Purposely Crossed

Jamila "Jae" Nickerson

This is a place for those who have been hurt, confused, overlooked, broken, and wondered, “Why did this have to happen?”. Here we find meaning in the moments that tried to break us. What felt like a burden was really an assignment, and every season that stretched us, was shaping us. Nothing that happened was random—it had purpose. Each episode leans into real life: betrayal, heartbreak, loss, disappointment, waiting, and unexpected pain. Yet, through every story, we uncover the same truth—God was present, intentional, and working behind the scenes. The things we thought were setbacks were actually setups. The battles were building us. The cross wasn’t a mistake; it was part of the mission. This podcast invites listeners to reflect, heal, and grow. We explore how Jesus was crossed on purpose, and how our own lives echo that same pattern: pressure with a purpose, pain with a promise, and purpose hidden in the process. We don’t avoid the hard questions—we walk through them together with faith, honesty, and hope. If life has ever cut deep, if you’ve ever been crossed by people you trusted, or if your journey has felt heavy and confusing, this space reminds you: You weren’t abandoned. You were assigned. There was purpose in every step. Welcome to the conversation.

Episodes

  1. 4D AGO ·  BONUS

    Purposely Crossed Podcast Highlights | EP 01-09

    This week, we will reflect on episodes 1-9.  The PC team is fasting this week, and you are welcome to join us. We will meditate on Hebrews 11 & Hebrews 12. We’re praying for strengthened faith and clarity and revelation on our journey, and into the next. Thank you for your continued support. We love you from the bottom of your hearts. PC Corporate Consecration: We will fast from 3am-4pm daily, and No eating during that time but be in constant meditation on the word of God. (If you must have something to hold you over or have special needs for your medical health, please stick to fruit & veggie only, and do not over indulge.)No eating after 8pm at night.  Please seek diligently, and remember to feast on the living & Holy word of God as temptation arises. Remember, and be encouraged that anytime temptation is present, there also lies an escape. Here are a few scriptures to go by; •1 Corinthians 10:13 “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” •Matthew 26:41 “Keep watch and pray, so that you will not give in to temptation. For the spirit is willing, but the body is weak!” •James 1:12 “God blesses those who patiently endure testing and temptation. Afterward they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.”

    1h 23m
  2. MAR 24

    EP 09 “How Sexual Sin Holds You Hostage” | Purposely Crossed

    On this week's episode, Jae discusses the discomfort of addressing a sensitive topic, and the conviction she experienced to talk about it. Sexual immorality can have a great affect on one's life, and in this case Jae shares how it started in her childhood, led to enslavement, lustful addiction, spiritual blindness, and many other strongholds. The importance of transparency and deliverance from sexual sin is emphasized, along with the spiritual significance of being hidden in Christ, rather than hiding in crisis. This episode is "unorthodox" and doesn't agree with the ways of culture, but is Biblically sound, and rooted in faith. _You are not alone. If you're struggling with sexual immorality or sexual addiction, please know that you are not alone and there is no shame in seeking help. God's grace is sufficient, and healing is possible through him. If you need someone to talk to, reach out confidentially at ( jcn@purposelycrossed.com ). Takeaways The impact of sexual immorality goes beyond personal guilt and shame, it can affect spiritual intimacy and clarity of purpose.Transparency is essential for maintaining deliverance. Some Key Verses to study: -1 Corinthians 6:12-20 -Colossians 3-5 Chapters 00:00 The Uncomfortable Conversation11:41 The Impact of Sexual Immorality20:19 Enslavement to Sexual Sin27:01 The Spiritual Impact of Sexual Sin33:26 Transparency and Deliverance Subscribe to Purposely Crossed's newsletter: https://www.purposelycrossed.com To sow and support Purposely Crossed's work and ministry: https://donate.stripe.com/dRmaEY6Nl1CHblvdcG5Ne02 Stay Connected with Purposely Crossed: Follow Jae IG: @TheJaeNickerson Follow Purposely Crossed IG: @PurposelyCrossedPod • Linktree: linktr.ee/thejaenickerson • YouTube: youtube.com/@thejaenickerson

    40 min
  3. MAR 17

    EP 08 “The Benefits Of Forgiveness” Part 2 w/ Pastor Freddie Cole Sr | Purposely Crossed

    In this week's episode, Jae brings back Pastor Freddie Cole Sr, closing off the conversation on how un-forgiveness will keep you bound, and now highlighting the benefits of forgiveness. There is a divine nature of forgiveness and it has a life changing impact on others. The command from Christ was to love and forgive portraying being made in his image. True forgiveness gives us a heightened experience of intimacy with God because of it's lightness and is commonality characteristic of holiness. While it can be a challenge, there is also healing power of forgiveness. The reward of forgiving is much greater and more satisfying than not forgiving. The act of forgiving comes with the realization that everyone deserves mercy as self does. To heal we learn to identify that we are indeed hurt, and seek true healing from the one who holds all power. Takeaways Forgiveness is essential for success and moving forward.Forgiveness is a characteristic of holiness and is necessary for true peace. Forgiveness is vital for spiritual growth Some Key Verses to study: -Hebrews 12:14-15 -Matthew 6:14-15 -Matthew 18:21-35 Subscribe to Purposely Crossed's newsletter: https://www.purposelycrossed.com To sow and support Purposely Crossed's work and ministry: https://donate.stripe.com/dRmaEY6Nl1CHblvdcG5Ne02 Stay Connected with Purposely Crossed: Follow Jae IG: @TheJaeNickerson Follow Purposely Crossed IG: @PurposelyCrossedPod • Linktree: linktr.ee/thejaenickerson • YouTube: youtube.com/@thejaenickerson

    33 min
  4. MAR 10

    EP 07 "Un-forgiveness Will Keep You Bound" Part 1 w/ Pastor Freddie Cole Sr | Purposely Crossed

    In this week's episode, Jae brings on Pastor Freddie Cole Sr for a conversation about un-forgiveness and the crucial role forgiveness plays in moving forward in life. Many times in life when we hold on to un-forgiveness, we become bitter, and it will also affect our relationships with those surrounding us. Forgiveness is compassion and one of the things required to grow intimately in Christ. There are consequences of holding onto un-forgiveness. In exploring the emotional, physical, and relational consequences of harboring un-forgiveness, emphasizing the transformative power of forgiveness and love, we shine light on Christ being the mirror example of what true Forgiveness is. Takeaways Forgiveness is a choiceUn-forgiveness leads to bitterness and hurtLove and forgiveness go hand in hand Forgiveness is essential for true freedomUn-forgiveness affects relationships and physical health Chapters 00:00 The Consequences of Un-forgiveness44:06 Consequences of Un-forgiveness Verse to reflect on: Matthew 6:14-15 "If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins." Subscribe to Purposely Crossed's newsletter: https://www.purposelycrossed.com To sow and support Purposely Crossed's work and ministry: https://donate.stripe.com/dRmaEY6Nl1CHblvdcG5Ne02 Stay Connected with Purposely Crossed Follow Jae IG: @TheJaeNickerson Follow Purposely Crossed IG: @PurposelyCrossedPod • Linktree: linktr.ee/thejaenickerson • YouTube: youtube.com/@thejaenickerson

    46 min
  5. FEB 24

    EP 05 "Grace To Grow" Part 2 w/ Bruce Nickerson Jr | Purposely Crossed

    This conversation is part 2 of "Trusting God's plans". Balancing life, parenthood, marriage, and ministry, can be a struggle, but requires an active prayer life. Trauma and stress, often impacts the love, affection, and communication in marriage when you don't have the proper strategy of healing. The Holy Spirit is our greatest support in maneuvering through life's challenges. Grace is highlighted in rediscovering one's self in relationships, and works with loving others as Christ loves, and seeing other's as Christ's creation. In this walk of faith, it is important too remember that God uses every detail in life in his planned Will. Every single thing happens for a reason, guided by God's plan and purpose in life. Takeaways Balancing life and ministry can be challenging, requiring prioritization and effective time management.Prayer plays a significant role in marriage, fostering a deeper understanding of each other's needs and desires.The impact of trauma and stress on individuals and relationships underscores the importance of communication and support.Struggles and support during a difficult time Emotional turmoil and anger towards God.Divine revelation often requires obedience and acceptance of God's plan.Spiritual vulnerability can be experienced in unexpected and challenging situations, leading to a deeper recognition of divine intervention and learning the voice of the Holy Spirit. Chapters 00:00 Introducing Bae01:04:02 Praying for Each Other01:10:09 Love Languages and Affection01:15:58 Understanding Love Languages01:26:21 The Impact of Trauma and Stress01:35:18 Struggles, support, and challenges.01:53:55 Self-Discovery and Acceptance02:05:00 Divine Revelation and Obedience02:11:53 House Break-In and Spiritual Reflection02:22:52 The Voice of the Holy Spirit02:29:01 Purposeful Cross Subscribe to Purposely Crossed's newsletter: https://www.purposelycrossed.com To sow and support Purposely Crossed's work and ministry: https://donate.stripe.com/dRmaEY6Nl1CHblvdcG5Ne02 Stay Connected with Purposely Crossed Follow Jae IG: @TheJaeNickerson Follow Bruce IG: @BruceNickersonJr Follow Purposely Crossed IG: @PurposelyCrossedPod • Linktree: linktr.ee/thejaenickerson • YouTube: youtube.com/@thejaenickerson

    1h 28m
  6. FEB 17

    EP 04 "Trusting God's Plans" Part 1 w/ Bruce Nickerson Jr | Purposely Crossed

    In this weeks conversation, Jae welcomes a very special guest, Bruce. Their conversation covers their first meeting, early interactions, the start of their relationship. They provide insight into the development of their relationship and the key moments that shaped their journey together. It then delves into their realization of conviction in their relationship, leading to an exploration of transparency, and bargaining with God. It explores the perspectives of both individuals on marriage and the role of faith in their journey. This conversation will highlight the impact of faith and patience during difficult times and the role of faith in overcoming challenges. Takeaways The start of their relationshipThe power of prayer and specific requests Trusting God's planConviction and obedienceFaith and Patience in Challenging Times Chapters 00:00 First Meeting and Early Interactions05:01 The Start of Their Relationship13:03 The First Date and Initial Impressions18:04 Prayer and Answered Prayers: Specific Requests and Unique Qualities27:58 Transparency and Conviction: Fornication and Bargaining with God33:26 God's Hand in It41:59 Perspectives on Marriage Subscribe to Purposely Crossed's newsletter: https://www.purposelycrossed.com To sow and support Purposely Crossed's work and ministry: https://donate.stripe.com/dRmaEY6Nl1CHblvdcG5Ne02 Stay Connected with Purposely Crossed Follow Jae IG: @TheJaeNickerson Follow Bruce IG: @BruceNickersonJr Follow Purposely Crossed IG: @PurposelyCrossedPod • Linktree: linktr.ee/thejaenickerson • YouTube: youtube.com/@thejaenickerson

    56 min

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This is a place for those who have been hurt, confused, overlooked, broken, and wondered, “Why did this have to happen?”. Here we find meaning in the moments that tried to break us. What felt like a burden was really an assignment, and every season that stretched us, was shaping us. Nothing that happened was random—it had purpose. Each episode leans into real life: betrayal, heartbreak, loss, disappointment, waiting, and unexpected pain. Yet, through every story, we uncover the same truth—God was present, intentional, and working behind the scenes. The things we thought were setbacks were actually setups. The battles were building us. The cross wasn’t a mistake; it was part of the mission. This podcast invites listeners to reflect, heal, and grow. We explore how Jesus was crossed on purpose, and how our own lives echo that same pattern: pressure with a purpose, pain with a promise, and purpose hidden in the process. We don’t avoid the hard questions—we walk through them together with faith, honesty, and hope. If life has ever cut deep, if you’ve ever been crossed by people you trusted, or if your journey has felt heavy and confusing, this space reminds you: You weren’t abandoned. You were assigned. There was purpose in every step. Welcome to the conversation.