & Decluttering

Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault
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Hosted by wellness and decluttering experts Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault, the Post Trauma Secrets and Decluttering Podcast brings you on a journey from trauma to Joie de vivre! Like going on a vacation, you may be stressed and excited at the same time. You will enjoy every moment, try new things, discover new places, and still have time to relax. That decluttering journey will give you all the secrets you need to simplify your life by reducing your stress, decluttering your mind, organizing your space and getting control over your time so that you can create the life you want.

  1. 6D AGO

    #96 The Surprising Power of Letting Go of Guilt

    In this episode, Valerie and JM reveal how unspoken guilt can silently erode your peace—and how to finally let it go. Through raw personal stories and practical tools, learn to release the weight of past regrets and reclaim your emotional freedom. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Understand how unresolved guilt affects mental health, sleep, and emotional well-beingLearn why holding onto guilt keeps you trapped in the past instead of healingDiscover practical tools to release guilt through self-forgiveness and expressionReclaim confidence, peace, and self-worth by choosing healing over self-punishment LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    5 min

  2. JAN 23

    #95 Confidence as Closure: Here’s How to Own It

    In this episode, Valerie and JM explore how to find closure without waiting for apologies, explanations, or validation. Learn how real confidence comes from within—and how to close emotional loops by reclaiming your voice, story, and power. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Discover why true closure isn’t given—it’s created through self-led decisions Learn how to rewrite emotional endings without waiting for apologies Explore real stories of people who reclaimed their power after silence or rejection Gain tools to build confidence and move on without external validation LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    5 min

  3. JAN 16

    #94 Feel Like You’ve Lost Your Edge? Here’s How to Get It Back, Step by Step

    In this episode, Valerie and JM break down the competence pillar of self-esteem and explain why competence has nothing to do with perfection, titles, or certificates. Learn how rebuilding trust in your ability to learn and adapt restores motivation, confidence, and momentum. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Understand how true competence is built through self-trust, not perfection or credentials. Learn how trauma and chronic stress can disrupt your sense of ability and create avoidance. Discover how stacking small wins and tracking progress rebuilds motivation and confidence. Get practical strategies to reframe failure, increase self-belief, and take consistent action. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    10 min

  4. JAN 9

    #92 - Stuck in worry mode? (sense of security)

    In this episode, Valerie and JM explore the second pillar of self-esteem: Sense of Security. Learn how trauma, stress, and clutter impact your nervous system and why feeling unsafe blocks healing and progress. Discover signs of low internal safety, how to ground your body, and tools to shift from survival mode into calm and control. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Understand the root of chronic stress by learning how trauma and early chaos wire the brain for constant danger scanning. Recognize signs of low internal safety, including insomnia, tension, overpreparing, and emotional reactivity. Learn tools to calm the nervous system, such as grounding, diaphragmatic breathing, and predictable routines. Discover how safety supports self-esteem, and how feeling secure helps restore focus, emotional regulation, and decision-making. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    12 min

  5. JAN 2

    #58 Ditch the Resolution: The Definitive Guide to Committing to YOURSELF in 2026

    In this episode, JM and Valerie break down why most New Year’s resolutions flop—and introduce a better way to grow: personal commitments. Learn how to set specific, meaningful goals, build lasting habits, and celebrate tiny wins that actually stick. If you're ready to ditch guilt-based goals and start showing up for yourself in a way that feels good and doable, this one’s for you. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Why most New Year’s resolutions fail and what to do instead How personal commitments create lasting, realistic change Simple habit-building tips that actually stick The power of small wins and celebrating consistent progress LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    5 min

  6. 2025-12-26

    #91 - Feeling Lost? Here's How to Rebuild Your Identity from the Inside Out

    In this episode, Valerie and JM break down the fourth pillar of self-esteem: Identity. Learn how to define who you are beyond labels, discover your core values, and reclaim your sense of self at any age. They explore how identity shapes your decisions, why it often gets lost after trauma or life changes, and what it takes to rebuild a strong inner foundation that isn’t tied to roles, titles, or external approval. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: What identity really means beyond roles and labels – Understand why defining yourself by work, titles, or trauma weakens self-esteem. How shaky identity affects decisions and confidence – Learn why unclear values lead to people-pleasing, indecision, and loss of direction. The impact of trauma and life changes on identity – Discover how major events can disconnect you from your true self. Practical ways to rebuild a stable sense of self – Use values, boundaries, and self-discovery practices to strengthen identity at any age. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    13 min

  7. 2025-12-19

    #90 Feel Invisible? This Simple Confidence Shift Will Change Everything

    In this episode, Valerie and JM unpack the real meaning of self-confidence and why it has nothing to do with being loud, forceful, or outspoken. Through relatable examples and clear explanations, they explore how low confidence shows up through hesitation, second‑guessing, and freeze responses, while genuine confidence is rooted in belief, stability, and calm decision-making. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: What self-confidence really looks like – Understand why calm presence signals more confidence than loud behavior. How low confidence shows up in daily life – Recognize signs like second-guessing, hesitation, and freeze response. How past experiences impact self-confidence – Learn how early criticism or trauma can lower belief in yourself. Tools to rebuild confidence gently – Use posture shifts and anchored self-talk to strengthen inner stability. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    10 min

  8. 2025-12-12

    #89 From 'I'm a Failure' to ‘I’m Proud of Me’ – The Real Self-Esteem Shift

    In this episode, Valerie and JM unpack the deeper meaning of self-esteem and why it influences everything from your confidence to your clutter. Through real-life examples and clear explanations, they explore how low self-esteem shows up in your body, your choices, and your daily stress.  IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: What self-esteem really means – Understand how it shapes identity, behavior, and emotional health. How low self-esteem shows up in daily life – Learn the signs in posture, anxiety, and decision fatigue. The 5 pillars of healthy self-esteem – Explore self-confidence, security, identity, belonging, and competence. Why healing self-esteem transforms everything – Discover how small shifts can lead to lasting confidence and peace. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    13 min
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Hosted by wellness and decluttering experts Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault, the Post Trauma Secrets and Decluttering Podcast brings you on a journey from trauma to Joie de vivre! Like going on a vacation, you may be stressed and excited at the same time. You will enjoy every moment, try new things, discover new places, and still have time to relax. That decluttering journey will give you all the secrets you need to simplify your life by reducing your stress, decluttering your mind, organizing your space and getting control over your time so that you can create the life you want.

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  • Creator
    Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    104
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Post Trauma Secrets & Decluttering
  • Show Website
    Post Trauma Secrets & Decluttering

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